I know there's this belief that some people who talk about this toy is just a paid shill for the brand so let me preface by saying I'm a real person lol.
I've gotten the lem from hello nancy. I've just started using toys (only had a cheap vibrator for a couple weeks prior to this) and it was a okay experience. I didn't think I was using it properly and it wasn't mind-blowing experience like some reviews says, but I only used it once and I'm still figuring it out. I wasn't really feeling the "suction" part of the toy, it just felt like another vibrator. I think it's because I wasn't super aroused + my clit's on the smaller side so I couldn't find it with the toy.
Anyways, I've read that water based lube will help with the experience. Hello nancy did include a small sample packet of lube but I'm hesitant to use it because I don't want to get hooked on it then be unable to get off when using it dry. I thought about using aloe vera? I have a lot of that.