r/femdompersonals

Hello dears,

I'm a gentle domme and also an experienced hypnotist for well over 7 years. I've been fascinated with hypnosis since I was very young, seeing it on TV and movies and such. I’ve always been drawn to the creativity and the control aspects of hypnosis, but also the consent and cooperation involved between hypnotist and subject. It's like a long and elaborate dance as we play together. After learning how to hypnotize people from streamers and other content creators, I've been doing my own hypnosis sessions on calls with dozens of guys through the years. I started practicing on Omegle, for anyone who used to use that lovely service! Please let me know if you did, as I love connecting over this. I still enjoy having sessions with experienced subjects over and over, and I also enjoy introducing newbies to hypnosis for the first time.

It's enjoyable to build rapport with a sub to go deeper and deeper every time. I do prefer building a bond longer term rather than with a one off session, assuming we click well and you enjoy yourself.

I do prefer college-aged guys in their 20s or younger looking 30s who are fit or at least pretty well maintained. No need to be completely ripped, although that certainly doesn't hurt. Your personality and imagination capabilities are more important though. There's nothing worse than a hot guy who can't hold a conversation, or with hypnosis imagine his hands simply being magnetized together. I'll take a solid 7 body with a 10 personality and imagination over a 10 body with a 1 personality and imagination any day.

Important: I'm mic-only for all of my hypnosis sessions on calls, and I have guys show their face on cam with me for proper hypnosis induction (mic-optional for you, though preferred).

If you’re not into hypnosis and prefer just being told what to do, please let me know. I enjoy a gentle domme with eager to please sub dynamic. I love showoffs and guys who will gladly do tasks for me, both on calls and in between sessions.

If you're interested in trying my hypnosis and domme sessions, shoot me a personality filled chat message that will grab my attention, since I do get a lot of requests, so please don't just say hey or hypnotize me. I like people who show off their personality from the jump. Wow me. :)

I get a lot of messages, so please do your best to stand out. Tell me what makes you especially YOU. Sharing a SFW pic or two after I accept your chat helps me too, since I get so many responses. Please, don’t send me any NSFW pics. Finally to make sure you read my message, please share your favorite part of your own body with me.

I look forward to meeting you and perhaps taking you under and/or instructing you soon!

– Hypno Jess

Did the title get your attention? You might be a Machine Maiden…

I have devised a cock milking machine that can be used to tease and break me. Drain me until there’s nothing left.

Me: 36, SWM, 5’9”, 215 lbs, and 8”.

I love the fantasy of being controlled and drained endlessly. If you know how to build me up, the results can be explosive. I can be very loud, so if you like moaning and very convulsive ejaculations, then write me. I’m waiting to hear from you.

I am only seeking an online connection right now. If you’re local to me and there is chemistry, I am open to meeting in real life. But just curious if anyone is actually interested in this.

I can offer pictures upon request so you can see me, my setup, and what we’re working with.

I am expected to write 200+ words, but I’m not sure how much more I can include….

Not looking for paid service. This is a call for anyone lifestyle, that enjoys playing, and doesn’t see it as labor.

My fantasies are pretty specific, but I am always open to playing a new game. I haven't been able to find a mistress who can master me... could it be you?

“Before we begin, unclench your jaw for me.
Drop your shoulders.
Good.
Now take a slow breath in… and out.
Let the noise fade for a second.
There you are.
You can continue now.”
—
Hi. I’m Brittany.
30. Midwest.
And I’ve been a Domme long enough to know the difference between someone who wants a fantasy and someone who wants to belong to something.
I’ve had online subs, in-person subs, long-term dynamics, short-term dynamics, and the kind of connections that quietly consume your thoughts at 2am. I’ve had multiple submissives stay with me for years because this is not a game to me. It is a relationship. A psychological space. A shift in how you breathe when my name appears on your phone.
I don’t just enjoy control.
I enjoy influence.
The slow unraveling.
The trust.
The dependency that forms when someone realizes they can finally stop performing and simply hand themselves over.
I like being the place your mind crawls back to instinctively.
The person who learns every reaction in your voice.
The one who notices the change in your typing when you need reassurance before you even ask for it.
I enjoy psychological play far more than theatrics.
The subtle things:
Conditioning.
Reward and denial.
Attention as a privilege.
Making you crave praise more than release.
Training your mind to soften when I speak.
Becoming the voice in your head that calms you, teases you, motivates you, and occasionally ruins your ability to focus for the rest of the day.
I want devotion with depth behind it.
Not because you are forced into it.
Because it feels better than pretending you don’t want it.
I’m a pleasure-focused Domme. Your reactions matter to me. Your comfort matters to me. Your growth matters to me. I enjoy guiding someone into becoming more confident, more emotionally open, more honest, more vulnerable, more themselves.
But don’t mistake soft for weak.
I am teasing. Patient. Affectionate. Sweet when earned.
And deeply manipulative in the most consensual, intoxicating ways.
I will get under your skin slowly.
You’ll start checking your phone more.
Reading my messages twice.
Hearing my voice in your head when you make decisions.
Smiling when you’re praised.
Wanting to impress me without realizing how much you need it.
That’s the part I love most.
I enjoy clingy submissives. Romantic submissives. The kind that send me random thoughts during the day because they genuinely want me involved in their life. I want witty banter, late night conversations, memes at inappropriate hours, voice calls where your brain goes soft listening to me talk, and the kind of connection where silence together still feels intimate.
I do not want a part-time submissive who disappears when life gets busy and reappears only when aroused.
This is a dynamic.
It takes consistency, effort, communication, emotional intelligence, and trust.
Some days will feel intoxicating.
Some days will feel vulnerable.
Some days I will challenge you.
And some days I will simply hold your mind together gently like silk between my fingers until you can breathe again.
That matters to me.
What I bring:
Psychological play
Praise and validation
Guided submission
Voice calls
Comfort and reassurance
Teasing and playful torment
Orgasm control
Attention conditioning
Hypnosis experience
Emotional intimacy
Training and structure
Genuine care
Affection
Story writing
Sleep guidance
Deep conversations
A safe place to unravel
I am picky because this takes energy. Real energy. Emotional energy. Time. Presence. Thoughtfulness.
I love what I do too much to give it halfway.
So if you message me, have a personality.
Be clever. Be sincere. Be interesting. Make me curious about you.
I want the sweet boys with sharp minds.
The needy ones trying to act independent.
The romantics.
The overthinkers.
The ones who secretly want someone to look them in the eyes and say, “Enough. Relax. I’ve got you.”
Requirements:
You have time for a real dynamic
You enjoy voice calls and daily communication
You want consistency
You are emotionally open
You can communicate honestly
You enjoy teasing, tasks, affection, and psychological play
You understand effort attracts effort
I’m active from 6am–10pm CST weekdays and far too late on weekends.
Experience level does not matter to me nearly as much as emotional intelligence, curiosity, and effort.
Opening message must include:
Age:
Time zone:
What drew you in:
Secret word: silk
And anything else that makes you memorable.
If your message is dry, low effort, or copied and pasted, I simply won’t respond.
Now impress me.”

Hi there!

I’m going to be direct, I’m still exploring the world of Femdom, but I know exactly what I want. I’m not looking for a quick session or a shallow exchange of pictures. I’m looking for a long-term connection built on trust, chemistry, and power exchange. We start online to see if you can handle me, and we go from there.

Note: I am prioritizing time zones (EST/nearby) because I value consistency. I am also happy to verify (no face).

Dynamic: Gentle but Firm

I’d describe myself as a Gentle Domme. To me, that means I love control, teasing, and pushing your limits, but I’m not cruel. I want a dynamic where you feel both desired and completely used. There is nothing hotter than a man who is strong and confident to the rest of the world, but melts into a sweet, obedient boy the second I give him a command.

About Me:

(EDIT: Sorry in my post title I said I’m 19 but I turned 20 recently my bad!)

Outside of the bedroom, I’m 5’4”, blonde, and (so I’ve been told) have the kind of body that’s worth earning a look at. I’m a total hockey fan, an outdoors enthusiast (hiking in the sun, skating in the snow), and a fan of cozy nights in with reality TV and fresh baking. I want a sub who can be a partner in conversation and a toy in private.

What I’m Looking For:

I want the Alpha-in-public, Beta-on-his-knees contrast. If you’re confident, fit, and maybe have a set of abs I can claim as my own, we’ll get along just fine. I want the man who everyone else looks up to, but who secretly aches to surrender everything to me.

My Current Kink List:

JOI, CEI, Edging, Cum Control, Dirty talk, teasing, and heavy degradation (when the mood strikes), Receiving worship, giving praise/rewards to a "good boy.", CNC (with strict boundaries), moaning, and TPE.

How to Apply:

If you want my attention, do not send me a "hi" or "what's up." If you can’t put effort into an introduction, you won’t put effort into serving me.

Message me with the following details:

1. The Basics: Name, Age, Height, Weight.
2. Logistics: General location and Time Zone.
3. The Goods: Cock size and your kinks.
4. The Person: Your personal interests, what you do for work, and why you think you’d be a good fit for me, etc.

I want a boy who makes me laugh, makes me think, and makes me crave the way he obeys. Show me you’re worthy of being mine. ❤️

soft domme (with teeth)

i like taking care of what's mine, but i also like making you beg for it. looking for something long-term and online with someone who can handle me being sweet most of the time and absolutely cruel when the mood strikes. i have a lot of kinks and i love to erp so hopefully you're good with your words and okay with getting flustered at inconvenient hours. the way i dom is basically just being really attentive and slightly bossy about it until it's time to not be nice anymore. i want to know how your day was so i can tell you i'm proud of you, and then i want to make you earn that praise in ways that leave you shaky. i want to give you little tasks that make you feel useful, and then i want to absolutely ruin you text just because i felt like it.

you: patient, eager to please, actually texts back, very online, can keep up with a dirty mind. someone who gets fluttery when i check in on you but also squirmy when i decide to be mean. okay with me kissing your forehead one minute and degrading you the next. likes being told what to do in a nice way, and also in a not-nice way.
me: will hype you up constantly, remember the little things you mention, give you tasks that feel like hugs and then hold the praise just out of reach until you're desperate. i have a lot of energy and i want to aim it at someone who wants to be aimed at, cherished, and occasionally destroyed.

i have ocd and anxiety! please be patient!

let's see if you can handle me being a little bossy and a lot cruel when i feel like it.~

Hello, lovely! Thanks for taking the time to read what I wrote. If you think we’d make a good match, I’d love to hear from you.

About me
I’m the kind of person who fills her life with things she loves: cooking up a storm in the kitchen, getting lost on a hike, wandering through museums and festivals, reading a good book, traveling somewhere new, volunteering for causes I care about, and enjoying a good TV series.

Personality-wise, I’m direct and I value kindness, honesty, and growth. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and I genuinely love to laugh.

What I’m looking for
A long-term dynamic, either FLR or TPE, with a sub who naturally enjoys structure, consistency, and a sense of belonging within a dynamic. I’m drawn to someone affectionate and attentive, who enjoys being emotionally and energetically close over time.

I value a sub who is emotionally mature, kind, communicative, and has their own hobbies and sense of self, while also having a genuine desire to serve and connect deeply.

I’m also interested in dynamics involving pain play, chastity, orgasm denial, anal play, and other forms of control and intimacy, explored in a way that feels consensual, intentional, and built on trust.

How I like things to develop
In terms of kinks and how we’d introduce them into our dynamic, I’m open-minded but not in a rush to get sexual. I care much more about building trust, chemistry, and comfort first. I prefer a slow pace so we can take our time getting to know each other and let things unfold naturally.

I can get overwhelmed by intense oversharing or fast emotional intensity, especially when it isn’t matched by consistency over time. I prefer connections that develop steadily and feel emotionally grounded.

When the connection is right, I enjoy deepening into a very devoted and immersive dynamic together.

In your first message, please include
A thoughtful introduction about who you are and what you’re genuinely looking for.

I’m excited to meet you.

I am Suffer — a dark, deliberate, and selective femme Domme.

I lead with structure, ritual, emotional awareness, and quiet authority. I am not looking for casual play, velcro subs, constant messaging, or desperate boys who want to be called “good boy” and cum quickly. I want something deeper and far more permanent.

I am seeking a masochist puppy who craves real devotion. A man who finds peace in worship, service, and beautiful suffering. Someone who is willing to bleed, burn, and break prettily for me — not just in fantasy, but in consistent, daily obedience.

What I offer:

A structured, long-term dynamic built on trust, ritual, and ownership. Clear rules, tasks, and expectations. Praise when earned. Correction when needed. A place where your submission has real meaning.

Requirements:

25 years old or older (no exceptions)

Serious about long-term commitment

Masochistic with a deep need to worship and serve

Emotionally mature, consistent, and capable of honest communication

Able to handle a one-month trial period before any deeper dynamic is considered

If you are a needy, impatient, or low-effort submissive, this is not for you.

If you are a genuine masochist who understands that real devotion is quiet, steady, and often painful — and you are willing to earn the privilege of kneeling for me — you may message me.

Tell me:

Your age and location

Why my style of dominance speaks to you

What long-term service and suffering looks like for you

I read every message.

I reply to very few.

Prove to me that you are worth my time.

Suffer 🖤

Hello there fair warning dont reach out unless you're prepared to be obsessed. I am looking to find a nerdy perverted sub to play with. I work in IT and I work from home second shift so I have lots of free time. If you think the idea of being teased until you cant handle anymore while you're unable to do anything about it sounds good then we will get along just fine. Send me a message and be prepared to be molded into the perfect simp.

Some ground rules i hate titles like mistress whatever. None of that. You won't touch me unless I allow you to. We will go over more rules in a PM. And please have some proper english and do a proper introduction in your message and that includes your name. Send me a message if you're ready to drool all over someone you cant touch.

Also need someone not annoyed by and who will do the * * style of "emoting" so much is lost in context by just words.

Anyway I'm on EST and if you're a fellow night owl you get bonus points. You get double bonus points if you're into some combination of comics, wrestling (not wwe), or sports. Or star wars. Always up crazy hours. (Can't only be focused on being a perv 24/7 right?) Preferably keep it to an age range ideally somewhere between 30-40 max.

Anyway if you wanna be teased until you cant take it anymore message me as long as you can handle some sarcasm. Make sure you include the word "Diablo" so I know you read this far.

About me: I'm 175cm tall, physically fit from sports and getting into calisthenics, love the beach and traveling. Currently studying my master's degree and in my free time I'm a nerd at heart who enjoys videogames and anime. Looking for a long term sub who shares the same interests and kinks. I've been into lifestyle for a while and have explored a lot of different kinks and fetishes with people in the community but I've finally settled with gentle femdom and my kinks below as they give me the most pleasure, and I seek someone who is open minded and willing to explore, especially fully able to cater to my needs and wants (preferably age 18-25).

Disclaimer: I want to start off and say I'm not into anal play as much as everyone else. Open to pegging and anal here and there but not a big kink of mine. Not into femboys and feminization in general either as I seek a masculine and confident man who is well respected by his peers but behind closed doors loves being a golden retriever who likes being called a good boy.

My kinks are mainly: orgasm control, edging, bondage, facesitting, cbt, exhibitionism, public play, and him being heteroflexible. Anyone who can fulfill all of these will 100% have my attention.

I also enjoy micromanagement but only to an extent as I don't want someone fully depending on my commands and only moves when told to.

Physical attraction is very important to me so I want to get this out of the way as well: Ideally I'm more attracted to short hair, clean shaven/smooth face and body, muscular and athletic.

As a woman, I still hope to find a partner who is proactive, communicative, and keeps my interests and likes/dislikes embedded into his brain that I don't need to overcommunicate and repeat myself over and over. Just because I'm into submissive men doesn't mean I want someone who is mentally weak and dependent. I would love a man who has set his goals, takes care of his fitness, hygiene, and mental health. His submissive side is only something only shown to me and me only.

Huge plus if he's into anime and videogames. I don't want the relationship only driven by the femdom side of things but also having shared hobbies and interests. If you think you're the right match, please send your ASL and pic. Thanks.

Hello pet, curious minds, and those exploring what it means to surrender control in a safe and intentional way.

I’m an experienced USA-based Domme who values genuine connection, trust, communication, and consensual power exchange. I enjoy guiding submissive personalities, helping them grow into dynamics where obedience, structure, and vulnerability feel natural rather than forced. For me, submission is never about humiliation for its own sake — it’s about trust, attentiveness, and the comfort that can come from willingly placing yourself in someone else’s care and direction.

I welcome both experienced subs and those who are completely new to BDSM or D/s dynamics. If you’re inexperienced, that’s perfectly alright. I enjoy teaching and helping people discover what submission means to them personally. The right dynamic should feel safe enough for honesty, curiosity, and growth. I value patience, communication, and mutual understanding far more than performance or trying to “impress” me.

While I primarily enjoy online dynamics, I may consider in-person connections for people within the USA who are respectful, reliable, emotionally mature, and genuinely interested in building trust over time. Consistency and sincerity matter much more to me than distance.

My interests are broad, and I believe every dynamic should involve open discussion around boundaries, limits, comfort levels, and expectations. Some interests I enjoy include power exchange, obedience training, chastity, edging, worship, psychological control, impact play, teasing, roleplay, and forms of service-oriented submission. I also appreciate dynamics that include structure, accountability, and emotional connection outside of scenes themselves.

Respect and communication are extremely important to me. Titles such as Mommy, Mistress, or Goddess are all welcome depending on the dynamic and what feels natural between us. I prefer dynamics where respect develops organically through trust, consistency, and attentiveness rather than fear or pressure.

If you choose to message me, please introduce yourself thoughtfully. Tell me your age, location, experience level, interests, limits, and what draws you toward submission or power exchange. Effort and honesty always stand out more than rehearsed lines. A respectful photo or introduction is appreciated but never required.

I prefer talking with adults who are emotionally mature, self-aware, and serious about communication. I’m not interested in rushed intensity or empty fantasy conversations. I value people who are patient, curious, respectful, and genuinely interested in exploring a real connection and dynamic.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out and introduce yourself properly. Good communication, sincerity, and effort are always remembered.

Hiii im 23 living in Europe but of African descent. I love autum and Halloween as a whole, in fact October in general is my favourite month of the year, My hobbies are reading books yoga going on walks, playing mobile games, cooking, currently thinking of joining a tennis club. I have black curly hair,brown eyes. I am about 5’5 and 75kg but on a weight loss journey. I love cats but don’t have any and currently a 3rd year medical student. Please also be a student or doing something with your life I want someone with goals and ambition.

I'm looking for a genuine long-term relationship with a guy of a similar age, I’m open minded to someone anywhere, I’d describe myself as more on the feminine side, I also do go to the gym and trying to look after myself and prioritise my health. I value communication education and a positive vibe. I hope you enjoy making your partner happy and are caring and considerate. I also prefer a partner that does not enjoy gaming too much.

I am a huge sci-fi fan I love sci-fi shows and movies, in my free time that’s what I like to watch, I have a big personality and love to talk a lot and call.

The type of guy I’m looking to date is one that isn’t afraid to be open with his feelings, someone who isn’t overally sexual and isn’t selfish, I value a guy with good communication skills and a loving personality. If you like documentary’s or like history that is a plus in my books. I also would expect a guy that doesn’t mind being long distance for the next 3 years till I graduate, we can visit each other during school breaks.

Strictly vanilla conversations at first so if your hoping to get sexual after a few days lol good luck

I’ve always been interested in a FLR and also into swinging so if your curious message me, a few things I am not into is scat, cross dressing, feminisation, pet play.

Experienced mistress is looking for male subs, age 20 or over. Interested am open to any experience level, but do appreciate obedience and the want to be a sub.

I’d like to hear your kinks, if you’ve been a sub before and what you would like to do. I want to help build a realm where there’s comfort,and you’re enjoying yourself while maybe trying new things depending.

I do like JOI, Edging, Denial, Light CBT, CEI amongst other things. I’d also like to know more about you, of course what you are comfortable providing whether that be nickname or first name, if you like sports etc.

If you are somebody who likes to be rewarded when good, not looking for a fin dom, and willing to give your full attention I would look forward to seeing if we are a fit. It’s important that you are ready and comfortable enough to become a sub.

I typically am a soft domme, but that does change and I like to play with the dynamic. I do prefer someone that is willing to show off and I do reward as you earn.

I am also open to helping with outfits, your get readies and things to that extent depending on if that is something you enjoy.

Feel free to message and we can see if we are a fit.

I am a responsible, smart, and charismatic woman with a passion for personal growth, self improvement, and meaningful connections. I tend to keep fairly busy with work, but in my downtime, I lead a quiet life and usually prefer a night cozy on the couch over a night out. So I love to read, watch horror/thriller movies, video games (just getting into it)
I am a good looking, long blonde hair, blue eyes, average height, curvy, white woman

Kinks aspects:
I’ve come to realize that fantasies change and evolve depending on our emotional life at the time, and would be influenced by whatever relationship develops between us, but as a general tendency my idea of domming is to take over responsibility and control with the sub's best interest at heart, in order to give them the privilege of letting go and experiencing pleasure in the knowledge that they're safe. My needs are therefore more about loving, doting, sensual, pushing vulnerability, giving praises.
My Limits: scat, kids, animals, scarring, anything illegal

My ideal scenario would be a FemDom household in which my partner and I look absolutely vanilla to the outside world, he presents as a doting partner, but when we’re all alone he is there to serve, please and be used by me.

My Ideal submissive:
A worthy, confident and obedient man who is eager to evolve, learn and grow
19+ obviously
I don't care about your weight or height, so far you can submit to me
Someone comfortable with vulnerability, emotional intimacy and open communication
Someone who understands that this is not just a kink, but a lifestyle
Someone who is confident and competent in daily life, but who once I earn the trust and right, melts in my hands

Instructions for messaging me:
No honorifics until I tell you to
At the beginning of your message, include your age, time zone (or location, if you're comfortable), and one word to describe yourself.
In the body of your message, include information about your vanilla life. How do you spend your days? What do you enjoy doing to relax? Things like that.
Give me a list of your kinks and limits

You will not get a reply if ANY of the following apply:
You haven't put effort into your message.
You haven't followed all of my instructions.
You want to top me.
You don't fit my ideals.

P.S. While I welcome any level of sexual/relationship/dynamic experience, I do have a soft spot/preference for those that are fairly inexperienced in any/all of the above. I also find shyness very cute, so if you fit the bill, be brave and reach out!

(open to NB folks)
#Vancouver
Read carefully before talking to me. Avoid disappointing me.

I want to shape you and turn you into the perfect toy for me.
I’ll memorize every sigh your lips let out when you say my name.
You’ll become addicted to me, if you manage to catch my attention first.

I’m a cisgender woman and I use masculine pronouns. I currently live in Canada, where I study the university.
I’m sapiosexual, and also a calm, introspective, deeply artistic person. I’m the melancholic, solitary, obsessive archetype.
I’m strictly monogamous. It must be only you and me.

I don’t have much experience in kinky practices, however, I’m interested in psychological and emotional domination.
I’d like to find someone willing to become part of my entertainment, and eventually take it into something more intimate and romantic.
I’m fascinated by the idea of mutual obsession, and I’m interested in a guided dynamic to achieve the kind of connection I want (almost like a TPE dynamic).
In simple words, I’ll turn you into my “perfect partner,” making you interesting enough for me to dissect your being inside my journals.

Once we see that our chemistry works, I’d like to build a dynamic where both of us get what we want.
I’m very communicative, I like structure in things, and I’m also demisexual… which is why I seek an emotional and intellectual bond before my erotic imagination fully comes out.

My kinks…
Crossdressing, dollification, Pegging, rimming (I receive), (I am curious about golden rain…), latex masks, breeding, denial, pet play, mdlb, humiliation, slapping/spanking, cnc, using public spaces… and more that I don’t remember rn 😓

About the dynamic:
I will give you instructions to follow.
You must be willing to:
- send photos and videos (faceless for safety, or with your face covered).
- write long texts/letters when I assign them to you.
- behave the way I ask you to (sweet/affectionate), although I’d prefer someone bratty, since I plan to condition attention.
- beg for my attention :)
- read/watch what I tell you to (sometimes during dates with me).
- do video calls/calls with me when I ask.
- be dominant if I order you to.

If you are:
- mature
- emotionally intelligent
- introspective
- intellectually curious
- artistic
- communicative
- consistent
- self-aware
- affectionate
- attentive
- mentally stimulating
- open-minded
- capable of forming deep connections over time
- VERY PATIENT… 🫪
…we’ll probably get along.

Tell me what you understood. Tell me what drew you in. Let me see the version of me you created in your head after reading between the lines.
I appreciate people who can articulate fascination instead of reducing it to impulse.

What to include in your message (impress me):
Nickname, age, height, weight, be open to sharing face photos eventually, location (Time zone), your kinks, personal interests,why do you think we could be a good match?

And if we truly click, I’ll make you feel wanted, appreciated, and very well taken care of.

Hey! First and foremost thank you for your time in reading this and I hope you find some interest in it :)

I'm 25 years old, private chef by profession and studying neurosciences as of recently. A bit tall with a wide frame around 12% body fat, highly active in the gym, and spend most of my free time beyond that and work on swimming, learning skills or occasionally making art or messing around with AI.

I'm big on respect and valuing people's time, hoping to make a connection that clicks nicely. One thing I am actively avoiding here is people who demand absolute submission from the first message - respectfully, I'd like to speak to you as a human being first at least for a little bit, be it a couple messages or a couple of hours.

I'm moderately experienced, but I've always had trouble finding dominant women in real life situations. I think it's mostly to do with how I carry myself as it's unlikely most people would see me as submissive. My interests are mostly centered around TPE, denial and seduction - I want to find someone who makes me want to get wrapped around their finger, and enjoy every moment of it. One thing I'm very interested in that remains a fantasy for now is chastity and long term denial. Most things that people would consider freaky are at least interesting to me, and I've tried quite a lot.

I'm willing to try most things at least once, but absolutely not interested in anything to do with animals, toilet play, cbt or really extreme pain.

Happy to verify early on or after speaking for a while. Second time here (first was about 6 years ago) so pardon me if I'm not aware of any relevant customs.

Submissiveness is more than sexual and is a lifestyle---seems like you...? Then you are in the right place!!! (Dont just skim through and take your time to read it)

Tired of planning every instance of life? Want to dedicate your waking hours to someone completely? Want someone to have a full leash on your life and decisions? Someone to tell you what to do and what not to do in every moment of your life? Or perhaps you want someone to remind you of your place as the lowest piece of shit out there?

Your puppetmaster would be just me! So give up your strings and perhaps we can have some shows for a while ;) \[terms and conditions applied!\]

What I expect:

• Should be of the age range 22 to 26

• Chemistry! Chemistry! Chemistry!

• Well mannered, emotionally available and doesnt have commitment issues

• The place you are from doesn't matter as long as you can manage the time difference

• Someone willing to blindly obey me.

• Willing to give up control of each and every aspect of life.

• Should be active on reddit as i won't be giving my other socials unless i feel so

• Not a switch

• Should be willing to grow out hair so i can imagine grabbing it (not that long just till the shoulder)

• Is okay with the extremest of the extremes

• Has down bad humiliation kink (please don't get offended easily)

• Clingy

• Can cook

• Can keep up a conversation

• Willing to send me photos and videos

• Willing to commit long term (might as well follow you to old age home if we vibe enough)

• You should earn my time and attention \[wag that tail like the good boy you are :)\]

• Shouldn't be pushy \[if i say no or not interested or anything along those lines more than 2 times, then its a no\]

Preferences (not strict)

• Funny

• Bratty

• Watches anime (so we can discuss something)

• Looks dominating

• Willing to send photos with face

• Should have a personality

• Have cats (we can exchange pussy pics hehe) or pets in general or atleast likes them

• Okay with getting beaten up

• Has a life where you are in control or in leadership positions but wants to give it away in private

Who shouldn't message me:

• People with fwbs, is/was married, situationships, relationships, any kind of commitment to other human beings as i am looking for something monogamous \[you guys already have something on your plate, let the guys who have nothing eat :) \]

• Busy people (don't commit if you will be busy with somethings like exams, promotions, travels, etc really soon). I am impatient and I expect quick replies. You will be excused to be free if you have such commitments a bit later into the relationship after we form a connection.

• People with tattoos, and piercings except on ears and nose

• People with kids (I am childfree and is planning to continue that, but may try to get you preg ;))

• Religious people who preaches (don't preach in my dms, i already hear enough from the church)

About me:

• I am 24

• Indian

• 5'5

• Brown, black curly hair, black eyes

• Interests include movies, anime and digital art

• Just graduated

• Unemployed currently so lots of time in my hands

• Looking for something long term and monogamous

• Loves to sleep (?)

• Kinks unlocked: CEI, JOI, degradation, pet play, getting worshipped, cum play, ass play (yours btw), really light feminization, maid training, (i am relatively new, so lets explore more together)

• I am also into point based system where you earn points by doing tasks and use that to touch yourself

• Limits: anything illegal, blood, toilet plays, scat, cuckolding (I am not generous in sharing my properties nor do I want to be shared)

• That's all I think...

• Also funny :)

How to message:

• Write a long long introduction with your age \[if you include dob, i will wish you :)\],

• Your experiences (include everything remotely sexual in nature, let me enjoy some smut)

• Totally okay even if you are inexperienced too

• What you do in life etc

• And a photo of yourself

• If I see some AI slop, you will be blocked immediately! (Guys, please don't waste water for your pervertness)

• Write takemeasyourpersonalslut instead of hi or hello

• Dont call me mommy. Last time i checked, i haven't given birth to anyone.

We wont be diving directly into this unless we make a connection. We will start of as being friends, having friendly talks, with maybe some flirting here and there. We are gonna take this really slow so if you don't have the patience then please don't message me. If you ask for anything before that, we won't talk further more.

I don't mind to keeping it just flr or converting it to dating with marriage in mind (👉👈). Afterall its better to find a life partner who are dedicated for the same passion, right?

My dms might be flooded so if I feel like you are not my cup of tea, I won't be replying at all (I apologize in advance). Either save the post or remember this since I don't want to keep reminding you of what I wrote.

If this resonates with you, my dm is wide open. Even if it doesn't fully resonates, mention that parts too.

See ya :)

I’m 22M from New York (Brooklyn to be specific), I’m 5’11 and I think I look pretty good (though probably not even close to as good as you). I work a busy job, it pays well and I like what I do.. I go to the gym everyday and in my free time I go swimming, play video games, or watch movies.

I’m a very normal guy outside the bedroom and have never talked to anyone about my fetishes or being submissive. None of my past girlfriends knew about my fetishes, but I’ve slowly realized that this is just who I am and I want to confide into someone who understands me.

Kinks: I like to keep experimenting, and like you said, it evolves over time. But broadly, I like to worship and serve. I like to be used for pleasure and being told what to do. I also like crossdressing. I want to be with someone I can be extremely intimate with and talk about things I have never told anyone about. I am very fluid and am open to trying almost anything, provided it’s safe.

Limits: blood, kids, animals, illegal

Pm me if you think we could be a good fit together!

Young experienced Domme here looking for a submissive I can truly own, guide, and mould into exactly what I want. I enjoy building a dynamic with someone who’s obedient, open-minded, eager to please, and genuinely into giving up control.
I’m into light CBT/impact play, chastity, humiliation tasks, sissification, teasing, training, control, and pushing boundaries in a fun but structured way. I love consistency, communication, and watching a sub slowly become more and more devoted over time.

I’m not looking for fake “yes Mistress” energy for one night, I want someone who enjoys the psychological side of submission as much as the physical side. Bonus points if you’re needy, bratty in a fun way, or secretly craving structure and discipline.

Communication is key for me and anyone who is not able to communicate their feelings properly is a red flag for me. If there is something on your mind or if your feeling a certain way about something I like my subs to express themselves so we are both on the same page and everything is transparent, please nobody under the age of 26 either!

I do prefer someone who has experience in serving in a long term dynamic and knows how to follow rules and respect boundaries.

Tell me a little about yourself, your experience level, limits, and what kind of dynamic you’re hoping for :)