r/SexToys

I am a virgin female and I’m really tight. I’m interested in getting a dildo but I’m like 90% sure that it won’t fit. I’ve looked on Amazon and Temu (also I’m not sure if I should trust Temu.) I live with my parents and I don’t want them to know or open it if I do decide to order one, can I maybe get some advice on this? Can I also get some advice on what size to get and how to use it comfortably for the first time since I am a virgin?

I was thinking it may be a place to start, and wonder if anyone has tested any for the sake of research

Have a cleaning station for sure but people get rid of sex stuff all the time & most of the time just throw it away bc you can’t really tell your neighbors that your dildo isn’t big enough anymore & you want a new one lol. What is your opinion?

Hi, I've been really into anal toys for the last couple months and I want some more toys but don't know what to get. My biggest toy is the prowler red triple butt plug which I love the feeling of being full with but don't know whether to keep getting bigger and bigger toys or to try something different like a prostate massager. Any recommendations are welcome. Also does anyone know what to do with toys that are not wanted anymore because I have some small butt plugs that are just sitting in my drawer.

So I bought a love honey rose about 3 months ago and i think it's broken, i charge it and the light blinks like it should but the charging never ends and when I try it it works for about 3 seconds before shutting off.

It's like 3 months old so the battery shouldn't have a problem i'm not sure what to do :( i'm thinking maybe the charger has a problem that makes the charging extremely slow? Maybe i stepped on it?

Did anyone ever have this problem? How did you fix it?

Hi,

So I am not entirely sure about some of the do's and don'ts of this sub Reddit yet so hopefully I don't overstep.

But I figured I would leave a review of my first toy that isn't just a vibrator.

The past evening has been an eye opening experience.

Firstly, I don't know if there is much love or not for fantasy toys on this sub Reddit, but I chose this one as my first because it kinda plays into something of a warewolf fantasy I have had since, well, forever. Now I have the ability to experience it a little easier and with less dysphoria I figured I would buy one and try it. I figure there is weirder and badder stuff in this world so my little lycan head fantasy isn't the worst.

It's a knot toy, and it has a large syringe that injects it's accompanying lube which is called "dragon jizz" and I don't know what dragon jizz is, but this stuff is insane. It's sticky yet slippy at the same time, it has the perfect colour, it doesn't have any taste, and I thought at first, the 10ml I loaded into the syringe wouldn't go far, but boy was I mistaken. 10ml drenched me and everything, but I still found myself filling it up more the next time. Being covered in this stuff is half the fun.

As for the toy, it's a lot softer than I expected, but that's good? I think? I am still healing a bit after surgery and the give the toy has really helped me. At first I thought my body would never relax and allow it in, but then, pop, it's like my pelvic floor just gave way, and in it goes. It hurt a little bit, that first pop, but then it was gravy.

The toy is about 5, 1/2 inches and I can't quite make it to the knot yet, but so close it's my new mission in life.

The first session lasted a good while about an hour but sadly after alot of build up no release, but that's just how my body is at the moment. Later in the evening I Jerry rigged it up to the head board and tried again. Slower, and with alot more sensuality. Erotica helped too, and two hours later I was a slippery mess with a very sleep happy face.

10/10, so glad I got this.

I could leave a link to the toy itself? If this is what people do?

Thank you for attending my ted talk.

Link! https://www.dragondildo.co.uk/products/cerberus-ejaculating-dildo-limited-edition

so 6 months into a dating app detox and honestly no regrets lol and decided to just put that energy and money into myself instead. got a cheap wand off amazon a while back and it died after like 3 uses so clearly i need something better. the price range is wild though, some are $30, some are pushing $150 and i genuinely cant tell if the expensive ones are actually better or if its just branding. for anyone who upgraded with their toys do you notice a real difference?

I'm on Adam and Eve and it looks rough. I don't want to order from them but I don't know who else has good deals. I'd love to get a couple things hopefully under $40-$50. Nothing huge. Maybe some bras or something. I'd love to be able to order a cute bra and undies set and get a new dildo. Any recommendations?

So I got a dildo but I can’t get it in at all and I’m concerned I will get myself injured. I believe that it was made out of tpe or something, what should I do?

Hi, so I have recently got my first fantasy style dildo (and I love it!! It squirts and drips and is amazing) but it's only about 5 and a half inches long, and I used the suction cup to stick it to the head board but my legs are too long? I dunno, I can't easily back into it, it's like my feet get in the way.

Anybody else experience this or any advice?

(Also I love it so much I might review it in another past, just cause I don't exactly get to talk about it in RL)

I know there's a sureddit called "UsedSexToys" but they don't allow Want To Buy posts so I can't find specific ones that I'm looking for, and I know there is a Bad Dragon subreddit which is great and has Buy and Sell posts but I'd like to find more communities to search for the toys I want, so I'm hoping for some suggestions on "marketplaces" for used sex toys. Thanks in advance!

Hello! I’ve found that I really enjoy vibrations on the tip of my penis. I have a cheap little bullet vibe that I use and feels great with a bit of pressure. I get waves through my body and it feels like I could maybe orgasm from it when I really concentrate. Is that possible? Should I maybe invest in something deeper and more “rumbly” like a wand? Or just keep practicing with the bullet? advice would be appreciated! thanks folks :-)

So I hate to sound stupid but I’ve had beads before but they were rigidly attached to each other but I just got this item and connection between each individual bead is soft/flexible making it hard to get all the beads in and only managed to max out at two so far. How can use more of the toy?

https://a.co/d/08vPRucd

I use an antibacterial soap mist, wait a minute then rinse off before and after each use (directed use). If feeling like it needs more, I certainly do and may use lots of paper towels and water and so on. I've heard to let them air dry. I do as it says as much but sometimes this means deciding hours in advance what I'm doing later and is kind of a pain in some ways. Is it alright to just dry it off with a towel? Does it need air exposure? If so, can it be only for an hour or so? All toys are used anally and none have batteries and should be made of silicone (provided packaging isn't lying).

I want to buy a realistic dildo, but want to know it is made from a real cock (im a girl) ♥

I noticed I tend to prefer the feeling of my hand over pretty much any stroker I've ever tried. I like to be able to adjust the pressure and such. But I wanted something a little more. I got a pack of those dishwashing gloves that have the silicone spiky bits on them for scrubbing dishes and holy shit it's so much better than any stroker. You can also use the other hand in reverse- a lot of gloves will have a different rigid, bumpy texture on the back side. Highly recommend!

Another weird thing I noticed is that when I'm jacking off, if I rubbed my feet on a surface, the feeling of my feet on certain things would make my body tingle. So I went on Amazon and I got this wooden foot roller intended for plantar fascitis that has all these little bumpy and spiky textures on it, and tried using it, and IT'S INCREDIBLE. If you like having your feet stimulated, seriously try this. Comes with the added bonus of being very good for your feet.

What weird things (obviously aside from like using random phallic objects as dildos) have you used as a sex toy?

Edit: random bonus, I've used clothes pins and chip clips as an alternative for nipple clamps! Just be careful because they can have a lot more tension and can cause more pain.

Hi to everyone who can help but more so people that have a vagina.

I love to give pleasure to my gf the sounds she makes drive me wild but i want to give her even more pleasure by using a toy on her while i go down on her.

What toy would be good for gspot stimulation?

Or if you know of a toy that is absolutly amazing but pretty difficult to use on her while i go down pls tell me cause i just want to give her the best time possible.

So thank you in advance😁

So I have been looking to try getting back into using a male masturbator. Ive tried various fleshlights, autoblow, etc. Each time, I remember thinking that something worth the effort is sure to come around, but each that I have tried has always been a bit disappointing. Here is what I am really looking for.

Self heating

Easy to clean

Automated movement

Bonus points for connecting with VR.

What are the actually busy wealthy folks using?

I would be willing to drop some serious money for something that I know would be worth it. Probably up to 1k depending on the product. It feels crazy to me that the industry standard for male sex toys is so low.

Obviously the real solution for me would be a willing participant to have a real experience with, but I always travel for work so it makes it hard to lay down roots for a real relationship currently.