My wife recently told me that she regrets how she lost her virginity and wants to role play with me doing it again to feel special
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My wife and I have been successfully reconnecting for the past year or so. Our kids are almost 9 and 10, and we are now ready to start focusing on each other after years of focusing mostly on getting the kids through the rough early years. My wife read an article recently about a woman in her 40s who threw herself a birthday, but the birthday was themed to be the birthday she never got to have as a child. It wasn't cheesy or anything; it was meant as an act of self-love and was a very heartwarming article. A few days later, my wife told me that she had an idea that came to her after reading that article. She lost her virginity in a way that was pretty "meaningless" (her words). It was a person she worked with at one of her high school teenage jobs. She's mentioned it a few times to me, and I can tell it's something she thinks about from time to time. That kind of stuff has never bothered me and I like learning about what her life was like before we met in our late 20s.
Anyway, she wants to "recreate" losing her virginity and make it special with me. Her telling me this was exciting for a few reasons. First, is that she doesn't open up about her fantasies very often unless it's just pointing out a good-looking guy on TV or something. Second, the thought of it also kind of excited me (and I don't know why). I was really glad she shared that with me.
I've been thinking about it since she mentioned it last week and I'm going to bring it up again and see what I can do for her, but I want to come to the conversation with a few ideas on how I can make it special to her. One idea I had was to go 2 or 3 weeks without sex. But other than that I'm rather stumped for ideas I can bring to her. Of course, I'll let her guide the conversation and listen, but I'm also curious if anyone else has any ideas.