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Good recommendations for a beginner vibrator?

I am looking at getting a vibrator (I already have a dildo and some butt plugs) and was wondering what you guys recommend. I was looking at the Hitachi Magic Wand if the price is worth it, but I think my buget is $100 or under. I think I’d prefer a wand type vibrator and something that is quiet.

After reading this thread, I’m not sure what I should buy.

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u/Suspicious_Soft1190 — 6 hours ago

Worried

21m here I really want to buy a dildo from a sex store but I’m worried about actually going there and being “judged” am I just over thinking this

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u/AltAaccount15 — 3 hours ago

Looking for a toy that feel like oral (f)

Im trying to find something that feels like im relieving oral. Ive tried the suction clitoral vibratory but they dont do anything. Trying to find a remedy since my partner isn't comfortable giving oral.

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u/Miserable-Strategy68 — 4 hours ago

Delivery help

So I already posted this in r/advice but was curious if anyone else had any similar experiences…

So basically I (19) live with my parents and purchased some toys online from a site I’ve used before. In the past I’ve been able to redirect with UPS but this time it’s shipping with amazon shipping and I’ve contacted both amazon and the shipper and they’ve both said there is nothing they can do (no reroute or date change).

I’m stressing out for the package coming to my house because my mom is always home; any advice?

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u/RilH15 — 5 hours ago

Anal sex toys for women.

Hey all. As the title states I'm looking for some blow your mind anal sex toys. I've dabbled with some anal things before but nothing to serious. So something intermediate would be best. Thanks so much!

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u/beckyr1984 — 4 hours ago

Should I tell my wife I'm using her sex toys from time to time?!

Just to be clear, I bought all the toys for her, that's why I wrote "her sex toys"

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u/GoodHusband6 — 11 hours ago

Need help for sex toy

So to give a bit of background. I recently wanted to get something to pleasure myself. I won't say my gender. But I wanted info on how or what kind of toy I should be recommended for. (Im bisexual) Please assist cause i have no hope asking others besides here

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u/Itsurboipizzaboi — 15 hours ago
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I JUST HAD MY FIRST ANAL ORGASM!!

(M19) I've been trying for multiple years and tonight it FINALLY HAPPENED!!! It had to have been the best sensation I've ever had!

It took about 15-20 minutes of nonstop action and only a slight uncomfortable feeling for the first minute, but I think it might've been my best decision I've ever made 🥹❤️‍🩹

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u/Ok-Ratio-9290 — 19 hours ago

Best water based lube for electric masturbators?

I’m on my second toy and made the mistake of getting a rather thick lube and it becomes sticky and unpleasurable to use giving a low sensation. I’m looking for one that’s much better for the type of toy I have. One that has better glide and doesn’t dry out or vanish. Specifically looking for ones that can be bought in store or amazon so I can get it same day or next day shipping.

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u/DifficultComplaint10 — 10 hours ago

Looking for my first toy (I need help)

Hello, I'm a gay guy and I turned 18 a few weeks ago. I made the mistake of buying my first dildo without doing enough research and once it arrived, I didn't know that some dildos might not be safe but I did some research on how to use it, then I realized my toy was made of PVC. In the end, I had to throw it away... So today I'd really like to be able to afford to buy myself a toy, but an affordable one, not too expensive tho.. Perhaps a minimum of 5/6 inches or a bit more, I would like a realist one if possible If possible, buy from Amazon, but if you know of any cheaper places for safer, I'm all ears. Thanks 💖

(My DM’s are open if you ever want to make suggestions.)

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u/c4kvin — 13 hours ago

Newbie, using prostate massagers. Haven't felt really anything.

Title. I literally used two different massagers until they were dead, not a single feeling of orgasm. Most that happened was a feeling of needing to pee. I got both these out of a cheap mystery box. Is that the issue, that these are just not good enough, or is it me not being able to find a good spot. I tried all positions, kneeling, on back, on stomach, fetal, and nothing.

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u/Friendly-Regular-977 — 20 hours ago

How do you keep a suction cup dildo stable on the bed for riding? (Need advice for frequent anal play)

I want to start using my suction cup dildo as my main/only way to masturbate so I can finally learn to cum from my ass. It sticks perfectly in the tub, but the tub is too cramped for my large frame. On the bed the base slides around too much on the soft mattress.
Any reliable ways to make the base super stable on a bed? Mats, grips, pillows, or other hacks?
Also, what riding techniques help you avoid hip cramps and pain during longer sessions? Kneeling, squatting, leaning forward? Best positions for comfort and deep riding?

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u/nsfwbrodelsol — 20 hours ago

Looking for a toy/toy type/toy name that can hold fluids inside me.

FtM/35 my partner wants me to hold fluids inside my vag and use a plug to keep the fluids locked in there, but we also like using toys that stretch it/fisting/etc.

I'm struggling to find a toy that will achieve this result. All the plugs I've seen are designed for anal play. Does a toy for this purpose even exist?

I'm providing info as per the recommendation request info post, but I have ADHD, so I'm sorry if I'm doing this wrong.

I dont have a preference for a toy shape or length as long as it locks fluids in my vag successfully I will be happy.

The biggest toy I have tried is 2.75" in diameter at the biggest part and 5.82" long, but it's a hollow silicone plug so it doesn't work for this purpose.

I don't have a preference for firmness, texture, realism, or color. As stated above, I'm looking for functionality.

I'm shopping online in Canada.

I've tried master series plugs, a silicone plug from amazon that is 5.9" long, 2.24 inches at the widest point and has a round middle like a knot, but more spherical, and the rest looks sort of like a non-anatomical dildo. It didn't work for me because fluids keep leaking out of me when I use it.

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u/Live-Entertainer-226 — 16 hours ago

Need help picking my first ever sex toy

I’m 25 year old male and I’ve never had or used a sex toy before. I’ve decided now that my curiosity has reached a high and I’m going to try one out. The only problem is I don’t know which one to get. So here’s a little about what I’m looking for. I’m looking for something to take me to new unprecedented heights and give me the strongest, hardest most intense orgasms I’ve ever experienced.

I’m highly intrigued and aroused by the concept of the cock ring/ prostrate massager sex toys. The ones that do both in one. I’ve never done butt play, so the idea of that one is really hot and exciting to me.

I’m also intrigued by a classic fleshlight/masturbator toys. I’ve seen ones that twist, ones that are small, big. I’ve researched a bit and seen it all. I just don’t know which ones are good!

Also I’m highly aroused and excited by the thought of a hands free toy, whether that’s a vibrating toy or something else idk. But the thought of just watching porn and a toy doing all the work for me until I blow loads is so hot and exciting. Makes me hard just thinking of it.

So yeah let me know everyone’s recommendations. The crazier the better tbh. Also I’m probably looking at toys up to the $50 range max if that helps at all.

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u/endowedsixtynine — 20 hours ago

Looking for a specific dildo

Alright folx - I'm so tired of smaller dildos meaning skinnier dildos, my sweet spot for length is 5in (5.5in is fine) and the usual 1.2-1.4in diameter (3.77-4.4in circumference) just doesn't do it for me at this length. I have a 1.65in diameter (5.18in circumference) dildo that's much longer and I love the stretch with that one but I don't love the length. And before you say just don't put it all the way in, I'm aware that's an option. But I'm looking for something a partner and I could use on the days when you just wanna rail and I don't wanna think about communicating depth preferences. in a perfect world I'm looking for a slightly girthy 5 inch. Or if anyone has any recs for better stretch with a smaller dildo I'm here for it. Pleeeeeease would love recommendations.

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u/a_merekat18 — 17 hours ago

ANXIETY FROM TPE

i made a really, really dumb mistake on accident. i had a TPE dildo/torso in a bin in a closet for about 5-6 years now. i found it and soaked it it warm water and dial unscented soap for about 20 seconds, washed the penis part itself well. i used it, but it hardly fit anyways - about 3 inches in out of 7. i washed myself with the unscented soap as well and then read later HOW DANGEROUS TPE IS after time! like you can go to the ER from it! i have BV antibiotics already in my arsenal. should i start taking them now to be safe? i have severe panic issues, i really need someone to talk me down PLEASE.

the penis itself has minor lifting of material. the torso part has actual tears that i never touched internally, but cleaned 😪

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u/ZombieWinter2001 — 23 hours ago

Anal vibrator suggestions

Hey! New to this whole thing but looking for a suggestion for a subtle and small anal vibrator I can use to do HFO and other things like that, but I want it to be subtle enough and compact that I can have it in and working while walking around the house and such, sort of a wierd request but it’s a quite niche but arousing idea for me, any help is appreciated!

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u/Cornaball — 18 hours ago

Vibrating butt plug or normal plug

Hi all, first of all thanks for taking your time to help.

Im abit lost in what kind buttllug would suit me best.

Its my first plug / toy

I found 2 options which i think were decent but im not sure about the vibrating part and the little knot sticking out of it anyone got any experience with laying down on your back with one? Will you notice it

First one i found was the easytoys anchor plug medium sillicone

Height 9.5 cm / 3.5 inch

With 2.6 cm / 1 inch

Price 15 euro

Second one was the easytoys ravon rocket vibrating plug sillicone

Height 10.5 "? / 4.1 inch

With 3.5 cm / 1.4 inch

Price 16 euro

Would appreciate any help thanks!

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u/Ok-Sandwich6498 — 1 day ago

Please help, my sex toy melted onto some of my other toys!

So, the other day, I was going to get up to some mischief with my sex toys. I open my toy drawer, and lo and behold, one of my sex toys had completely melted, and onto most of my other sex toys in the drawer.
Here are some details, so that all bases are covered.
- I have never used silicone, or oil-based lubes on any of my toys. I have only ever used water-based lubes.
- Most of the toys were kept together, uncovered, stored right next to one another. They were kept in a hard plastic dresser drawer with black-tinted, semi-translucent drawers. The toy in question that had melted, however, was stored in the plastic case it had been bought in. The toy was a very soft, sticky, flexible material. It was advertised as being a silicone toy.
- My room’s temperature where the toys are stored is never above 70 degrees Fahrenheit, the toys themselves should always be in a cooler climate, though, as they’re stored in a dark drawer.
Here are the actions I took/will take after some research:
- I removed and discarded the melted toy
- I removed all of the other toys that had gotten the melted toy on them, cleaned them, and then put them in groups of like-toys. They are now being stored away from one another, aside from those in their group. The grouped toys are either from the same manufacturer, or seemed similar in their material composition.
- I thoroughly cleaned the dresser drawer itself, using warm water and paper towels.
- I will buy or create individual pouches to store each toy in, so that they don’t touch each other directly.

What I need to know, though, is.. Are my other toys that had gotten the melted toy on them safe? I’m able and willing to boil those that are compatible, but what about my electronic toys? At least 2 electronic toys were also affected, and those obviously can’t be boiled. I’ve been searching online for whether the melted toy is toxic if it melts or not. So far the information i’ve seen is very limited, and very split on opinion.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

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u/TheCherryApple — 1 day ago