r/femdompersonals

To the boy who stumbles upon my post,

Well, where to begin?

I’m a 30 YO woman, standing a confident 5’4, slim built with long, dark hair and residing from the land down under.

My professional life involves fast-paced, high-acuity, high energy and critical thinking. And I firstly require that intellectual ability to be on my level or I can’t engage. If you get no response or low effort responses, you can refer to this part.

In my downtime, I like to get my hands dirty, literally. I love gardening and the great outdoors. And plenty more which we can get into later if you can appease me.

What I bring to the table with femdom, I like to create a rapport, bond and form a level of mutual trust. I enjoy the spectrum of this kink, from being the caring, tender, gentle Mummy to cuckholding, humiliation, to strict and ‘rough’ mistress.
I have had a colourful past and have an open mind, no illegal acts, scat or none consensual acts.

My next (‘vanilla’) desire is to have a good boy come to me in public, only being given a brief description of what I’m wearing. You, then take the risk by planting yourself next to me (or not, seeing you fail would bring me great joy) and sitting in-front of me and massaging my feet. Ideally, this good boy would be so built up he would be left with a little wet patch on the front of his pants. This would make me happy, the foot massage that is.

If you think you’ve got what it takes, send me a message. I want an engaging, punctual and transparent conversation about you. I’m not interested in boys with minimal experience.

First and foremost, I do this to pass time because my current puppies are busy. So, I am not really looking for something too deep (I don’t mind if we click) but at the same time, I do not like my time being wasted.

About me:
I am generally a gentle domme but if I am in the mood, I can get rough.

I prefer sending tasks for you to fulfill or video calls. See if the timezone works. I am from South East Asia timezone +8.

Requirements for you:
I am looking for someone fit or in shape, around 20s-30s. (Uncut is a plus)

Ideally, someone who is an exhibitionist. If you cannot commit by showing that slutty face of yours during the task or video call, do not DM. As I said, I don’t like wasting time.

Below are my kinks in general

Anal training kinks:
Hole stretching
Hole depth
Hole endurance
Rosebud (sometimes)
Prolapse (sometimes)
Enemas (sometimes)
Food play (sometimes)
Fisting
Foreskin play
Object insertion
Piss play
Scat play (Minor)

Humiliation kinks:
Cross dressing (panties, etc.)

Other kinks:
Pup play
Chastity
Bondage
Sounding
Latex
Tasks, rules, schedules, goals (structure)
Bdsm (im a voyeur meaning I WATCH ONLY)

For introduction, please do send me your kinks, age, and a picture of you.

PS: Anyone whos looking for something longterm, please masturbate, freshen up and read back this post. See if it still makes sense for you.

Edit: I have added my own pic on my profile. At least you know who you’re serving. Xx

Despite how well (attention wise) my last post did on here, i wasnt able to find a permanent boy toy for me to use. Partly because i got so many messages i couldnt physically open them and respond to them, and partly because i got really disappointed in ones i actually did respond to. But hey, still need a man to satisfy me, so here we go again.

Hi, im Darya and im a porn addict. So much so that i recently ran out of porn. So the next logical step is, therapy aside, to make the pathetic men of reddit create it for me. Thats what brings me here.

Im looking for a passionate gooner. A guy with dick for brains. A guy with no dignity. Absolute brainless sextoy, or someone who is willing to become one.

I cant call this a relationship, or a partnership, or any type of ship actually. Mostly because im not going to treat you like a human at all. Your only job is to create digital content of yourself doing some of the most heinous shit imaginable and show it to me. You're not gonna receive anything in return for that, this is purely one sided. So all the guys with self respect who are in this subreddit just for the dommy vibes - please leave me alone. Im looking for the scam of the earth. Bottom of the barrel dumbest horniest gooners.

requirements:

- c1 in english language. can do russian if you're not weird about it
- your chest should be wider than your waist. that doesnt include your hands.
- be masculine
- have a good camera on your phone, be able to take pics on it without holding it in your hands, have a good lighting at your place
- be a butt slut. no, fucking yourself with brushes doesnt count. own a dildo and be able to use it on command
- have patience. we're not gonna jump into playing from day 1. a side effect of porn addiction is parasociality, i need to care for you at least a little to find you attractive.
- be okay showing face. this isnt negotiable. masks dont work.

if you are the brainless gooner that im looking for - dm me the name of the last medicine pill you took. this is a bot prevention measure, it doesnt have to be true.

if you previously dmed me and didnt get a response (i got like 500+ unopened message requests from my last post) leave a comment under the lost and found post i got pinned on my page and i'll dm you myself

I’m using some of my free time to find good conversation and get to know slim, nerdy submissive types who are open to a long-term, online connection. Please make sure you read my post slowly and carefully before you message me though because doing so will save us all time.

I think there is an expectation for dominants to present a specific persona of themselves, but that's not for me. I'm just a regular woman who happens to be kinky. I'm fairly busy with my job and I try to maintain my social life, with some time made for the usual hobbies and interests. Physically, I have a normal/slim figure, brunette hair with hints of sandy blonde depending on the light. I think I balance connection, silliness, and intimacy, with dominance and assertiveness.

I have been dominant for a long time, so I know what I'm doing and who works with me. I want somebody who is reliable, dedicated, and consistent about more than just kink. I want to hear about your day and interests, I want you to actively want to talk to me, with enough time and capacity in your life to spend on me. If you're a really busy person too with a lot going on, our schedules probably won't align in the long-term.

I'm a verified user on femdompersonals for your reassurance and so I don't have to verify myself in every single conversation. I'm open to a lot of kinks and I've explored many previously; I have quite a big cum-fetish, so being an exhibitionist would be in your favour, as I take a lot of sexual pleasure in watching an obedient toy play and climax for me.

I like submissives to have autonomy in their actions, as I don't want or need to control every single aspect of your life. I enjoy taking into consideration your kinks and desires during play when politely communicated. I'm more of an affectionate or gentle dominant, and I really like giving praise when it's authentically earned. I like good boys, rather than brats.

Ideally, I'm imagining a light-hearted but sincere friends-with-benefits arrangement, where we're actually friends and at the same time as integrating d/s aspects. It's more than sexual gratification, and it's less than a husband. I'd like to feel the positive and energetic vibe between us, but without being so intense it burns out quickly.

You'll be -

• Below the age of 30
• Progressive and left-wing
• Slim or skinny body type
• Within a few hours of the UK timezone
• Comfortable sharing pictures and videos (including sfw selfies)

To reach out to me -

• Send me a unique, reasonably high effort message, without using AI
• Don't tell me about your kinks
• Tell me about you and what matters to you
• Include links to pictures of yourself
• Consider masturbating before you message me so you have a clear head

If you ignore these, or have a new account, or have any of your profile history hidden, I probably won't reply.

x

This is gonna be a lengthy post, please take the time to read it. I am from and currently live in latin america but I’ll be moving to Italy on autumn, I want a irl relationship so that is why I’m sharing it from the beginning.

With my last relationship, I was able to finally experiment as a domme and there isn’t going back for me. While yeah I can go on a dating app and get tons of matches and maybe mediocre sex, I really don’t want that.

I’m on the gentler side of things. We can talk more about kinks after getting to know each other, but I’m mainly into people who are about my pleasure / servitude towards me first. I like praise, edging, orgasm control, cum play, teasing, and more things, but I don’t want to be seen as a kink dispenser, I just want you to keep in mind I am open to some things but not into really harsh stuff. In relation to this, I won’t respond to people jumping into calling me honorifics like “goddess” or “mistress” you don’t know me, it’s fake and yucky.

Outside of kinks, I’m a very artistic person. I live art in different forms, consuming it (reading, films, concerts, museums) or participating myself (writing, drawing). I love indie and alternative music in general, music is very important in my life. I love tattoos and have many of them and want more. I am a cat person but love all pets and animals alike! I am 1.73cm tall (5’8) and pretty chubby (yes my pfp is me). I’m also pretty pale and have brown curly hair.

Anyways, before this gets too long, I’m gonna be straight with you with what I need:

-I’m not interested in someone not willing to call, video call, and share photos (sfw mostly) with me. I will also share these things with you too it I trust you, so, I don’t expect EVERYTHING upfront but I don’t want someone that keeps it as a top secret thing as if they are doing anything illegal, mutual attraction is paramount to me.

-I’m open to people located elsewhere but it’s very unlikely to people outside of Europe unless you have the possibility to travel often and have things in person.

-Ages 22-32.

-About looks, I don’t have many preferences outside of hating facial and body hair, but even this is not set on stone and depends on the person and how much there is of it lol.

-You don’t need previous experience. All I’m asking for is that you don’t reach out to just to “experiment”. Ideally I want a relationship first and a dynamic second.

*I’m also not interested in polyamorous dynamics or anything non monogamous.

And, that’s it. I am pretty open to anyone that considers we might be compatible. I will only respond to messages that aren’t AI, low effort, or generic. (You don’t need lenghty paragraphs either) but I only am interested in people that is willing to make things work with me, and that shows from the beginning.

NO single men. Couples are absolutely welcome, if you're coming as a pair, just let me know a little about both of you when you reach out.

Hope you're all having a lovely day!

A little more about me:

I’m naturally dominant, and I’ve had the privilege of exploring that side of myself through a few long-term dynamics over the years.

That experience has taught me a lot ,not just about structure and trust, but about the beauty of building something real with someone.

I’m fairly open and easy to talk to, so please don't feel the need to be shy or overly formal with me. I'd much rather we speak like real people than dance around each other stiffly.

I love baking and staying active by working out regularly.

How I look:

I’ve got pale skin, long black hair, and an athletic build. I’ve been told more than once that I have a mischievous smile, the kind that hints I might be up to something (and honestly, I probably am).

Now, what I'm looking for in return:

Someone respectful. Always. Someone who knows how to keep things exciting and engaging, but also understands and respects boundaries without needing them to be repeated.

I want you to be upfront about what you want, what you're curious about, and what you're looking for. If you value honesty as much as I do, we're already off to a good start!

I don't have a strict preference when it comes to age or experience level, even if you're new to this, I'm open. What matters more to me is your attitude, your sincerity, and your willingness to communicate.

So if any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a chat or DM!

First and foremost: I am in an open relationship with my partner who encourages me to have my fun online. He’s not privy to the details of my conversations so anything shared stays between you and I.

For in person meetups, I have refer to connect with men in open/ENM/poly relationships. We are into stag/vixen play so my partner will be present because he likes to watch, but we are not interested in any kind of cuck/humiliation scenario.

I’m a big flirt but lean demisexual so I need to feel that connection with someone before becoming physical. Ideally we’d get to know each other and share our interests first before the conversation becomes outright sexual.

Me: 5’10”, 285, Domme, voyeur and hedonist, big time nerd who’s into video games, sci fi and fantasy, Marvel and DC, reading filthy romance novels, trying new restaurants

You: liberal (this is the only must, everything else would be nice but they’re not deal breakers), younger than me, leans submissive, likes to show off your body, into wit and banter and good conversation, chronically online and into sharing memes

In your first message, tell me who you voted for in 2024 and the last movie/tv show/book/video game you enjoyed. If you don’t include this in your first message, I will likely ignore your chat request. Messages that include a link to a photo of yourself will move to the front of the line.

Hey there! If you've clicked on this, I assume you're a submissive boy looking for a woman who can nurture that.

About me; I'm married with no kids. I want to be a nurturing and caring figure in a man's life.
About you; you can be single or not, but l'd ask for me to be to the only Mommy you're speaking to (exclusive in that way). Extra points if you're the type of person no one would suspect to be a submissive little boy;

Kinks (non-exhaustive): JOl, edging, milking, anal play, toy play, watersports, chastity, body worship, body writing, gooning, ruined orgasms, degredation, giving instructions

Things I'm not into:
⁃ major brat like behavior (aka intentional disrespect that goes beyond minor and playful)
rebellion (unlike the Galactic Empire, I squash rebellions)
spamming me without giving me a chance to respond. Being desperate is only hot to a point then it's just annoying.
anything with blood, gore, vomit, scat
overconfidence in dick size
lack of respect for myself or yourself

I want to have full control of your sexual life. Men with partner are welcome too.

My fantasy is that whenever I want to use the sub, he needs to find a bathroom or any private place to serve me. Imagine a masculine guy having all kinds of excuses to leave. People are wondering where he is going, but only I know this man is hiding in the bathroom to serve his owner. And there is a tiny caged cock between his legs, only I know. This fantasy really turns me on.
Bonus round

I'm 5'4 and 148 lbs

i like doing nothing(except work). Nothing is fun

when not doing nothing, I like watchingTikTok , eating sweet treats, and occasionallyyyyyyy getting super into fitness for 2 weeks the forgetting about it (currently in a running phase)

If you made it past this mumbo jumbo start your message with any flower emoji so I can answer you faster. It needs to be thoughtful for a response though.

just a girl. A kinky dommy girl

my favorite thing is cumshots. My second favorite thing is edging and denials. To cum or not to cum, such a hard choice

When you are with me, you resemble a devoted servant who diligently follows all of my commands and guidelines. You also demonstrate a strong eagerness to serve me each day.

It's always hot seeing a cock being stroked by a hand with a tiny shiny wedding band around it, too fit just cause I want it. Lmao.
I've learned that not only can I be bossy outside of the bedroom but that it's a lot more fun inside of it. My mood changes when I want to be a soft/mean domme or sadistic but your well being will always be my priority (unless you don't want it to).
Hobbies include playing volleyball and watching netflix.

I don't know if I'll get many messages but I hope to hear from some littles who need a loving Mommy in their life.
I'm open to sharing pictures straight away and always am able to answer any and all questions, to satisfy curiosity.

Hey guys! I’m a 36-year-old (most people think I’m still in my 20s, not even kidding) dominant black woman with natural hair in the Midwest. I would say that I am pretty career-oriented and career-focused. I also am all about education (in fact I am working on my master’s in molecular biology, and I am working towards trying to further my education more too). I work in STEM and healthcare (feel free to ask me more about that or school/education stuff btw because I just genuinely enjoy it all haha). Outside of work and school, I really do like to just chill out and hang out with friends. I do enjoy shopping (haha don’t judge me lol). I believe in a little bit of retail therapy, okay? Haha, I do also enjoy doing yoga and dancing. I am like 5’6” or so and have a slim build I guess. I am working on getting more tone and fit (because why not? Lol). A few of my friends are trying to get me to try running and Pilates so like gl me lol.  I have been thinking about learning a new instrument for fun too (maybe the piano or maybe the violin; I haven’t decided yet though).

Oh, and I just got out of a pretty serious relationship not too long ago. For the record, I am not sure if I am ready to jump into a new relationship or anything like that right now. However, I think I am open to looking for new friends or like casual conversations and like being open to getting to know some new people to see what happens.

 

Alright, so I guess we can get to some kinks I suppose. I think the biggest one for me would be pegging. I would consider myself to be a “female top” so it honestly just makes sense for me to ‘top’ a guy and well fuck him with a strapon or some kind of toy (excuse my French there but it’s true; and yes, I am a very blunt and direct woman lol). That is ideally the kind of sex life I would want and would kind of need if I am being totally honest. If you’re a guy who isn’t really into the idea of pegging or getting peg, then that’s fine, but I think it would be best for you to probably click out of this ad because that is a big deal and like a non-negotiable for me, sorry. I think also on top of that, I do like the idea of chastity. I have always found it to be cute and idk I feel like guys tend to look way better when their boyclits are locked up in a cage (especially when they have a nice body overall; I do like and prefer eye candy so a nice body and cute face will always be on my bingo card lol) and when they’re hairless down there (or at least like well-trimmed, ya know?) so yeah me being a keyholder just kind of always made sense to me as well. But if you’re a guy that isn’t too sure about chastity, then it’s okay. So bottom line, pegging and chastity are probably the big ones for me, I’m okay with some light feminization (like maybe having a guy wear stockings, lingerie, thongs, panties, etc), however, I am not okay with a guy getting or becoming completely feminized to the point that he looks passable (personally, I just don’t really find that fun or appealing in any way; I am straight, and I like it when a guy still well looks like a guy if that makes sense; so if a guy ends up looking more and more like a woman, then that’s going to be very unattractive and unappealing to me to the point where I will definitely get and have the ick). I just want to be clear about that because I have found myself in a few situations in the past with previous submissives where there was some confusion about like all of that and just yeah.

 

Hmm, what else should I mention on here? Oh well, idk what to really say about the whole age range. Obviously if we’re around the same age and if you think we will get along well, then feel free to reach out to me lol. But like I have talked to and dated guys who are younger than me and they were fine, and I have also talked to and dated guys who are a little older than me and they were fine but I know some of you really prefer like an actual age range so I guess here ya go: 25-43 but again that’s not like set in stone and if you are a few years off, but you think we might hit it off and stuff, then feel free to shoot me a message or send me a chat invite. Again, I really am open to just talking and getting to know some new people. But hey, don’t be desperate because that’s just not cute, okay? Alright, well thank you so much for taking the time to stop by my post and to like actually to read it to its entirety haha. I literally wrote a whole novel so thank you haha I am looking forward to talking to you and getting to know you better, thanks!! :D

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Closed mouths don’t get fed and closed legs don’t get fucked. Welcome, I’ve been called extreme in my desires but I continue my search. I’m 28 Latina from Cali, curly brown hair with curvy body.

I’m not looking for something surface level or just a session. I’m looking for a long-term connection built on trust, chemistry, and power exchange. Ideally I’m looking for multiple subs to have this dynamic that will also play with each other for my pleasure. Hence Bisexual. Forced bi I find very hot. I love all men, women, trans

I would say I’m a gentle domme with sadistic tendencies. I love control, denial and pushing your limits. I want you to feel desired but also used. Your sole purpose is to keep me happy and pleased.

Someone who values communication and emotional intimacy.A naturally submissive or service-oriented man who enjoys a gentle, caring dynamic but also strict. One who embraces his submissiveness. Also romantic and able to follow direction especially when guidelines are set in place. Also if you have ptsd from past relationships please go to therapy. I can’t fix you.

I will have full control of your sexual life. I have a cum eating fetish and also love edging and denials which can be very frustrating with only one sub hence why I want more.

Age range 26-46 Height weight proportionate I like shorter subs

Ideally you’ll be able to host.

Things I'm not into: ⁃ brat like behavior (aka intentional disrespect that goes beyond minor and playful -spamming me without giving me a chance to respond -anything with blood, gore, vomit, scat -overconfidence in dick size Don’t care too much for chastity or lots of degradation/humiliation -being financially dependent on me

Provide

Your age A picture no Face is fine Location Lists of kinks Why you think you’d be a good fit. Your experience Some vanilla interests

Hiya

I’m 27 year-old mommy domme who’s naturally nurturing, affectionate, and happiest when I have someone to care for. While I enjoy taking the lead in a relationship, my style of dominance is gentle. I believe real strength comes from patience, consistency, and creating a space where someone feels safe enough to let their guard down.

If you’re looking for someone who enjoys checking in on you, reminding you to eat and drink water, celebrating your accomplishments, listening after a rough day, and helping you become the best version of yourself, we might be a good match.

I’m definitely more “come here, let Mommy take care of you” than “kneel and be afraid.”

Outside of D/S, I’m into horror movies, makeup, perfumes, witchy things, thrift stores, late-night drives, and spending hours talking about absolutely everything. and i have a soft spot for shy, sweet people who aren’t afraid to be emotionally honest. I value vulnerability, consistency, and the kind of connection where both people feel seen, appreciated, and cared for.

I've been into the Domme aspect of life for quite awhile now! Started 6 years ago, and things kind of escalated since then, feminization, chastity, sph, wax, humiliation, joi,pegging,task and reward ,watersports, cuck... You name it, I've probably dabbled in it one way or another.

What I'm looking for is someone who fully accepts themselves for who they actually are. We all (Dommes/Doms and subs) have been on that journey of self acceptance at some part of own life's, some are more accepting of who they are more than others, but for anyone to truly love who you are, self acceptance is so important so bare that in mind!,

Someone who values communication and emotional intimacy.

A naturally submissive or service-oriented man who enjoys a gentle, caring dynamic.

Kindness over bravado.

Someone who understands that trust, respect, and consent are the foundation of everything.

\*Single or ethically non-monogamous. Honesty and transparency are non-negotiable for me.

Ideally someone who can host I completely understand that isn’t possible for everyone, but it’s a big plus.

I dont have a physical type but it a plus if you’re fit or not too chubby. But definitely not a requirement, but it tends to be what I’m naturally drawn to.

I’m not interested in being put on a pedestal or treated like a fantasy. I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to build something real, where taking care of each other is just part of everyday life. Whether that’s sending good morning texts, reminding each other to slow down, making sure the other has eaten, or simply being a calm, steady presence after a long day, those little moments mean the most to me.

But I have a little reasonable fantasy and it whenever I want to use the sub, he needs to find a bathroom or any private place to serve me(if possible and safe). Imagine a masculine guy having all kinds of excuses to leave. People are wondering where he is going, but only I know this man is hiding in the bathroom to serve his owner. And there is a tiny caged cock between his legs, only I know. This fantasy really turns me on.
Bonus round

If you decide to message me, tell me a little about yourself. What’s something that makes you feel genuinely cared for? What’s your comfort movie, favorite rainy-day activity, or something you’re passionate about? I’d love to get to know the person behind the screen.

If you’ve made it this far, maybe I’ll save you a spot next to me.

I'm looking for a confident but submissive guy aged 18–24 who enjoys showing off and likes following text instructions. The main dynamic is that I send texts and you send pictures and videos; if we click, I may reward you later or do a video call.

Please be willing to send a selfie at the start, and I can show you what I look like in return before we take things to the next level.

What I'm into:

Giving instructions (gentle or rough, as you wish), JOI, CEI (but it's not a requirement)

What you're into:

Following instructions, showing off in pics and videos, being generally submissive.

What I am NOT into:

Roleplay, sissies, sharing personal info (neither you nor me), chastity, furry, or dirty stuff.

What I look like:

I'm 24, with long dark hair and grey-green eyes. I'm slim except where it counts.

What you should look like:

I'm not fussy! I'm just not into long haired or bald guys, or guys who are fat. But any hair colour, skinny and nerdy or fit and muscular, tall or short, hairy body or hairless, I don't mind! You should be willing to show face in SFW pics but I will NOT ask for face in any NSFW pics.

If there’s anything you don’t want to do/show, mention it in your first message. I’m not looking for anything weird, don’t worry! It’s just good to know if you’re not into something basic.

If you’re interested, send me your age and location in your DM! Chat soon!

I'm drawn to true alpha men, but I love taking charge and being in control.

I am looking for a powerful man who willingly surrenders to his Domme after hours. I want a man who takes charge in the boardroom... but knows how to surrender in the bedroom. I’m looking for an intelligent, thoughtful guy who mostly subs in the bedroom. Someone who otherwise enjoys equality in other forms of interaction.

If you're the man everyone answers to at work, but enjoys not making every decision once the workday ends, we'll probably have something to talk about.

I am a sensual Domme seeking a true partnership where we both explore and grow together. I believe that being in control still requires mutual respect, understanding and continuous communication.

YOU:

• Alpha/Masculine (no sissies or trans)
• Age: 40+
• Race: Any
• Have excellent body and anal hygiene, non-smoker 
• Located in Las Vegas or willing to travel

ME:

• Age: 48, Height: 5’7”, Weight: 145lb., 36DD
• Mixed race: Black/Hawaiian, Black hair, Brown eyes.
• Sensual dominant
• Professional
• I enjoy kink privately and sometimes socially

If you're interested, send me a message telling me about yourself and what you are looking for. Include your kinks and if I think we align, I'll accept your message request. Low effort messages will be ignored.

I am a 25‑year‑old dominant woman who is looking for submissive men to own, and I want several of you at once because each of you will receive one specific day of the week to speak with me while staying completely silent on all other days, and that rule is absolute so breaking it means you are dismissed without warning.

My limits are incest, rape, animals, underage, anything that causes serious harm, and low effort, but outside of those boundaries I am open to exploring almost anything as long as we build trust, since I am a caring yet strict owner who enjoys control, rituals, obedience training, and psychological play, and I enjoy watching you improve over time while also enjoying my own pleasure, because you will learn to enjoy serving me and if you are selfish then you are useless to me.

I prefer at least 23, but if you are 18‑22 then your message must be so compelling that I take you serious. Please have toys or be willing to get some because household items do not count even though some may be used.

This post stays up until I find the right people, so do not rush and read every word carefully, and when you write to me you must state your age, gender, location, orientation, and experience, toys, whether you have a lot or none at all just be honest, and then list your kinks, limits, fantasies, and what you dream of in this dynamic, all in clear paragraphs, while also including what you do for fun, what makes you laugh, and one random fact about yourself, because I want to see who you really are and not some bot.

I am looking for someone who craves structure and wants to be owned with safety and meaning, so if that sounds like you then send me a long, thoughtful message that surprises me with your honesty and effort, because that is the only way to earn my attention, and I am waiting for you to prove you are worth my time, so do not disappoint me.

This post is written in English. So your reply should be in English as well. Read to the bottom, answer the questions, talk to you soon!

I know, I know, the heat wave isn't even really over yet and only some of us had a thunderstorm to party in. I know I didn't, and I'm very mad at Zeus for it. But that's not the kind of hot Euro Summer I'm looking for. I want to see beautiful places, swim in beautiful rivers, feel the sweaty skin on skin of making out in an alley in a historic little town I've never gone to. I already do this on my own, pack a bag, pick a direction, see where I end up. How much more fun to dream that up together, and go on our little weekend getaway to explore each other along with the scenery.

Who am I?

Person first, domme second.

Big fan of all things nature. I feed my flock of corvids and watch and worry about them being all good. I disappear into forests and meadows with binoculars and a wild boar ring and a whole lot of hope to find something cool. Most of the time I return with a basket of foraged goodies and new plants to catalogue.

I love making things with my hands. There's just so much joy in creating something. I sew, I cross stitch and embroider, I do some whittling and woodworking and all sorts of crafting.

My taste is a little more dark, earthy and witchy. Some of the things I make are potions, balms, oils, ritual is a part of my life. It grounds me and is my form of self-care and living more and more in tune with the nature around me.

When I'm not outside and being quiet, I'm inside being screamed at. By metalcore bands ideally, but I'll also settle for adjacent genres and drowning in a sea of black hoodies and sweat and people pushing each other around.

I care about the world I live in and the part I play and am curious about everything. I like to stay informed about politics, societal issues, and any rabbit holes I fall into.

The kinky me:

On the kinky side of things, I'm very much a gentle domme. I care about safety and sensuality, I'm nurturing and come into this space with a whole lot of empathy. I love creating atmosphere that works for both of us and isn't just a stereotypical something.

My interest in all things ritual also extends into the kinky space and can take all sorts of shapes and forms.

Reciprocity matters to me a lot. We read "kink dispenser" on here a lot, that's not what I am and I don't expect you to be that either. It's important for me to ensure that you're good at all times and I expect you to do the same, inside and outside of scenes.

Overall, the non-kinky me flavours the kinky me a lot. I am a whole human being with lots of dimensions and I want all of me to be included in my sex life.

Who am I looking for?

A submissive man somewhere in Europe, between 28 and 43 years old. Yes, these requirements are firm. No, I won't make an exception for you.

Someone who's curious, passionate, playful and flirty. Who likes to talk, has a life, has interests he's invested in and wants to teach me about (or get excited together if our interests overlap!). It's so important to me to meet a fellow human being, someone I can respect as a person, and not someone who comes at me dick-first with no thoughts other than "how can I best type with only one hand?"

This connection matters much more to me than any sort of kink match. Submission to me shouldn't be performed, it should be earned and both of us should feel good about it. Submission given by someone I don't connect with, who I don't respect, doesn't do anything for me.

So how do you approach me?

I'm in Germany, near-ish Frankfurt am Main. You're somewhere else in Europe. Tell me where we'd meet up for our hot euro summer. Meet in the middle somewhere? Do a little detour elsewhere? What are we doing? What are we seeing? What are we eating? Whatever your plan includes, tell me all about it (and include your age and location so I can make sure you fall within my parameters).

The summer is just getting started, let's make it memorable!

I'd appreciate it, if you took your time to read my whole ad, before sending me a message. That way, we both don’t waste our time. Thanks!

Helloo! I am a 23 year old polish female located in Bournemouth, UK.

A little bit about me outside of femdom:
I am a quite introverted person, who opens up once I'm comfortable with people. In terms of interests and hobbies, I enjoy listening to music, colouring, reading, dancing and playing video games (would be amazing to play something together, especially the latest Mortal Kombat game, Dead By Daylight or Fortnite, as that's my current fixation.) I also absolutely loveeee cats, so if you own one, please spam me with photos and include them in your application for extra points :)

What do I look like:
I have dark blonde hair that is a little bit past my waist, green eyes, wear glasses, have a couple tattoos and an average body with curves in the right places. You may see a picture of me if you wish (not my face though for the time being), although, there should be some on my profile.

What I am looking for:
Ideally, I'd like to have someone I can call my subby friend. I'm not interested in any 24/7, slave or mommy dynamics, so if that's what you're after, I'm not the right person for you. I like to take things slowly, and get to know each other and see what happens. Would be great if you were a person that knows how to communicate properly. I am more than happy to chat about everyday things, as well as discuss more NSFW topics. If we get along, we could even have some play sessions from time to time. If possible, I would also appreciate some light spoiling from your side, however it's not a must. Currently, looking for something online, however I'm open to the idea of IRL with the right person if we do establish a good connection inside and outside of femdom, especially because emotional connection is important to me. Would absolutely love a personal simpy dog if I'm honest, someone to make my life is a little bit more easier, enjoyable and interesting :)

Bonus points if you are located in the UK (Bournemouth or nearby especially) or Poland :)

If what I wrote here has sparked your interest, or you have any questions, please send me a message on here with a nice detailed description of who you are, please include:

- your name, age and where you are from (UK/Europe/Canada/Australia/NZ/USA only)

- your kinks and interests (sfw and nsfw)

- photo of yourself (no need for face but it's appreciated, shirtless body photo will be enough)

- why you decided to message me

- anything else you want to add

Please actually send a proper introduction message :)

Thank you for reading, Miss Milly x

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This is 18+ only.

I did not become dominant by accident. Growing up, I knew what it felt like to be overlooked, underestimated, and treated like I didn't matter. Over time, I found confidence in myself and learned that I genuinely enjoy taking the lead, setting expectations, and bringing out the best in people who trust me.

When I'm not exploring dynamics, I'm usually outdoors, gaming, or enjoying a bit of peace and quiet. I'm short and petite, which often catches people off guard because my personality is much more confident and assertive than people expect.

I'm looking for a very particular type of connection.

I tend to be most attracted to men who take pride in themselves and their appearance. Someone athletic, fit, and comfortable in their own skin. Confidence is incredibly attractive to me, especially when it comes with a little eagerness and a willingness to be noticed.

One of the things I enjoy most is presentation. I love people who enjoy putting their best foot forward, who don't mind a little attention, and who appreciate being admired for the effort they put into themselves. There is something very appealing about someone who enjoys showing up confidently and letting their personality and appearance speak for themselves.

For me, dominance is less about being intimidating and more about creating a dynamic built on trust, communication, attention, and mutual enjoyment. I enjoy getting to know people, encouraging them, challenging them, and seeing their confidence grow over time.

This relationship is a pseudo one-way path where the sub desperately shows off and flexes for me while begging for my attention so that they feel cheap and slutty.

Requirements:

• 18+ only

• Athletic and physically fit

• Comfortable sharing recent photos showing yourselves and introducing yourself

• Able to communicate openly

• Interested in a dynamic that involves structure, attention, and accountability

• Kind, respectful, and emotionally mature

What you can expect:

• Clear communication

• Genuine attention and interest

• High standards balanced with encouragement

• A dynamic where confidence, discipline, and presentation are appreciated.

Application:

A recent selfie

A full body photo

Your age and time zone

A short introduction about yourself

(Eg name location race religion age what you do and so on)

Your kinks and interests

The code word "stud boy"

The more effort you put into your introduction, the more likely I am to respond. I'm looking for people who are excited to introduce themselves and let their personality shine.

I look forward to meeting you.

hey, you ever dreamt about having a switchy dom who encourages you to rack up your body count to triple digits? but with other guys? 'cause that dom is me. i love forced bi and wanna encourage you to slut yourself out for my enjoyment. you can also watch me get fucked by other men while you're tied up to a chair with your hands bound, legs spread wide open and helplessly watch as i take load after load after load. but hey, dont worry, you're next and ill be there to clean your pretty hole up after i fuck you with my 8" strap.

here's a list of my favorite kinks: chastity, crossdressing, petplay, painplay, gangbangs, bondage, CNC, forced bi, sissy hypnosis, pegging, watersports, cucking, facesitting, rimming, impact play, edging, intox, chemsex (non-negotiable), somno, post orgasm tort, gender play (calling your asshole a pussy and your dick a clit), using you as my ashtray, and more!

gotta admit, i got a type and its hung, masculine guys who id call community dick. so, pleaseee DM me if that's you. yall are my favorite <333 im a virgin tho, so totally understandable if that's a dealbreaker

please be a SWITCH, within my age range (22 to 28|AND YES anything under and over is a dealbreaker for me) and be single. i dont fw actual cheating :T and dear god, no scat, ABDL and anything illegal. low effort DMs and DMs without ages won't be entertained. dont be clingy too please 😭😭😭 im not looking for something serious