u/5lutty5

[24F] 43 days post break up update - Part I, AMA

well I guess the sex life updates are going to become a regular occurrence🤷🏽‍♀️AMA…

I saw my sneaky link (number 3 from my previous post) yesterday evening. He came over early, like 6pm so it was still light outside which felt a bit unusual. He’d prefaced our rendezvous with the following text:

Be ready and waiting for me when I get there, I want you over my knees straight away x

I’m a smoker (420) so when he got to mine, I had my usual and we sat at the end of my bed to catch up on each others weeks. I went first and when he started telling me about his I put my free hand around his shoulders and starting stroking his neck, ears. Step one of the distraction.

Eventually, I lay back on my bed which (due to the time of day and layout of my room) is flooded with sun every evening until sunset. So I laid back into this patch of sun, my dressing gown fell off my shoulder slightly as I did so. He looked around and saw me, my tan lines and the white strappy set I was wearing and I knew step two was complete. He was thoroughly distracted.

He kept talking for a bit - telling me about the intricacies of re plumbing his sisters bathroom - but when I flipped over onto my front and leaned across the bed to grab my water bottle, he gave into step three. Hook, line and sinker. When I turned back around he was nose to nose with me and immediately towered over me to work his way down my upper body, kissing every inch.

I couldn’t help but get distracted by how good a kisser he is. So soft, so gentle. The perfect pressure and amount of tongue. He bites and licks when necessary. And god he is fucking sexy. I’m lying there getting slightly impatient because all I can really think is I want him to be doing exactly this but with his fingers deep inside me.

He eventually invites his hands into the fold and starts by holding my waist, lightly pinching my nipples and eventually - gently rubbing my clit through my knickers.I’m now desperate for him to touch me more but I’m struggling to undo my gown. Fucking typical. This resulted in far more teasing than I deem appropriate (I loved every second).

Once I finally get my gown undone, I immediately spread my legs for him to pull my knickers to the side and start playing. He abides and within a few seconds he was knuckles deep inside me with his hand pinning me down by the throat.

After getting me wet and squirming, he grabbed my head and pulled me toward his cock. I then spent a good half an hour sucking him off in whatever position he deemed fit: me lying on the bed with him fucking my mouth, me on my knees while he stands - specifically in front of the huge mirror I have in my bedroom, him sat on the edge of the bed….

He then pulled me up and gave me what he promised me. Lap held pussy play. My favourite. He lay me across his lap, ass up and spanked me, pulled my underwear to one side, licked my slit and eventually stuck his thumb in. We ended up with 3 fingers and him calling me a good slut for taking it so well.

After a good spanking, he whispered that he wanted me to sit on his face. So I straddled his face and gave the man what he wanted! I started with my torso over his head but eventually leaned back so my weight was over his torso. Perfect position to really buck your hips ladies - thoroughly enjoyed. It also gave me the chance to watch him devouring me which was incredibly fucking hot.

Once my legs couldn’t take it anymore, I untrapped him from my thighs and leaned forward to initiate doggy but he had other ideas. He grabbed my hair, pulled my head back whispered “where’s that chair you were telling me about?” Which is in reference to me saying I wanted to ride him on a chair before letting him fucking me on my dining room table…

Part 2…?

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u/5lutty5 — 12 days ago

Remember me? I posted about the 3 day post break up hook up. I figured I’d come back to give an update on my further escapades as I’ve just spent the evening giving the same rundown to my girlfriends:

+ 3 new bodies

  1. +12years, military
  2. +4years, military
  3. +9years, militates
    [I don’t have a type I swear looool]
    tried anal for the first time
    1.5 vanilla dates
    started exploring sugaring relationships as an alternative
    became successful in my endeavours with 2 M&Gs already had and another handful scheduled over the next fortnight

…. AMA🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/5lutty5 — 18 days ago

[throwaway]

I’m super confused and want a second opinion on what went wrong (or not).

I saw a profile on Seeking that I really connected with, similar interests, values and I was really attracted to him to boot (win!). I sent an initial message and he replied back, we hit it off pretty quickly and moved off the app to Telegram.

We then spend the next 48 hours texting non stop including voice notes and even a call. I was away for the weekend and he asked me to send him a picture of the bill for one of my activities as he wanted to add it to my gift for our first M&G.

When I say we talked I mean in DEPTH: family, work, wants, expectations, likes, dislikes, hobbies, music, travelling. Everything. With regard to expectations he was very clear he was really into the whole financial side of the arrangement and wanted to “bill adopt”. Told me to bring a list of my monthly expenses to the date so we could discuss.

We both had travel days yesterday and spoke continuously up until his flight. When he landed he messaged me, told me where he was staying etc etc. I was still travelling but when I got home (at like midnight) I sent a message just saying hey, I’m home! Speak tomorrow.

I noticed it said “seen a very long time ago” and all our messages were missing but I honestly thought I’d just deleted the chat by accident as I don’t use Telegram very much. wake up this morning, same message so I google it and obviously establish that means I’ve been blocked.

I sent him a message on my work Telegram just to check and sure enough he was seen 20 mins ago, then eventually came online and his status message went to “seen a very long time ago”.

May sound stupid but I’m feeling incredibly hurt by the whole thing. We hit it off so well, we wanted exactly the same things, we’re both attracted to each other…. What gives?

There is nothing I can pinpoint that would indicate this is on me, so SD’s can you give some perspective perhaps - any thoughts as to why this happened?

P.S. I’m 1000% sure he’s a real person and has the real financial capabilities for what he was promising so not thinking scam but I don’t understand what else it could be

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u/5lutty5 — 20 days ago