u/205sub

Hi all -

I’m a nerdy, 43 year old submissive male with a dad bod (working on it, though!) and a strong desire to explore mostly Gentle Femdom. I have enjoyed a couple of long distance online dynamics in the past and have been looking for the right match to do so again. I have a life partner that is asexual who is aware of my kinks and need to indulge. I have a super high drive and I’m needy when I’m in sub space. Please be OK with all of this if you message me. I’m potentially open to meeting IRL if the stars aligned, but to be honest, most of my optimism is gone at this point. Maybe you’ll change my outlook?

I enjoy live music and work mostly nights in the entertainment / service industry, days in the outdoors (day hikes, fun at a river or lake, beach etc but not a hardcore camper or anything like that), museums, movies, coffee, used book stores, and following sports but being terrible at them.

Kink wise: undeniable foot fetish, orgasm control, anal training, tease and denial, JOI / CEI (still have only eaten precum 😬), having my porn picked out for me/forced and/ or scheduled viewing, potential chastity, hearing stories about your prior and current sexual experiences / cuckold fantasy stuff, playful SPH / size comparison play, pegging, natural (or trimmed) bush and armpit hair, ALL kinds of oral worship, very into pheromones, domestic service with fun humiliation thrown in, very curious about watersports / spit; open to potential bi encouragement fantasies. Most of these are negotiable so if there are some you’re not into, that’s totally fine.

Not into pain at all, sorry. Maybe a playful spanking but if you’re looking for a pain slut, that’s just not me.

I am totally okay with taking things slow and talking online a lot! I work nights and am mostly available to talk during the day in CST / EST. Some nights I can chat at work but any potential voice calls would have to be during the day. Willing to exchange face pics to start.

Hope to hear from you via DM or chat.

Hi all -

I’m a nerdy, 43 year old submissive male with a dad bod (working on it, though!) and a strong desire to explore mostly Gentle Femdom. I have enjoyed a couple of long distance online dynamics in the past and have been looking for the right match to do so again. I have a life partner that is asexual who is aware of my kinks and need to indulge. I have a super high drive and I’m needy when I’m in sub space. Please be OK with all of this if you message me. I’m potentially open to meeting IRL if the stars aligned, but to be honest, most of my optimism is gone at this point. Maybe you’ll change my outlook?

I enjoy live music and work mostly nights in the entertainment / service industry, days in the outdoors (day hikes, fun at a river or lake, beach etc but not a hardcore camper or anything like that), museums, movies, coffee, used book stores, and following sports but being terrible at them.

Kink wise: undeniable foot fetish, orgasm control, anal training, tease and denial, JOI / CEI (still have only eaten precum 😬), having my porn picked out for me/forced and/ or scheduled viewing, potential chastity, hearing stories about your prior and current sexual experiences / cuckold fantasy stuff, playful SPH / size comparison play, pegging, natural (or trimmed) bush and armpit hair, ALL kinds of oral worship, very into pheromones, domestic service with fun humiliation thrown in, very curious about watersports / spit; open to potential bi encouragement fantasies. Most of these are negotiable so if there are some you’re not into, that’s totally fine.

Not into pain at all, sorry. Maybe a playful spanking but if you’re looking for a pain slut, that’s just not me.

I am totally okay with taking things slow and talking online a lot! I work nights and am mostly available to talk during the day in CST / EST. Some nights I can chat at work but any potential voice calls would have to be during the day. Willing to exchange face pics to start.

Hope to hear from you via DM or chat.

Hi all -

I’m a nerdy, 43 year old submissive male with a dad bod (working on it, though!) and a strong desire to explore mostly Gentle Femdom. I have enjoyed a couple of long distance online dynamics in the past and have been looking for the right match to do so again. I have a life partner that is asexual who is aware of my kinks and need to indulge. I have a super high drive and I’m needy when I’m in sub space. Please be OK with all of this if you message me. I’m potentially open to meeting IRL if the stars aligned, but to be honest, most of my optimism is gone at this point. Maybe you’ll change my outlook?

I enjoy live music and work mostly nights in the entertainment / service industry, days in the outdoors (day hikes, fun at a river or lake, beach etc but not a hardcore camper or anything like that), museums, movies, coffee, used book stores, and following sports but being terrible at them.

Kink wise: undeniable foot fetish, orgasm control, anal training, tease and denial, JOI / CEI (still have only eaten precum 😬), having my porn picked out for me/forced and/ or scheduled viewing, potential chastity, hearing stories about your prior and current sexual experiences / cuckold fantasy stuff, playful SPH / size comparison play, pegging, natural (or trimmed) bush and armpit hair, ALL kinds of oral worship, very into pheromones, domestic service with fun humiliation thrown in, very curious about watersports / spit; open to potential bi encouragement fantasies. Most of these are negotiable so if there are some you’re not into, that’s totally fine.

Not into pain at all, sorry. Maybe a playful spanking but if you’re looking for a pain slut, that’s just not me.

I am totally okay with taking things slow and talking online a lot! I work nights and am mostly available to talk during the day in CST / EST. Some nights I can chat at work but any potential voice calls would have to be during the day. Willing to exchange face pics to start.

Hope to hear from you via DM or chat.