u/Gullible-Ask-3002

I’m supposed to use this space to describe what I’m looking for but I can’t seem to find the words to describe the finer details of the sweet boy I have yet to find. So instead, I’m going to tell you about myself, describe how I want to make you feel, and what exactly I’d like to do to (and with you). Then it will be on you decide if it’s a future you would be interested in being a part of.

In short, I am a not so short business professional. Natural born leader and someone that people typically defer to whether my position demands it or not. I live in active life but I’m no social butterfly. I’ll speak when I deem it necessary but prefer to listen. It’s been said that I’m quite spontaneous and I love an adventure. My hobbies include shopping, travel, volunteering, baking, board games, pool side tanning, going to the spa, reading, painting, puzzles, going to the movies, etc.

I have explored with subs in the past. I am, technically, a switch but I have more experience as a Domme than as a sub myself. Des Moines seems to ripe with submissive men lol but I am appreciative of it. Puppies and subs in general will always have my heart. My previous subs (despite their varied interests and personality types) all had some similar qualities. They were all very responsive to physical touch (sexual or otherwise), intelligent and hard working, service oriented, eager to please, responsive, obsessive, and thoughtful. So while I wouldn’t say that I have a type lol I would say men with these qualities tend to go well with my personality.

It could also be said that I’m naturally very maternal. Even if it’s not a MDlb dynamic. I’m very sweet, give gentle instruction (the first time), big into positive reinforcement, and making my sub feel small, cared for, possessed, and cherished. But make no mistake, if a firm hand is what the situation calls for, I can absolutely take it there. Lastly, I will also warn that I like to keep my subs on edge lol it’s my guilty pleasure. I won’t give you more than you can take but I will absolutely keep you dancing on the line. Whether it be through little touches, texts, or words I know will get to you. I will tease and edge you constantly lol. Because it brings me joy lol I love a sub that’s a bit keyed up, if you’re catching my drift. But don’t you worry your sweet little self, if you’re good, I’ll reward you. But if you’re not…well let’s just say, you’re going to hate that you love it.

Now, for my preferences, because we all have them. I prefer brunettes that are at least 6 foot. I don’t have the strongest preferences on body types just that you’re fully functional/able to keep up. You need to have a career, be at least 26, and have reliable transportation. I’m looking for someone that submits to me because they want to, not because they can’t take care of themselves and want me to do it. I would strongly prefer you were local to the metro/greater Dsm area. But if you’re not, you’d need to be able to get here at least 2 weekends a month with the ability to relocate eventually.

But I think that’s plenty of information for this post. If you think you’re the boy I’m looking for, message me. Fair warning to put effort into your message. Laziness won’t get you far with me.

I’m supposed to use this space to describe what I’m looking for but I can’t seem to find the words to describe the finer details of the sweet boy I have yet to find. So instead, I’m going to tell you about myself, describe how I want to make you feel, and what exactly I’d like to do to (and with you). Then it will be on you decide if it’s a future you would be interested in being a part of.

In short, I am a not so short business professional. Natural born leader and someone that people typically defer to whether my position demands it or not. I live in active life but I’m no social butterfly. I’ll speak when I deem it necessary but prefer to listen. It’s been said that I’m quite spontaneous and I love an adventure. My hobbies include shopping, travel, volunteering, baking, board games, pool side tanning, going to the spa, reading, painting, puzzles, going to the movies, etc.

I have explored with subs in the past. I am, technically, a switch but I have more experience as a Domme than as a sub myself. Des Moines seems to ripe with submissive men lol but I am appreciative of it. Puppies and subs in general will always have my heart. My previous subs (despite their varied interests and personality types) all had some similar qualities. They were all very responsive to physical touch (sexual or otherwise), intelligent and hard working, service oriented, eager to please, responsive, obsessive, and thoughtful. So while I wouldn’t say that I have a type lol I would say men with these qualities tend to go well with my personality.

It could also be said that I’m naturally very maternal. Even if it’s not a MDlb dynamic. I’m very sweet, give gentle instruction (the first time), big into positive reinforcement, and making my sub feel small, cared for, possessed, and cherished. But make no mistake, if a firm hand is what the situation calls for, I can absolutely take it there. Lastly, I will also warn that I like to keep my subs on edge lol it’s my guilty pleasure. I won’t give you more than you can take but I will absolutely keep you dancing on the line. Whether it be through little touches, texts, or words I know will get to you. I will tease and edge you constantly lol. Because it brings me joy lol I love a sub that’s a bit keyed up, if you’re catching my drift. But don’t you worry your sweet little self, if you’re good, I’ll reward you. But if you’re not…well let’s just say, you’re going to hate that you love it.

Now, for my preferences, because we all have them. I prefer brunettes that are at least 6 foot. I don’t have the strongest preferences on body types just that you’re fully functional/able to keep up. You need to have a career, be at least 26, and have reliable transportation. I’m looking for someone that submits to me because they want to, not because they can’t take care of themselves and want me to do it. I would strongly prefer you were local to the metro/greater Dsm area. But if you’re not, you’d need to be able to get here at least 2 weekends a month with the ability to relocate eventually.

But I think that’s plenty of information for this post. If you think you’re the boy I’m looking for, message me. Fair warning to put effort into your message. Laziness won’t get you far with me.