r/MarriedSex

Great topic for some erotic discussions. Would you and your wife/GF/Significant Other ever audition for a role in a porn movie? If so what would be the scene you would both want?

I think my wite would want a scene where she's the
TOTAL pillow princess with me and another guy or woman massaging, licking, penetrating and eating cum.
Just the other day she told me she is curious to try boob sucking with another woman in the 69 position. Now that would be a great scene to watch. 😈

Married couples. I read something that says you don't need a hotel room for a night, you need 45 Minutes in a parking lot..

I can't stop thinking about it ..

Any ideas?

The past 2 Saturday mornings we have used a penis sleeve resulting in her going into convulsions and moaning loud enough to wake the neighbors, yet she says I doesn't matter to her if we use it or not.

I think she doesn't want to admit she likes bigger ones.

Over the past year my husband shared he was turned on watching me work (I do sales shows). For the first time in forever I had a show in our city so he came. He never saw me work a show before and didn't know I dressed up. He couldn't stop saying how great I looked. And I did, I make better sales when my boobs are on display. As typical the guys were reacting so positively to me and many are flirty (esp the older guys they are so kind to pretty girls) he said he was turned on watching me. He came to another show but he didn't tell me and he took pictures of me working. I was kind of mad but I didn't do anything to be ashamed of. He had a picture of me with I my hand on a guy's arm. He said it was sexy to watch me flirt. Then he said he wants us to go out with me dressed up and be a little flirty like at a bar or a club.

What do I do with this? Has anyone else had their fella get turned on by you (the wife) flirting with other men? I've done light flirting for work but I dont feel right leading a guy on at a bar. I appreciate advice and ideas. Thank you.

M23 F25 we been married 3 years together for 7 total. Everytime we have sex it can be 10/15/40 minutes I can not get her to cum we can use a vibrator while we have sex and still nothing she makes noise squirms but never can actually cum from it. She also never has before according to her with anybody else. With oral she typically can but sometimes she literally will just sit there and want you to keep going but never actually cums 40+ minutes of that btw what to do ?? what am I doing wrong
?how to improve this???

My wife (37) and I (39) have an overnight getaway next week to celebrate our 12th wedding anniversary. We’re already getting excited and talking about it cause hotel sex is always better than at home. I want to heighten the experience with anal play on her. I’m not interested in anal sex (at least not at this time), but I want to rub, lick, and maybe even insert a finger. For backstory, my hands venture in that area often and she responds favorably. One night in particular we were both a little drunk and I did lick her ass and she was definitely leaning into it and encouraging it. Should I bring it up to her before and tell her what I want to do? Or just go in the moment and see how she responds. Alcohol will likely be involved next week which makes her extra horny. I honestly think she’s all for it just a little embarrassed to admit it because it’s a little taboo. I think she’d be all about it when she releases her inhibitions. For what it’s worth, she is has a slightly higher drive than me and we have sex about 3 times a week.

My wife and I enjoy mutual masturbation as foreplay and watching each other as we touch ourselves separately before actually making any contact. Sitting across from each other on the couch, bed, or wherever. It is such a turn on. I also enjoy focusing my attention only on her and giving her pussy pleasure with my tongue, fingers, or with one of our vibrating toys.. she finds it hard to restrain herself when I do this because she always wants to get her hands or mouth on my cock, or to start making out but I have to push her back so I can keep the focus on her . Well, recently I have discovered something that I am now basically fascinated with and addicted to which is watching her pussy throb, pulse, and contract when she has an orgasm. We have one of the mini wand vibrating toys which is typically our favorite . She loves using this toy on my cock as well but for me, after spending time eating her pussy out and getting her completely horned up, I get the wand vibrator and gently begin to massage her pussy with it, rubbing her clit, using my middle finger inside her with the ‘come here’ motion, feeling her pussy get so wet and feeling her pussy begin to tighten up as she starts to clinch her hips and thrust upward. I always know when she is about to cum when she turns her head sideways, her mouth opening wide, and starts moving her hips faster while of course making louder moaning noises. At this point I take the wand and hold it directly on her clit.. her legs spread wide in front of me, her hips clinched up, she starts having her orgasm and I watch her pussy begin to contract as moans with her orgasm.
Her pussy throbs and pulses with each orgasmic contraction as well as her ass. I watch it the whole time and then as she settles I’ll rub it and lick it calmly for her as she sometimes continues to twitch. I can’t believe I’ve never discovered this before but I just can’t get enough of it ! It is such a turn on! After she finishes she of course wants my hard cock so I just let her do as she pleases with me.

Does Anyone else have this pussy throbbing fascination?

For context we’ve been married almost 20 years. We have sex about once a week. I’d love it more often but that’s where we’re at. I know she loves me and enjoys sex when we have it, and occasionally she will even initiate….and by initiate I mean she’ll come to bed naked….but won’t really do more than that.

I would like for her to really want me….to lust after me….to desire me so much that she can’t help but show me. For her to give me those lust filled greedy eyes that I give her at times!

How do we work on that part? Getting her to show that she wants and lusts after me? Ladies, what flipped that switch in you?

I've had multiple couples massages with my wife. All of them have been excellent and typical massages. I've also traveled alone to get happy-ending massages, which are always amazing. I would adore taking my spouse to a couples massage so that we could both have happy ends.

Has anyone previously attempted this? If so, how was the experience?

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Today hubby (M44) and I (F45) celebrated our 22 year wedding anniversary and I think it was one of the best ones yet ❤️.

The last 5 months my libido has sky rocketed and we have been experimenting more and more in the bedroom with toys, anal, fantasy etc and its been amazing- I have never felt more connected or loved by my husband- we act like horny teenagers infact our own teenagers keep telling us to get a room 🤣

Enter our wedding anniversary, hubby's suggested we go to a sex shop and see what there is - there are a couple of things we wanting to add to our collection - I was super keen. But we also decided to dress up a little because we didn't know what was on the agenda next... anyways so I decided to wear my little black dress with lace red bra and panties underneath which I knew would drive hubby mad. The whole drive to the sex shop my husband kept putting his hand up my dress was super hot. We landed up spending way too long at the sex shop but had fun - we decided to buy a jeweled anal plug and feeling naughty we decided to go for a drink and I would slip away and come back wearing it.....it was so much fun....drinks turned too dinner and the whole time we sitting there with our little secret.

After dinner I went back to the bathroom and removed my panties....I walked up to him placed them in his pocket and said thanks for dinner. We landed up making out in a dark corner on the way back to the car.... being married can be so much fun

Despite my encouragement, T has never been one to indulge in masturbation. She has maintained that “You do it better… It’s not as fun without you… I feel weird about it…” Outside of using a dildo and wand for some final orgasms after sex, I have never seen her masturbate in 20+ years.

All that changed a few weeks back. We bought a new sex toy from our favorite Australian supplier and received a free audio download “Re-claiming your Clitoris”. I asked T if she wanted to try it one night, and she agreed.

We both laid in bed, each with an ear-bud in, and listened to the meditation. It starts with relaxation and breath work, moves in to gentle touch, and eventually to self-pleasure at the listener’s level of desire. The narrator/creator is a sexy sounding Australian woman who is playing along, so to speak, and giving affirmations. 30minutes in all.

T followed along, and it was not long before I heard her moaning with pleasure and furiously rubbing her clit. It was exceptionally hot, and she had a few great orgasms.

Since then, she has “Re-claimed her Clitoris” and is so sexy and free with herself during our connection time. She is nearly as obsessed with and curious about her clit as I am.

I absolutely love and adore this woman as my Wife, and am so proud of her for realizing that she has the right to derive pleasure from her body.

Anyone else have a similar experience to share?

I’m gone for about a week and my birthday is today. Hanging out in the hotel watching the nba game. So, kinda sucks.

But I got a full body nude selfie from my wife today. (No I won’t be posting it but it’s really hot)

So I got that going for me.

We’ve been married for 2 years and my partner has probably eaten me out no more than 6 times in total, he says that I’m too wet and it feels like he’s being slimed at the kids choice awards 🙃

We just had our fist baby 7 weeks ago and I’ve had a very high libido even while pregnant and postpartum and we’ve been very active in the bedroom, but with that I’ve given him countless BJs either before sex or by itself to completion and it just feels like he won’t reciprocate it with either fingering me or anything, we still have sex but it’s mostly him wanting me to be on top and it lasting no more than 5 minutes. And after he cums he basically is done for the night and will go to sleep within 10 minutes.

I just hate asking him to do it and feels like it ruins the mood, any advice on how to make him want to eat me out or spend more time on me without directly asking for it?

This is a record for us, and it started after we made our first post. Is this a good record?

Last night I had some of the best sex of my marriage! My wife came to the bedroom in basically stripper clothes, fishnet stockings and heels included. I have a blue tooth speaker that puts on a light show, so I played a stripper playlist. Lights off, just the lights from the speaker going.

She gave me a lap dance and then we had some of the most heated sexy sex we’ve ever had. We’ve done a little role playing before but this was incredible! Would highly recommend throwing this into your arsenal of ways to spice things up.

We are happily married (both 30) and now we are expecting baby in few months. The issue is her mouth seems little small compared to my penis and it really hurts when I put that in her mouth. Seems like thr sharp teeths are grinding over the skin of the penis, which a huge turn off for me.

She is a good slim south asian girl and try to please me with other way but when it comes to oral(bj), things get awkward for both of us.

What do you guys suggest?

Wife and I are talking about this. Any toy recommendations? If they have something that could work for both of us at the same time that would be fantastic. Something to enter me while she can grind herself on something that vibrates?

Sometimes I feel like we go through the same motions before sex. Kiss, touch here, massage there and so on. It’s not that we don’t necessarily enjoy it, but I want to add more spice. Just looking for suggestions, ideas and tips!

We’ve only run into the obvious single dudes pretending to be a couple. Annoying as shit.