New to this.. how to talk to husband??
Hi! Me and my husband are a younger couple in our 20s. Married for just about a year but have been together for 7. I’m wondering how you brought up to your partner/spouse that you were interested in BDSM/kink? We generally have vanilla relations but are no stranger to things like slapping/ spit. I’m not necessarily into anything “extreme” but would be interested in exploring a dom/sub relationship, restraint, impact play.
Husband is currently away with the navy but was thinking about ways to gently bring it up over text/letter that could encourage the conversation or explain my side a little bit more. I think he would be open to it but maybe perhaps not as into it as I am. Not sure how to bring it up without coming across like I’m not satisfied.