u/junebug56743

27 [F4M] #Germany #online sub looking for a Dom

Hello, I once had a post on the bdsmpersonals sub, but since they now redirect to another side, I thought I'd try it here.

Tl;dr: Sub F27 from north-western Germany looking for experience either online or irl.

Description: 1,65m; 73kg, brown hair/eyes, curvy/average, introvert.

I'm F27 still living in north-western Germany. I finally feel like dating again and wanted to try finding a kinky partner again, since vanilla life hasn't been too kind to me. I'd like to gain some experience whether short or longterm/online or irl. So far I have no experience in dynamics and little experience in relationships in general (trauma, bullying, being very selective/closed off so far). When I fall, I fall hard, so I've avoided dating for a long time, waiting for Mr. Right to spawn in my living room ;)

About me:

I'm mostly submissive, leaning towards prey and being a bit of brat. The latter mostly manifests in teasing banter and clever remarks with people I feel closest with. I'm somewhere between a brat and a good girl with a rather playful nature instead of straight-up disobedience.

I am in general fairly educated and interested in many different topics from history, politics, languages, cultures to random facts, gaming, anime, reading. I have rather broad general knowledge and value this in a person/partner.

About you:

Open-minded, educated in kink (SSC, some of these ads here are terrifying), preferably 30-35+, taller than me (not that difficult ;)). Willing to play with a total beginner.

For longterm relationships:

(these do not apply for online/short-term)

I would prefer someone who also brings a bit of baggage/life experience, since I connect easier and deeper with people who know the struggle of a not too easy/not too miserable life. Irl I am not able/willing to relocate too far, so I'd prefer a partner from Germany/my region. I'd also prefer a partner who speaks both English and German.

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