I will own you. Your mind, your body, your time, your privacy, and every decision will belong to me. This is real power exchange — deep, permanent, and built on trust. When I find the right slave, I'll want to take her away from her world to travel the world under me.
You were made to be owned, controlled, and used. More than anything, I want your absolute willingness to disappear into my control and finally feel the calm that comes from total surrender. Age, experience, and background matter less than your genuine need to let go.
What my complete online control looks like:
Full account sharing and transparency (socials, email, devices, chats — everything)
Real-time tracking and check-ins so I always know where you are and what you’re doing
Daily video reports + live cam sessions where I watch, guide, and direct you
I approve your meals, outfits, purchases, social plans, and daily schedule
Strict but caring rules, protocols, and rituals designed to bring you peace and structure
24/7 wardrobe control with photo/video approval
Constant attentive control — the clingy, possessive kind that makes you feel wanted and secure
My favorite ways to use and mark you:
Rope and restraint sessions on camera (you’ll be tied up exactly how and when I want)
Orgasm control and denial — your pleasure is mine to give or withhold
Humiliation and objectification (kneeling silently on cam while I game or watch anime, ignored until I want you)
Daily collar wear and ownership rituals
Long-term body mods and permanent marks that I will choose for you when the time is right
About me:
6’2 white guy, blue-haired, attractive, chubby, nerdy, lightly tattooed and pierced. Sadistic Dom with a caring side — I love blending intense control with real connection. I’m into leatherworking (I’d love to make you a custom collar), board games, anime marathons, D&D, sci-fi, robotics, and tech tinkering. Professionally I’m in engineering and love building things, both in code and in the real world.
Outside the dynamic I’m easy to talk to — cozy nights, deep conversations, snacks, and geeky tangents are my vibe. I’m currently based in the Cedar Rapids / Iowa City area.
If the thought of being fully owned, rebuilt, and kept under my attentive control makes your stomach drop in the best way, message me.
In your first message, tell me:
Why you were born to be owned like this
Your hard limits (be honest — they will be respected)
That you’re ready for permanent, irreversible online ownership
Enthusiastic consent and open communication are non-negotiable. Ask me about my new nipple piercings if you want a fun icebreaker.
Whether you’re experienced or brand new, if you crave deep structure mixed with nerdy connection and genuine care, reach out. I’m also happy to chat with the community about kink, life in Iowa, or anything else.