u/Technical-Snow-9486

My wife surprised me by seeming willing to experiment with pee stuff in the shower, so I'm looking forward to that

My wife gets kind of sad sometimes when I don't want to go inside her, but I would rather cum at the same time as her and sometimes I know I'm either going to go too fast or take too long.

Sometimes I'll go inside her for a while and then pull out to control myself so I can finish with her (sometimes she tells me where she wants me to cum which is super hot) but it's hard to do it in a way that feels like I'm being sexy.

Anyone have any fun things you've done to make it easier to share fantasies?

I always get really self-conscious about it and my wife does too but I think it'd make it less weird if we could make a game of it. We tried that questionnaire thing where you both answer separately and then they only show the things you match on but it was too clinical and hard to do while we were in the mood