r/MasterSlavePersonal

Hi, I'm Maya, I'm 22 years old. I have been in this lifestyle for 4 years.

I have been in dom/sub dynamic for quite a while with different dominants. I have explored some master/slave dynamic as well. I have had amazing dominants, but due to different reasons we had to part ways.

I am looking for a master who knows what he's doing. I want someone who is strict and makes me disciplined. Someone who will punish me for not being good enough or not finishing tasks.

I like sadist masters, who love to give pain. I want someone to micro manage me, control my screen time, steps, food, and punish me if I don’t meet the goals. I like someone who can get in my head. I like to submit to masters whose simple words can make me tremble in fear.

I will need to trust you to go forward with anything and I believe you do too. I want to do TPE, but you have to know that I work full-time, so we have to work around that. I want to be CLEAR, that I will not be dress provocatively at work to fulfill your weird porn fantasy. I want someone mature and not in a weird porn bubble.

Reply to me with your name, age, time and what rules I would have to follow throughout the day. Include how much screen time I have, how many steps I need to do, and other stuffs. I will most likely pick someone who is detailed with their message. Do not ask me to dm you, I will not.
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My limits are : Scat, Piss, Anything which would leave a permanent damage, Age play, Pet play, public play (i am willing to wear toys outside or click pics in the bathroom tho)

My kinks are : Degradation, Humiliation, Bondage, Orgasm Play, Pain, Chemical Play, TPE and more

I love punishments, rewards. I enjoy dynamic where you push me towards success. Like making me eat good food, making me go to the gym and so on. I will send pictures/videos once trust is built.

Remember, once we start talking, we might not always hit it off, so please don't come yell at me later. But I'm excited to talk to you :)

I'd prefer someone in the US because I HATE time difference.

Hi I am 20 yrs old and a medical student( yes you can imagine how hectic my life must be)

But I also have a mind which desired to be owned ,trained and understood.

Hence here I am

I have a bratty side too so it won't be easy for both of us to make me do something in one go(sometimes)

My limits are :

Scar ,blood,public violation ,spamming, 3rd party including and sharing pictures in early stage

I am up for:

Edging ,control over my screen timing ,what i eat , when I wake up, what i wear underneath, forced orgasm, body writing(temporary)

Bandage (when I am alone)

I'm a 220lb overweight, recently divorced woman who is trying to put her life back together and I have the following kinks that I'm looking for a Dom to help me fulfill:

1. Call me names, slap me around, make me cry, use me however you'd like.

2. I lay down on the bed, blindfolded, while random men come in one at a time and mount me. I'm not allowed to move. You watch from a chair in the corner and do with me what you wish when they are done, in between, or while they are there.

3. You place me naked on all fours in a stall in your barn or in your dark basement and treat me like an animal who needs to be milked, mounted and bred.

These are just a few of the fantasies I'm looking to fulfill. We can chat to get to know one another first, and I'll eventually send you some body verification photos, and then we'll plan for one of the above or another scenario you can offer to occur.

I need this.

i am single, and my long term goal is to be married, to be submissive to my husband, and to be a good wife. i have a career, which i hope to step down to part time when i am with him and the relationship itself is ready. i find men honorable, lovely, and impressive. i have respect for you. please be respectful of me and let's observe sensible pacing.

i am looking for a long term relationship in which i can be owned and dominated on a 24/7 or 24/7 minus career basis. to others, we are vanilla, but between us, there's a disparity of power which is both fun and kinky. the relationship i'm seeking is more real than vanilla relationships, and it includes a real desire to follow your leadership and seek your grounding and stability.

me: white, skinny, sexy, sweet. i am beautiful, sweet, gentle, and open minded.

you (my preferences): are about my height or taller (5'10") and stronger than me. when meeting men, i tend to prefer east asian men. i like men within 10 years of my age, either direction. i have to find you attractive. i don't mind you being older than me, but i prefer taller. I tend to like serious looking but playful men, and i have a great sense of humor. i hope you do!

please be near: if you aren't, we'd have to find a way to meet irl within a sensible amount of time, vibe check, and find out if it's the connection we need ... but i would love to move, and in particular i'd love to live in a major city with lots of diversity or high values. or east asia. it's up to you, isn't it? :)

most importantly...

• i hope for chemistry, relationship, friendship ... plus a lot more. if you don't see a possibility of a ltr which could yield a marriage (assuming pacing and everything works out) we might not be on the same page. i am not interested in trivial casual things but i'm also in no rush!
• the right person can reassure me that there's no evil intent on the way to owning me by using pacing
• i have absolutely no interest in this part of me being exposed, so i like to share pics once i'm comfortable, and if you reach out and send pics, i promise not to share your photos, so do not share mine
• i'm most attracted to east asian men, not in a fetishy way at all, just in a "those guys fire me up" way. please consider reaching out if my kinks interest you and you fit this preference <3 it is sincere
• i find men with fitter, more muscular bodies, the most attractive
• sexual health and safety is the most important. protection is a 100% requirement. until a long term committed relationship happens, this is an expectation.
• while the kinks i talk about below are something i would like to engage with often, and as a relationship dynamic, i also have a career and i'm able to care for myself entirely. long term, i'd like to work less than full time. but then when you own me, anytime when i'm not working i would belong to you fully

here are my main kinks:

• animal roleplay in which i'm your dog and you're my (naughty) owner (the dehumanizing aspect of this kink is very appealing to me) who insists i am a pet and forces me to wear a collar :3 this goes as far as you want, but i really like it, and forcing me into a gag so i can talk as much as other animals is definitely ok :3 i would be more than happy to eat out of a bowl and live in a cage to whatever degree you enjoy, even if you prefer the slave angle to the pet angle
• piss play, especially if you can commit to keeping your piss clean (from drugs, alcohol, prescriptions), when using me for this. i really really like it, and if you forced me to shower and dry but not rinse your piss it would be pretty humiliating ! ! !
• ball worship, me on my knees, you being appreciated! :3
• ideally each hole is something you're interested in, and long term, daily 😩
• taking my ass with no lube (or just spit) is something i will need <3 as both a punishment and as a reminder
• humiliation
• essentially master/slave, TPE dynamic is the longterm goal
• aftercare is a must. i need to be held. and i will want to be held fairly often due to emotional needs!!

in order for this to work, you'd have to be a pretty special man with a big heart. i think the idea of serving as someone's private joy and punishment vehicle is really thrilling. other dynamics which would excite me could involve lots of different dominant/submissive angles ... care to tell me more about what you're interested in?

if it's possible to start a real relationship (which works towards a real ltr) and then work towards a close-to 24/7 (private) relationship, that would be awesome. so if this was an arrangement we could both work, it'd be pretty much TPE however that suits you once i'm comfortable with you. i'd love to talk to you about how you'd use a slave like this. i have a life outside of this, so it would take a lot to make me not live my life, but there's a real possibility of marriage (and longterm ownership) for the right man (and in fact, that would be ideal)

reach out via chat or message. i would love to submit and look up to you and be your private abuse slut. this post is pretty tpe and assymetrical, so only sane discussions would precede anything real happening... but something real could happen! <3

it's difficult to respond to all replies, so only nearby, well-matched people get prioritized. i'm sure you're awesome, i just can't reply to all <3. when you reach out, please tell all of the following if you hope for a reply:

• where are you located?
• how old are you?
• are you sexy?
• do you have your own home?
• do you have a job and a life of your own?
• are you an east asian man?
• are you tall?
• are you single?

if you send pics first, i will follow suit, but i'd prefer to see your body and face first, junk later

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I’m looking for a friend to essentially blackmail me into becoming there slave. I want to me tricked into this. I’m very gullible and I’m a people pleaser. I’m also looking for someone around the same age as me. I love hearing voice but they get me all shy and stuff. I’m a blonde with green/blue eye!. I like to talk over 👻. I will say I can get side tracked so I need someone who can grab my attention back. You can isolate me, lie to me whatever you please. Dm me if interested

I'm not here to be gentle, ask nicely, or play games. I'm a 30 year old Dom from the Netherlands, with over 9 years of irl experience in the BDSM lifestyle. What I seek isn’t for the faint hearted or the curious. I’m looking for a woman who knows what she craves someone who aches to be stripped of control, humiliated, used, and molded into something far more raw, vulnerable, and real than she’s ever dared to be.

You will be owned. Mentally, emotionally, physically, entirely. You will be used for my pleasure, degraded for my amusement, and reshaped into the perfect submissive toy. Your body will no longer be your own. Your mind will be rewired to serve, obey, and need the structure and intensity I provide. You’ll live to please, to be broken and rebuilt, to exist as an object of satisfaction in a dynamic where your submission is total and irrevocable.

This isn’t about gentle hand holding or safe word heavy pillow talk. I’m deeply into extreme and strict dynamics, degradation, objectification, humiliation, total power exchange, and full obedience. But let me be clear: while I take full control, I never take risks lightly. Consent, trust, and safety are the foundation of everything I do. Without them, the rest is just abuse. With them, it's liberation through complete surrender.

I expect complete honesty, no hesitation, and zero tolerance for time wasting. If you’re the kind of woman who dreams of being broken down, rebuilt, and truly owned… then I want to hear from you. Introduce yourself shortly and I'll take the lead

i figured out that my only worth is to be a toy , a doll, a tool for men to use and abuse
i am looking for the most sadistic man that likes
manipulation, humiliation, degradation, using my trauma to hurt me, break me mentally, make fun of me and use me then he says that's okay baby

my kinks:
humiliation, degradation, objectification, dehumanization, brainwashing, extreme conditioning, cnc, free use, memory play, IQ play, mental bdsm, sluttification, personality modification, bondage, tpe, trauma kink, misogyny, orgasm/bladder control , denial, forced orgasm, impact play, beating, watersports ( and so many more we can talk about them)

but mainly i want tpe, i want u to play with my mind , i want to suffer to cry to feel so humiliated and useless, i want to stay denied and i want you to control my whole life , if i eat, if i go out, if i shower..etc
but what i am looking for is to be owned as a property , nb i do not send pics so soon we get to know each other and my fav dynamic is through voice chats
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Text me if you are interested,so we discuss more