u/Wooden_Somewhere_992

My domme and I used to use mommy because that was my biggest kink, but since we’ve actually become parents we both felt off with using it in that context.

My domme is she/they and so we’ve decided on me calling them sir which I adore, but we’re struggling to come up with her name for me. She uses good girl a lot, which I love but we both want a specific sort of pet name - possibly one that we can use in public but doesn’t flag with anyone else as being d/s related.

Hoping to get some inspo from all of you kinky people 🫶

My wife and I (also F) have recently shifted to a 24/7 dynamic. We’ve started off really small with only a handful of rules/rituals and plan to add/adjust as we go and see what works/doesn’t work for us.

We both feel like we’re missing something specifically ‘subby’ for me to do daily. Two of my tasks are to wake her every morning so she has time to workout before work, and to make her tea within an hour of me getting up, but these don’t specifically scream submissive to me outside of the fact I get rewards/punishments and go anyone on the outside it’s just me being a supportive/caring wife.

We both loved the idea of having me kneel with my head on her lap/thigh for a certain amount of time every morning/night but in reality it doesn’t work for us.

We have an almost one year old that we co-sleep with, my wife works while I’m SAHM with our baby. I wake my wife around 5am but I go back to sleep until our baby wakes up as I’m usually up with him during the night. My wife usually takes him to bed and sometimes she’ll get back up after he’s asleep, but other times she’ll go to sleep when he does.

So, looking for some ideas or suggestions on a task/ritual that we can add that makes me feel more submissive m.

My wife and I have been together for nearly 10 years and have a 1 year old. We discovered really early on that we both really enjoyed BDSM and the D/S dynamic, but usually it was enjoyed with really long scenes whenever we could.

Now we have a 1 year old and we’re struggling to find a way to incorporate the D/S dynamic when we don’t have hours to give to a scene.

Any suggestions for how to keep it going after you have kids 🤞🏻