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So, during intimacy (both IRL and online) I get turned on and have all the desire, but for some reason I just… can’t orgasm. For me, I think it's more psychological than anything else, and it’s been like this for a long time. It honestly makes me feel pretty sad and frustrated at times. The disappointment from my partners in real life have really hit me hard. I can usually orgasm if I'm feeling comfortable and watching porn, but I want to experience intimacy with a partner, not a video.

So, I’m looking for someone who’s genuinely patient and understanding with everything. I need you to be totally okay with the fact that I probably won’t cum with you, even if we play for a long time. Maybe one day, if I feel really safe and comfortable with you, it could happen… but I have to warn you it might take a while, or it might never happen. That’s just how it is.

What I do love, though, is focusing on your pleasure. Making you feel good gives me a ton of confidence and turns me on even more. I have lots of kinks I’d be excited to explore once we click, but comfort and connection come first.

Also, please don’t jump straight into sex talk! I’d rather chat and get to know each other a bit so I can actually relax with you. If this sounds like something you can handle with kindness, message me. I’d really appreciate it.

Thanks for reading ❤️

So, during intimacy (both IRL and online) I get turned on and have all the desire, but for some reason I just… can’t orgasm. For me, I think it's more psychological than anything else, and it’s been like this for a long time. It honestly makes me feel pretty sad and frustrated at times. The disappointment from my partners in real life have really hit me hard. I can usually orgasm if I'm feeling comfortable and watching porn, but I want to experience intimacy with a partner, not a video.

So, I’m looking for someone who’s genuinely patient and understanding with everything. I need you to be totally okay with the fact that I probably won’t cum with you, even if we play for a long time. Maybe one day, if I feel really safe and comfortable with you, it could happen… but I have to warn you it might take a while, or it might never happen. That’s just how it is.

What I do love, though, is focusing on your pleasure. Making you feel good gives me a ton of confidence and turns me on even more. I have lots of kinks I’d be excited to explore once we click, but comfort and connection come first.

Also, please don’t jump straight into sex talk! I’d rather chat and get to know each other a bit so I can actually relax with you. If this sounds like something you can handle with kindness, message me. I’d really appreciate it.

Thanks for reading ❤️

So, during intimacy (both IRL and online) I get turned on and have all the desire, but for some reason I just… can’t orgasm. For me, I think it's more psychological than anything else, and it’s been like this for a long time. It honestly makes me feel pretty sad and frustrated at times. The disappointment from my partners in real life have really hit me hard. I can usually orgasm if I'm feeling comfortable and watching porn, but I want to experience intimacy with a partner, not a video.

So, I’m looking for someone who’s genuinely patient and understanding with everything. I need you to be totally okay with the fact that I probably won’t cum with you, even if we play for a long time. Maybe one day, if I feel really safe and comfortable with you, it could happen… but I have to warn you it might take a while, or it might never happen. That’s just how it is.

What I do love, though, is focusing on your pleasure. Making you feel good gives me a ton of confidence and turns me on even more. I have lots of kinks I’d be excited to explore once we click, but comfort and connection come first.

Also, please don’t jump straight into sex talk! I’d rather chat and get to know each other a bit so I can actually relax with you. If this sounds like something you can handle with kindness, message me. I’d really appreciate it.

Thanks for reading ❤️

So, during intimacy (both IRL and online) I get turned on and have all the desire, but for some reason I just… can’t orgasm. For me, I think it's more psychological than anything else, and it’s been like this for a long time. It honestly makes me feel pretty sad and frustrated at times. The disappointment from my partners in real life have really hit me hard. I can usually orgasm if I'm feeling comfortable and watching porn, but I want to experience intimacy with a partner, not a video.

So, I’m looking for someone who’s genuinely patient and understanding with everything. I need you to be totally okay with the fact that I probably won’t cum with you, even if we play for a long time. Maybe one day, if I feel really safe and comfortable with you, it could happen… but I have to warn you it might take a while, or it might never happen. That’s just how it is.

What I do love, though, is focusing on your pleasure. Making you feel good gives me a ton of confidence and turns me on even more. I have lots of kinks I’d be excited to explore once we click, but comfort and connection come first.

Also, please don’t jump straight into sex talk! I’d rather chat and get to know each other a bit so I can actually relax with you. If this sounds like something you can handle with kindness, message me. I’d really appreciate it.

Thanks for reading ❤️