37 [F4M] #eugene #or #usa — seeking something real
i am single, and my long term goal is to be married, to be submissive to my husband, and to be a good wife. i have a career, which i hope to step down to part time when i am with him and the relationship itself is ready. i find men honorable, lovely, and impressive. i have respect for you. please be respectful of me and let's observe sensible pacing.
i am looking for a long term relationship in which i can be owned and dominated on a 24/7 or 24/7 minus career basis. to others, we are vanilla, but between us, there's a disparity of power which is both fun and kinky. the relationship i'm seeking is more real than vanilla relationships, and it includes a real desire to follow your leadership and seek your grounding and stability.
me: white, skinny, sexy, sweet. i am beautiful, sweet, gentle, and open minded.
you (my preferences): are about my height or taller (5'10") and stronger than me. when meeting men, i tend to prefer east asian men. i like men within 10 years of my age, either direction. i have to find you attractive. i don't mind you being older than me, but i prefer taller. I tend to like serious looking but playful men, and i have a great sense of humor. i hope you do!
please be near: if you aren't, we'd have to find a way to meet irl within a sensible amount of time, vibe check, and find out if it's the connection we need ... but i would love to move, and in particular i'd love to live in a major city with lots of diversity or high values. or east asia. it's up to you, isn't it? :)
most importantly...
- i hope for chemistry, relationship, friendship ... plus a lot more. if you don't see a possibility of a ltr which could yield a marriage (assuming pacing and everything works out) we might not be on the same page. i am not interested in trivial casual things but i'm also in no rush!
- the right person can reassure me that there's no evil intent on the way to owning me by using pacing
- i have absolutely no interest in this part of me being exposed, so i like to share pics once i'm comfortable, and if you reach out and send pics, i promise not to share your photos, so do not share mine
- i'm most attracted to east asian men, not in a fetishy way at all, just in a "those guys fire me up" way. please consider reaching out if my kinks interest you and you fit this preference <3 it is sincere
- i find men with fitter, more muscular bodies, the most attractive
- sexual health and safety is the most important. protection is a 100% requirement. until a long term committed relationship happens, this is an expectation.
- while the kinks i talk about below are something i would like to engage with often, and as a relationship dynamic, i also have a career and i'm able to care for myself entirely. long term, i'd like to work less than full time. but then when you own me, anytime when i'm not working i would belong to you fully
here are my main kinks:
- animal roleplay in which i'm your dog and you're my (naughty) owner (the dehumanizing aspect of this kink is very appealing to me) who insists i am a pet and forces me to wear a collar :3 this goes as far as you want, but i really like it, and forcing me into a gag so i can talk as much as other animals is definitely ok :3 i would be more than happy to eat out of a bowl and live in a cage to whatever degree you enjoy, even if you prefer the slave angle to the pet angle
- piss play, especially if you can commit to keeping your piss clean (from drugs, alcohol, prescriptions), when using me for this. i really really like it, and if you forced me to shower and dry but not rinse your piss it would be pretty humiliating ! ! !
- ball worship, me on my knees, you being appreciated! :3
- ideally each hole is something you're interested in, and long term, daily 😩
- taking my ass with no lube (or just spit) is something i will need <3 as both a punishment and as a reminder
- humiliation
- essentially master/slave, TPE dynamic is the longterm goal
- aftercare is a must. i need to be held. and i will want to be held fairly often due to emotional needs!!
in order for this to work, you'd have to be a pretty special man with a big heart. i think the idea of serving as someone's private joy and punishment vehicle is really thrilling. other dynamics which would excite me could involve lots of different dominant/submissive angles ... care to tell me more about what you're interested in?
if it's possible to start a real relationship (which works towards a real ltr) and then work towards a close-to 24/7 (private) relationship, that would be awesome. so if this was an arrangement we could both work, it'd be pretty much TPE however that suits you once i'm comfortable with you. i'd love to talk to you about how you'd use a slave like this. i have a life outside of this, so it would take a lot to make me not live my life, but there's a real possibility of marriage (and longterm ownership) for the right man (and in fact, that would be ideal)
reach out via chat or message. i would love to submit and look up to you and be your private abuse slut. this post is pretty tpe and assymetrical, so only sane discussions would precede anything real happening... but something real could happen! <3
it's difficult to respond to all replies, so only nearby, well-matched people get prioritized. i'm sure you're awesome, i just can't reply to all <3. when you reach out, please tell all of the following if you hope for a reply:
- where are you located?
- how old are you?
- are you sexy?
- do you have your own home?
- do you have a job and a life of your own?
- are you an east asian man?
- are you tall?
- are you single?
if you send pics first, i will follow suit, but i'd prefer to see your body and face first, junk later