u/ChampionshipCheap795

My wife 42 and I 45 have talked about buying a suction cup dildo for about a month. She came to me that she fantasized about it for some time. Due to life, kids, schedules etc, it was put on the back burner until recently. Last weekend we went to dinner, smoked, went to our local sex store, and then to the bar.

My wife was instantly nervous but turned on after seeing all the different lengths and girths. I wanted to get the biggest one just to see if she could take it, but I also know you need to build up in sizes. We found a nice girth 8.5 inch suction cup dildo that she agreed to use.

After we got home from the bar, we went to our room and she got ready. She pulled out of the package and slap it on the headboard and interested it. Seeing her face I know she was fulfilled and enjoying her new toy.

Once she got into a grove and started blowing me it was pure ecstasy. I made her stop because I didn’t want to blow my load to early. I had her lay on her back and used the dildo on here while licking her clit. She didn’t last long before she said she was going to cum and wanted me to stop. We placed the dildo back on the headboard and she went back to town on both dicks. We lasted about 5 more mins and both had an amazing orgasm.

I can’t wait to incorporate the dildo more into our sex life and try all different scenarios.

What scenarios do other couples play out that have one?

Husbands buy your wife the dildo!

As the title says, my wife (42F) has mentioned that she’d like to use a suction-cup dildo while giving me (45M) a blowjob. It honestly sounds like it could be a really fun experience for both of us.

I have a few questions for people who have tried something similar:

   •   What type of suction-cup dildo feels the most realistic and stays securely in place?

   •   What size would you recommend? I’m not particularly large, and we’ve experimented with a penis sleeve that brought me to around 7 inches in length and just over an inch in diameter. I’d like something that’s filling for her without being uncomfortable. She has more experience than I do and has been with larger partners in the past.

   •   What’s the best way to set this up? Mounted to a headboard, the floor, a wall, or another surface?

   •   Finally, for couples who’ve explored this kind of play, did it stay as fantasy and toy play, or did it eventually lead to inviting a third person into the bedroom? I’m curious about others’ experiences, not assuming there’s a right or wrong progression.

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This past weekend my wife and I were out of town. We were having one of our most intense fuck sessions we have ever had. Different positions, lots of oral, lots of everything. I naturally came before she did. My wife asked me to clean her up, I said no. (We have had discussions before on this topic and told she would have to sit on my face for it to happen.)

Somewhere in my wife’s drunken state of mind she remembered that and climb right on top of my face telling me to eat our juices. It wasn’t bad at all, and she ended up squirting on my face.

Can’t wait to do it again!