u/-dom-me-

First off, I promise you that if you reach out to me I won't say a single thing sexual until you give me the "green light" by literally messaging me those two words. I really just want to start a conversation with a mommydom. Finding someone who is genuinely interested in this kink has felt like finding a unicorn.

I'm Ben, 39/m and active in the bdsm lifestyle for a long time. I'm a switch at heart, but as a male switch who is good at domming, I have barely ever gotten to experience being a sub in any capacity. I'm fascinated by psychology and especially hearing peoples' stories about their past and their kinks. It always reminds me of hearing a villain's origin story, where you get that moment of thinking "ohhhh this all makes so much sense now!"

I know from being a good dom that the mental aspect of things is the most important, so I am looking for someone who is intelligent and can give me a run for my money in conversation. I'm really passionate about some things and if you get me talking about it, I can go on and on. But if you can teach me something I don't know, I'll love it. And if you outsmart me? Forget it, I'll melt.

About you: As far as what I'm looking for, being smart and good with conversation is the biggest thing. I'm into most all types of bodies, again it's the mental part of this that gets me going. I have no age preference aside from that you need to be legal. I do like talking quite a bit, so if you don't like frequent chats I might be off-putting to you.

Personally I'm a medical professional and I am very into fitness, as well as my numerous hobbies. I like to tell people I only work to be able to afford my hobbies. I'm pretty sure I fit the stereotype of the guy who is in charge and on his game all day but wants the polar opposite in bed. I read a LOT, audiobooks and the real thing (although I prefer the real thing!) I'm 5'10 and 180lbs, built like a swimmer or a wide receiver. I have very dark features, black hair and a full beard, very dark brown eyes. And nowadays there is a bit of gray streaked in with the black hair. I was a college athlete years back and have tried to maintain that level of fitness ever since. I live in the Midwest, in the CST time zone.

My main kinks are: femdom, JOI, overstimulation, edging, prostate play, handjobs, nursing handjobs, pegging, bondage, sounding, tickling, armpits, MDlb, ageplay, TPE, anything sneaky or public.

My limits almost don't exist, but I'm not down for anything illegal or anything involving scat or vomit.

Hopefully this modern day message in a bottle finds someone out there and really strikes your fancy!

39 [m4f] I want those cute armpits.

I have such a powerful kink for underarms and tickling, it's not even funny. It's to the point where if someone offered me a toy picture or an armpit picture, 100% armpit pic.

If you have ticklish underarms and want to chat, PLEASE let me know because I'd love to chat.

I'm Ben, 39/m very athletic guy.

I have such a powerful kink for underarms and tickling, it's not even funny. It's to the point where if someone offered me a toy picture or an armpit picture, 100% armpit pic.

If you have ticklish underarms and want to chat, PLEASE let me know because I'd love to chat.

I'm Ben, 39/m very athletic guy.

First off, I promise you that if you reach out to me I won't say a single thing sexual until you give me the "green light" by literally messaging me those two words. I really just want to start a conversation with a mommydom. Finding someone who is genuinely interested in this kink has felt like finding a unicorn.

I'm Ben, 39/m and active in the bdsm lifestyle for a long time. I'm a switch at heart, but as a male switch who is good at domming, I have barely ever gotten to experience being a sub in any capacity. I'm fascinated by psychology and especially hearing peoples' stories about their past and their kinks. It always reminds me of hearing a villain's origin story, where you get that moment of thinking "ohhhh this all makes so much sense now!"

I know from being a good dom that the mental aspect of things is the most important, so I am looking for someone who is intelligent and can give me a run for my money in conversation. I'm really passionate about some things and if you get me talking about it, I can go on and on. But if you can teach me something I don't know, I'll love it. And if you outsmart me? Forget it, I'll melt.

About you: As far as what I'm looking for, being smart and good with conversation is the biggest thing. I'm into most all types of bodies, again it's the mental part of this that gets me going. I have no age preference aside from that you need to be legal. I do like talking quite a bit, so if you don't like frequent chats I might be off-putting to you.

Personally I'm a medical professional and I am very into fitness, as well as my numerous hobbies. I like to tell people I only work to be able to afford my hobbies. I'm pretty sure I fit the stereotype of the guy who is in charge and on his game all day but wants the polar opposite in bed. I read a LOT, audiobooks and the real thing (although I prefer the real thing!) I'm 5'10 and 180lbs, built like a swimmer or a wide receiver. I have very dark features, black hair and a full beard, very dark brown eyes. And nowadays there is a bit of gray streaked in with the black hair. I was a college athlete years back and have tried to maintain that level of fitness ever since. I live in the Midwest, in the CST time zone.

My main kinks are: femdom, JOI, overstimulation, edging, prostate play, handjobs, nursing handjobs, pegging, bondage, sounding, tickling, armpits, MDlb, ageplay, TPE, anything sneaky or public.

My limits almost don't exist, but I'm not down for anything illegal or anything involving scat or vomit.

Hopefully this modern day message in a bottle finds someone out there and really strikes your fancy!