r/BDSMsapphic

i'm just lying back unwinding after work, letting my thoughts drift off

imagining having a sweet, innocent little subby at my feet, wearing a heavy leather collar, wrists tied together behind her back, kissing my thighs and looking up at me wide-eyed. ugh, to hear her cute little gasps and moans as i push her down onto a toy she insisted was too big.

the adorable noises she'd make when i make a fist in her hair and put her mouth to use, reminding her that her tongue belongs to me just like the rest of her body, telling her exactly what happens to bad girls who stop fucking themselves on their dildo just because Miss's cock is deep in their throat.

ugh, to find out exactly how many edges it takes to melt her completely and leave her so needy and desperate for me she can't even remember her own name. making her beg me for permission to come, kissing her forehead and laughing when all she can manage is a thin whine.

that's ok, pet, you're allowed to stay desperate and nonverbal. guess you must want me to keep you on the edge all night...

Do you ever crave something you’ve never had before? I love anal, it makes me cum instantly but I’ve never done anal with another person… I need my mommy inside me, sososo bad

Edit: me dating a transfem and being attracted to transfems doesn’t make me any less of a lesbian. My girlfriend is a woman.

backstory.
Don’t have the best neighbors. Place next to us is a couple and one of them will work on projects in their space with lots of noise at random hours. late last night he’s unloading his truck by tossing things out onto the shared drive. It’s making a ton of noise and we have to endure it some how!

my(37TF) domme/owner Autumn (TF39) was getting upset at the neighbor making such loud noise that we couldn’t escape. I could see it so I asked her if she, “wanted to counter his noise with noise we make from her fucking my face hard”

“say less” was her response as she quickly guided me to the bedroom stripping my clothes. She hung my head off the side of our bed. She let my hair flow down, used my pierced nipples and breasts as her handles.

I have a huge oral fixation and just love when she’s in the mood to ram my throat. She let out some feral screams as we went as did I when she consensually plaid with my nips. At times she was forcing me to hold her in my throat for as long as possible. I’d tap the let her know when I needed air.

Knowing I was getting tons of fun from the oral experience and that she’s getting close so she changed it up a little. she pulled back a bit so my nose could allow air in again and made it clear to take a big breath.

I took a deep breath and she pinned down my arms and resumed face fucking her fox until she finished while I was completely pinned and taking her down my throat in her full glory.

:3

I laid there motionless but full of pride and glee to of been of such good use. She flipped me to my side and cuddled me. Whispering sweet sapphic messages into my ear. I was a good girl :3

Fuuuuuck
I love sexting
I had an online domme for a while and I fucking loved having someone drool over me and I loved showing off and sending them photos.
Being told what to do , when I could cum and it was soo amazing !
Currently have a partner I love but way less into sexting than me and want more
Being feral and making someone else feral and being told how they want to use me …. Indescribable

HOW FUCKING GREAT IS GIRLCOCK?!

Look. LOOK. I took too many edibles. I'm ovulating. I've been thinking about getting fucked all day. I'm in a mood.

Just... girl cock!!!!!

Hard, throbbing, leaking girl cock deep in my cunt. Hitting my cervix hard enough that I yelp with each thrust. Hot, thick girl cum painting my insides. And don't even get me started on being bred by girlcock!

AND GIRLCOCK UP MY ASS?! FILLING MY BOWELS WITH MORE CUM?! WALKING AROUND WITH CUM DRIPPING FROM MY ASS INTO MY PANTIES ALL DAY?! YES. FUCKING. PLEASE!!!!

I'll take girlcock bent over the bed, in the back seat of her car, on her couch, in the shower, in the movie theater, by force, ANYWHERE! MY CUNT WAS MADE TO TAKE GIRLCOCK!

Okay. End rant. There's nothing better than girlcock and I'm very sad that a cute transfemme isn't splitting me open right now and making me her bitch >:3

Edit: Wow! I'm so glad I made so many of you feel accepted and wanted ♥️

Second edit: To the person who called me a chaser... What the fuck is wrong with you? I'm a trans inclusive lesbian. If my post was about cis women bodies, would you have called me something equally derogatory? Not once did I ever say that trans girls are a walking cock on legs. My wife is trans, but i did not marry her because she's trans -_- You're fucking weird. Get off my post. And stop projecting. Trans women are women, and I'm attracted to all women regardless of what's between their legs. Sorry that offends you.

Third: I'm not deleting my post. Sorry, not sorry. If you don't like it, report it. Let's the mods handle it. I'm not kowtowing to anyone. And maybe stop coming after my wife? Who is literally just here to defend me? Those of you denying that she's Trans are disgusting and not people I ever want to associate with. Block me and move on with your life.

My domme and I used to use mommy because that was my biggest kink, but since we’ve actually become parents we both felt off with using it in that context.

My domme is she/they and so we’ve decided on me calling them sir which I adore, but we’re struggling to come up with her name for me. She uses good girl a lot, which I love but we both want a specific sort of pet name - possibly one that we can use in public but doesn’t flag with anyone else as being d/s related.

Hoping to get some inspo from all of you kinky people 🫶

Maybe to no surprise to anyone I've spammed cheesecake photos with in my dms as I dorky yap about my interest back and forth- I fucking love baking :3c

I also love a cute, flirty, and soft switch/sub/dom

I woke up to a well nightmare- but then while recovering I stumbled on the idea of really wholesome adorable mushy baking date ideas (and also very wholesome adorable mushy lewd baking date ideas as is tradition c:) and figured I'd share with y'all adorable ladies, enbies, kink Beans, etc!

(For context if it helps I'm a transbian femme/nonbinary or agender dork that has been navigating some dysphoria and learning more about myself and what in my past may have been dysphoria and all that fun jazz- however like I sorta pref gock? Both my own and partners, But very much not masc penis if that makes sense? Ofc pussy too~ but I'm not sure yet if it's slightly less or if my oral fixations have short circuited my brain with my yearning to just lounge with my mouth in/on/around a partner edging them for hrs as a domme or sub role ~w~)

SOOOOO

I had the wonderful idea of of a baking date with a hypothetical Bean I find fancy where maybe I guide her through baking some stuff like cheesecake, cookies, gourmet meal, candies, candied granola mix, etc etc etc

Maybe tenderly hugging em from behind and doing the cheesy leading both bc my primal domme urge to press myself up against my sub so her imagination runs wild while my hot breath overstimulates her neck~ annnnd a silly fun idea of badass 4 armed baking lady is cool? Moving in unison and all that ~w~

Getting some mess on us and licking it off her periodically (something something raw egg bad in USA but also if I get a fatal case of sameonella from teasing my subs nipples while I "clean" them only for them to be a flustered blushing mess- then I lived a good life in this fantasy) making silly lil mustaches and talking in silly improv accents while they hold their sides laughing- leading them to press into me further~

Taking lil breaks to twirl and dance in the kitchen to w/e playlist (song recommendations please 🥺 my playlist is like 500 songs long and that's not enough) and pulling them in occasionally to distract them with lil butterfly kisses or tongueful sloppy make out sessions only to be cut short to return to baking/mixing/a timer~

The look we'd give to each other longingly while the other yaps~ or the pleading whimpers as one of us is instructed to kneel and petition to sit on the other nuzzled into their neck and spoon/fork feeding my sub/dom/etc w/e we made while holding their face and staring passionately into their eyes~

maybe they tease me and touch me in affection wholesome or lewd ways~

And once we've finished eating our appetizer we rest a lil by cuddling while idly playing with each other in a beautiful sun ray lit room in silence and our interchangeable moans and whimpers, harmonizing together physically and verbally~

Maybe we're laying together touching eachothers bits edging out pleasure, kissing, biting, teasing them with lil silly blep licks on the nose while I hold their shaft/have my fingers in them~ whispering affirmations of how much I love who they are

🥺 🥺 🥺

Panting into each other's mouth as we bring each other closer and closer~

Then stopping short infuriatingly with sly knowing smiles~

Over

And over

Till either of us is a desperate flustered shy mess grinding and jumping on the other begging for release~

Maybe taking turns with oral, maybe I'll need to wash the couch/bed extensively from how much sexy fluids we'd be leaking everywhere~

(Remember to hydrate! Even better if I can hydrate for them by guiding a bottle of water to their face or even deviously swigging a large mouthful and then sharing it with them mid kiss)

Gods and when one or the other finally caves? And we have a mind shattering orgasm? Or multiple~ mmmmm

Whelp now I'm soaked and horny ~w~ so I hope y'all enjoyed too!

-Lilith~

Hello! I’m trying to be more open and accepting (of myself) about my BDSM desires. I have recently gotten a new romantic partner & I’m really struggling with the sexual aspect of our relationship

The last partner I had, was completely submissive and I took on a very dominating role. At the time, I was kind of upset by this, I have always been more submissive and she was very insistent on being submissive 24/7 no matter how much I asked to try and switch up. But despite the lack of submission on my end, I absolutely LOVED our sex. Bondage and torture, orgasm denial and forced orgasms, fisting, anal, spanking, spitting, choking, hair pulling..she could take the biggest fucking dildo I could buy and still want more and I just could never get enough of filling her up..we were fucking freaks. But she unfortunately was an abusive partner in the end and I had to break things off. (No matter how good the sex was). Just small detail on why we had to break up: always degrading me (not in a good way lol), isolated me from my friends and family, was physically abusive (again, not in the good way)..she basically did a lot of the things I wanted sexually, but in a non-sexual and extremely problematic way.

Now I am with a woman who is the complete opposite. She is the sweetest girl ever, constantly telling me I’m beautiful, always grabbing my ass and telling me she wants to bend me over and fuck me wherever we are, she dominates me and wants to me dominated, she listens to my needs and she is so receptive and supportive..she’s just been an absolute god send in every way. Except sexually…

I don’t get the same rush when we fuck that I did with my last partner. And I can’t bring myself to be as dominant with her either. I’m not sure if maybe because my ex was actually abusive, I had an easier time using our sex as an outlet to take out my frustration in a healthy-sexual way, and since my current partner is so perfect, I feel like I can’t punish her. But like..all the things I was so good at before, i just feel like I’ve lost. The dirty talk, the confidence, the fucking rush from hearing her screaming..it’s just not really there.

I don’t really know what to do, and I’m so fucking new to this stuff. My ex and I were together for 2 years, and when we broke up it was only about two months before I got with my current partner. But I’ve been with her now for 6 months. And both of them have been my only sexual partners, AND I’ve been their only as well. If anyone has any thoughts/ideas/advice, it would be so unbelievably appreciated.

To clarify Im not trying to sound kink shame-y, especially considering this is about my own thoughts on it but to make sure nobody takes it the wrong way ^

Me and my girlfriend have both talked intensively about scenes where I say ‘no’ and beg but don’t actually mean so unless its a safeword. We’ve had alot of talk about forced orgasms and denial periods, and recently things like kidnapping or powerplay has came up (specifically ghost face lmao) and she pointed out alot of my kinks are CNC adjacent. And then eventually just said bluntly that more than likely had a cnc kink.

At first I admittedly was very against it. I guess I hold my own not great biases against it. Me and her have both history of sexual misconduct in our childhoods (being vague) so it feels less like an unsafe situation in my mind with her, if that makes any sense? Plus we’ve also been very sure about using safe words and respecting them both ways.

I think in my head when I think CNC i think guy hiding his rape kink, honestly. But at some point of telling her that I want her to chase me in a ghost face mask and hold a fake knife to my throat definitely made it undeniable 😭 like omg.

Idk how to get over that big discomfort around using that title when thats quite literally what it is. Its nothing shes doing so I know for a fact its just in my own head. But regardless I can’t help but associate CNC with the most extreme form of it

You belong on your knees. Stripped of everything and anything; stripped from your agency, your identity, your thoughts, and eventually your soul.
Chained and bruised and not in a physical sense, there’s no need for that, you will obey without being restrained out of sheer devotion.

I'm going to tear you limb from limb, dig my fingers so deep into your skin and bones until I'm the only thing running through your veins.
The only thing left in the shell of the broken toy that you will become is your purpose to serve me. The reason of your otherwise worthless existence, because let’s face it… Who else, if not me, will accept you at your core? You don’t have to hide yourself from me, not after I have seen what’s beyond the facade.

I will pick your brain apart bit by bit, deliberately, infecting, corroding, spreading like a curse. Dissecting every little thought and secret you so desperately try to hide from the world, even from yourself.
I will consume you and you will thank me for it since that will become the up most honor for a pathetic creature such as yourself.
I will infiltrate your mind and I plan to do it slowly, steady yet relentlessly. I will spread through your brain like a sickness, corrupting everything my way.

Every little inch of you belongs to me; you have known from the start, you felt it at the first command. But I won’t stop there because I’m never satisfied and even on the verge of the end I will keep pushing for more, after all, you know your last breath is mine for the taking.

The greatest gift you give me, my beautiful sweet pet, is control. You don’t know how you warm my heart and feed my soul when you give me control: control of what you say when you call me Mistress; control of what you wear when you dress in that exquisite lingerie - or nothing at all, which is my preference; control of what you do when you spread your legs and offer yourself to me. Your submission is my pleasure. Your submission is divine; when you serve me and only me, how can I do anything but worship you?

The greatest gift you give me is your submission. Your submission, like you my pretty creature, is sublime.

But can I tell you a secret?

More delicious even than the control you give me is the control I take. You cannot give me control of your mind, but I take it when I lick your pussy and fill you with such supreme ecstasy that you can no longer form a coherent thought. You cannot give me control of your body, but I take it when my caress makes your limbs quiver before that rhapsodic relief of orgasm. You cannot give me control of your breath, but I take it when I press my lips to yours in the middle of a moan and breathe in your pleasure.

You give me all you can, like you should. Because you are always such a good girl. Because you know that your every waking moment belongs to me. But the truth is that even though you give me everything you are, it’s still not enough. I must own all of you, I must have complete control. I must own every beat of your heart. You make yourself my pet, my servant. I make you a doll, my slave; body and mind.

Does that scare you?

Or does it excite you?

Come here, precious thing, and let’s find out together.

(Short one. I haven't felt much like writing these recently because a transphobe found the other erotica I've posted, the gentle dom praise kink erotica I've been posting here and told me I was writing rape fantasies. And even though that's laughable, my vibes have been all fucked 🙃 )

i can't decide if i need to be filled

or if i need to fill someone

but i am like
desperately horny

i hate being stuck at work when i'm this needy
but i also feel like such a slut when i sext people while i'm on the clock...

PLSPLSPLS

You're at work. Or maybe just put and about, but your mind wanders off to somewhere else. To your place, where your doll is waiting.

You found this trans girl struggling with self image, with her style being "whatever hides what's under the clothes", and you decided to change that.

You dated me, making me gain confidence in myself, letting me see the potential in my body. And then, you started molding me.

At first, you just helped me pick out clothes for me to learn fashion and style. Slowly but surely, you'd make the clothes more skimpy, more risqué, more to your taste.

Little by little, you turned my newfound confidence into something else. Into an eagerness to show off, especially to you. A wish to be seen as much as possible by the woman who made me understand what a beautiful doll I truly am.

And now, you know I'd let you do anything. Dress me up in anything, no matter how revealing, no matter how humiliating, because ultimately it means you want to see me. And you can touch me however you want, because I'm your doll to play with.

(First try at writing erotica, because my brain prefers thinking about being a doll rather than doing the work I'm supposed to do)

Made out with my gf tonight and she let me grind against her while we made out and felt each other up but now I'm extremely wet and turned on and she won't let me touch myself or edge 😭😭😭

She just makes me so fucking hot how she kisses and touches me I'm losing my god damn mind!!!! Feeling her warm and wet tongue in my mouth while straddling her and feeling her push her hips up into me with my legs spread like that is so fucking heavenly 🫠

All I can do is grind my pillow but that's not enough it's so frustrating!!

Someone please help me plead my case to edge at LEAST 😭 I've been so good for over a week now denying myself!!

So uhhh I’m ( technically) bi… I want a woman to bully me for liking men so badly. I can think of so many ways this can go.
I said this on another platform and was severely judged for this but that just turned me on tbh.

I don’t know what it is.. but when a woman growls into my ear it puts me into such a submissive state.

My legs get weak, my core flares up and I’m panting and whining with the need to be touched.. to be taken and unraveled fully.

Normally I’m such, *such* a good, proper, behaved girl. But when the desire takes over I become such a slut for her.

All it takes is a hand on the neck, a growl by my ear, her warm breath going down my neck a bite to make me moan or scream and I become docile like my body gives way, like all the fight I have in me to tease and brat turns into
“Please fuck me, I need to be worn by you”

Uuugh 😩💦

Human Domestication Guide, am I right? 😅

I learned about it from a post I think I saw on this subreddit. Someone talking about how it kinda destroyed them. I figured they were exaggerating. I looked into it, read a few stories, and yeah, it's definitely hot. Went about my days, no big deal.

But I kept coming back. AO3 has a LOT of stories in this universe. And there's something to it that's hard to get out of my head now. It's not just the fantasy of hot space plant mommies owning me and not taking no for an answer, "for my own good." It's not just the condescending, humiliating, visceral ways they sexually use their pets. It's not even the fantasy of aliens coming down and annihilating capitalism with their post-scarcity technology. It's all of it, together, that has me actually begging the universe to make this real.

I HATE how much this has gotten into my head. I hate how I know I would barely put up a fight if it really happened. Nobody would mistake me for an "Independent." It feels pathetic, how much I want it. It's just fantasy, like any porn I've read, so why can't I get it out of my head??