42 [M4F] #Montreal #Online Daddy looking for genuine connection
About me: I'm 6'2, short brown hair, mustache, brown eyes, average to slender body, tattoos. I'm a PhD student, I read a lot of philosophy, I love fashion, I listen to a lot of music, and I love to go to raves, shows, etc. Strong, quiet type is an accurate description of how I carry myself.
Perfectly fine with online only, thought needless to say I would prefer an in real life connection.
I am looking for my primary partner which is to say I am non-monogamous/monogam-ish. However, I am *not* polyamorous. We can discuss what that means more in-depth in messages.
Communication, mutual understanding, and consent need to be established for us to do anything together. I want to know about your interest in kink, your boundaries, but also about your life outside the bedroom as well. I want a real connection not only based on sex!
About my approach to this kink: I'm a pleasure dom. I want to be in control, but I also want to help you become the best version of yourself. Help provide structure and positive reinforcement, I want to reward you for doing a good job, and praise you when you've earned it. However, you will be punished just the same if you don't perform to the level I believe you're able to achieve. To that end, I like to go to the rougher end of the spectrum too though, within reason, and based on mutual consent. I like degradation and humiliation, but they are not dealbreakers if they are not for you.
Please be able to share pictures eventually. Mutual physical attraction is important to me (I'm sorry, I can't just take it on faith that you are who you claim to be). I won't rush you, but I don't want us to talk for weeks or a month only to find out we are not attracted to each other.
If any of this sounds appealing to you, shoot me a message and let's talk and see where it goes!