Just curious how many women regularly give pleasure to their husband through a blowjob or hand job for the sake of taking care of their needs, while not feeling like they are up for receiving pleasure themselves. I imagine this might happen the most when she's on her period, or if the husband has a higher sex drive but the wife still wants to please her husband.
She recently mentioned that shes afraid of scratching me or herself if we get wild in the bedroom and that she think she should take her ring off. Thoughts on this? Is this really a thing?
Curious how hard people typically have sex with their spouses. Rate it out of 10. With 1 being very gentle such as spooning with light and slow penetration. Contrast that with really hard fast paced rough fucking, like the hardest you are capable of being a 10.
Do you mostly do a 5, but sometimes a 7?
I want to take my wife shopping. A lot of the stores don't care of a guy is in there with the woman. I want to do something naughty with her in the fitting room. But being completely quiet. Anyone have any experience?
What are some things you would suggest buying at the start of your sex life with your wife.
Condoms, lube, what kind? A sex pillow? What else enhances your sex life with your spouse?
Does your wife give a hand job or perform oral? Or do you pause sexual activity? Or do you do PIV sex during her period?
Just wondering what other couples do? Do you throw down a blanket first, or what? Trying to avoid constantly changing sheets. Was also thinking about getting a blanket for the couch for when we make love there ...
I plan on taking my wife to the beach a few hours away. There is this one remote beach I know of that hardly anyone is there. The last time I was there I walked 3 miles to the end and didn't see anyone except during the first couple minutes of my walk.
My plan is to walk all the way down to the very end, insuring there are no people there. There is a large cliff and no way cars or people can see from outside the beach, so it would truly be a very private area.
I want to bring lunch and then have some special naked fun with her and then walk back part of the way naked, but we will look ahead to make sure there are no people in the distance and if so put on clothes. I'm wondering what kind of position is best on the beach? Should I bring anything like extra towels. How to best avoid sand getting into genitals etc?
Wondering if there have been any specific ways a wife or committed partner has supported your phimosis journey. Getting married soon and we are both virgins waiting till marriage. I've told her about my phimosis....
I want something that is solid, isn't going to creak or squeak, and something that isn't a platform bed, because bugs and stuff can easily crawl up.
I've also heard mixed feedback about mattresses, some say something with coils in the mattress is best for sex. Thoughts? We definitely want a king.
Please list your experiences with stretching tools. There are so many different types, rings, balloon, metal pliers style ones etc.
What do you like, what's most effective? If you have any connection with a company or (skin in th game lol) please be honest.
When I used to masturbate I would take one hand on my shaft and then grind my foreskin into the palm of my other hand. I would specifically try to not pull back the foreskin because pulling it back seemed weird and the glands were sensitive. I didn't know the foreskin was supposed to retract, and I just thought that was the difference between cut and uncut.
Now I realized the problem. I'm trying to masturbate for medical reasons, pushing my glans up toward the foreskin band and this stretching it. Is this a good technique? I'm not finding too much info on the topic.
I'm also stretching when flacid with q tips for now...
Mine wants to shower first. But I don't want to wait for a shower... How have married couples dealt with this? Have things changed overtime?
Getting married soon, so I'm wanting to resolve this issue as soon as reasonably possible. But would also like to have at least some form of traditional PIV sex if possible. I hear a condom can prevent issues of tearing or forcing foreskin back. Thoughts on this?
I'm curious to hear both people that have tried steroid creams straight up, and those that tried to cure their phimosis without success and then the cream helped. Also wanting to hear from those that don't recommend it, or fixed it with just stretching and/or maybe other natural creams.
I thought it would be fun to bring the wife on a little sexaction where she isn't allowed to bring any clothing. Like we travel from home to the airbnb with her wearing nothing. Maybe she's allowed a throw that she can wrap around if we do have to go out briefly. But other than that, she's just naked the entire trip. Anyone try something like this?
Or another version of this would be she can pack some clothes, but the second she sets foot inside the hotel or airbnb her clothes come off and remain off until we go out again.
Anyone try something like this? Seems like a fun intentional way to just spend a lot of time having sex and being naked together.
I'm curious how many people have done this, maybe purchased some cheap clothing / panties etc and just ripped them off your wife before going at it? Thoughts?