The promised pics: https://www.reddit.com/user/1d_SHiP_1t/comments/1qeu98k/i_guess_ill_just_leave_this_here/
Quick Stats M32, 6'1" White, 170lb, Athletic Build, Baltimore Suburbs
Good Morning. Thanks for checking out my post. I am well aware that there are over a hundred M4F posts a day, so here is a quick case as to why this one is worth the read. I am a tall (6'1"), fit, and handsome fellow with a great sense of humor, a fun charismatic personality, loads of nerdy charm, a plethora of interests and passions, and a well-paying stable job with benefits, who owns a nice house, is a great listener, a staunch progressive and feminist, and likes to provide for his partner.
Ok. Now that I hopefully have your attention let me explain the nuanced message of this post. I have been into BDSM and kink for well over a decade now and although I have had the good fortune of getting to experiment and grow with past partners and FWBs, I was never really interested in the idea of a 24/7 dynamic. However, that all changed about three months ago. Right about the time I was closing on my house, I stumbled upon a post from a gal looking for a more extreme 24/7 dynamic. She wanted to be kept bound at all times and be the personal property of her Dom, to be given tasks and used whenever he wanted. What stuck out so much to me is that SHE wanted this. She wasn't doing it at the request of her Dom or feeling pressured to make him happy. The desire to be a bondage slave was coming from a genuine yearning inside her to let go of the stresses and worries of the world and turn off her brain as an obedient slave. This revelation set off a switch in my brain. I stopped viewing a Master/slave dynamic as a selfish exploitation of the sub but rather a service the Dom is providing. By creating a judgement free safe space build on mutual respect, the sub can feel secure enough to freely choose to give up all agency and revel in submissive thoughtless bliss. It sounds incredibly fulfilling and surprisingly wholesome in an unusual way.
I never wound up reaching out to said gal (she was entirely too young for me and based on her other posts quite honestly needed a support group and a therapist, not a manipulative older man), but as you can tell from my reflection, her post really stuck with me. It caused me to stop and imagine what it would be like to be a Master in a 24/7 Slave Dynamic and all the responsibility that comes with that. I was surprised by how much I enjoy the thought of coming up with cleaver tasks, challenges, and rules for a slave. I already had a deep love of edging and denial, so the idea of spending my day keeping my sub desperately horny and having control over her orgasms sounds like heaven. Also, the thought of having my sub fully bound and gagged while we cuddle and watch a movie on the couch sounds so delightful. Finally, with the recent purchase of my house and steady advancement in my career, I am finally at a point in my life where I can be a provide for a partner, so the idea of freeing my sub from the worries of bills or rent was surprisingly gratifying.
However, as exciting as all these kinky thoughts were, I still couldn't escape the limitations of reality. As fun as having a slave would be, I know in my heart that I need a partner. I need a companion and best friend with whom I can joke, laugh, and tease, talk about philosophy, art, and society, and who I can turn to for comfort and support in moments when life gets to heavy to handle alone. I want a partner who challenges me to be better and who I can proudly introduce to my friends and family. And this is where we come to the deal.
If you are also a gal longing for the sweet release of submission and subservience than I have an offer. Assuming we hit it off, go on a few dates, really like each other and decide to give this a go, then I will commit to being the Master that you want. I will tailor our dynamic to the kinds of rules and tasks you desire as well as make suggestions based on what you like that I think would be fun. I would still like you to have a job or passion of some kind, but I would handle the major bills, so you wouldn't have to worry about housing, food, utilities, etc. In return, I want you to be the partner that I need. When we go out to visit family or friends we won't give the slightest impression of our dynamic. It will be our little secret. Also, I expect both of us to have a safe word that we can drop at any time if we need to take a break, along with regular check-ins to see how we are feeling and cover what is and is not working.
So there you have it. If you read this far, I truly appreciate it. I sincerely doubt this post will click with anyone, but if it does feel free to toss me a message telling me what resonated with you. To be upfront, physical attraction matters to me, so I can't guarantee we will be a match, but I can swear that I will treat everyone who reaches out with the common courtesy and gratitude they deserve. If you want to know more about the man behind this text, there is entirely too much information about me in the pinned post on my profile.
Ok! This I think that is quite enough for now. Have a great rest of your Sunday! I Hope to hear from you.