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My wife and I have been together for 7 years now and she had a previous marriage with another man who she had a child with. The other day she went to their normal scheduled custody exchange and said he was extremely flirty with her. My wife doesn’t typically go to their custody exchange due to her work schedule but needed to on this day. As it’s is summer, she was wearing small tight shorts that did show her ass off in a nice way and a lower cut shirt.

She came home and was extremely horny and started to suck my cock while telling me that her ex was filtering with her and that he kept staring at her boobs. She told me that he lingered at her car for a while and she even found an excuse to completely bend over to pick something up and said she purposely put her ass in his face to tease him.

She sucked me and begged me to let her sleep with him again. This was all mostly fantasy talk but we have also been in a hotwife/cuck relationship in the past and is something that we both fantasize about together.

She’s now going to go again to this weekend custody exchange and we’ve been picking up a more revealing set of clothing for her.

Now, fantasies aside, has anyone actually hooked back up with an ex on this space for fun? How did it go?

My husband and I have been together for about 7 and a half years and have been married for about 5. In our time together we have had a lot of success in these fun spaces but have also had some mistakes, big and small and some embarrassment along the way. I’ll give you guys a brief overview of our history to highlight the best and worst times and aspects of things and then feel free to use this as an open forum where both he and I will try our best to answer any questions you have! Enjoy and have fun with it!

We got started because one night my husband was using a dildo on me while I have him head and he started to mention how hot it would be to have a threesome with another man instead of the toy. He mentioned this several times over about a month and we would roll play with other men I found attractive. From there this is how we got started.

We got lucky! One of our guy friends who was very hot was single and used to swing with his ex so we started with him. We had a lot of threesomes over about a 4 year period and it was perfect. Until it wasn’t. Unfortunately he cut ties with us after he got married and his wife found out we used to have sex. Lessons learned. It can be super easy to involve friends but there may be huge draw backs in the end.

We also did not have a plan in place if we were found out and things went public. So have a plan if that’s to happen but also we recommend for these accounts creating fake emails and even an app to generate a fake phone number to associate those accounts to (as many require a phone number) so it doesn’t notify others like X does or Reddit or snap or even instagram.

Also be prepared for flakes. Even for a couple like us who were in our younger and late 20s at the time and were both in very good shape we would still encounter a bunch of flakes. What we found is this. 90 percent of guys on lifestyle apps are dumb. They sit there and jerk off to the conversations and then ghost. They also just ask for nude photos and it’s laughable at how fast they will just get blocked. A small percentage are genuine and will come through however and those are the ones you want to make a wonderful impression with as they hopefully do the same.

Now our amazing success have been everything from …
having sec with coworkers. We got lucky here and it didn’t back fire on us but be careful.
Having sex with friends
Having 1 small ornery
Full swaps
Times I made my husband watch
Times my husband joined in
Times I spent a full weekend with another man several hours away
Solo play
3 men at once
Cheating roll play with other men
Humiliation while fucking other men
And most of all!

We maintains our sex life above all. Cuck’ing is fun. Hotwifing is fun, but don’t consume it at a rate your relationship cannot handle.