r/HotwifeAdvice

Kind of long but I'll try to wrangle it in

43m/47f been married 11 years. I brought up cuckolding about a year ago and she flat out said no. I still bring it up and still ask for mfm 3somes but still a no.

Hard, I'm about 5 inches. Not the smallest but not the biggest. I ordered an 8 inch cock sleeve and showed her. She said they felt pretty real and looked real so let's try.

Started off by going down on here for a few minutes until she asked me to fuck her. I did without the cock sleeve until she came. Step number 1 accomplished!

Then I asked if I could put the sleeve on and give her a go. She reluctantly said ok. I put it on and slowly entered her. Once I was fully inside of her the smile on her face literally went from ear to ear so I slowly started fucking her. While I was railing her the smile got larger and she was louder than she has ever been. After a few minutes of me really beating on her she stopped me because she said her cervix was getting sore. So I took the sleeve off and entered her without it and she felt so stretched out. She begged me to cum in her to "reclaim" her which she said all of this on her own. I filled her up and we both took showers.

I asked her afterwards what she thought of the sleeve and she smiled and said it was amazing and will very happily take that cock again

Did I just crack the code of getting her to slowly open up for maybe another guy?

So I’ve been wanting to delve into the hotwife lifestyle with my partner for a while now (see my previous post for the full details), but she’s never been into the idea.

Next weekend we’ve got a date night booked. Probably going out for dinner then drinks but details yet to be ironed out.

I asked her yesterday what she was planning to wear, and before she answered I said “something slutty or revealing I hope” with a bit of a jokey tone. She smiled and said “you’ll have to wait and see”.

Is this a positive sign? Is she maybe coming round to the idea of being admired by me and others? What are your thoughts? And any ideas? Should I buy her something to wear , which is something I’ve done before? If so, what?

Let me have them!

Long story short my husband and I are pretty vanilla. I want to bring another M or F into our relationship but don’t know how to bring it up. Can anyone talk to me about how you did it or about how I should? Thanks !

Hey all!!

Bull here or if that’s what it’s called!! Been curious about the lifestyle for about 3 years I’d say!! While I appreciate the compliments and love from many I find that’s it’s really tough to look for the right Hotwife/couples! See for me, I seek a connection and long term arrangement where we can grow, establish a good and solid friendship outside the relationship! So while I am in the market for a couple I find this to be extremely hard and I’ve had to vet so many! Where our business is for us and only us! I find many hotwives and couples look for a quick hook up or just classic pic collectors!! Curious to see by hotwives who also search the same thing where you guys look, your interactions, your history love to chat and learn more and more!

We are always learning

hey all, my spouse been hotwife for the past 4 years. She's still with her original bull and we also started meeting a new guy recently. Her bulls always creampie her (she has IUD installed), more or less for my pleasure, because I've always found it quite arrousing, however she never allowes me to cum inside her and I'm starting to debate if I'm missing out too much.

Should I try and put my food down or I'm jot missing too much?

Could use your help on this one, not sure what "category" this kink/fetish falls into. Maybe there is overlap with "hotwife" but I'm not sure.

I get incredibly turned on when my wife is seen (visually enjoyed) naked, or near naked. Some examples:

• We went to the beach and she wore a skimpy thong i bought her. I bought it b/c i wanted men to see her ass. She's shy but wore it and I caught an older guy taking pictures and a video of her ass. I showed her, we laughed, but I found it so hot and sometimes take care of business to those clips.
• She once posted (to my surprise) a pic of her in another thong on vacation to her IG. It was buried in a handful of pictures but her post got more likes than all her others. She has some former coworkers and flings following her and that turned me on like crazy.
• In a hotel, she showered and was by the windows naked and I saw someone in a building right next to us watching her naked. I ended up getting off to it as it was happening.

Not knowing what to do with this, I explored with writing erotica (for myself) and always create these scenarios where someone gets off to her body (but not having sex with her). Like in one I had her straddle her ex bf in reverse cowgirl so he could jerk off to her ass. I'm always there too, usually getting off at the same time.

I don't know how to even classify this. Just thought I'd throw it out there, just trying to understand my own psyche!

Hey all bull here!

Gotta say, I’m the type of bull that likes to foster relationships. Where we can grow, enjoy and develop something fun! So where we can have something exclusive and fun :) however I find many couples or cucks really look multiple cocks. Not my jam. Curious to see if any bulls or couples have success in search of what I look for and where you have found something great!

so I will preface this by saying I am a single guy. However, I would love to meet a hotwife couple, for some ongoing fun. I know I am a dime a dozen around here. But I would love some advice to where to start, where to look to meet people, or any good advice from anyone would be great thanks!

Met up with a guy, chemistry was there. Foreplay was great. When sex started, He lasted about 2 min and we were recording so extra embarrassing. The video was 12 min foreplay and 2 min sex. I really liked him and didn’t mind. He didn’t text the next day but I said thank you for last night and he repelled he was sorry and stuck late at work all day and knew he should have just rescheduled. I said no worries. I enjoyed myself. I asked him if he wanted to try a round two. He hasn’t responded. What does this mean

We're a couple in our late 30s. My girlfriend has been open to holding me in chastity on and off for a while and even though she's quite vanilla, she tries her best to grow some dominance and focus more on her own pleasures. My ultimate fantasy would be to involve another man in our sex life (I'm leaning a bit into bisexual tendencies and would love to please him, so involving a third could go the full spectrum from a regular threesome to chastity cuck play for me). She once mentioned she's been fantasising about double penetration but ultimately feels like having to take care of two men would overwhelm her. So she's open to the idea, but currently doesn't see it becoming reality.

Obviously I'm looking for advice on how to ease her into the idea, we've already talked about the idea of just attending a swingers club party without the goal to find someone just to warm up. Apparently she wanted to do that when she was a student and now feels like she lost a bit of interest in that. All in all it seems like the seed to become a hotwife is there but life has been too overwhelming to really explore it.

After much reading, searching, and only finding common stuff, eye contact, say hi, introduce yourself. What she really wants is two or three guys. We are going to a dance club at the hotel, there are also bars, casino etc.

I tell her that if a guys starts flirting with her, lean in, see if its serious. Go to the bar or a somewhat quite place and just say "Hey I think you're cute, would love to spend some more time together. We can go back to our room, but just so you know my boyfriend likes to watch" or something along those lines

She thinks im crazy and that would never work. Thoughts, opinions, advice?

Are there any telltale indicators of such a couple? How can I spot them in public? Any particular behaviours in a bar/restaurant that give it away?

I'd love to meet more but don't want to go the usual online way.

A couple of days ago I posted about my wife's unexpected comments after a few drinks that where we go from here is up to me.

Given that some drinks were involved I took it with a pinch of salt, but it nonetheless spurred a great conversation the next day. We basically agreed that exploring the fantasy together is still something we want to do.

Yesterday, I asked my wife to pop into the sex shop near her work and buy something to surprise me. 'Happy to oblige!' she replied.

All day I was waiting at home looking forward to seeing what she had chosen. When she returned she opened her work bag and slowly pulled out an enormous dildo.

'I can't wait to have this inside me' she said.

Needless to say, I was immediately hard.

My husband is going on a guy's trip over memorial day weekend. I have something special planned for him, I am getting some boudoir photos taken of me. I won't see any of the photos for a couple weeks, but I was thinking about sending him something spicy. A man on Reddit I have been chatting with for a while now, actually wants to fly up and meet me. He said he would love for us to take photos together and send them to my husband. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not? Would this be a good surprise or would he be upset not knowing before hand?

Has anyone gone into the HW thjbg thinking - this is just a temporary fun thing but we won’t do this forever? If so, did that change? Thoughts ?

Me and my husband are new to the hotwife lifestyle and are looking for advice and how to get started we are both turned on by it just don’t know how to start any advice would help would love to talk to other women about it but open to men as well

I'm really interested in hearing about some of your favorite hotwife experiences, from both partners perspectives. I feel like we all have that one time that really stands out for us, what was yours?!

So after a few months of searching I went out yesterday and had sex with another man. It appears that my husband is perfectly fine with it. He seemed a little stressed when I came home, he had gone up the road and bought a beer for instance. But he didn't get drunk or anything. He had a hard time sleeping that night too. Otherwise everything is the same. He did ask some questions but nothing major. No details just informational stuff. Like did I enjoy myself.

We talked a little bit today about the whole thing, but I wasn't trying to press him. He said something along the lines of "my wife, my beer, I decide when I'll share and how much."

Not sure what I'm thinking right now to be honest.

Married 3 years, two young sons.

A year ago I told my wife I fantasize about MFM. She was shocked, felt disrespected, and even worried about getting pregnant by the other guy (I never mentioned creampie). She angrily agreed to “do it once” just to satisfy me, him bare, me with condom, probably to show me how crazy it was.

I dropped the topic after that.

But this past year I’ve been softly testing the waters:

• Detailed hotpast talks during sex → she blushes hard but gets soaking wet.
• Started making her call me “Daddy” and talk dirty like her ex did → she gets extremely wet.
• She bought a very revealing swimsuit that shows off her ass. I told her I get turned on by other guys seeing her, and suggested a public beach. She surprisingly agreed.
• Now I use a dildo while fucking her doggy — she sucks it eagerly and says being used rough turns her on (she’s very submissive).

Does this sound like she’s becoming more open to a real MFM? Worth bringing it up again, or should I keep going slow?

We’re from a conservative East Asian country, so she won’t show it openly even if interested.

Any similar experiences or advice on next steps would be appreciated.