19 [F4M] #Online #Australia #NSW #Sydney Looking for LTRs and Eventual IRL Play Partners/Live-in Slaves
I’m Australian, dark brunette, long wavy hair, blue eyes, pale skin. I’m looking for someone eager to serve, born in 2004 or younger. I mostly enjoy the idea of Master/Servant dynamics but I’m interested in exploring aspects of Puppy play, MDlb, Master/Slave, Chastity, ‘Forced’/encouraged Bi, Cucking, PIED and Prone Humping, and maybe a touch of Goddess/Devotee, all depending on your preference and the type of partner you are.
Hi, I’m a femdom who’s still figuring out her style. I would love to explore with you! I’m mostly looking for (required for type 1 partner, optional for the rest) people to build strong, platonic friendships with to hopefully develop attraction and become a serious, romantic, long-term relationship and live together, but I’m also interested in long-term non-romantic/play partners to build a strong friendship with and eventually live together (type 2, 3 and 4 partners only). No matter our type of relationship, I want it to be intended to be long term and for you to eventually move in with me in Australia or maybe eventually England.
Too many paragraphs made this chaotic and long, so I decided to make most of it as bullet points instead for efficient reading! Just a warning- this is more than 3k words, so it’s fairly long. I hope the people who read this will easily be able to decide if they’re a suitable match!
Quick summary about me ^-^
The basics-
-am 19, born in 2007.
-go by she/they pronouns
-am bisexual, with a preference for men
-currently live in NSW, Australia.
-am 5’2, 160cm
My appearance-
-have long wavy dark brunette hair
-have blue eyes
-am very pale, and I don’t ever intend to get any sort of tan, I was born pale so I’m committing to the look ✨
-I’m fairly slim, i have a couple extra kgs that i’m not satisfied with, but it’s from hormone issues which i began taking meds for so in like 4 months time i should be snatched ✨
-for my facial features, although i am very white I’d say I fit east asian beauty standards more than western beauty standards, I don’t have big lips, super high and defined cheekbones or a super angular jaw. My facial features are more soft and youthful and my makeup style is a bit more korean/chinese leaning to complement this!
-am open to dating people from different countries
Politics and beliefs-
-am non-religious
-am progressive and left wing
-am very feminist, i consider myself an intersectional feminist
-am very concerned about the rights and supports of disabled people
-am very pro-immigration
Random stuff-
-I have astigmatism, so I try to wear my glasses whenever I have to focus on reading, and I have light sensitivity so I also wear sunglasses loads
-think of all my features, the one I’m most confident about is my voice
-am waiting for my health to improve to see which direction I can go with my studies and career.
More detailed stuff about me ^-^
My interests-
-Beauty (skincare, makeup, haircare, etc.), It’s also a dream of mine to one day start my own cosmetic brand!
-Content creation
-Acting
-Songwriting
-Singing
-Listening to music
-Seeing musicals and the occasional play
My more casual interests and ways to pass the time-
-(fictional) crime TV
-(fictional) medical TV
-historical documentaries
-action movies/series
-sci-fi movies/series (star wars, dune)
-the occasional chinese vertical drama (just the femdom and revenge ones)
-korean dramas/movies (zombies, revenge plots)
-reading ao3 (both smut and more general romance)
-reading translated korean and chinese webnovels (romance, fantasy, action)
-calligraphy
-video games (socialising, some strategy, organisation, exploring, occasionally story types, not FPS or fighting)
Interests I would like to learn more about but haven’t yet due to health-
-ice skating
-rollerblading
-dancing (kpop, pop, maybe some other styles)
-embroidery
About my health-
I am currently disabled with several chronic illnesses. I have hope that they will improve and I am constantly seeing doctors and trying experimental treatments. I have ME/CFS, POTS, MCAS, hEDS. Although I’m currently still suffering from bouts of dizziness, limited energy (overdoing it risks permanently worsening my illness), joint instability (including partial dislocations, called subluxations), general pain and brain fog (includes bad memory, overall confusion, bad focus), my energy threshold (ME/CFS) has recently drastically improved and I am the healthiest I have been since before I got sick. My health can be a rollercoaster usually, but seems relatively stable right now.
Due to hEDS, I occasionally experience partial dislocations, called subluxations. Often these are unpredictable, for example sometimes I hurt my wrist in my sleep or one time I hurt my shoulder leaning down to the microwave. Pain can last anywhere from a few seconds to several days maximum. With pain management therapies I recently tried (ask me in dms if you’re curious), joint pain can now be very brief for me fortunately, but I am still extremely prone to back and shoulder pain. Also repetitive moments are harsh on my joints and I can’t do it for extended periods. I guess I’m born to be treasured haha, I’m too frail. I am working with a physio, ME/CFS causes exercise intolerance but it has improved enough to do super gentle lying down pilates. More muscle will help protect my joints more, but I’m not sure by how much. This is a condition I’ll never 100% recover from (it’s genetic) and will always affect me at least a small amount, for example, my skin is fragile and cuts more easily which can’t be improved.
Mental health conditions and neurodivergence-
-I have OCD, mainly paranoia of germs on surfaces, foods and my body. Also some intrusive thoughts and more general paranoia but as far as OCD goes I consider it mild.
-I can be anxious and depressed. I take meds and it is usually manageable. I also have kind of hypomanic episodes too, my energy levels can dramatically vary sometimes. I have a psychologist and psychiatrist to help me manage any problems, and I’m still trying some more things to see what works.
-Because of Autism I have less of a filter than normal people, and sometimes forget social rules, but I think I have an okay grasp of most of them.
Food stuff-
-I’m vegan. It’s more of an ‘animals are dirty’ thing rather than cruelty or even about the environment. I don’t mind if you eat animals, maybe just brush your teeth before any contact involving your mouth.
-I am really fussy with food, but it isn’t necessarily expensive taste at least. I’m happy to have a sushi date (my order is cucumber and avocado!) or a bubble tea date (my order changes but it needs to be a place with soy milk), I’ll eat a few asian cuisines (chinese, korean, japanese, vietnamese, thai, indian, i’m willing to try more cuisines) if I’m confident it’s vegan, I’d like to try more cuisines.
I expect my partner to-
The basics-
-be born in 2004 or younger
-Speak conversational english
-Have decent hygiene (Ideally you’d be showering daily and washing your hands before eating, before sex, and also washing them after getting them dirty.)
-Be decently healthy, any health issues should be treatable or manageable and not disable you. I’m sorry, but I think if I was with another disabled person it wouldn’t work well.
Personality/neurodivergence-
-Be a nerd/geek with some hyperfixations. Basically I want someone with a similar flavour of autism to me, but if you’re super unsure if you’re autistic or neurodivergent, just message me if we manage to vibe then you’re probably neurodivergent, there isn’t a bouncer checking for a neurodivergent ID haha. I’m not officially diagnosed cos the government wouldn’t support my ‘low level’ of autism anyways.
Appearance and physical traits-
-Have loose curls or wavy hair
-Be brunette or have black hair if you wish to be a type 1 partner (mentioned in the next section)
-Have a decent haircut
-Have no facial or body hair if we start dating (I hope to study to be a beauty therapist so maybe I could wax you or possibly do more permanent hair removal for you.)
-Someone decently muscular. For cucks (types 3 and 4), it’s okay if you are on the skinnier side and only have a touch of muscle, but I don’t want you to be insanely skinny and look sickly or like a child.
-Be 5’8 (172cm) or taller for type 1 and type 2 partners. For type 3 and 4 partners/cucks, there is no height requirements.
-Have no tattoos
-Have no facial piercings
-Interested in learning how to take care of themselves aesthetically, beauty is my main special interest so I can teach you. I work hard to look good, so I would greatly appreciate it if my partner did the same. A good place to start for men is skincare, a good haircut and neatening up your eyebrows!
Politics and Beliefs-
-Someone who respects all people, especially women, disabled and LGBTQ+ as I am part of these groups
-Someone progressive and left wing
-Someone generally concerned about the state of the world
-Someone who uses their vote for good.
-Someone non-religious and non-confucianist (cos that technically isn’t a religion)
Other-
-If you want to be a type 1 partner, you can’t snore. I want to sleep in the same bed and I’m a light sleeper TT
-Understanding of my food related quirks
-Someone patient towards my OCD and Autistic traits
-Someone who would consider moving overseas to be with me, to Australia or potentially other countries, depending how long we’ve known each other and how my health is going I’d be interested in living in England permanently, and spending up to a few years in China.
-Someone who can see me as a person and friend before seeing me as an object of romantic or sexual affection
-Someone who loves hugs and non-sexual physical touch
-Be a service focused sub and enjoy Master/Servant dynamics, like a loyal butler/servant, maybe some knight or bodyguard vibes. I want someone eager to please, serve and contribute. Occasionally we could try small elements of MDlb and Puppy play, I’m curious about trying out the nicknames.
-Be a virgin if you want to be a type 1 or 4 partner.
-Not watch porn if you want to be a type 1 partner, its unrealistic, focused for the male gaze, demeaning to women and unhealthy. If you watch porn, as soon as you dm me you should stop, or instead consider being a type 2, 3 or 4 partner where my requirements are less strict.
How my partner can provide or serve-
-Please fulfill one of these requirements if we start dating and move in together
- You’re willing to serve around the house in domestic chores such as cleaning, cooking and driving me places (due to my disability it’s unsafe for me to drive). You could also help with mental labour like remembering appointments and such.
- You have a skill that you can use to serve me (such as making clothes, doing nails, haircuts, I would consider lots of other skills) but ideally could still work almost full time and set aside part of your income to give me an allowance
- You work full time and set aside part of your income to give me an allowance.
- You do a mix of these things, but still use your time productively.
About the harem/polyamory stuff-
There would be 4 strict types of partners in this harem, 1- men who only have sex with me, 2- male tops, 3- male bottoms who are also cucks and 4-cucks who don’t get any sex. Type 1 is flexible, I can still happily indulge chastity kinks, but it won’t be 24/7. Types 2 and 3 would exclusively have sex with each other for my amusement and not have sex with me. Types 2 and 3 are allowed to have romantic relationships with each other within the harem. Type 1 could have sex with me in front of type 4 or while we watch types 2 and 3 if interested. I would also probably have a primary partner from type 1. The harem shouldn’t be too large, I’d be happy with just 3 or 4 people if they met my standards well, I’ll see how it goes and how my health goes while maintaining several relationships.
I require a romantic relationship for type 1 partners, but not for type 2, 3 and 4. If you want to be type 2, 3 or 4, please let me know if you want a romantic relationship or platonic relationship!
Ideally, I’d like to live in a big house with my harem :D
Relationship dynamics and kinks I don’t want and some things I’m open to or like-
-A little, I don’t want an actual 24/7 MDlb dynamic, I won’t take care of you like I’m your literal mother. Breast stuff, nicknames and hair washing I’d definitely consider for occasional use.
-A pet, I don’t want a 24/7 Master/Pet dynamic although I am interested in relevant nicknames, verbal praise, some verbal humiliation, open to trying collars and leashes in sex.
-I’m open to trying a slave dynamic although it isn’t my absolute favourite, but I don’t want to be asked what to do every second of the day. It would work better to make an agreement about your responsibilities in advance so you don’t ask me all the time.
-A brat; regular, especially intentional disobedience isn’t cute to me. Maybe if you accidentally cum, don’t complete a little bit of housework, we could negotiate in advance and do a punishment/discipline kinda thing but we’d have to see if I like it or not once we get to it.
-Cucks who want me to be submissive to the bull or have BBC kinks.
-Someone who wants to be feminised through clothing, makeup and hair, I’m only interested in a feminised body like if you wanted to be more gender neutral and take hormone things idk if anyone would do that but if that's your thing it works for me.
-Someone who needs me to work hard to please them regularly. Repetitive motions can be harsh on my joints so traditional sex probably wouldn’t be a daily thing, cunnilingus could be more frequent, perhaps daily. I also have limited energy so this would depend on my health and how much building muscle helps with my joints. Instead I am interested in keeping you locked up or watching you masturbate including using toys, I’d also like to try JOI. Due to hEDS, I also am prone to microtears around my genital area so this could ‘put me out of action’ sometimes and I might not want to think about sexual things for like 2-3 days until I recover. The likelihood of this occurring can be lowered with proper lubrication and caution.
-Sexualised body worship with excessive talking probably isn’t my thing, but I’m open to the idea of someone touching me and kissing me lots almost everywhere except for butt, genitals, breasts, toes, bottom of feet and sweaty areas just for the sake of touching and appreciating me.
-Someone with a fetish for sweat or scat. I’m open to trying watching watersports but I wouldn't participate or handle the cleanup. Period blood could work, as long as you clean out your mouth if you’re using it and want to kiss me haha.
-People who want to put their mouths or faces on the bottom of my feet or toes. I think that’s unhygienic. The top of my feet or ankles is okay I guess. Ankle/lower calf kissing is okay too. I'm open to other types of contact including my feet, I just don't like mouth/face stuff.
-Probably some other things that you can conclude based on my kink list.
-I have a kink for men becoming infertile/struggling to get hard especially from PIED and prone humping. This would be for type 3+4 partners/cucks ofc I can’t have everyone having useless dicks.
Heres the kink list https://www.kinklist.com/k/jnojbqaicxst I’ve edited some parts to add more detail. It’s not perfect and I still feel indecisive on many things, but I did my best to make it clear. I get confused so I may have done some parts the wrong way around but if you remember I’m very dominant and focused on being served that should hopefully clear up any confusion. Feel free to ask me for clarification on anything here, especially if you think we are otherwise a good match. Also I’d consider doing some acts wearing certain things, but full-on sex sounds uncomfortable wearing a corset, high heels, stockings, etc.
Communication frequency and how to message with me if you want to emotionally bond (so I can actually be attracted to you), I’d like-
-Someone who can voice call together for 1 hour a week if my health is good enough. Maybe we could watch a movie or tv show together on call, or play videogames together.
-Someone who messages me a few times a week
-Someone who doesn’t say ‘wyd’ to start every conversation or beg for a response and instead takes the initiative to do a little talking about their life or interests, or come up with questions ranging from simple like ‘what’s your favourite colour?’ ‘when’s your birthday’ to ‘what’s your opinion on insert recent event?’ or ‘do you have any dream jobs?’
-I forget to ask questions sometimes, or return the question, but if you want to answer your own questions, or have input relevant to the flow of the conversation, go for it! Or occasionally not relevant works too, nothing like a random fun fact!
-Give me life updates even if my health is flaring up and I’m not responding quickly! This helps me feel like you want to hang out and I can get to know you, without pressuring me to respond when I feel really unwell. I will give life updates also when you’re busy, and you can take your time to respond!
BEFORE YOU MESSAGE ME-
If you want to message me, please send me an introduction of yourself, anywhere from 200 words to 2k words.
Your introduction should include:
-Your given name, a nickname or something else to call you by.
-Your Age and Birth Year
-Pronouns
-Sexuality
-Country
-Extensive list of your hobbies and interests, and the ways you pass the time.
-A description of your appearance
-What type of dynamic and relationship you want and if you want to romantically or platonically bond (tell me about if you think you fit type 1, 2, 3 or 4 from earlier!)
-What you’re currently studying or what your job is, or what your ambitions for the future are. Go into specifics!
-Anything else you feel is important
-What about yourself you’re most confident about: for example a personality trait, your voice, a physical feature, etc.
-If you have any sort of icebreaker you prefer, or just direct conversation, or conversation while playing a videogame. If you like all of them, that also works.
-A kinklist https://www.kinklist.com/ultimate Feel free to include anything about kinks that you feel the kinklist doesn’t express well.
Don’t be shy! You can send pictures of your face if you wish, but it will be a while before I’m willing to send pictures in return.