u/1fruitylove

It's a bit of a silly one, but I saw Fetlife introduced the "Crush" function.

You have to enable it yourself, so it's an opt-in thing. Now my question is, if people curhs on each other and there is a match, does Fetlife automatically make a public post??

I think I saw it on my feed but I'm not 100% sure! So I'm scared to crush on someone and get a match haha I don't want it to be publicly announced!!

I think it's fine if both get notified, I think I saw it in big banner "X &Y have a crush" or something, like as big as when you add a new D/s relationship. I'm not sure though!

Do you know for sure what happens if/when there is a match? How/where is it announced?