I'm not good at writing post like that but I hope i manage to find what I'm looking for with that.

I'm a transguy living in europe.

I haven't had any operations yet but I'm on T since over 2 years.

I'm a bit chubby, got dyed hair and a few piercings.

In my free time i like to game, read, chill with friends, listen to music, stuff like that.

I'm looking for something not only sexual. I want someone who helps me with my goals and maybe later things you think are good for me, someone I can talk about my day and form a connection with.

I would like to give up more and more control over time.

I'm looking for someone who is strict but also a nice person who I can talk to. I value regular chatting.

My kinks include TPE, praising, degrading, misgendering, some pain, orgasm control/denial, objectification, blackmail, stalking, cnc, intox

My limits are extreme pain, permanent stuff, illegal stuff, scat, piss(this is more of a soft limit tho)

Please introduce yourself, just "hey" as a first message will be ignored.

I’d like to find someone to explore, theoretically and in practice, the ins and outs of power dynamics.

You: smart af, attractive and fundamentally kind, but also very mean. Someone who might enjoy the idea of keeping a curious, reasonably well-behaved pet.

I’m in a long term relationship (naughty I know) and you need to be too.

I want fun, flirtatious and interesting conversation with someone knowledgeable, experienced, firm and engaged. Someone who enjoys teaching as much as I enjoy learning.

Online only for now, there could be potential for more, but no guarantee.

I think you’ll find me to be a keen learner and attractive enough for an online acquaintance.

Happy to answer questions if we click

Hii / Hej😊

Im a sub who’s looking for my long term daddy dom.

I do not wanna rush into anything, im waiting for the right daddy who fits in with what I want and vice versa ofc. 

Since I wanna find my future Daddy, it’s important for me that you either lives close to me (Denmark) or you are willing to travel. If you’re not from Denmark I will prefer Scandinavia or Germany so it isn’t too far away.

First of all, I have dark blond semi-Long hair, I like to be innocent, to be taken care of in every way, and i also love to not be the one who makes the decisions. I’m loyal and clingy when I fall in love, but I know it’s also a good thing to miss each other. I’m willing to do almost everything for my daddy, always be there for him in every way he needs. I would love to watch tv/movies together while cuddling, and I hope you like giving massages (sexual and non-sexual). 

My main kinks: DDLG, CNC, incest, breeding, praising, choking, degradation, spanking💕

Limits: scat, diapers, polygamy

I would really like you to be naturally dominant, strict etc. but also loving and caring. 

I prefer someone between the age of 25-35, but its not a dealbreaker if you’re younger or older than that.

I would like a tall daddy and who has experience with ddlg and cnc.

 I’m 5.8 / 173 cm (yes I have long legs lol). 

If you don’t want a relationship, or isn’t ready for one, please don’t text me. Also I’m not sure if i would ever want to have kids, so if thats important for you, that’s a dealbreaker. 😊

And btw I really love cats! , sadly I don’t have one 

If you’re interested in getting to know me more, text me! Please state your age and location, so I know you did read the whole post.🫶🏻

Man er meget velkommen til at skrive på dansk😁

Hello, I once had a post on the bdsmpersonals sub, but since they now redirect to another side, I thought I'd try it here.

Tl;dr: Sub F27 from north-western Germany looking for experience either online or irl.

Description: 1,65m; 73kg, brown hair/eyes, curvy/average, introvert.

I'm F27 still living in north-western Germany. I finally feel like dating again and wanted to try finding a kinky partner again, since vanilla life hasn't been too kind to me. I'd like to gain some experience whether short or longterm/online or irl. So far I have no experience in dynamics and little experience in relationships in general (trauma, bullying, being very selective/closed off so far). When I fall, I fall hard, so I've avoided dating for a long time, waiting for Mr. Right to spawn in my living room ;)

About me:

I'm mostly submissive, leaning towards prey and being a bit of brat. The latter mostly manifests in teasing banter and clever remarks with people I feel closest with. I'm somewhere between a brat and a good girl with a rather playful nature instead of straight-up disobedience.

I am in general fairly educated and interested in many different topics from history, politics, languages, cultures to random facts, gaming, anime, reading. I have rather broad general knowledge and value this in a person/partner.

About you:

Open-minded, educated in kink (SSC, some of these ads here are terrifying), preferably 30-35+, taller than me (not that difficult ;)). Willing to play with a total beginner.

For longterm relationships:

(these do not apply for online/short-term)

I would prefer someone who also brings a bit of baggage/life experience, since I connect easier and deeper with people who know the struggle of a not too easy/not too miserable life. Irl I am not able/willing to relocate too far, so I'd prefer a partner from Germany/my region. I'd also prefer a partner who speaks both English and German.

Seeking a long term vanilla and kinky relationship. Ideally between about 36 and 46 years old.

Seeking dominant man who is happy for vanilla in public but lota of kink and power imbalance at home.

Main kinks: orgasm control, rope, verbal degredation.

Would like to try hucow, puppy, and more.

Hey,

Nice to have you here. Hope you had a good day so far.

I'm looking for something real and serious, I'm not a fan of wasting my or someone else's time, so please read it all before you message me.

I'm based in Germany, NRW to be precise. Therefore I'd like to meet someone out the area too. If you're from Cologne, Bonn or the rhein-sieg-circle, it's even better.

I know the searching are is quite small, but since I don't have a driver licence and would like to meet sometimes after work, I'd prefer someone who's not that far away from me (unless you have a car or a bike and don't mind driving to my city).

So who am I?

I'm just a girl (172cm, pretty short hair, slim build, a few tattoos), who just finished her Ausbildung and started working full time in the same place. I'm twenty and to be honest I'm not an outgoing person. Though one on one sometimes is pretty nice, I've to say. I like crochet and knit stuff, read thrillers and detectives, but I do have some romance books (damn BookTok). I also enjoy doing yoga/pilates and going on walks.

Personally wise I'd say I'm an introvert, who can yap if comfortable. I use a lot of sarcasm, but get unsure when it's reversed. I also speak three languages - English, German and Russian.

Who I'm looking for?

Well it depends on the setting. I mean if we click, we click. Wonderful. But if I'm allowed to dream a bit, I'd say my type is someone older, maybe even a bit dominant (not like with task and punishments), just someone who'll lead. Who has a bit more experience because I'm clueless about most relationship related things. I don't really have any kinks, due to my inexperience, but I do crave someone dominant, who can take a bit of weight off my shoulders and lead me in some ways, since I struggle to make decisions sometimes.

You think we could click? DM me

Thanks for reading

Looking for a special long-term connection with a gentle Dom (does this term even exist? :))
I'm new to this dynamic. I got a very little taste of it, and only later realized how much I enjoyed it. I've read a lot about the psychological side of this kind of connection, and it made me even more curious to explore it with someone I can trust 100%. I'm not in a rush, rather I'd like to find the perfect match. I'm in my early 40s and enjoy music, deep conversations, art, and politics. Not interested in an online-only connection.

I’m a confident, strict, but caring domme looking for a strong, athletic guy who enjoys being challenged, following instructions and giving his full attention to the woman in charge.

I have a particular weakness for big, masculine men who are confident on the outside but secretly love surrendering control. I enjoy giving my sub tasks, teasing him, pushing him outside his comfort zone and watching him prove how eager he is to please me. Dancing, stripping, modelling, household tasks, challenges and plenty of playful humiliation are all things I enjoy. I enjoy the switch from big strong guy to slutty sub.

My ideal sub is confident, cocky, athletic, muscular, hairy, kinky and—most importantly—very submissive. I like someone who can be confident in everyday life but knows exactly when to hand over control. Be sweet, be eager to please, follow my instructions and let yourself enjoy the experience.

And yes, I have a soft spot for guys in sports uniforms. 😏 That said, don’t let that stop you from messaging me if you’re not exactly that type. Chemistry matters more than checking every box.

I’m 25F, originally from the US but currently living in the Netherlands. I’m a soft Domme who loves teasing, control and getting inside someone’s head a little.

I’m pretty easygoing outside of kink. I love gaming, movies, series and just having normal conversations too. I’m not looking for someone who only appears when they’re horny, I actually like getting to know my subs.

Kink-wise I’m into quite a lot, especially control, humiliation, chastity, feminization and giving tasks, but I’m always curious about what someone else is into too.

I care a lot about respect, communication and consistency. You don’t have to be the perfect sub, just be genuine and don’t disappear after two conversations lol.

If you’re submissive and think we might click, just introduce yourself (in short at first please) and tell me a little about you. I don’t bite immediately :)

Also side note: I can verify and I havent really explored domming a female before so curious about that as well!

I am seeking a Dominant or switch play partner for an ongoing in-person dynamic. 30+ only, I do not like playing with men in their 20s. Don’t waste your time asking, you will not be the exception and I will just block you for not respecting my preference.

I am not interested in a fully submissive partner. I am also not looking for a traditional romantic relationship within a dynamic at this time, although if something develops organically, I am open to that.

I’m based in the central Netherlands, so you should be within reasonable travel distance and open to meeting in-person. I’m not interested in online only arrangements and I do not enjoy extensive online play.

I enjoy dynamics that involve both giving and receiving discipline, authority, and accountability. Interests include orgasm control, chastity, obedience training, worship, service, degradation and humiliation within limits, spanking, maintenance discipline, obedience focused structure, practical acts of care, and CNC. I appreciate creativity, but substance matters more than overcomplicated theatrics.

I have a good idea of what I’m looking for, but I don’t want everything to be set in stone, aside from hard limits. I’d like the dynamic to develop naturally based on the connection and compatibility I have with the person or people I meet.

If you decide to message me then tell me about you: your dynamic style, experience, interests, and how you envision a first meeting. Too many people message only about what they want from me without considering what they offer in return. I’m looking for something mutual, where both people add value to the dynamic.

I will read and respond to all messages, but low effort one line messages, generic copy and paste replies, messages with excessive use of emojis (seriously, use your words), very obviously AI edited messages will simply be ignored.

Hard limits for me are not challenges or things I “need to work on” or “explore.” They are boundaries, and I have no interest in changing my mind about them. Please do not try to persuade me otherwise. Hard limits include blood or needle play, speculums, wax, stretching, scat, fisting, breeding, rough breast and nipple play, full head hoods, rope bondage, surveillance, latex or rubber wear, hygiene based humiliation, public play, wardrobe control, spitting, shared insertable toys, smokers, name calling, and any insults directed at my intelligence.

I’m not a little, not into age regression, and not seeking a 24/7 Master slave setup.

Not interested in ENM people or people already in a dynamic. Also, people who talk constantly about their offspring tend to bore me. Some seem to assume that because I am a woman, I will automatically be interested, but that is not the case.

Words like “subspace,” “dropping,” and calling yourself an “alpha” do not appeal to me. I respect if that language works for you, but it is a turnoff for me.

If you’ve made it this far and still think we might be a good fit, then I’d love to hear from you.

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I'm looking for someone at least 35+ for an in-person long-term play partnership. Must live in or near Salzburg.

I'm a thin, slender, brunette. I like nature, staying fit, delicious food, and saunas. I'm a busy person so I don't have a ton of free time for play sessions, but what time I do have I would love to give to you. I would like to find someone I can trust.

Good and regular communication is extremely important to me.  

I'm an intelligent, confident woman in my "normal life" and I'm not looking for TPE or bimbofication.  I like praise but also mild humiliation and pain play such as spanking. I would like to find someone who has experience with BDSM. I think I would fit best with someone who derives pleasure from my pleasure and who likes to make me the focus of our play sessions. 

I would appreciate an introduction from you, incluing your age and location! If you send a short message with minimal effort, I will ignore it.  I would also like a photo within 24 hours of chatting. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hey everyone. Hope you’re having a good day whether this applies to you or not. I’m looking for a daddy dom first of all. Someone kind and respectful but also dominant and possessive. I’m only looking for long term/life partners/ marriage. And I say marriage because I’m Christian and it means a lot to me. And now you may think “oh she’s Christian she wants to wait till marriage ew not for me” but that’s not the case. I’ve already been sexually active so I see no point in waiting anymore.

I’m looking for someone between 22-34. Write me if you’re a bit older we can see if it fits. But I think 34 is a good cut off. I’m looking for someone willing to move to Denmark or someone who’s already here. I don’t want to live together before marriage. I’m chronically ill so I can’t move to another country unfortunately. But you can’t tell by looking at me

On to more fun things. I’m into anal, praise, ddlg, spanking, bratting and a few other things. At least you get my vibe.

My hobbies include reading books, gaming when I have the time, music, drawing and crochet.

I’m curvy and have a bit of a tummy I’m working on reducing. I’m 168 cm tall. And I’m a redhead with glasses

I think that’s was all to say. Write me if you have questions/are interested. Write more than just hey. Low effort messages will be ignored!

It should be said that I don’t masturbate and I don’t intend on starting with it. And I’m at school so I can’t do anything sexual really for the time being

Need some gentle JOI? Look no further. Youre in the right place.

Im looking for some naughty fun with equally naughty-minded people. Primarily JOI or some similar mild things, but Im open to explore.

I will respect your limits and boundaries, I also dont require face. My only STRICT and not negotiable requirement is that youre MUSCULAR (more than just skinny fit, that is).