r/BDSMpersonalsEU

25F [F4M] #Germany #Austria #Norway #Denmark - looking for BDSM/Kinky club suggestions

Hi!
I’m a 25 year old female. I’m planing a eurotrip and would like to explore a BDSM or a club a bit more kinky during it.
I have heard about KitKat club in Germany but besides that I have zero idea

If you have any recommendations they are welcome thanks!

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u/_latenightbaby — 8 hours ago

24[F4A] #Germany #irl stretch my holes

Hey there , 24 yo masochist submissive here , looking for a mean dom with a streching kink to hurt, use me and stretch my holes .

My limits are scat , waterboarding and permanent damage

Everything else is on the table

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u/polyglot_doc — 10 hours ago

19 [F4M] #ireland #online sub looking a structured dom

Hi my vanilla self:

I mostly go to college and study, I spend most of my time watching Netflix or daydreaming. I like to walk ig.

What I look like: I am 163 cms tall. My ethnicity is Indian. I have black hair and dark brown eyes. I am not chubby but not skinny either.

My hidden self: I have daddy issues so I am very clingy and I need a lot of reassurance and attention. I am unable to do a single thing right in college, I forget my meals all the time, I have social anxiety and I have ADHD. I am always dazed and I don't want to live like that. I really need somebody to take the reins of me and kind of just tell me what to do when and ensure that I am doing everything according the plan. I am also very codependent. I want someone to keep me on track and ensure I am doing everything right and according to the plan, you can make a plan for me and do whatever you want.

I want to submit to their desires and make them happy so I really need someone who can tell me exactly what they want and be straightforward so I can follow them clearly and there is no room for doubt. I need someone who will ask me specific questions in conversations and not be vague and make me make all the decisions on how to interpret things.

I would like to primarily keep it online. So I am looking for a SOFT dom.

I want a firm person who is not confused and actually cares about my progress and well being. I believe respect is deserved so if someone is gonna act lousy, I don't really want it.

Edit: all the people who are dming me, did you miss the part where I said I need an endless amount of attention and affection and reassurance, cause I get overwhelmed and scared really really quickly in day to day life.

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u/Limp-Choice-7356 — 3 days ago

22 [F4M] #switzerland I would like to find my Dom

Hi, I’m 22 and from Switzerland.

I’m still fairly new to the BDSM world, so I’m not claiming to know everything yet. What I do know is that trust, communication, respect, and genuine chemistry are far more important to me than labels or rushing into anything.

I’m naturally curious and enjoy getting to know people beyond the surface. I appreciate confidence, emotional maturity, honesty, and a good sense of humor.

Outside of kink, I’m a nursing student who loves spending time with friends, traveling, and making memories. I’m equally happy having deep conversations for hours as I am going on spontaneous adventures.

I’m here to meet authentic people, learn, explore, and see where a connection might lead. Whether it’s friendship, mentorship, meaningful conversations, or something more, I believe the best experiences start with mutual respect and genuine interest in one another.

If you’re kind, confident, patient, and know how to take initiative, feel free to say hello. I’d much rather have a real conversation than exchange one-word messages. ♡

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u/izzibuzzi — 8 days ago

26 [M4F] #Online / Prague - Looking for a sub to train in various dynamics

I'm currently looking for a sub who is ready to submit and be trained in a few different dynamic/kinks.

A bit about me: 26M Tall hung Dom (6'4 / 193cm, 8in /20cm girthy cock, 85kg lean athletic build, dark hair)

These are not all required, but ideally you should be interested in a couple or at least curious 😉

- Bondage - rope play, spanking, and punishment.

- Orgasm control - teasing, denial or forced, ovetstim.

- Throat training - deepthroat, deepthroat fuck, choking, gags.

- Degradation - name calling, slapping, spitting etc

- Piss play - Holding, pissing yourself, drinking

- TPE, freeuse or slave/master dynamic

Open to trying if you are into, but less experienced with:

Cnc, dd/lg, humiliation, sharing you/gangbang, and more. Feel free to ask and I'm happy to answer.

Can fly you out and host or travel anywhere in Europe (or further if we really click)

DM for more info

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u/Loud_Huckleberry9136 — 7 days ago

28 [F4A] #germany, online | German sub looking for an online dom for tasks, rules and training, specifically goonette training

Hello everyone,

for quite some time I have been interested in BDSM and dominance in relationships in general. However apart from short experiments in previous relationships I have never had the chance to really try it out. I want to change this now!

What recently rekindled this interested was an (admittedly maybe too deep) dive into the rabbit hole of the Internet. I stumbled upon (but did not yet explore it!) forced goonette training hypno, porn/sex addiction and mind manipulation and mind melting. And I have to say I'm hooked. Would love to have someone turn my head like that, preferably CNC like.

I love in Germany, am 28 years old, about 1.71 cm tall and unfortunately weigh 74 kg. I didn't find my motivation last winter. I used to go the the gym and do yoga fairly regularly in the past but unfortunately lost my routine. I have blue eyes, and naturally light brown hair but colored it a bit red recently. I love to read, hike, play videos games, hangout with friends and honestly can get excited for just about everything.

What I am looking for is something long term, but without the obligation to write each other constantly. I have a full time job, so my time is unfortunately limited. While I would enjoy writing even when at work, I can't guarantee it and need someone who won't mind not writing for days at a time if necessary. I would love to get tasks and rules that I can do once I find time for it. I want to make sure to make it extra clear: I won't be on my phone all the time or do tasks like "say hello every morning"! My time is valuable.

I am and have always been an extremely curious person, thus it is hard to define my kinks. I am definitely interested in humiliation, edging, bondage but honestly there is just soo much more that I would like to explore. You can probably make me interested in almost everything and I like getting pushed. I am into humiliation and obedience in general. I am also very happy to experiment and am a naturally very curious and inquisitive person. As such I love making new experiences and learn. One particular fantasy is getting trained to serve my master or mistress better. not having or even being allowed to decide for myself but simply obeying with long term goal in my doms mind.

As for my limits, I won't do anything illegal, anything too public or anything leaving lasting marks. Additionally I am very proud of my job and "real life" that I have built up and won't do anything to risk harming it. this includes sending pics, videos etc. neither with nor without face. Please refrain from repeatedly asking wheather this holds true or not. I write this here so clearly to not waste anyone's time.

If you read this far and are interested, I'd be very happy to hear from you :)

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u/GelberHimmel — 7 days ago

27 [F4A] #UK for anywhere Seeking my perfect prison

Hello there. I’m a 27 year old female submissive looking for my forever owner . I don’t want to be a free woman. I’ve known I was submissive since I was eighteen and I hate the idea that I’m wandering around this miserable world unowned I am property and nothing more. I want next to no human rights- if you have a contract ready please feel free to send it. I’m looking primarily for females but I’d be open to males too and couples as well. I’m looking for sadists and cruel people who will destroy me in service. I want to be brainwashed and changed completely in my service to you. But I want us to be friends and have a strong connection too. I am only interested in those 34 plus with experience if you are my age or younger don’t bother you’ll be blocked. As will low effort replies. I am spilling my truth. Please have the respect to do the same. Tell me about the most painful physical thing you’ve done to a sub in your ownership.

I’m happy to give up what ever control I possibly can and I may even be able to relocate in time as well. For the right person. I gravitate towards kinks like branding, piercings, tattoos, TPE, and perm modifications in the name of improving myself for you. I love pain play and am eager to learn more about kinks associated to it as well. I discovered I was a sub by reading stuff online years ago and now I know this part of me exists I have to find my forever home. I want to have limited speech and commands I answer too. I effectively want to be reprogrammed.i want little to no human rights and my owner may sell me on and change my name if needed. I want perm body mods when we get there like split tongue, brands piercings and clit removal etc. I want to go all in or not at all.

I’m 27, I’m not getting any younger and all I’ve ever wanted to be is someone’s property. I’m not sure if I’m a brat. But if you do not like brats it maybe best not to apply just incase. Because I dont know what type of sub I am yet. I am seeking sadists based anywhere , willing to make my life unbearable. I want us to laugh at who I was when I first reached out. I want us to admire my changed body as your prisoner and see how far I’ve come.

I’m happy for you to control what I eat, how I eat and when. My hair colour, eye colour, everything I can give. I’d be forever grateful for the experience and guidance you’re giving me. I am inexperienced but I want an owner and I’d love to be branded one day. I’d love to feel the heat of the brand scorching my skin as punishment for my disobedience. I’d also naturally expect a contract

I do not send nudes or images and especially not after a day of talking. Online safety is important for everyone and those practicing safely and sanely will understand that.

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u/theregencyqueen — 10 days ago

27 [F4A] #UK seeking extreme contract

Hello there. I’m a 27 year old female submissive looking for my forever owner. I don’t want to be a free woman. I’ve known I was submissive since I was eighteen and I hate the idea that I’m wandering around this miserable world unowned I am property and nothing more. I want next to no human rights- if you have a contract ready please feel free to send it. I’m looking primarily for females but I’d be open to males too and couples as well. I’m looking for sadists and cruel people who will destroy me in service. I want to be brainwashed and changed completely in my service to you. But I want us to be friends and have a strong connection too. I am only interested in those 34 plus with experience if you are my age or younger don’t bother you’ll be blocked. As will low effort replies. I am spilling my truth. Please have the respect to do the same. Tell me about the most painful physical thing you’ve done to a sub in your ownership.

I’m happy to give up what ever control I possibly can and I may even be able to relocate in time as well. For the right person. I gravitate towards kinks like branding, piercings, tattoos, TPE, and perm modifications in the name of improving myself for you. I love pain play and am eager to learn more about kinks associated to it as well. I discovered I was a sub by reading stuff online years ago and now I know this part of me exists I have to find my forever home. I want to have limited speech and commands I answer too. I effectively want to be reprogrammed.i want little to no human rights and my owner may sell me on and change my name if needed. I want perm body mods when we get there like split tongue, brands piercings and clit removal etc. I want to go all in or not at all.

I’m 27, I’m not getting any younger and all I’ve ever wanted to be is someone’s property. I’m not sure if I’m a brat. But if you do not like brats it maybe best not to apply just incase. Because I dont know what type of sub I am yet. I am seeking sadists based in the uk, willing to make my life unbearable. I want us to laugh at who I was when I first reached out. I want us to admire my changed body as your prisoner and see how far I’ve come.

I’m happy for you to control what I eat, how I eat and when. My hair colour, eye colour, everything I can give. I’d be forever grateful for the experience and guidance you’re giving me. I am inexperienced but I want an owner and I’d love to be branded one day. I’d love to feel the heat of the brand scorching my skin as punishment for my disobedience. I’d also naturally expect a contract

I do not send nudes or images and especially not after a day of talking. Online safety is important for everyone and those practicing safely and sanely will understand that.

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u/theregencyqueen — 13 days ago

27 [F4M] #germany/online Do you want to be my athletic obedient toy?

If you want to be owned and trained to be a good obedient toyboy then you should definitely consider messaging me ;)

I am looking for athletic guys willing to make sure that i will always be pleased happy and wet whenever and however I want it and you would happily comply just to make sure I'm satisfied like the good sub you are! I will make sure to train you so that you eventually will fit all my needs!

I prefer experienced toys but don't mind training serious newbies as well Kinks include joi/cumcontrol, edging, tease and denial, cbt etc Limits are mostly the obvious ones

Don't be shy and hit me up if you want to be that sub for me soon and maybe we can make it work for both of us;)

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u/misslinee — 11 days ago

33 [F4M] #UK Is there any MUSCULAR submissive needing some guidance or milking?

Need some gentle JOI? Look no further. Youre in the right place.

Im looking for some naughty fun with equally naughty-minded people. Primarily JOI or some similar mild things, but Im open to explore.

I will respect your limits and boundaries, I also dont require face. My only STRICT and not negotiable requirement is that youre MUSCULAR (more than just skinny fit, that is).

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u/Lady-M1stress — 11 days ago

21 [F4M] #slovakia sub looking to be humiliated by fat guy

I'm looking for a fat guy who likes thin girls like me and put them in their place

My kinks: breathplay CNC bondage humiliation control

What i want to try:rimming,piss, anal

My limits:blooplay

How do i look: white blue eyes light Brown hair 172cm 57kg

I kept IT short cause i know u re too lazy to read😁

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u/Plus-Beautiful5165 — 13 days ago

[NB4A] Anydesk Giving control to my computer #online #France

Updated the ID: Does anyone know how Anydesk work ?

I got my adress being numbers 1158393994

and my password is nakedloan69

I got a new computer and I am setting it up

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u/FederalNeat765 — 13 days ago