29 [F4M] #online #UK seeking someone that likes encouragement
I am 29, from the UK and looking for something kind of specific. Previously I've specifically looked for guys that aren't confident, or guys that are fit but smaller in certain areas. I recently had an experience I loved, and it's something I'd like to do with someone new.
Basically I want someone that's already on a fitness journey, but could do with some encouragement to keep it up. The experience I had was with a guy who was already quite fit, but had got no praise or compliments from people and was wanting to give up. He initially messaged me wanting my opinion on his body, and seemed surprised that I said positive things. We ended up chatting quite a lot, and it turned into a mommydom dynamic with a big focus on praise and encouragement.
Generally we'd have calls and he'd be showing himself. Sometimes we'd just talk about life, or tv shows, or his problems or lack of motivation. Sometimes I'd make him work out while we talked. Sometimes I'd be feeling bossy and just tell him what to do to entertain me. I liked starting a call without anything in particular planned, just see how we both felt at the time and see what happens.
Sadly for me, but happily for him, he began a relationship with someone that lives very close to him so it had to come to an end. It ended on good terms and I am happy for him, but it has left a bit of a void.
I've made other posts over the years looking for practically the same thing, but they never last long, due to time zones or ghosting, or just discovering that we don't really click.
Even though I'm posting this at 00:45 my time, I'd ideally like someone from the UK or a time zone that's not too different. I really don't want to start something with someone very far away, make all kinds of promises that it can work, and then have it fizzle out because it's too much effort to find regular time we're both free.
I don't like to include all my likes, but I will leave my dislikes/limits.
I'm not into anything extreme, so no extreme pain, anything that leaves marks, blood, scat, illegal. I'm also not into feminisation, sissies, femboys etc. It just isn't for me.
Voice calls are a big thing for me. I like to call sooner rather than later to see if we click, as I find it difficult to like someone from text alone. I have some very strict rules about showing that we'd talk about before moving off of reddit.
If this post is of interest to you, please message me some basic information about you. Your age, location and time zone, your sfw interests and hobbies, your nsfw ones too. Describe yourself physically and what kind of journey you're on. Tell me why my post appealed to you, and how much experience you've had with online dynamics.
Please don't message me if your only interest is getting joi.