u/AccomplishedAct4371

My wife (28F) and I (28M) have been together for over a decade, we met when we were 16 in high school and have been together ever since. A little over a year ago we got into the “swinging” scene. We started by just watching other couples at parties and clubs and slowly started mixing in innocent things like kissing, getting handsy, and eventually some oral but we hadnt fully crossed the line into fucking others. During this time we made some awesome friends in the lifestyle. Due to us beginning to spice things up so early, we have found most of the people we meet in this scene are older than us and more experienced than us. Theres a few couples we are particularly close to, the wifes are “hotwifes” and have really taken my wife under their wing. They have been encouraging us (more so her) to try hotwifing, both the women and their husbands have nothing but positive things to say about it. I was hesitant at first but eventually I saw the light and what her sexual liberation could do for our life so I agreed a few weeks ago to dive into this and gave my go ahead for her to explore alone too. Well last night it finally happened, she met up with a guy who is also in this lifestyle. Hes a single guy who the other women know as a local Bull and has been vetted by a couple of them before. Ive met him at a couple of parties, big guy but very friendly, him and my wife have fooled around at these parties before but never sex until last night.
Anyways, they bought a hotel room at a local casino and have been together all night. Its 5:30 am where I am and ive heard from her throughout the night but she must have fell asleep around 4 am because I stopped getting updates. I texted one of my wifes friends whos been with this guy before and she told me not to worry and that he is a gentleman and will take great care of her. I admittedly havent slept much but thats a mix of excitement and nerves. Anyways, thought I would share since I am awake and not likely going to bed anytime soon.