Hello! I recently decided I'd like to attend a play party that is femdom led! I've never been to a play party or dunegon or anything other than a munch and classes, so I was curious what I should wear. The post said submissives should wear clothes that are "submissive" or "respectful". Any ideas of things I could wear? Or examples of what submissives have worn or dommes would want submissives to wear at a femdom led play party?
Hoooow do you guys dirty talk?? Especially when you're reserved and generally a quiet person? What was your learning process? I was thinking, maybe practicing in the mirror, or saying things to myself in my head over and over and shifting to aloud privately to make it feel natural coming out of my mouth, then eventually utilizing it. Thoughts? Either side of the slash!! I'm curious about everyone's journey in talking dirty!
So, I don't have any hands-on experience with kink, I've done classes and attended a SINGULAR munch. But no dynamics or anything. I don't really have experience, but I have lately noticed that I LOVE the dentist.
I have always loved the dentist! Even when I was younger, just always enjoyed it. While at school, I bit my tongue ring and was terrified I cracked a tooth, so I went to get checked by a nearby dentist. Everything was okay, but I asked about a cleaning, so they booked me. I went in, and asked again about getting an old stainless steel crown replaced, they went through my insurance, and it was covered!!
At this point, all was well. But then, I went in to get my old crown removed. This was quite the event, I believe taking about three hours. The dentist and assistant were in my mouth, putting a bite block and little silicone protectors in so the steel didn't cut me. Poked around with their fingers and tools, told me to open wider a hundred times before putting the block in. And I sat there, as one does.
However, I began to really notice how things FELT. Like, their fingers in my mouth with the gloves, how they rested their fingers on my face. One point, the assistant apologized and yanked at the old cap and I just made a sound because it was a lot of pressure, and the assistant was very insistent on me letting her know if anything felt uncomfortable, and that earned me a little, "I know, sweetheart, I know." And even in that moment I was like, huh? Why did I love that? Then she ripped the old cap out of my mouth and I was back in reality.
They made me a little temporary until my permanent came in, and at the end of that first appointment the dentist and the assistant both praised me and said I did so good, revived their hope in good patients because so far it had been such a bad day, all sorts of stuff, and I was normal about it, of course!
I went back to get more moulds and to get my tooth under the cap shaped some more, and they put these big trays in my mouth, touched my jaw to correct my bite, again, it was pretty good. At the end, I explained I was going to graduate, but I was willing to drive the distance to get the permanent on.
Today, that's what I did. This time, it was the dentist, assistant, and I think a dental student attending the nearby university? Either way, it was again awesome. The assistant praised me, as if I wasn't there, to the student, talking about how I'm always so still, while I'm sitting there mouth open like a fool and absurd sunglasses on, half asleep, because it just calms me so much??
But, through this, I found... I think I really enjoy mouth stuff? Dentists?? Gloves? Fingers in my mouth? Praise? The clean smell? The helplessness of it all? Vulnerability? I don't even know, it just pinged a certain part of my brain that really enjoyed the whole experience. Most people I know either are neutral towards or fearful of the dentist, so I wonder if anyone else feels the same?