u/ACid04burn

Just getting started on FeetFinder like so many others on here. I'm working on figuring out the balance of being honest and selling the fantasy. I am a big gal (290 lbs) and I had a guy reach out to me with a feeder/gainer fetish, which is not really my thing (no shade!). I was honest with him about how I felt about it (doesn't turn me on personally but the thought of my body turning someone else on is hot). So not a total shut down but I found myself unable to lie when he asked me some specific questions. Is that stupid? How do y'all balance fulfilling the fantasy while also being your authentic self and showing off your personality?