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19 [F4R] #US #Online - Sweet & Experimental Mommy Domme Specially For You

I feel like a salesperson with that title, but I digress. I gotta put myself out there somehow. Anyway, hi sweet baby! How are you? I'll go ahead and start with the sexual stuff, and then I'll write a little more about me if you're interested.

✅️ Kinks:

* Temperature play

* Toys

* Lingerie

* Mommy kink (Mommy, mamita, mami, mama, ugh.. I want it all.)

* Anal

* Pegging

* Semi-Public play

* Watersports

* Squirting

* Fingering

* Cunnilingus

* Restraints

* Overstimulation

* Marking (hickeys, lipstick kisses, body writing..)

* Scent kink

* Somnophilia

* Spanking

* Nipple play

* Blowjobs

* Handjobs

* Praise

* Hair pulling

Note: I actually haven't tried a lot of these things, but I'm about 85% sure I like 'em. The only ones I've tried (and know I like) are temperature play, anal, toys, and fingering. Which, I did all those solo.

💫 Want to try:

* Electrostimulation

* Bruising (would give, but want to receive)

* Scratching

Note: These are the kinks I want to try, but I'm not sure I'll like. Also, I want to place emphasis on the receiving part of the bruising. That one is complicated. If I were to explain, it would become the entire post. Please bear with me. Admittedly, there is some stuff that should go on this list but may seem extreme. I don't want to scare anyone away!

🚫 Limits:

* Vomit

* Blackmail

* Anything illegal

* Being dominated

💬 My personality/dom style:

* Despite how it may seem, I'm a very loving lady! Seriously, I don't really bite. I may put my foot down or be mean if I have to, but that's only if I'm pushed. I try to be friendly with everyone and am usually quiet in person. Like... you probably wouldn't imagine I'm dominant.

* I'm independent. I often do things alone. I also enjoy providing for myself and others.

* Switching gears a little. I'm a pleasure dom. What matters to me is your pleasure and making you feel good.

* I'm big into BDSM. I love learning about other people's kinks/limits/fantasies and why they have them. I love learning about the different dynamics and how things vary between people.

* I can give AND take. If you ever want to try being on top, you're more than welcome. However, I will not be dominated. If you understand? Like, you can hurt me. However, I want you to call me mommy while you do it. Maybe even guide you while you experiment. As long as I hold the reins, I'm okay.

👥️ If you're with me (what to expect):

* You will be respected! Point blank, period. If you don't want to do something, we're not doing it. If you say stop, I'm stopping (unless consent for a specific scene is explicitly given). You will be recognized as a person and my angel baby. No less.

* Praise is my middle name. You will be praised to high heaven, and probably be called every nick name you can think of.

* I'm inexperienced, so you'll have to be patient with me. I may stutter or hesitate, but don't worry. I can learn quickly.

* Overall, I want you to have fun! This doesn't always have to be hot and heavy. I'm easy-going and will always give you space to breathe.

💞 What I'm looking for:

* I would like for the mommy dynamic to be practiced outside of sexual things, too. Nothing gets my heart melting like someone calling me mommy just because they enjoy it/me. (Oh my gosh, someone whispering it to me in public. ♡♡)Of course, you can always call me by my name if something is serious or if you're tryna rile me up.

* I want to nurture you! Let me scratch your back while you fall asleep in my arms. Let me buy you your favorite snacks! I just want you to feel loved and safe.

* There is no age or gender requirement. As long as you're interested, you can talk to me. What can I say? I ain't picky!

* I will say that I've had a particular interest in women lately, but they make me a little nervous. Still, all women are welcome.

🎀 Appearance:

* Medium length brown hair with undercut

* Glasses

* Big chest

* Chubby (I am losing weight and gaining muscle, though!)

* Lots of scars

🎮 Hobbies:

* Gaming

* Listening to music

* Baking

* Cooking

* Art

* Fragrance

Anyway, thank you for reading my post! Genuinely, it means a lot. If I'm not who you're looking for, I hope you find someone you gel with. If you have questions, let me know. Have an amazing day, pumpkin! ♡

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u/Hardcore-Starfucker — 1 day ago

20 [F4M] #Online #California young Domme looking for fit athletic sub

I’m a 20 year old, half Latina/half Asian Domme looking to find a sub online. In my free time I like to exercise, listen to music, watch tv shows and movies, and I recently started getting into gaming.

My kinks are JOI, spitting, slapping, anal play, dildos, watersports, facials, public play and CEI.

My limits are scat, blood, vomit, and other extreme stuff.

I do NOT want payment or tribute of any kind – just your total submission and ownership.

My ideal sub is an 18-29 year old, avid gym-going, super muscly, ripped with a visible 6 pack, and completely obedient. Someone who basically lives at the gym and probably played sports all throughout school. It’s so sweet and sexy having a sub be so willing and eager to do anything I ask. Our dynamic will mostly be online. I want you to show off on cam for me and follow orders.

When sending a DM please include:

  1. Age, Height, Location.

  2. Your kinks and limits.

  3. Shirtless pic.

If the above information is not included, your messages will be ignored..sorry!

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u/lil_shymia — 1 day ago

24 [F4M] Looking for subs #online

Experienced mistress is looking for male subs, age 19 or over. Interested and open to any experience level, but do appreciate obedience.

I’d like to hear your kinks, if you’ve been a sub before and what you would like to do. I want to help build a realm where there’s comfort,and you’re enjoying yourself, lifting the load off of your shoulders and focusing solely on me and my direction.

I DO enjoy JOI, Edging, Denial, Light CBT, CEI amongst other things.

I DO NOT enjoy nor participate with: Findom, Chastity or Feminization.

I’d also like to know more about you, of course what you are comfortable providing whether that be nickname or first name, if you like sports, gaming. Whatever, it’s fun to know you. I enjoy a long term dynamic for the right subs and knowing more about you and doing get readies is fun for me outside of the normal session.

If you are somebody who likes to be rewarded when good, not looking for a fin dom, nor someone who will cage you I may be a good fit.

Looking for subs who are willing to give full attention I would look forward to seeing if we are a fit. It’s important that you are ready and comfortable enough to become a sub.

I typically am a soft domme, but that does change and I like to play with the dynamic. I do expect someone that is willing to show off and I do reward as you earn.

I am open to and do enjoy helping with outfits, your get readies and things to that extent depending on if that is something you enjoy.

Feel free to message and we can see if we are a fit.

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u/MistressDream7 — 3 days ago

39 [T4M] Trans FemDom seeking openly bi sub/switch for something real: dates, relationship or even FLR #baltimore #dc #usa

PLEASE! SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY!

- I want someone who is OPENLY bi/pan/queer and experienced with people other than cis women.
- If you’re just looking to get off? Don’t message me.
- If you can’t communicate like an adult? Don’t message me.
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Hiiiiiii! I’m a Trans Non-Binary Baddie and Femme Domme. I’ve been told I’m a bi/pan guy’s dreams with how I mix femme & a bit of masc together.

Fairly open to many types of connections. Ideally I would love a relationship/life companion but I’m not forcing it. Until then I’d love a fuck buddy or FWB.

I am in Maryland but I can travel within a couple hours. Very willing to relocate if this turns into an exclusive relationship

Ideal Guy:

Ambitious, passionate, loving, kinky, well-traveled.
OPENLY Pansexual or Bisexual or Queer etc.
Extra points if you're goofy and can hike a national park during the day and then get fancy for an opening night gala in the evening. I do have a thing for skinny/scrawny hairy guys but I’m not gonna turn down any handsome guy. No hangups on race or height. Love tattoos and love body hair.

In the bedroom:

Service and Task-Oriented Pleasure Domme who can definitely get into BDSM/Pain if a sub likes it. My top 3 kinks are giving orders/naked tasks, feminizing and my body being worshipped. Also been really getting into collar/leash, impact play and bdsm. But I am into a lot more than just that. 10% of the time I love mutual sensual body touch sexy time and cuddles and kissing. I don’t do anal until I fully trust someone. My favorite reward is eating ass with my magic tongue. I love deep life chats with cuddles & kisses as after care. I am into a LOT and probably wouldn’t do well with someone who was only into being one thing in the bedroom.

Also I do dream of a part time FLR but that’s not necessary.

Vanilla life

I love anything artsy: museums, dance, theatre, films. Love traveling to new cities, nature, hiking, national parks. Board games and DnD. Huge foodie and love trying new restaurants. Also love quiet movie nights in with cuddles. My music taste is mostly indie rock with some pop and musicals.

DMs are open!

Please start with a real introduction of yourself including age, location, and more.

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u/MasterpieceNearby198 — 3 days ago

25 [F4M] #NJ #NYC #NewYorkCity #LTR #mommydomme

Hello my good boy :) I’m currently in the NYC/NJ area in search of a good boy to call my own 🖤 I would love to find someone who is into this lifestyle and who genuinely wants to build a solid connection with me built on love, trust, connection, and chemistry. Location is important since I want to be able to have that in person connection with my person and comfort each other after a long day or in your weak moments. Ideally, I would want someone located in NYC, but NJ could work too if it’s not too far. If you are a good boy who is caring, respectful, sweet, loving, attentive, dedicated, responsible, funny, and nerdy, come my way ❤️‍🔥 I am looking to build a connection and grow that overtime in person and over the phone.

Appearance wise, I am on the shorter side at 5’2, but I have a lot of power ;) I workout sometimes and have an active job so my body type is very curvy/voluptuous with stronger toned arms and legs. I have long dark brown hair with blunt cut bangs and dark brown eyes with pale skin. There’s a few tattoos on my arms and fingers too, but I would love more :) I’m more than happy to send a picture of myself if you are interested.

I think the way you look at love is very important and I would want my person to match me on that level. I’m a veryyy big hopeless romantic at heart and I’ve always enjoyed the little things in life, but it’s much more beautiful when you can experience that with someone else. Being in touch with your emotions and being able to say what you feel is a big plus in my book. If you have hard days where you don’t know what to say or don’t know how to feel, I will be there for you and I will do everything in my power to lift you up and let you know that you are so loved and safe. Those things come naturally to me since I am a caregiver at heart and I am always looking out for the people I love. I am very protective and territorial at times of the people I love most. I love taking care of people, but I also love being taken care of, and I would expect nothing less from my partner. Being caring and empathetic scores you big points in my book. If I’ve had a hard or long day, I want to know that you will be there for me to worship, serve, please, and comfort me as I need. I can handle a little fun brattiness, but constant brattiness will not click with me. I need someone who can handle their day to day life/job and can be fully responsible and in charge when away from me. If you can be a provider in our day to day life and then surrender to me behind closed doors, that would be my dream 🖤

I would also love to know what makes you YOU outside of this lifestyle/dynamic. What makes you happy, sad, your favorite movies, favorite foods, favorite hobbies? I want to know them all. Some things I enjoy doing for fun are playing with my cats, video games, baking, cooking, checking out vintage/classic cars, going to techno and house shows/music festivals, watching horror movies, designing jewelry, designing clothing, fashion styling, and interior design. Also, what aspects of this dynamic do you enjoy the most? I want to know what captivate you most about this type of dynamic and what things you want to explore. These are all things I’d love to know about you so if you feel like this resonates with you or inspires you to take a chance at love, please send me a message :) I would get into kinks and all of that here, but I think that’s better to do one on one in private. Often times a domme can be overlooked or seen just as a kink dispenser, and I am looking for something A LOT more than that. If you are not in touch with your emotions or are only looking to get pleasure for yourself out of this, please don’t even think about wasting my time. there is so much more I could put in this message, but I will save that for the one on one talk haha. Thank you for being such a good boy and reading till the end of this message xoxo ❤️‍🔥

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u/Interesting_Cat9808 — 3 days ago

29 [F4R] #California #OrangeCounty - Well rounded Domme looking for a long term sub (or two) for dating and Domme friends!

In person only! Online isn’t my thing. Only message me if you’re in OC, SD, and LA! 

Do not message me if you don't have the time, energy, or emotional bandwidth to get involved in a dynamic. People who know what they want are sexy. I don't want to spend weeks talking only to end up with someone telling me they aren't capable of sustaining a dynamic. I understand if there's no attraction, but that is very different from knowing you can't give a dynamic/relationship what it requires.

I’m A, a Domme located in sunny SoCal! I have many names and titles, some which are relevant and some which may not be. Trying this again because apparently I like to torture myself through this process, HA!

Let me address the friends part - I would love to make friends with fellow Dommes or Domme leaning switches. I don’t have enough friends who are like that and would love more of that energy in my life. I’m very much someone who places importance on friendships. I imagine this would be the same as any of my friendships except we happen to talk about dynamics a lot more. So please Domme friends, feel free to message! 

Let me list some important things about me that I feel any friend or sub (especially a long term one) should know and share in:

  • CHILDFREE - I am never having kids. I am not interested in kids. I do not like talking about kids. If that’s important to you, I suggest you look elsewhere.
  • LEFTIST - I do not lean right nor center at all. I do not get along well with people who don’t share the same ethics and values as I do. If you’re going to message me just to complain about this I will avidly use the block button.
  • POLYAMOROUS - I am not monogamous. You should and can assume I will be involved with other people, sexually and romantically. I currently have one comet partner. I also will not help you cheat if you're in a monogamous relationship.
  • HONESTY and COMMUNICATION - I am not someone who is honest to be cruel. I do so with the intention to facilitate open communication, which is important. I am honest about my concerns and worries in a dynamic/relationship/friendship and about my STI results (I get tested on a quarterly basis).

I’ll give my kinks in a short list because I do not want to focus on that, as a main concern for me would be getting to know you as a person outside of kink. However, I recognize the importance in making sure that I have kinks in common with a sub of mine. If we have any in common, let me know, but I don’t want to hear much more about that except for any boundaries you have.

  • Praise
  • Worship
  • Degradation
  • Spanking
  • Pegging
  • Edging and denial
  • Sensory deprivation 
  • Bondage and restraint 
  • Wax play
  • Cucking (I do not primarily want a cuck but enjoy this as an aspect)
  • Free use
  • Group play

Not into bathroom play, knife play, age play/being someone's Mommy, diapers, or sissification.

I am hoping for a sub I can see long term and who I can at least get along with as a friend. Friendship is the baseline. I would love to date as I am ready for that, and that’s my main intention. If you just want a bedroom partner I’m not the one for you. I need to get to know you as a regular person. Which is a great segue into telling you about me! 

But let me start off with my usual spiel: resident chaotic wee devil with a penchant for whatever captures my mind and my hands, and a deep love of shiny things (I may be part crow). If you give me a rock or knick-knack of some kind, there's a high chance I’ll put that on my desk to fidget with while gaming. 

  • I’m not really a homebody. I like to be outside when I can, whatever activity it’s for. For me when I’m not working, the day is meant to be spent outside the house and then at night, hop into PJs and enjoy my evenings. My motto is get out during the day, and enjoy a cozy night in. 
  • I’m not a world class athlete, but I enjoy physical activity as it helps me manage stress and makes me feel good. I primarily do indoor climbing, yoga, and weightlifting. I love swimming, which I need to get into again. I also would love to get back into aerial silks and pole dancing! It’s fun to have someone along for exercising for support and accountability. I also do enjoy hiking but don’t like to go super fast. I go at a steady pace, but prefer to enjoy the views as I go along. I call myself a Hobbit hiker!
  • I love TTRPGs. I started out playing 5e only but now claim Pathfinder 2e as the superior system. I dislike Dungeon World though, it’s a drag for me. I’m always happy to try other systems. I’d say this is probably my favorite special interest. I do love my clicky clacky math rocks and am always happy when I get those as a gift. I’m in one group at the moment (5e). I love hearing about other people’s campaigns and their character builds. Like yes I’m not being sarcastic when I say I want to hear every detail about what shenanigans your party is getting into! 
  • I love reading, oh that’s probably my hobby I’m most known for. I read a lot on my Kindle, especially since I found out that I can read books I check out from Libby on there. I like to mix in genres and complexity, as I like to challenge myself and my critical analysis skills, but also like books for when I want to make it easier for my brain. I don’t buy books as often anymore, mainly because I don’t have space. In addition, I only buy books that have re-read value for me, so that helps the wallet. Most of the fiction books I have on my shelves I’ve read at least once. Non-fiction is another question, it really depends on the subject of the book. Talk bookish to me!
  • I play piano and have for a long time now. It’s something I like to do for purely my own personal enjoyment and to keep my mind active. I take lessons on a regular basis, and enjoy learning a variety of pieces. I like to learn classical, modern songs, Disney music. I bring several options to my teacher, we test some out, and I pick whatever vibe I’m feeling. If you play instruments, tell me what piece you’ve been learning.
  • Video games are something I’ve gotten more into over time, ever since I finally got a gaming PC. Let me tell y’all, not worrying about my computer crashing or graphics has been such a nice change. I did get my gaming PC mainly because I wanted to play BG3, which, speaking of, would love to be able to do an evil/neutral run with a partner. 
  • I’ve got multiple tattoos, with plans to get more. I’m thinking my next one will be a raccoon launching a fireball or Andúril. I’m a big fan of color tattoos that are fantasy related. If you’ve got ink, I definitely want to hear about it! And if you know tattoo artists in SoCal who do watercolor or realistic tattoos, I definitely need recommendations. 
  • I’m 5’3, Middle Eastern (so brown hair and eyes, tan), curvy, and sarcastic at times. Can also be funny but that depends if we have the same type of humor!

 

Sub wise, be at least 21; I'm looking for those who are emotionally and mentally mature so I lean towards subs who are closer to my age or older. I don't have time to lead someone through whether or not being a sub is for them. Be sure of who you are, I am. If you already have a romantic partner do mention that. Again, I’m not here to help anyone cheat! I prefer to be parallel poly, meaning I don’t want to hear much about your partner(s) beyond some exceptions. An ideal sub would be in OC but I am also open to LA and SD. Nowhere beyond those though! 

Feel free to send a chat if anything resonates with you! Mention your age, where you are located, kinks we have in common, and other regular info about yourself like I’ve mentioned here! I’m happy to verify in chat if you’d like. I do like to see what people look like early on. But SFW pics only!

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u/WallaceTheChicken — 4 days ago

34 [F4M] | #Europe #Online | Domme seeking longterm male submissive

I’m looking for a male submissive for an online dynamic with real consistency behind it. Daily conversation is the goal. I’m not interested in calls, camming, romance, or collecting random attention. I want someone I can get to know, enjoy, tease, challenge, and gradually build a dynamic with.

I’m demisexual by nature, so chemistry does not appear just because someone calls me Mistress five minutes into a conversation. I need to like you as a person first. I enjoy people with an actual mind of their own: good conversation, opinions, curiosity, humour, interesting interests, the occasional late night rabbit hole. Submission is much more appealing to me when there is a real person behind it.

I’m strict, but not cold. I like a little flirtation, tension, playful control, and seeing someone unravel because they trust me enough to let me lead. Kink-wise, I’m fairly open and prefer talking through specifics together rather than posting a giant checklist. That said, orgasm control, edging, anal play, and sharing photos or videos are things you should be comfortable exploring within clear, mutually agreed boundaries.

I expect you to be able to say what you want, what you do not want, and to follow through on what you agree to. Experience matters far less than self-awareness, emotional maturity, and a genuine desire to serve rather than chase a fantasy for a week and disappear.

A little about me: I’m based in Germany, work full-time and I’m more of a quiet, homebody type than someone who is constantly out socialising. I like books, games, anime, thoughtful conversations, dry humour and people who can get genuinely enthusiastic about the things they care about. I can be affectionate and playful once I like someone, but I’m also direct, particular, and not especially interested in performative submissiveness.
I’m autistic and can be a little reclusive at times, so I appreciate someone who does not need constant reassurance or drama to feel secure. I value consistency, intelligence, curiosity, and someone who can make me laugh. I’m strict when it matters, flirty when the mood is right, and I enjoy getting to know what makes someone tick before deciding how much access they get to me.

Please be 25–40 and, obviously, 18+. And be based in Europe, for time-zone reasons. Introduce yourself properly. Tell me who you are, what draws you to submission, what kind of dynamic you are hoping for, your experience level, and who you are outside of kink.

Put some effort into your message. Give me a reason to be interested.

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u/Leothyna — 4 days ago

31 [F4M] #Online Looking for longterm

Hey there. I’m a woman looking for a strictly online/texting connection with a submissive man who is highly attentive and looking to chat regularly.

I really value someone who wants to talk to me, is a little needy for attention themselves, and enjoys fun, playful banter. I want a dynamic where we can have a great conversation, share a laugh, and explore a sweet, attentive subby/Domme dynamic without any pressure for real-life meetups.

Please be someone who can actually hold a conversation and enjoys giving a lot of focus to the person they are talking to.

I’d love to have deeper discussion on what you like, why you like it, and fantasizes you have. And vise versa. Also, I want someone I can have real conversations with about life and current goals, etc. I’d love to get to know you and be known and make friends.

My kink list includes: Orgasm control, edging, games, tasks, domestic service, service in general, and communication lol.
Limits: Humiliation, degradation, feminization, anything bathroom related or illegal.

Outside of kink: I have a 2 year old dog (ask me about her!), I love hiking, being outdoors, reading, watching TV or movies, doing crosswords haha, spending time with friends and family, and traveling. What are some of your hobbies?

I’ve had 2 long term dynamics from individuals I met through this subreddit and have had a lot of fun. I am hoping for something a little more casual from this, but I’m open to getting to know someone and seeing where it goes.

*I am from Central Time Zone and wanting someone who is close to that so that we are able to stay connected. Looking for 26+ ages!

To prove you read this whole post, please message me with your favorite hobby!

Thanks for reading!

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u/Strong_002 — 6 days ago

24 [F4M] Looking for a guy who enjoys following instructions #online

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I'm looking for a confident but submissive guy aged 18–24 who enjoys showing off and likes following text instructions. The main dynamic is that I send texts and you send pictures and videos; if we click, I may reward you later or do a video call.

Please be willing to send a selfie at the start, and I can show you what I look like in return before we take things to the next level.

What I'm into:

Giving instructions (gentle or rough, as you wish), JOI, CEI (but it's not a requirement)

What you're into:

Following instructions, showing off in pics and videos, being generally submissive.

What I am NOT into:

Roleplay, sissies, sharing personal info (neither you nor me), chastity, furry, or dirty stuff.

What I look like:

I'm 24, with long dark hair and grey-green eyes. I'm slim except where it counts.

What you should look like:

I'm not fussy! I'm just not into long haired or bald guys, or guys who are fat. But any hair colour, skinny and nerdy or fit and muscular, tall or short, hairy body or hairless, I don't mind! You should be willing to show face in SFW pics but I will NOT ask for face in any NSFW pics.

If there’s anything you don’t want to do/show, mention it in your first message. I’m not looking for anything weird, don’t worry! It’s just good to know if you’re not into something basic.

If you’re interested, send me your age and location in your DM! Chat soon!

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u/FriendshipOk7636 — 6 days ago

24 [F4A] #TheNetherlands #Online - Trans Femdom ♀️ Mistress looking for someone to own (or just use more probably) ❤🌸 Updated Information🌸❤❤️🌸

Hey there guys 🌸🌸🌸🌸

I am a femme presenting trans woman ♀️ and I am looking for a person to use/own (depending on how things go. Just being used is much more likely) ! DO NOT reach out if you aren't progressive and would actually be with a trans person. If you are super Conservative, please stay away ❌️❌️❌️❌️

(IF you are wondering why you regualrly see me post there are a couple reasons. I always try to have a look at the "market" and see if there are any high potential slaves. Those are one in a million. Adding a slave to my collection is always something ill make time for. Met some great slaves through here. Addicted to meeting the best of the best hahahah. It may lead to nothing, but shoot your shot. Just for some context, through these posts, I've met slaves who I have now owned for several years. If you applied and i stopped corresponding, sorry! Could have been I got interested in someone else, could been I got too busy. I will try my best to respond. You can double text, I will try my best to let you know if I am disinterested)

just for clarification on a couple of things:

I am not a findom, I do not require money 🚫

I am quite extreme ⛓⛓, so if you are a novice it is perhaps unwise to begin with me! It's cool if you don't have a lot of experience, but just be aware of my more "extreme" side hahah. Everything is ofcourse consensual, but good to keep the relativity of "extreme" in mind

I am currently in The Netherlands 🇳🇱 so European slaves are preferred due to time difference issues!

people of all gender expressions can hit me up, BUT I prefer Trans and Non-Binary people. they will be given preference! Your gender expression does not matter to me, femme or masc, I just prefer the connection and guidance I can give to another trans person

For SFW hobbies, I love video games. All kinds, and been super into Mewgenics recently. I love big fantasy books 📖, like the works of Sanderson. Makeup 💋 and fashion are also really fun. if its super nerdy, I will most likely be into it hahahah

Kink wise I am quite extreme, I am very sadistic, and I like humiliation. my only limits are scat, and illegal stuff 🚫. If you do not enjoy the sexual side, this will not work unfortunately! for a small taste of kinks: sounding 🎣, extreme duration chastity , fisting👊, golden showers, humiliation etc etc. For me the psychological control is the main allure. I do not involve outside parties, it is just about you. You shall have to be serious for this to work

I admire intelligence and an innate submissive spirit. I am fairly open, and dont have too many prefrences for what someone looks like! I usually prefer skinny slaves just being transparent, but that is in no way a hard rule, as I've loved some of my curvy subs over the years. I will be very transparent if I am not attracted to you, but please don't take this personally

19 - 34 is a hard rule.

PS. 🌸🌸🌸 I am very very picky about response times. I expect quick replies. if you are a bad texter, it won't work between us! LIKE FR. if you don't respond well, I will not reciprocate 😭😭

if you've read everything, message me what your number 1 county to visit is 💋

MANDATORY: a picture of you when you apply to be used/owned by me is required❤ a normal clothed picture is completely fine, just need to see you! I know reddit makes that a tad difficult now unfortunately. Imgur may be a good solution for that. You could also share a link to a google drive photo of yourself. figure it out yourself! I really appreciate effort, so if you do wish to be owned by me, tell me about yourself, give me an indepth application! be creative! stand out from the other subs! 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸.

New information: in your application kindly make sure you mention a time difference if possible. I have expanded my age range to include, slightly older individuals. Subs from broader time zones are now also eligible to be considered (this still depends however). Very important notice. I do not share, and I am not a homeworker. I do not accept people who are Conservative or generally do not believe in progressive ideals. I try my best to respond to everyone, due to the volume of responses and reddit shenanigans sometimes a message is lost. IF and ONLY IF you have put in a lot of effort, write a comment down below so I make sure I see you!

🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 Please be serious I beg 😭😭. Don't interact with this otherwise🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 IF you didn't receive a response from me, I'm almost certain you didn't attach an image as commanded to! I will not accept the message to let you do so. If you have seen my post before it could mean two things, I used someone, was satisfied and am looking for something casual again. I do also pit out feelers constantly to potentially start a long term project but I am extremely picky so like to repost regularly. Hope that clears it up if you were wondering

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u/Snoo82881 — 6 days ago

29 [F4M] #NY/Online Who wants to be a good boy?

Hi! I have a history of higher education and love research, so I like to think I’m the smartest person in the room a lot of the time but frankly there’s no actual promise that’s true 😭

A lot of my time is split between reading books, tending my garden, and playing with my dogs, but I also game from time to time, and I like to think I’m good at it! I recently picked up more killteam rather than playing big warhammer, and so I’ve been painting non-stop lately 😅

Honestly in D/S dynamics what I enjoy most, regardless of the actual kinks, is the vulnerability of a guy giving up some of those experiences to me. To elaborate on specific kinks I will toss out some favorites so you know if there’s any common ground; Petplay, anal, bondage, orgasm control, and some impact play. Also, collars. Love a guy in a collar more than anything else, it just tickles a part of my brain.

As for what I’d love to have in a potential sub: obedience obviously, I prefer guys that present a bit more outwardly masculine but my tastes physically are v flexible, and someone I feel mentally stimulated talking to, so probably someone educated? I’d also like someone interested in chatting as people as well as into the kink. Also +10 points if you whimper!

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u/Throwaway999789 — 6 days ago

24 [F4M] #socal #cali looking for a subby to worhsip my curves

Hello, i am Baylou. I have curves that will bring you to your knees and skin kissed by the sun. I am a wave seeker , forest fairy, and i dedicate my life to abundance. From the west coast , lived in the south west and i love visiting the east coast. I studied dance when i was younger , also was an athlete. I still find new hobbies to keep me active so i can enjoy this life filled with higher horizons.

I started as a tantra practitioner who found joy in sensual domination. Tantra taught me how to use my allure to demonstrate goddess energy. i was introduced a few years ago, and that’s all i have an appetite for . i have a hard time having orgasms outside of being worshipped . The mindset has to be you yearning for my sensuality. The beauty , the presence , the guidance of a woman.

I’m an artist with deep appreciation for many art forms . I am very passionate about music , poetry, fashion, photography, creative directing , etc.I enjoy vintage goth & 90s goth fashion. I love 50/60s betty paige type glam, or a goth marilyn-esque vibe . sometimes , I cosplay as strong female video game or anime characters . Belly dancing and other feminine ways of movement has been apart of my life for 4 years now . Sometimes i want to dance , sometimes i want to role play, or have a trading session. It depends on the day :) This comes to play when i have private times with a lucky boy. I do this for my own fantasy . I like to showcase the seductive siren .

I enjoy sensual teasing. i am not a person who’s very aggressive . I see my experiences as tantric sermons. . I want you to worship the fabric of my clothes , the smell of skin , and the allure of my eyes .

I focus on creating unique experiences that we both won’t forget. when i decide to allow a sub in my presence, you will tremble thinking of me afterwards . I don’t do lack luster encounters with my subs .

My goal is to build a great foundation and loyalty. This is all about creating an amazing bond based a deep appreciation for me as the goddess i am. It should be a lifestyle , not forced .

Worship should be your priority when it pertains to approaching me. I am open to other things but it has to be in the whelm of submissiveness , not deviancy.

I usually have better times with gentlemen who do want to seek a mental connection. Someone who sees me as human with complexity. if you don’t know how to control your lust, we won’t have a great foundation .

I am open to genuine long term bonds if the person is stable , secure , respectful and truly a devoted sub . I can tell the difference .

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u/Bayluvs2bspoiled — 7 days ago

34 [F4M] #UK #Online Your Friendly Neighborhood Siren is Feeling More Vampy These Days

Heyo sailors, it's me again. I got tons of lovely high effort responses to my last ad, had some great conversations, and even reconnected with some lovely subs from my past, so I thought I'd cast my net in these waters once more.

My past post, if you need a refresher:

https://www.reddit.com/r/femdompersonals/s/evd3JPcDQo

I've hung up my siren talons (I'm more of a half bird lady siren type rather than the mermaid tail type) and have embarked on my vampiress era. By that I mean the following:

  • I require explicit invitation and consent for moving forward with someone.

  • I am pale and averse to the sun.

  • I would look hot in a goth-coded dress flitting around a beautiful castle.

  • I am highly likely to bite.

  • If you bury me in a coffin full of sand, I will not be able to rise and wreak havoc on your village.

If you responded to my previous ad and are still on the market, please feel free to get in touch again! I got roughly 300+ responses to that ad so I know some very nice responses slipped through the cracks. I absolutely appreciated the effort everyone made, but there was just no way I could strike up that many conversations, I hope you understand.

This time around, I'll throw in some information that may help you determine if we are not going to be a good match. Here's a list of things that are NOT compatible with me:

  • under 20 years old

  • over 40 years old

  • age regression kinks

  • furry or animal related kinks

  • not willing to show me your face after a reasonable amout of chatting

  • people who want to be childfree

  • cigarette smokers

  • big time stoners (occasional 420 is alright)

If you're still with me and would like to apply for the privilege of being bitten my me, please message with some information about what you look like, what you're up to in your life, what you like in a partner, and what mythical creature you most closely identify with so I know you read the whole ad.

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u/cateyeissue — 8 days ago

32 [F4M] #London #UK Why d'you wanna be that mean girl's simp best friend?

Feeld has been a bit draining lately so I've come to Reddit.

I am looking for a FLR-style friendship. Close friends, but I am in control of everything.

I'm terribly spoilt, I'm afraid. Even the Doms spoil me! They love my body, but subs love my vibe.

I live to be worshipped, verbally and with endless acts of service. In return I might let my friend get really close with me in all kinds of ways. I am pretty giving in that regard... I'm really, really generous when it comes to kinks. I love to find out what makes my sub tick and then squeeze that soft spot for all its worth. And then squeeze it some more. And more. And more...

I'm a total princess, gentle and cute on the outside. But secretly, I get off hurting my toys.

I can be really fucking evil. I love tease, denial, emotional sadism. Every nasty kink turned up to eleven and then twisted, just for you. But I also genuinely love cuddling and hearing about your day and watching movies. I'm the best friend you'll ever have! Yes, you will be doing all the thoughtful preparation, cooking, various types of cleaning... but it's worth it, to spend time with me.

London based, with a boyfriend who would not be involved in our play, but who does exist and is cherished.

Please send an initial message with a face pic, letting me know if you're in N, S, E or W London, and also what kinds of things you're interested in, both vanilla and kinky. Please be polite and interesting, it's so much admin to read through you all. I can only reply if you give me something to work with. Ugly little goblins are welcome, as well as cute gymbros (I'm kind of a muscle mommy with curves myself), but your max age is 45.

Looking forward to finding my new friend!

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u/gentle_blue_girl — 8 days ago

20 [F4M] #Online #Ontario - Looking for a Fit Good Boy to Own

Hi there!

I’m going to be direct, I’m still exploring the world of Femdom, but I know exactly what I want. I’m not looking for a quick session or a shallow exchange of pictures. I’m looking for a long-term connection built on trust, chemistry, and power exchange. We start online to see if you can handle me, and we go from there.

Note: I am prioritizing time zones (EST/nearby) because I value consistency. I am also happy to verify (no face).

Dynamic: Gentle but Firm

I’d describe myself as a Gentle Domme. To me, that means I love control, teasing, and pushing your limits, but I’m not cruel. I want a dynamic where you feel both desired and completely used. There is nothing hotter than a man who is strong and confident to the rest of the world, but melts into a sweet, obedient boy the second I give him a command.

About Me:

Outside of the bedroom, I’m 5’4”, blonde, and (so I’ve been told) have the kind of body that’s worth earning a look at. I’m a total hockey fan, an outdoors enthusiast (hiking in the sun, skating in the snow), and a fan of cozy nights in with reality TV and fresh baking. I want a sub who can be a partner in conversation and a toy in private.

What I’m Looking For:

I want the Alpha-in-public, Beta-on-his-knees contrast. If you’re confident, fit, and maybe have a set of abs I can claim as my own, we’ll get along just fine. I want the man who everyone else looks up to, but who secretly aches to surrender everything to me.

My Current Kink List:

JOI, CEI, Edging, Cum Control, Dirty talk, teasing, and heavy degradation (when the mood strikes), Receiving worship, giving praise/rewards to a "good boy.", CNC (with strict boundaries), moaning, and TPE.

How to Apply:

If you want my attention, do not send me a "hi" or "what's up." If you can’t put effort into an introduction, you won’t put effort into serving me.

Message me with the following details:

  1. The Basics: Name, Age, Height, Weight.
  2. Logistics: General location and Time Zone.
  3. The Goods: Cock size and your kinks.
  4. The Person: Your personal interests, what you do for work, and why you think you’d be a good fit for me, etc.

I want a boy who makes me laugh, makes me think, and makes me crave the way he obeys. Show me you’re worthy of being mine. ❤️

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u/Key_Requirement9719 — 8 days ago

27 [F4A] #Online Domme looking for a sub with few limits!

I'm a F27 domme looking for subs (both male and female) with very few limits.

Expect to be completely humiliated, broken, with tasks and rules that affect your daily life, including toilet play, public and risky tasks, messy, humiliation, degradation, choose what you wear, choose what you eat and how, denial, edging, etc.

I request pics or videos as a proof of every task, I don't need to see your face if you don't want to. We'll start just with pics and if everything works fine we might get to videos later.

I'm looking for someone that will commit to this and who doesn't look only for casual tasks when they are horny. I want you to fulfill my tasks and rules at any time, someone who wants to be owned and follow my instructions even if they are not horny anymore, you will be my property now.

Start by telling me your ASL, kinks, limits and toys. I also will like to know more about your daily life: what things or spaces do you have available in your house, who do you live with, what kind of work do you have, hobbies, partners, etc. so that I can adapt the tasks and rules to you.
I won't make you do something that clearly will get you kicked of your work or get in trouble with your family, but expect some risky tasks that will make you uncomfortable.

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u/MissCyanea — 9 days ago

19 [F4M] #Online #Sydney #NSW #Australia Looking for several male submissives!

I’m Australian, dark brunette, long wavy hair, blue eyes, pale skin. I’m looking for someone eager to serve, born in 2007 or younger. I mostly enjoy the idea of Master/Servant dynamics but I’m interested in exploring aspects of Puppy play, MDlb, Master/Slave, Chastity, ‘Forced’/encouraged Bi, Cucking, PIED and Prone Humping, and maybe a touch of Goddess/Devotee, all depending on your preference and the type of partner you are.

Hi, I’m a femdom who’s still figuring out her style. I would love to explore with you! I’m mostly looking for (required for type 1 partner, optional for the rest) people to build strong, platonic friendships with to hopefully develop attraction and become a serious, romantic, long-term relationship but I’m also interested in long-term non-romantic/play partners to build a friendship with (type 2, 3 and 4 partners only). No matter our type of relationship, I want it to be intended to be long term and for you to eventually move in with me in Australia or maybe eventually England.

Too many paragraphs made this chaotic and long, so I decided to make most of it as bullet points instead for efficient reading! Just a warning- this is more than 3k words, so it’s fairly long. I hope the people who read this will easily be able to decide if they’re a suitable match!

Quick summary about me ^-^
The basics-
-am 19, born in 2007.
-go by she/they pronouns
-am bisexual, with a preference for men
-currently live in NSW, Australia.
-am 5’2, 160cm
My appearance-
-have long wavy dark brunette hair
-have blue eyes
-am very pale, and I don’t ever intend to get any sort of tan, I was born pale so I’m committing to the look ✨
-I’m fairly slim, i have a couple extra kgs that i’m not satisfied with, but it’s from hormone issues which i began taking meds for so in like 4 months time i should be snatched ✨
-for my facial features, although i am very white I’d say I fit east asian beauty standards more than western beauty standards, I don’t have big lips, super high and defined cheekbones or a super angular jaw. My facial features are more soft and youthful and my makeup style is a bit more korean/chinese leaning to complement this!
-am open to dating people from different countries
Politics and beliefs-
-am non-religious
-am progressive and left wing
-am very feminist, i consider myself an intersectional feminist
-am very concerned about the rights and supports of disabled people
-am very pro-immigration
Random stuff-
-I have astigmatism, so I try to wear my glasses whenever I have to focus on reading, and I have light sensitivity so I also wear sunglasses loads
-think of all my features, the one I’m most confident about is my voice
-am waiting for my health to improve to see which direction I can go with my studies and career. 

More detailed stuff about me ^-^
My interests-
-Beauty (skincare, makeup, haircare, etc.),  It’s also a dream of mine to one day start my own cosmetic brand!
-Content creation
-Acting
-Songwriting
-Singing
-Listening to music                                                                                              -Seeing musicals and the occasional play
My more casual interests and ways to pass the time-
-(fictional) crime TV
-(fictional) medical TV
-historical documentaries
-action movies/series
-sci-fi movies/series (star wars, dune)
-the occasional chinese vertical drama (just the femdom and revenge ones)
-korean dramas/movies (zombies, revenge plots)
-reading ao3 (both smut and more general romance)
-reading translated korean and chinese webnovels (romance, fantasy, action)
-calligraphy
-video games (socialising, some strategy, organisation, exploring, occasionally story types, not FPS or fighting)
Interests I would like to learn more about but haven’t yet due to health-
-ice skating
-rollerblading
-dancing (kpop, pop, maybe some other styles)
-embroidery

About my health-
I am currently disabled with several chronic illnesses. I have hope that they will improve and I am constantly seeing doctors and trying experimental treatments. I have ME/CFS, POTS, MCAS, hEDS. Although I’m currently still suffering from bouts of dizziness, limited energy (overdoing it risks permanently worsening my illness), joint instability (including partial dislocations, called subluxations), general pain and brain fog (includes bad memory, overall confusion, bad focus), my energy threshold (ME/CFS) has recently drastically improved and I am the healthiest I have been since before I got sick. My health can be a rollercoaster usually, but seems relatively stable right now. 

Due to hEDS, I occasionally experience partial dislocations, called subluxations. Often these are unpredictable, for example sometimes I hurt my wrist in my sleep or one time I hurt my shoulder leaning down to the microwave. Pain can last anywhere from a few seconds to several days maximum. With pain management therapies I recently tried (ask me in dms if you’re curious), joint pain can now be very brief for me fortunately, but I am still extremely prone to back and shoulder pain. Also repetitive moments are harsh on my joints and I can’t do it for extended periods. I guess I’m born to be treasured haha, I’m too frail. I am working with a physio, ME/CFS causes exercise intolerance but it has improved enough to do super gentle lying down pilates. More muscle will help protect my joints more, but I’m not sure by how much. This is a condition I’ll never 100% recover from (it’s genetic) and will always affect me at least a small amount, for example, my skin is fragile and cuts more easily which can’t be improved.

Mental health conditions and neurodivergence-
-I have OCD, mainly paranoia of germs on surfaces, foods and my body. Also some intrusive thoughts and more general paranoia but as far as OCD goes I consider it mild.

-I can be anxious and depressed. I take meds and it is usually manageable. I also have kind of hypomanic episodes too, my energy levels can dramatically vary sometimes. I have a psychologist and psychiatrist to help me manage any problems, and I’m still trying some more things to see what works.

-Because of Autism I have less of a filter than normal people, and sometimes forget social rules, but I think I have an okay grasp of most of them.

Food stuff-
-I’m vegan. It’s more of an ‘animals are dirty’ thing rather than cruelty or even about the environment. I don’t mind if you eat animals, maybe just brush your teeth before any contact involving your mouth.

-I am really fussy with food, but it isn’t necessarily expensive taste at least. I’m happy to have a sushi date (my order is cucumber and avocado!) or a bubble tea date (my order changes but it needs to be a place with soy milk), I’ll eat a few asian cuisines (chinese, korean, japanese, vietnamese, thai, indian, i’m willing to try more cuisines) if I’m confident it’s vegan, I’d like to try more cuisines.

I expect my partner to-
The basics- -be born in 2007 or younger
-Speak conversational english
-Have decent hygiene (Ideally you’d be showering daily and washing your hands before eating, before sex, and also washing them after getting them dirty.)
-Be decently healthy, any health issues should be treatable or manageable and not disable you. I’m sorry, but I think if I was with another disabled person it wouldn’t work well.
Personality/neurodivergence-
-Be a nerd/geek with some hyperfixations. Basically I want someone with a similar flavour of autism to me, but if you’re super unsure if you’re autistic or neurodivergent, just message me if we manage to vibe then you’re probably neurodivergent, there isn’t a bouncer checking for a neurodivergent ID haha. I’m not officially diagnosed cos the government wouldn’t support my ‘low level’ of autism anyways.
Appearance and physical traits-
-Have loose curls or wavy hair
-Be brunette or have black hair if you wish to be a type 1 partner (mentioned in the next section)
-Have a decent haircut
-Have no facial or body hair if we start dating (I hope to study to be a beauty therapist so maybe I could wax you or possibly do more permanent hair removal for you.)
-Someone decently muscular. For cucks (types 3 and 4), it’s okay if you are on the skinnier side and only have a touch of muscle, but I don’t want you to be insanely skinny and look sickly or like a child.
-Be 5’8 (172cm) or taller for type 1 and type 2 partners. For type 3 and 4 partners/cucks, there is no height requirements.
-Have no tattoos
-Have no facial piercings
-Interested in learning how to take care of themselves aesthetically, beauty is my main special interest so I can teach you. I work hard to look good, so I would greatly appreciate it if my partner did the same. A good place to start for men is skincare, a good haircut and neatening up your eyebrows!
Politics and Beliefs-
-Someone who respects all people, especially women, disabled and LGBTQ+ as I am part of these groups
-Someone progressive and left wing
-Someone generally concerned about the state of the world
-Someone who uses their vote for good.
-Someone non-religious and non-confucianist (cos that technically isn’t a religion)
Other-
-If you want to be a type 1 partner, you can’t snore. I want to sleep in the same bed and I’m a light sleeper TT
-Understanding of my food related quirks
-Someone patient towards my OCD and Autistic traits
-Someone who would consider moving overseas to be with me, to Australia or potentially other countries, depending how long we’ve known each other and how my health is going I’d be interested in living in England permanently, and spending up to a few years in China.
-Someone who can see me as a person and friend before seeing me as an object of romantic or sexual affection
-Someone who loves hugs and non-sexual physical touch
-Be a service focused sub and enjoy Master/Servant dynamics, like a loyal butler/servant, maybe some knight or bodyguard vibes. I want someone eager to please, serve and contribute. Occasionally we could try small elements of MDlb and Puppy play, I’m curious about trying out the nicknames.
-Be a virgin.
-Not watch porn if you want to be a type 1 partner, its unrealistic, focused for the male gaze, demeaning to women and unhealthy. If you watch porn, as soon as you dm me you should stop, or instead consider being a type 2, 3 or 4 partner where my requirements are less strict.

How my partner can provide or serve-
-Please fulfill one of these requirements if we start dating and move in together

  1. You’re willing to serve around the house in domestic chores such as cleaning, cooking and driving me places (due to my disability it’s unsafe for me to drive). You could also help with mental labour like remembering appointments and such.
  2. You have a skill that you can use to serve me (such as making clothes, doing nails, haircuts, I would consider lots of other skills) but ideally could still work almost full time and set aside part of your income to give me an allowance
  3. You work full time and set aside part of your income to give me an allowance.
  4. You do a mix of these things, but still use your time productively.

About the harem/polyamory stuff-
There would be 4 strict types of partners in this harem, 1- men who only have sex with me, 2- male tops, 3- male bottoms who are also cucks and 4-cucks who don’t get any sex. Type 1 is flexible, I can still happily indulge chastity kinks, but it won’t be 24/7. Types 2 and 3 would exclusively have sex with each other for my amusement and not have sex with me. Types 2 and 3 are allowed to have romantic relationships with each other within the harem. Type 1 could have sex with me in front of type 4 or while we watch types 2 and 3 if interested. I would also probably have a primary partner from type 1. The harem shouldn’t be too large, I’d be happy with just 3 or 4 people if they met my standards well, I’ll see how it goes and how my health goes while maintaining several relationships.

I require a strong emotional connection for type 1 partners, but not for type 2, 3 and 4. If you want to be type 2, 3 or 4, please let me know if you want a romantic relationship or emotional connection or not!

Ideally, I’d like to live in a big house with my harem :D 

Relationship dynamics and kinks I don’t want and some things I’m open to or like-
-A little, I don’t want an actual 24/7 MDlb dynamic, I won’t take care of you like I’m your literal mother. Breast stuff, nicknames and hair washing I’d definitely consider for occasional use.
-A pet, I don’t want a 24/7 Master/Pet dynamic although I am interested in relevant nicknames, verbal praise, some verbal humiliation, open to trying collars and leashes in sex.
-I’m open to trying a slave dynamic although it isn’t my absolute favourite, but I don’t want to be asked what to do every second of the day. It would work better to make an agreement about your responsibilities in advance so you don’t ask me all the time.
-A brat; regular, especially intentional disobedience isn’t cute to me. Maybe if you accidentally cum, don’t complete a little bit of housework, we could negotiate in advance and do a punishment/discipline kinda thing but we’d have to see if I like it or not once we get to it.
-Cucks who want me to be submissive to the bull or have BBC kinks.
-Someone who wants to be feminised through clothing, makeup and hair, I’m only interested in a feminised body like if you wanted to be more gender neutral and take hormone things idk if anyone would do that but if that's your thing it works for me.
-Someone who needs me to work hard to please them regularly. Repetitive motions can be harsh on my joints so traditional sex probably wouldn’t be a daily thing, cunnilingus could be more frequent, perhaps daily. I also have limited energy so this would depend on my health and how much building muscle helps with my joints. Instead I am interested in keeping you locked up or watching you masturbate including using toys, I’d also like to try JOI. Due to hEDS, I also am prone to microtears around my genital area so this could ‘put me out of action’ sometimes and I might not want to think about sexual things for like 2-3 days until I recover. The likelihood of this occurring can be lowered with proper lubrication and caution.
-Sexualised body worship with excessive talking probably isn’t my thing, but I’m open to the idea of someone touching me and kissing me lots almost everywhere except for butt, genitals, breasts, toes, bottom of feet and sweaty areas just for the sake of touching and appreciating me.
-Someone with a fetish for sweat or scat. I’m open to trying watching watersports but I wouldn't participate or handle the cleanup. Period blood could work, as long as you clean out your mouth if you’re using it and want to kiss me haha.
-People who want to put their mouths or faces on the bottom of my feet or toes. I think that’s unhygienic. The top of my feet or ankles is okay I guess. Ankle/lower calf kissing is okay too.
-Probably some other things that you can conclude based on my kink list.
-I have a kink for men becoming infertile/struggling to get hard especially from PIED and prone humping. This would be for type 3+4 partners/cucks ofc I can’t have everyone having useless dicks.

Heres the kink list https://www.kinklist.com/k/jnojbqaicxst  I’ve edited some parts to add more detail. It’s not perfect and I still feel indecisive on many things, but I did my best to make it clear. I get confused so I may have done some parts the wrong way around but if you remember I’m very dominant and focused on being served that should hopefully clear up any confusion. Feel free to ask me for clarification on anything here, especially if you think we are otherwise a good match. Also I’d consider doing some acts wearing certain things, but full-on sex sounds uncomfortable wearing a corset, high heels, stockings, etc. 

Communication frequency and how to message with me if you want to emotionally bond, I’d like-
-Someone who can voice call together for 1 hour a week if my health is good enough. Maybe we could watch a movie or tv show together on call, or play videogames together.
-Someone who messages me a few times a week
-Someone who doesn’t say ‘wyd’ to start every conversation or beg for a response and instead takes the initiative to do a little talking about their life or interests, or come up with questions ranging from simple like ‘what’s your favourite colour?’ ‘when’s your birthday’ to ‘what’s your opinion on insert recent event?’ or ‘do you have any dream jobs?’
-I forget to ask questions sometimes, or return the question, but if you want to answer your own questions, or have input relevant to the flow of the conversation, go for it! Or occasionally not relevant works too, nothing like a random fun fact!
-Give me life updates even if my health is flaring up and I’m not responding quickly! This helps me feel like you want to hang out and I can get to know you, without pressuring me to respond when I feel really unwell. I will give life updates also when you’re busy, and you can take your time to respond!

BEFORE YOU MESSAGE ME-
If you want to message me, please send me an introduction of yourself, anywhere from 200 words to 2k words. 

Your introduction should include:
-Your given name, a nickname or something else to call you by.
-Your Age and Birth Year
-Pronouns
-Sexuality
-Country
-Extensive list of your hobbies and interests, and the ways you pass the time.
-A description of your appearance
-What type of dynamic and relationship you want and if you want to romantically or platonically bond (tell me about if you think you fit type 1, 2, 3 or 4 from earlier!)
-What you’re currently studying or what your job is, or what your ambitions for the future are. Go into specifics!
-Anything else you feel is important
-What about yourself you’re most confident about: for example a personality trait, your voice, a physical feature, etc.
-If you have any sort of icebreaker you prefer, or just direct conversation, or conversation while playing a videogame. If you like all of them, that also works.
-A kinklist https://www.kinklist.com/ultimate Feel free to include anything about kinks that you feel the kinklist doesn’t express well.
Don’t be shy! You can send pictures of your face if you wish, but it will be a while before I’m willing to send pictures in return.

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u/strangestrangerhere — 7 days ago
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I'm looking for a woman willing to receive photos of me so she can blackmail and expose me!

I'm looking for a woman willing to receive photos of me so she can blackmail and expose me!

I'd like to be a submissive where I'd send a picture of myself, maybe jokingly, when the conversation got heated, and then lose control.

You were going to use this photo of me to blackmail me into doing more embarrassing tasks, and with that you would increase your arsenal of blackmail tools. Sometimes, they would take on an impossible task just to expose me somewhere, and then they would try to get my personal data, access to my cell phone, access to my social media, maybe even my bank account information.

And all of this is happening as he exposes me on Reddit, and threatens to expose me outside of it as well, making it increasingly dangerous and with no way out for me.

Anyway, that was just an idea, if you liked it send me a message containing asl

u/Clean_Room_6037 — 7 days ago

27 [F4M] #Germany online queen looking for an obedient fit toy

If you dream of surrendering your control to a strong, dominant woman and being trained into a good, obedient little toy, then you belong right here in Mommy’s inbox.

​I’m looking for an athletic, attentive boy whose absolute top priority in life is making sure his Mommy is pleased, happy, and completely satisfied—whenever, wherever, and however I demand it. A good boy doesn’t hesitate; he happily complies simply because making Mommy smile and keeping her well taken care of is his favorite privilege. I will take total charge of your routine, guide your behavior, and train you step-by-step so you gradually evolve into the perfect sub tailored strictly to my desires.

​When it comes to experience, I prefer toys who already know how to mind their manners, but I am more than happy to mold and train serious, respectful beginners who are genuinely eager to learn how to serve properly.

​Our dynamic will center around tease and denial, prolonged edging, structured JOI, cum control, light cbt and humilation, task-oriented obedience, and heavy power exchange under Mommy's strict authority. Standard safety, full consent, and mutual respect apply at all times, and specific limits will be clearly established before any training begins.

​Stop overthinking, drop the hesitation, and send Mommy a proper message with an introduction. Tell me why you need a Mommy to take control, and let’s see if you have what it takes to be my loyal little boy.

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u/misslinee — 7 days ago