u/Ok_Cauliflower_1966

So I was out running errands with my bf (not padded) and I had to pee SO bad, by the time we got home I was literally doing the potty dance. I got a diaper on and lately we've been doing a thing where he puts his hand over the front while I wet (it's not sexual for either of us, I just like the feeling for some reason) and I wet my diaper so much it filled from the front to the middle, when usually it's a lot less than that 😳 I guess I really had to go. (Btw, I know I could've just used the toilet while we were out, but we were almost home and I like the idea of using my diaper much more).

To those of you who were found out by your parents, how did they react? And it's okay if you don't wish to talk about it.

Not to trauma dump, but it's an important part of my journey to accepting myself, even if it was horrible what I went through. When my mom found out, I was at a friend's house. She texted me "guess what we found". Turns out she was going through the trash for some reason and found my "pissed in diapers" (her words not mine). She forbid me from wearing them ever again, but of course I didn't listen because it's my life, my body, my comfort. I was 16 at the time.

Thus followed many years of her berating me, ridiculing me by bringing it up in front of family members and friends, saying a lot of really embarrassing and horrible shit. I recall one time she was mad cause she found more and I was sobbing "just let me be myself!" I don't talk to her anymore.

Now I'm very happy living with my boyfriend who loves and accepts me no matter what, and I've grown to accept myself as well.

TLDR: mom found out about my diapers when I was 16, abused me until I moved out.

edit: thank you all for your kindness and stories, and to those of you who went through similar I'm so sorry and hope you're doing well

So I guess "obsessed" is a strong word, but I was wondering if anyone else is like this with characters that are unlikely to be in a diaper? For context I'm autistic and hyperfixate over characters and sometimes like to imagine how cute it'd be if they were diapered and/or treated like a baby 😅

I'm currently hyperfixating on One Punch Man and have this urge to draw Genos padded and blushing, but I don't wanna be seen as the equivalent of a weird DeviantArt user that ruins the character for everyone :')

Opinions/views on this? (And if anyone wants to see my art when I'm done lemme knoww)

Saw someone else post something regarding sexual activity here so hopefully this is okay. A week or so ago I admitted to my bf that diapers sometimes turn me on too (not the object itself, but the texture/sensation when I'm soggy) and he accepted me completely, much to my surprise. I guess if he already accepts the fact I like diapers in general, why wouldn't he accept this?

Anyway, tonight I was REALLY soaked and asked if he could rub it for me 😅 he happily did and then used the vibrator on me and well.. I feel like we've crossed a major bridge I was scared about.

Overall I'm just really happy I can trust him with this kind of stuff and that he loves me no matter what. It means the world to me to be finally accepted and loved unconditionally after going through the opposite most of my life.

I (21 F) have always been looking for people to relate to for as long as I can remember, and I just want friends that I can talk to about this kind of stuff, because nobody gets it more than another person in the ABDL community. The thing is, I'm taken. I've happily been with my bf for a little over 2 years now, and that's not gonna change anytime soon.

Whenever I start chatting with someone, 9 times out of 10 they'll try to take it into a different direction, and when I politely say I have a boyfriend (I make sure I'm not assuming anything with their intentions but I also don't want to "lead them on") they always lose interest or ghost me or even sometimes get mad. Anyone else have this problem? I just want diaper friends without feelings being involved just because I'm a woman :(

(just a note, I cannot fit the baby ones anymore or goodnites). I try out different brands now and then when I'm thrifting cause I might find something good and either way they're cheap, but I was wondering if anyone has recommendations for the best pull-ups that get nice and squishy/more swollen when they're wet? (even if it's not a lot compared to actual diapers)

I like the feeling of wetting my pull-up and when I pull it back up like I would with underwear after using the toilet, it feels very babyish cause it's soggy (I'm sure there's some who can relate). Recently tried some by tena and was very disappointed that they didn't feel soggy at all.

Thanks in advance!

I can't seem to get my diapers on straight.. maybe it's cause of my thighs but when I was taking a vid I realized the wetness indicator isn't in the middle and it's almost always off to the side like that. Could also be that I don't like when my diapers fold in the middle and look weird folding inwards so I adjust it 😅 anyone else have this issue and have any tips?