30 [F4M] #Online. Dominant looking for a Submissive to Own and train for a long/Short term D/s dynamic
I'm a dynamic kinky mistress with many area of interests and kinks. I enjoy exploring various areas, and I'm open to discovering new ones.
I’m only looking for a LTR D/s relationship with a slave who would cherish to be owned, to be enslaved by mind, heart, soul and body all under total control and to be used as desired.
To me communication, trust and honesty are essential aspects to any relationship moreover in this aspect where in power and control are handed over with delight when there is chemistry. My slave should have complete dedication towards building the relationship at the same time having no expectations but sheer respect, obedience and values of servitude.
I have explored with subs in the past. I am, technically, a switch but I have more experience as a Domme than as a sub myself. Des Moines seems to ripe with submissive men lol but I am appreciative of it. Puppies and subs in general will always have my heart. My previous subs (despite their varied interests and personality types) all had some similar qualities. They were all very responsive to physical touch (sexual or otherwise), intelligent and hard working, service oriented, eager to please, responsive, obsessive, and thoughtful. So while I wouldn’t say that I have a type lol I would say men with these qualities tend to go well with my personality.
It could also be said that I’m naturally very maternal. Even if it’s not a MDlb dynamic. I’m very sweet, give gentle instruction (the first time), big into positive reinforcement, and making my sub feel small, cared for, possessed, and cherished. But make no mistake, if a firm hand is what the situation calls for, I can absolutely take it there. Lastly, I will also warn that I like to keep my subs on edge lol it’s my guilty pleasure. I won’t give you more than you can take but I will absolutely keep you dancing on the line. Whether it be through little touches, texts, or words I know will get to you. I will tease and edge you constantly lol. Because it brings me joy lol I love a sub that’s a bit keyed up, if you’re catching my drift. But don’t you worry your sweet little self, if you’re good, I’ll reward you. But if you’re not…well let’s just say, you’re going to hate that you love it.
My kinks are sissification, bondage, rope, role play, humiliation, face sitting,pegging,ass play,butt,nipple torture, ass worship and pussy worship and toys.having My slave to please Me orally, using My slave as My sex toy, bondage and discipline, foot worship, anal play, erotic and sensual tease, maid or sissy training, whipping, verbal and physical humiliation, body worship, spanking, golden showers, strapon play
I do love corresponding in a thoughtful, detailed way about my fetish passions. I have assembled my fetish list below with care. If your passion isn't on my list then there is no real need to message me.