u/-cattoo-

I'm looking for a sub/partner for a long term relationship. I've been into gentle femdom for over a year now, but I haven't had very much experience in person. I want to start with some non-sexual communication. I'm not into ENM.

I feel like it's always best when something friendly is established first and then if it leads into the flirty territory naturally then that's great!

A bit about me: I'm 29 years old, 5'3", dark brown eyes and long hair. I am plus size. I work for a company that sells lab equipment. I enjoy baking, and cooking (but the cleaning part always makes me sad), rewatching my favorite tv shows over and over. Lately l've been taking initiative and starting little office activities for my coworkers and I, so that's gotten my creative side going. It's been fun but also hectic because I sometimes travel for work and then I'm struggling to finish planning things. Update on that, now l've made a mistake because people will think I'm the designated event planner and I'll take over their own ideas

I am a switch but definitely leaning on the dominant side now. Again, I haven't done much in person but l do like/would like to experience the following:

Edging -Orgasm control/denial -Collars/leashes
Chastity -Pegging -Feminization

I've realized I should add what I'm not into as well 😅

While I like being dominant, I do not want to be in a FLR. I'm not strict at all either.

Limits:
Humiliation/degradation
Pain
Scat
Blood

I prefer someone that's 27-35 years old. This is maybe going to sound mean (and if it does then idc) if you are from a different state, country, or even from over an hour away away from the LA+OC county then don’t reach out to me. I’ve had one too many bad experiences with people out of state/far away that I’m just done with it.

If you’re ashamed/self conscious about being a sub then don’t reach out to me either. It is something private of course, but if it’s something where you are uncomfortable afterwards and you become a ghost…don’t waste my time. 

I’ve included a link with a picture of myself and if I do accept your request it’d be awesome if you could share a picture of yourself too. 😊

A couple pics of me: https://imgur.com/a/kTEPC5M

Edit: I think I fixed the link 😅😅