The ABDL “restaraunt”
A little while ago I mentioned the idea of creating an ABDL tasting menu / private dining experience, and the response was positive.
I’d like to take the idea a bit further and get some proper feedback. I’m exploring whether something like this could actually work: what people would want from it, whether any brands might be interested in getting involved, whether anyone would be open to working at such an event, and (most importantly) whether enough people would actually want to attend for it to be financially viable.
It would be:
• Very intimate private dining — maximum of around 6 guests at a time
• Fully vetted guests only (attending as a small group or as a full table), financially we would have to fill the table though I would assume.
• Locations would move for privacy, primarily in the UK with the possibility of Europe later
• High emphasis on discretion, comfort, and a carefully controlled environment
Please anyone answer and give feedback.
What kind of food would you expect or prefer?
A traditional high-end tasting menu in an ABDL-accepting environment, or a more themed menu that leans into the ABDL side?How immersive should the experience be?
More casual and relaxed, or something that incorporates other elements of ABDL (caregiving, regression-friendly atmosphere, etc.)?What would be the maximum price you would personally be willing to pay for a full evening experience?
How long would you ideally want the experience to last? (e.g. 2–3 hours, a full evening, longer?)
Would you prefer the staff to be more neutral and professional while still being completely accepting?
How far would you realistically be willing to travel within the UK (or Europe) for something like this?
Is there anything else that would make or break the experience for you — privacy measures, dress code, level of structure, etc.?
Any thoughts, suggestions, or constructive feedback are really welcome. Whether you’d come, work at it, are a brand that would be interested in the future or just have ideas I’d appreciate hearing them.