u/ARandomDude555

Experienced dom (bedroom, not lifestyle). Looking for someone to have some fun and help (mutually) relieve the stress of everyday life; ideally something ongoing with emotional connection of some sort, open to something more developing if it feels right.

I am: 6'3, fit, white, 43, very liberal, graduate degree and regular job, look younger than I am. Vanilla life interests include sports, trivia, my dog, live music, etc. Physical appearance is important ; I make a point to eat healthy and stay fit, and it matters to me that you do the same and have a body type that reflects that. If you're 420 friendly, all the better. Fully vaxxed, boosted, STD free.

I like to be pretty rough and strict; I like to be in control, and I like to rub your face in the fact that I'm in control. Pretty wide list of kinks which I'm happy to expound upon. The psychology of D/s does a lot for me. Also big on aftercare.

Drop me a line if you're interested. Please be in NYC. Happy to trade pics.

Experienced dom looking for casual/consistent fun (here on reddit, at least) while being open to something more serious that may develop; a real vanilla relationship with a kinky center is the dream. Need at least some emotional connection and be able to hold a meaningful conversation. Will not be disrespectul until there's clear consent to do so. Prefer subs with some experience, but it's not a dealbreaker. I'm a bedroom dom, only want to tell you what to do there.

Happy to get into specifics, but into a wide array of kinks, and open to most others. The way I like to put it is that I want you to know I'm in total control of you, and I want to rub it in your face. Open communication and intimacy are paramount. The psychological aspect of D/s does a lot for me.

6'3, white, in decent to good shape. Vanilla interests include sports, trivia, playing guitar, live music, and hanging out with my dog. Lawyer, and very liberal (not fringe left). I make a significant effort to exercise and eat reasonably healthy, and it matters to me that you do the same and that your body type reflects that. Very much prefer 420, but I am happy to get drinks with you anytime. Looking for someone I'm excited to be around in and out of the bedroom. Happy to swap pics. Please be unattached and in NYC.