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Hi! My husband and I already have quite a few sextoys that are mainly designed for solo use (either for him or for me), and we’re now looking for something that’s better suited for use as a couple. Do you have any recommandations ? 😊

Bonus question : any suggestions for nice-looking storage boxes or pouches to keep everything organized ? 😊

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u/ChiaraArcana — 5 hours ago

ex stole my toys 😭

recently went through a rough breakup, and I am just realizing that he STOLE MY TOYS when he left. I am so sad - I would use one almost daily. they were lovense too, so they’re difficult to replace 😭😭😭

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u/yesplease0909 — 9 hours ago
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I’m not really sure how to ask this question but

I broke up with my ex girlfriend some time ago. We used a lot of toys which I all bought and were at my house. I spent a couple hundred euros on everything and it’s mostly toys for women. After I broke up with her she immediately blocked me on everything and I couldn’t contact her anymore so I never had the chance to give her these toys. Now these toys are all just collecting dust in my bedroom.

Now my question. If I start dating someone new, is it considered weird to use these toys with that new person? Obviously everything is completely clean but the toys have been used. Otherwise I have no idea what I should do with all of it and I can’t just go and buy everything again for hundreds of euros with the next person I date.

I’m unsure what to do here. Obviously if the time comes I could just ask if the person I’m dating is okay with it but I don’t want it to be a weird question with a response like “obviously not”. So, have people ever been in a similar situation? What is your take on this?

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u/Olieebol — 20 hours ago

Silicone sex toys with silicone lube

I have heard everywhere not to use this combo. I have accidentally used this combo on "accident" with my silicone plug. I usually use coconut oil but I want to try silicone lube instead.

What exactly happens when you combine these two?

Is there health risks?

I bought platinum cured toys just to experience this but have yet to test it out. Is the platinum cured toys mix with silicone lube a fact or myth?

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u/n00b_fr0m_h311 — 13 hours ago
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I feel bad after using anal sex toys

I M17 have some sex toys and I look forward to using them but after I have an orgasm I always feel really bad and have some sense of guilt like I can't continue and I have to have a long break because I know I will feel bad but I also have an urge to use them.

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u/Broad-Breakfast4823 — 17 hours ago

Automatic toys for men

I was wondering what the best automatic toys for me might be. I’m male and not gay or into anal haha (no judgment) I have the male rose but the battery dies too fast and it’s loud as I live with my parents🥀

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u/NoArt6112 — 1 day ago

Insertable Vaginal Plug-adjacent with two graduated bulbs and narrower base similar to Jake from TwinTail Creations?

I've heard some issues about TwinTail Creations with their customer service and quality control of their toys. Was considering the Mini Jake the Werewolf due to its narrower base (narrower than the Selkie from Twlight Meadow Creations), but are there any other alternatives with a similar shape/bulb/swell sizing?

For anyone having the toy, how well does it work to insert it and put something like a tongue licker/vibrating mouth like the Klitty for external stimulation? I'd like to see if I can get a more consistent full vaginal orgasm this way.

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u/rainwriter2021 — 1 day ago
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Looking for tips for dildos in Anal (MTF)

Recently got my first dildo, and while a huge upgrade from hands and hairbrushes, I'm still finding the same problem of "Where the hell is the prostate I can't feel anything different anywhere", meaning I'm mostly just going off the sensation of the anus itself

Anyone have any tips for actually feeling it out / positions to make riding easier, since so found I've found it better to actually ride it rather than pump it by hand

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u/D1tzyG3nderG3rl — 1 day ago

F-Machine to Klic-Lok?

Hey everyone,

I recently bought an F-Machine Alpha, but I just realized how limited the Vac-U-Lock ecosystem actually is.
The Klic-Lok selection is massive in comparison, and basically all the attachments I want use that system.

Is there any reliable adapter to use Klic-Lok toys directly on the F-Machine threaded rod, or have most of you just switched to a native Klic-Lok machine like HiSmith?
How did you solve this?

Thanks for any advice!

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u/celebrity_hotedits — 1 day ago

Looking for dildo recommendations

Hey all I’m new to sex toys and was wondering if anyone would be willing to help me pick what I should get! I’m looking for realistic, 7inch, and suction cup. If any of you have one you love I’d love to know what it is! Thank you

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u/Actual-Action9456 — 1 day ago

My ass burns☹️

So idunno where to put this but to make a short story short umm when I use my dildo in the shower if feels awsome you know that’s what it’s supposed to do but outside of the shower it burn but in this weird way like I can’t even put my fingers in but like it get super warm like uncomfortably hot and that gose for the dildo and my fingers and I don’t know why this happens so if anyone has any ideas I’m all ears

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u/-MaKiRoLl- — 1 day ago

Butt plug

I want my wife to wear a butt plug all day or all during a date night but the one we have that has a gem on it hurts but when she sits down, she says it’s the gem that hurts. Does anyone know of a plug that is comfortable to wear all day?

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Recommendations for clitoral sex toy

Vibrator Recommendations

Hi there. TMI incoming. I have only really bought cheap vibrators on Temu or Amazon. I find a lot and I mean a lot of them have various patterns. I don’t use the patterns at all. Who does? That never get’s me to my final destination.

My boyfriend is wanting to get me a nice vibrator for my upcoming birthday. He suggested one day over a call the other day. This man has always put my needs ovee his and always wants me to finish. I have had vaginismus before so he is very careful with me. He gave a budget of $80-$150.

Any clitoral vibrator recommendations. It has to be a vibrator that goes up intensity wise. One that doesn’t numb either. Thank you so much! :))

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Magic wand recs

Hello people of reddit

My trusty cheep ass amazon wand has finally died me and its absolutely time for an upgrade.

I've seen some absolutely amazing toys recommended here so am interested if yall have any recs for a fairly basic wand, ideally something mains powered or with a battery indicator because im so tired of toys dying on me.

Ty in advance for what im sure will be amazing recs

(Note im based in the uk so need something that'll ship to me)

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u/puppybaby_xx — 1 day ago
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Weekly Deals and Giveaways Thread

We welcome any and all deals here—retailers, affiliates, users, whatever. Any advertising outside of this thread will be removed by the moderators.

Please feel free to post your giveaways down below. Standalone giveaway posts will be deleted and directed towards this post.

As always, feel free to mod mail us with any feedback related to these threads or the subreddit in general.

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u/AutoModerator — 2 days ago

Inflatable Buttplug for Anal Stretching and “Skipping Sizes”?

TLDR: Can I use an inflatable buttplug to avoid having to buy toys of varying sizes for stretching (diameter gaps of 2.25” > 2.5” and 2.5” > 2.7”), or should I just buy them?

Can you try anal stretching by inserting it halfway then inflating, or try to slowly remove it while inflated? Also for the size goals I’m looking for, could the buttplug explode? I’m hoping to avoid having to buy new toys for more appropriate size transitions because big toys cost big money.

I have some pretty big jumps between toys. Diameter-wise I’m currently at is 2” sizing up to 2.25” which I have done before but lost the ability to do so since. After which, I need to fit 2.5” (yikes) and then 2.7” (YIKES).

Because some people might have experience and firmness can matter, the latter two toys are:
- 2.5”: Bad Dragon Egg Plug Small Soft
- 2.7”: Bad Dragon Sleipnir Medium Medium

EDIT: Forgot to clarify the two big toys were Bad Dragon toys

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u/CreekFullOfLeeks — 2 days ago

stainless steel Dildos

I recently got an anal hook, because I thought it might be a fun thing to have. Now after using it, I must say I love the material. The haptic is feeling so good inside together with lube that I want to have more steel toys. But after searching online for some hours I didn’t find anything that I’d buy because there all just around 3-4cm wide and too small for me tbh. I would like to have something around 6ish cm diameter and all the stuff I can find just doesn’t cut it for me. Is there any place that’s selling stainless steel dildos specifically?

I alrdy thought about designing a form in CAD and get it machined out somewhere, but that would be both kind of embarrassing and costly. I think for more organic/ fluid forms it would be around 300-500€ which is too much.
any ideas?

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u/Djentynew — 1 day ago

Silent remote vibrators?

I’ve seen several advertised as “virtually silent.” Has anyone tried a wearable, remote controlled vibrator that actually IS silent? Looking to try one out in a quiet setting - think library or quiet office.

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u/QueenBDL6869 — 1 day ago