r/bdsmr4r

Please help me out!

Looking for Dominant who wants to train and control me online. I have a fairly busy schedule, and don’t want to overpromise, so let’s say a few times a week for now. Although daily would be ideal. If I can’t be available on a given day, I can certainly check in and present myself.
I’m average height and weight. If you’re looking for a stick figure, I’m not it. I’m curvy, but average.
Looking for a firm but kind Dom, who I can feel safe fully submitting to. I’m into cock worship, anal training/play/butt plugs, orgasm denial, clamps, instructions/tasks, humiliation and degradation, I do like some pain (clamps and crops being good examples), watersports, and so much more.
Thank you ☺️

Hi, I'm really new to everything kinky, but I know what I want.

I'm south asian, I live in the Netherlands, and I'm looking for both, a relationship, and someone compatible with my needs.

While I've only had vanilla experiences so far, I've come to realise I have specific preferences.

I don't want to go into too much detail from the get go, but broadly speaking, I'm interested in soft dominance and cnc.

I'm also not interested in something purely physical. I'm looking for a relationship with someone interested in the same things as me. Personality and appearance matter to me.

Me? I'm around 5'2, 56 kgs. Slim, short hair, dark skin. I wear glasses but my vision is pretty good without them as well.

I have a lot of hobbies, I really enjoy making things with my hands. I read and more often than not live vicariously through fictional characters.

I get tired socially in large groups and I have been known to skip socializing in favour of lazing in bed by myself. I prefer 1 on 1 conversations.

I also need to clarify that my sexual preferences in no way indicate how I feel about the patriarchy. I don't believe women are naturally submissive or anything of that sort. I'm a raging feminist, and I don't change the way I look or behave based on whoever is in my life.

I'm not going to shave my legs before wearing a skirt XD

Anyway, if any of this seems interesting to you, drop me a message!

Ages 25 and above please.