26f4M

Just looking to have a good time I guess?

I can bring over some pulled chicken and let’s drink and see if connection hits.

Kinda looking for someone who might want serious

People experienced in d/s to the front please.

25-35 only
Located in port orchard.

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u/-subby-kitten- — 3 days ago

26f4m - looking for long term and serious - very kinky -NO HOOKUPS!

Trying this here, I’m in central Kansas by hays, I am looking for a man who is very kink heavy and is looking for a woman who also is.

I am looking into moving into the area, but if market is trash I ain’t even gonna bother.
Please be between 26-35, I am free tomorrow would love to go hang at the lake and have a few beers.

Pics and info also so ik you read my post, say kitty :3

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u/-subby-kitten- — 17 days ago

26f4M READ POST!

Hello,

I am seeking a d/s dynamic long term and Kansas is my home state I am available in town tonight for an in person vetting (: if interested lmk.
Loooking at possibly relocation

Ages 26-35

Say pine if you read my post.

u/-subby-kitten- — 18 days ago

26F4M, seeking d/s dynamic

Visiting to see family. Wondering if there were in any d/s dominants in the area looking for long term as I’m considering moving to the Hays Area.
Will be available the 18th and 21st for a meetup and/or vetting session.

PM if interested.

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u/-subby-kitten- — 21 days ago

26f4M - seeking daddy, be the reason I come home.

Hello!

I am seeking someone to vet in person with. I am considering moving home but, my reason would be to be with someone.

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u/-subby-kitten- — 21 days ago
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27f4m - visiting, looking for a dominant READ POST

Visiting to see family. Wondering if there were in any d/s dominants in the area looking for long term as I’m considering moving to the Hays Area.
Will be available the 18th and 21st for a meetup and/or vetting session.

PM if interested.

Please view profile for ad.

u/-subby-kitten- — 21 days ago
▲ 6 r/SubDomTinder+1 crossposts

I miss genuine connection. The kind that builds anticipation throughout the day. Wanting to tell someone about everything. Feeling chosen, pursued, thought about. I want mutual effort, emotional intimacy, chemistry that lingers, and a dynamic that feels safe enough to fully sink into.
I’m looking for a Dom who understands that submission is something earned through trust, consistency, and care — not demanded immediately. I’m interested in building a long-term dynamic with someone emotionally intelligent, communicative, and genuinely invested in getting to know me as a person first.
My submission is deeply tied to emotional connection. I’m naturally nurturing, attentive, affectionate, and eager to please when I feel safe with someone. I enjoy giving someone my trust slowly and intentionally, and I value a Dom who sees submission as something vulnerable and meaningful rather than performative.
I’m drawn to:
Structure, guidance, and consistency
Feeling emotionally safe enough to let go
Praise, reassurance, and being wanted intentionally
Mutual obsession/adoration energy
Anticipation, teasing, tension, and emotional intimacy
A dynamic where care exists both inside and outside of scenes
A Dom who enjoys leading with confidence, patience, and emotional awareness
I enjoy aspects of TPE, but only with strong communication, compatibility, and trust established first. I’m not looking to be rushed into intensity. I want something that develops naturally and becomes deeply fulfilling for both people over time.
What I’m looking for:
Long-term potential
Consistent communication and effort
Emotional maturity and accountability
Someone dominant in a grounded, secure way
In-person connection eventually
Strong vetting and intentional relationship-building
A Dom who values loyalty, trust, and reciprocity
Not interested in:
Fake “alpha” energy
Immediate ownership claims
One-sided dynamics
Low effort or emotionally unavailable people
People who confuse dominance with disrespect
I want a connection where we’re both excited about each other. Where submission feels natural instead of forced, and where dominance comes from trust, patience, and genuine desire to build something real.

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u/-subby-kitten- — 2 months ago