I’m not really sure how to ask this question but
I broke up with my ex girlfriend some time ago. We used a lot of toys which I all bought and were at my house. I spent a couple hundred euros on everything and it’s mostly toys for women. After I broke up with her she immediately blocked me on everything and I couldn’t contact her anymore so I never had the chance to give her these toys. Now these toys are all just collecting dust in my bedroom.
Now my question. If I start dating someone new, is it considered weird to use these toys with that new person? Obviously everything is completely clean but the toys have been used. Otherwise I have no idea what I should do with all of it and I can’t just go and buy everything again for hundreds of euros with the next person I date.
I’m unsure what to do here. Obviously if the time comes I could just ask if the person I’m dating is okay with it but I don’t want it to be a weird question with a response like “obviously not”. So, have people ever been in a similar situation? What is your take on this?