How do I begin the conversation with my wife about the fact that I get aroused watching her with another man? My wife cheated on me years ago. It devastated me at the time, but it also somehow really turned me on. We’ve grown through everything together as a couple. We love each other very much. But I can't shake this fantasy.
My husband and I have been together for about 7 and a half years and have been married for about 5. In our time together we have had a lot of success in these fun spaces but have also had some mistakes, big and small and some embarrassment along the way. I’ll give you guys a brief overview of our history to highlight the best and worst times and aspects of things and then feel free to use this as an open forum where both he and I will try our best to answer any questions you have! Enjoy and have fun with it!
We got started because one night my husband was using a dildo on me while I have him head and he started to mention how hot it would be to have a threesome with another man instead of the toy. He mentioned this several times over about a month and we would roll play with other men I found attractive. From there this is how we got started.
We got lucky! One of our guy friends who was very hot was single and used to swing with his ex so we started with him. We had a lot of threesomes over about a 4 year period and it was perfect. Until it wasn’t. Unfortunately he cut ties with us after he got married and his wife found out we used to have sex. Lessons learned. It can be super easy to involve friends but there may be huge draw backs in the end.
We also did not have a plan in place if we were found out and things went public. So have a plan if that’s to happen but also we recommend for these accounts creating fake emails and even an app to generate a fake phone number to associate those accounts to (as many require a phone number) so it doesn’t notify others like X does or Reddit or snap or even instagram.
Also be prepared for flakes. Even for a couple like us who were in our younger and late 20s at the time and were both in very good shape we would still encounter a bunch of flakes. What we found is this. 90 percent of guys on lifestyle apps are dumb. They sit there and jerk off to the conversations and then ghost. They also just ask for nude photos and it’s laughable at how fast they will just get blocked. A small percentage are genuine and will come through however and those are the ones you want to make a wonderful impression with as they hopefully do the same.
Now our amazing success have been everything from …
having sec with coworkers. We got lucky here and it didn’t back fire on us but be careful.
Having sex with friends
Having 1 small ornery
Full swaps
Times I made my husband watch
Times my husband joined in
Times I spent a full weekend with another man several hours away
Solo play
3 men at once
Cheating roll play with other men
Humiliation while fucking other men
And most of all!
We maintains our sex life above all. Cuck’ing is fun. Hotwifing is fun, but don’t consume it at a rate your relationship cannot handle.
Last night, me (25M) and my gf (24F) Olivia were at home after work. Olivia had arranged to have a guy come over to hookup and all she told me about him was that he was huge! Well the time rolls around and he knocks on the door. My gf walks over to greet him after getting all dolled up, wearing a little black pleated skirt and a cropped tshirt with nothing on underneath.
Now before he arrived all Olivia had told me was that he heard about him from another cuck couple and that he was hung. So she opens the door and in steps a pretty fit, 6'2 ish black guy wearing a tshirt and jeans. Olivia hugs him and leads him into the living room. They both sit down on the couch next to me, with Olivia in the middle of the two of us. I can see him already scanning her body imagining what's underneath the little amount of clothing she's wearing. I think Olivia notices as well because I see her get a little red.
We all talk for a little, getting comfortable. But that doesn't last long. His hands start to wander and find their way under Olivia's skirt just brushing up against her pussy. I can hear her moan softly when he first touches her as she gets even more red. After a few more surpressed moans Olivia finally breaks and lets out a real moan. His fingers have found their way inside her and she's getting finger fucked between us. He reaches his other hand around the back of her head and grabs her tight bringing her in for a kiss. They lock lips and make out while he milks her pussy with his hand.
All while they're all over each other, I'm sitting there in a trance watching my gf lose herself in another man. It turns me on so much I don't really think as I pull my cock out and start stroking it. I watch as Olivia throws her leg over his lap and straddles him, grinding her exposed and wet pussy on his crotch. After a minute they finally look over and see me stroking my rock hard cock watching them. My gf stands up and leads him to our bed. I follow and watch as as soon as they enter the bedroom he pushes her over and for a brief moment I can see his hard cock pressing against his jeans.
To my surprise he unzip his jeans and pulls his cock out behind Olivia. She turns to get a look and gasps when she sees his almost 10 inch BBC lined up right behind her soaking wet pussy. He gently slides the tip in and the room is filled with load moans and groans as Olivia tries to breathe through his attempt at splitting her in half. He thrusts slow, going half way before pulling back giving Olivia time to adjust to his monster BBC. I walk beside her and lean in to give her a kiss and she moans into my mouth while we kiss. It was a crazy feeling having her also scream moan into my mouth as her pussy gets stretched out by another guy.
He started to speed up after Olivia calmed down a bit. Thrusting deeper into her, Olivia couldn't hide the insane amount of pleasure she was feeling. I couldn't believe how into she was. I knew she liked big cocks but she was on another planet. I continued to stroke my cock as I watched him finally pull back then thrust his monster BBC all the way into her pussy. She screamed again but we both knew she was loving it. His moans started to get louder as he fucked he hard and deep. At one point he slammed into her so hard she fell forward and his BBC slipped out.
He pushed her forward so she was fully on the bed, then pushed his cock back inside her. He had her pinned down and both me and Olivia loved it. He was dirty talking in her ear as he claimed her pussy. They were both getting close and shortly after Olivia let out a moan and her legs shook as she came all over his BBC. As she laid there recovering he pushed deep inside her and unloaded. I stroked as fast as I could watching my beautiful gf Olivia lay on our bed pinned down by the biggest cock she had ever taken with his cum in her pussy.
He stood up on the other side of the bed and Olivia crawled over to the edge and started licking his cum covered BBC clean. I had a perfect view of her gaping cum stuffed pussy as she eagerly serviced his cock. After Olivia cleaned him up he got dressed and left. Olivia walked him out and kissed him goodbye. She came back and teasingly pushed me onto the bed. She crawled on top of me and placed her now cum leaking pussy right on my face. I got to work and licked her pussy clean, lapping up every last drop of his cum I could get my tongue on.
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My [55M] wife [55F] just left to meet one of her favorites. A bbc with, in my wife’s words, “a monstrous cock.”
He lives out of state but happens to be near is this weekend. It was a last minute contact from him. I knew something was going on because she has had a huge smile on her face since Wed. She told me on Fri and let me see their texts.
He wanted me to join because he loves to “cuck me” (as he says). My wife responded that she wanted to just meet alone. He obliged and now she is on her way to his hotel downtown. She packed a bag and her Hitachi and said she may be staying overnight.
The angst started from the get-go this time. I can usually stand it until I haven’t heard from her through the night and then it goes crazy. Like leaky pre-cum strings crazy.
But this time it started right away. My brain is buzzing and body tingling, tight chest, hard cock, and strings of pre-cum.
It might be because I wasn’t invited this time or the short notice or the fact that she giggled when she told me she’s going to “go get laid” and “may stay overnight.”
I don’t want to jerk off and get PNC but this throbbing dick is unbearable.
What do I do now for maybe the next 24 hours?
I recently went on a family vacation with my whole family and my best friend. Now he has been my best friend since the first grade, and hes been fucking my wife for about 13 years now. But taking him on a family vacation amd watching him bend my wife over, or disappear with my wife and knowing what they were up to. It was a whole new feeling of jealousy and arousal that I thoroughly enjoyed. There's no way to quite describe the feeling of seeing your wife and bestfriend join a family dinner and being able to see the hint of guilty pleasure still lingering on both their faces! I think this is gonna have to be a regular thing from here on out!
The first time I met her husband (bull's perspective)
This is a story from a few years ago about a couple I was involved with for several years. Because I lived about six hours away from them, ours was a long-distance arrangement. By this point, I had been their bull for about three months. She had already traveled to meet me a few times, and we had met halfway on other occasions, but there was one person I still hadn’t met: her husband.
That was about to change.
And I wanted to make sure the first time we met was an experience none of us would ever forget.
Physically, I’m a pretty imposing guy—6'3", muscular, with a face that tends to get noticed. She was tiny by comparison, barely 4'11", with a gorgeous figure, a nerdy-but-cute personality, and a confidence that came out whenever she was around me. Her husband was around 5'7". She had described him to me plenty of times, including in ways that made it very clear where she stood in their relationship. She was his domme, and he was already familiar with the idea of sharing her.
Still, meeting someone online or hearing about them is very different from standing face-to-face with them.
I flew into their airport and told them to park the car and meet me at the Starbucks outside security. I was exhausted from the trip, but I wanted to touch base with both of them before we left because I already had plans for her.
When I saw them, she immediately ran toward me and wrapped her arms around me.
“I missed you, Daddy,” she said, looking up at me.
I decided right then that subtlety wasn't going to be part of the weekend.
I grabbed her ass while looking directly at her husband.
Then I shook his hand.
“Nice to finally meet you. I’ve heard so much about you.”
I made sure to give him a little smirk when I said it.
She caught the expression and let out a quiet laugh.
He told me he had heard plenty about me too, but my attention quickly shifted back to his wife. I handed him my bag and asked her what she wanted from Starbucks. Once she'd finished ordering, I turned back toward him.
“And I’ll have a black coffee.”
He looked visibly uncomfortable.
I took his wife by the hand and motioned toward a nearby four-top.
“Come on. We’ll sit over here.”
I sat beside her while we caught up, leaving him across from us. I checked in with her about the weekend and quietly told her about what I had planned next.
“Fuck, Daddy, that’s so humiliating.”
That was exactly what her husband heard as he approached with our drinks.
He sat down and asked what we had been talking about.
“You’ll find out soon enough,” I told him.
Before anything else happened, I made sure we did things properly. We went over everyone's limits, discussed the things they were comfortable with, reviewed their kinks and safe words, and made sure expectations were clear.
Once that was done, the tone changed.
I put my hand on her thigh and looked directly at her husband.
“Listen, cuck. I’m here this weekend to fuck your wife in ways you wish you could. You’ll do what you’re told, when you’re told. Get in the way, and you can spend the weekend at the hotel down the street while I take over your house. If you understand, say yes, sir.”
Both of them seemed stunned.
He looked down at the table.
“Yes, sir.”
I turned toward her.
“You're my property this weekend. You're going to be a good girl, earn my attention, and do exactly what you're told. Now tell your husband who owns you.”
She squirmed beside me, biting her lip as she repeated exactly what I wanted her to say.
Then I reminded him just how lucky he was to be watching his wife with another man—her number one.
I don't think he fully understood what he had signed up for when he agreed to this weekend.
He definitely understood now.
I handed him my bag.
“Grab that. It’s time to go.”
We headed toward the parking garage, and I could already feel the anticipation building. After three months of hearing about him, I was finally going to see exactly how he reacted when the fantasy became real.
We walked to the parking garage and I swear I was half hard knowing what I was about to do. We got to their car and he opened the passenger door for his wife who was smiling holding my hand. As she noticed it she asked him what he was doing and before he could answer, she said with a hint of cruelty, I'm riding in the back with my Daddy. I opened the back seat for her and I proceeded to sit in the middle. By the time her husband was in the driver's seat she was unzipping my pants and pulling my thick cock out. Telling me how much she fucking missed it before kissing it while he adjusted the mirror to take a look. He sat there looking at his wife wrapped her hands around my cock, telling me how much she missed my thick uncut cock. I told him to get going me and your wife have plans this afternoon. He started the car as she put her mouth around my cock. "Did you miss this cock sweetie," I said getting more comfortable in the back seat. "You know it is all I think about Daddy, you know my husband's dick is too tiny for me to enjoy". I put my hand on the back of her head and shoved her head as I told her," show me how much you missed it slut.". As she gagged on me forcing my cock in her mouth and against the entrance to her throat I couldn't help but notice her husband looking at me in the mirror. He seemed to be wincing in discomfort watching his wife take another man for the very first time. I made eye contact with him as her throat opened up and she got me all the way down. To this day one of the only girls who has ever been able to take all of me. "Did you know what a desperate little whore your wife is before you married her.". He looked back at the road and averted eye contact as his cute little wife made gurgling sounds as I held her head down. I could feel the spit pooling as she struggled to breath and he said no.
I decided to make sure both of them knew their place at that moment and asked if he wanted to see a trick. Before he could answer I let go of her head and she came off my cock gasping. I slapped her across the face and without missing a beat she said "thank you Daddy". I laughed and smacked her again to which she thanked me again. He winced as I slapped his pretty little wife around. I told him I can do this with your wife all day because she's my slut now. I pushed her head back down and told her to make herself useful and keep sucking as I lifted up her dress and played with her clit. As instructed she had not worn any panties and she was soaking wet. She continued to get my dick messy occasionally coming up for air telling me how much she loved the way my cock feels in her mouth. How ever since she met me her husband doesn't feel the same. Reminding him that he had never made her cum from penetration but that he was going watch be make her cum multiple times. The ride was a short one maybe 20 minutes and as we pulled into their garage I asked her if she had prepared all of her toys like I told her to. She answered yes and as I called her a good girl I reached into my bag and pulled out her collar that I placed on her throat.
M34 F29 . I have invited my friends over for drinks tonight. Hoping they get tipsy and do my wife infront of me.i have bought her a new sexy mini dress to seduce them .
Any other suggestions.
I’m not part of this lifestyle, but it fascinates me, and I’m getting more and more interested.
For couples who practice cuckold humiliation : I hear you say a lot of degrading things and compare the cuck to the bull.
But I really want to know : is it still a roleplay, or do you actually mean what you say ?
If it’s not real, how do you manage to make him understand that everything you said was just part of the game ?
And if it is real, aren’t you afraid that at some point, it might genuinely hurt him maybe even in a way that can’t be undone ?
Title basically. I'm tall, handsome, well hung. I got into from porn, but it was just a porn thing, I got turned on by the fantasy but that was it. My wife on the other hand wants to actually try it. I'm torn. I want her to get what she wants, and we've always been sexually adventurous. On the other hand I'm not really into the idea of other people actually fucking her. She has shared me with others, but I'm a man. I can fuck with no feelings easy. I worry about losing her to some guy. I don't want her to do it but I know she's turned on by it. Tough spot to be in. I told her I'm only into the fantasy, but feel guilty for not being into it for her. Anyone else been there? Think I might just keep it fantasy for now.
"Babe. Remember that bar I have been talking about? Well i got us in for tonight" , said my wife. She has been telling me about this place for weeks. She went with her girlfriends and had an amazing time. She came home pretty drunk and tired. "The vibe is so sexy in there, I cant wait to take you there and get dirty secretly. Hehe. Also. All of the staff are so hot."
"Thats fantastic baby. It sounds really cool. I love you, you little dirtball." I replied. "I'll start getting ready"
She turned around and had the biggest grin. I love making my beautiful wife happy. I'm so lucky to have her. She plans these great dates too. I kissed her on her forehead and let her continue getting ready.
Later we get into the car and start heading over. She reaches over and starts touching me while im driving. Gently rubbing me in various places til her hand makes it to my cock. My cock is stiffening so quickly and i start breathing a bit heavier. She says "we are gonna have so much fun tonight" then she takes my off hand and puts it on her titty over her top. And she has her beautiful tits almost out in her tight ass top. She continues to move my hand over her body and finally to her pussy. But there is a huge bulge in her pants. When I realize my eyes get super wide. She says "i hope you wore your plug, cuz im gonna fuck you so hard at the bar"
"My god", I exclaim and let out a gutteral moan. "You are the literal sexiest woman ever."
"Dont worry, its really dark in there. Nobody will see anything."
We finally pull up and walk in the front door. The hostess immediately recognized my wife and said "You're back again? So great to have you again. Jason the bartender is going to be so excited. And who is this?"
My wife replied, "this is my amazing husband. I had to show him what this place is all about."
"Wow, you are a wild one, i love it", exclaimed the hostess. "Please follow me."
I lean over and whisper to my wife, "wow, the hostess is pretty hot."
"See, i told you!" She says
We walk into the bar and it is super dark and there are sexy people everywhere. Gogo dancers sprinkled everywhere. The male bartenders were all shirtless and the women were practically in lingerie. The music was super sensual, but lively.
Once we sit down, Jason the bartender arrives to greet us. He immediately hugs my wife in front of me without even saying anything to me. Who is this guy? This the guy the hostess mentioned?
"So good to see you again!" Says Jason
"You too! This is my husband. Hes come to enjoy the festivities."
"Dont worry we will show him the best time. Nice to meet you. You have a spectacular woman for a wife" Jason says
That was a bit forward. But I try to ignore it for the sake of the night. Jason takes our drink order and my wife says she taking a quick restroom break.
She returns after about 15 minutes and lays a nice juicy wet kiss on my lips immediately. "Sorry i took so long, there was a line"
"No worries, the drinks havent even come" i said. Her kiss tasted a bit weird, but I couldn't put my finger on it.
Shortly, Jason returns with our drinks. He sets them down on the table and tried to sneakily wink at my wife. But im pretty sure I saw it. What the fuck is going on? She tried to hide a giggle also. We cheers our drinks, and I take a huge sip. She giggles a bit more while looking beyond me towards the bar. Wtf is so funny.
"How's your drink?"
"Not bad. A little salty. Should have said dont salt the glass."
"Oh yeah. Must be that" with another big grin
After we finish a couple rounds of drinks. We start making out and groping each other. My wife whispers in my ear "I'm m ready to fuck that ass. Meet me in the bathroom. Ill be waiting." She gets up and walks away, shaking her ass.
Fuck. Im already so hard. I can't wait. I hope nobody saw her huge bulge. Or maybe I hope everyone noticed. I literally almost run to meet her. One of my literal fantasies about to happen.
When I get in the stall, she was waiting for me, cock out. She said, "come put your mouth on this, i didn't bring any lube."
I immediately drop to my knees and start licking. A familiar taste hits my tongue. Once again, I can't put my finger on it.
"Does my cock taste familiar babe?" Asked my wife
"Yeah. What is that?"
"Does it taste like my kiss from earlier? "
"Yeah. A little bit"
"What about like your margarita?"
"Yeah, now that you mention it"
"Well baby, you are tasting Jas9n. I sucked him off when I first went to the bathroom. And he dropped the hugest load ever in my mouth. So I spit some onto this cock. And some more in your margarita."
My dick is literally twitching and so fuckin hard. What the fuck? Why is this exciting me? Why am I starting to enjoy the taste? But I cant stop. I'm literally her slave right now. This is so humiliating. Why do I want more?
"Alright. Drop those pants. Time to get fucked"
I dropped my pants without even thinking. I'm already her mindless fuck pig. I submit to her will. She shoves that girlcock in my ass in one quick motion. The white hot pain transitions to immense pleasure as she starts bucking her hips. With every pump, my hard dick bounces up and down.
"Yeah, take that big dick. You look and sound so sexy when my cock is inside you. I bet you loved Jas9n' special sauce. Do you want some straight from the source? Do you want to suck his cock too?"
I felt like my will was gone, I could only manage to nod up and down.
"Yeah. I thought so. My little bi husband needs to be filled with cock and cum huh?" And she starts fucking me really hard. Long deep strokes in my ass. I feel like my cock is about to pop. I reach to start stroking myself. And she rips my arm off and yells "HANDS OFF. Jason gets to cum first."
And suddenly Jason walks into the stall with his huge hard black cock already in hand and hard.
"Hey Jason, we ere just talking about you." Said my wife as she continues to destroy my ass.
I couldnt even respond or react. Jason immediately shoved his cock in my already open mouth. It fills up my entire mouth with ease and i begin to gag a bit.
"No, don't do that baby. I told Jason you were an amazing cocksucker. Dont let me down." Said my wife
My cock stiffened again as I listened to them both laugh at me. It was humiliating and so hot at the same time. I felt so full. I was in ecstasy. Thats when I tried my best to deep throat Jason. I got maybe 75% in. It was just too big.
"Much better baby. I knew you could do it. Such a sexy little bi boy for me. My turn now."
Jason took his cock out of my mouth and plunged it deep in my wifes pussy. Its so big it wont fit all the way. My wife is screaming from that beautiful cock jackhammering her. This whole time, she never stopped fucking my ass.
"I told you that your wife is an amazing woman." Jason said.
That line really set me on fire. But I have no control. My wife has all the control. She literally is cumming on that huge dick right in front of me. My god what a sexy amazing woman. Jason was right. After my wife came, she instructed Jason to fuck my face again.
"I wanna see his cum all over your beard. Finish him off baby. Let him paint your face." My wife said
I slobbered over that huge member for a couple more minutes until I made him bust. He came all over my face. I was in a trance and loved the feeling of his hot cum all over my face. My wife scooped some cum from my face, gave it a small lick, then fed it to me. She then stuck her tongue deep in my mouth and we made out for a bit. His warm salty load tasted like heaven.
We left the bathroom, had a couple more drinks at the bar. Jason sat with us and we chatted for a bit. 2 more happy customers. What an experience.
Jason invited us over to his afterparty, when the bar closed. But thats a story for another time.
I love my amazing wife. J
My wife is super innocent. She almost never comments on other guys, never checks anyone out, never talks about other men’s bodies. That purity is a big part of what makes the cuckold fantasy so intense for me. The idea of her being that pure and still getting pulled into this is what does it for me.
The other night I took her out in a really short dress that barely covered her ass and a low-cut top that showed off her big tits. Watching other men stare as we walked by was already getting me hard, especially knowing she doesn’t even notice that kind of attention.
On the drive home I kept touching her and talking about how much I love when she dresses like that. I even teased that I’d love to share pictures of her online. She was hesitant. Then I steered things toward her past and asked about black guys. I asked if it’s true they have bigger dicks. She laughed and said it’s mostly a myth.
I pushed a little further and half-jokingly admitted I love reading those cuckold stories where a big black guy has a girl completely wrapped around his finger. She just giggled.
Before we got out of the car I kissed her and whispered that I wanted to see her suck my cock… and that I also love seeing her suck cock in general. Then I told her I wanted to see her suck on a black dick. We have a realistic black dildo at home. By the time we walked inside she was soaked.
I made her keep the dress on. We started kissing and I slowly pulled the dildo out. First I laid it across her chest so she could feel the weight of it, then watched her take it into her mouth. I held it by the balls and fed it to her, sliding that black cock in and out while I kissed her cheeks and neck. Watching my innocent wife work that thick black dildo was unreal.
Eventually I pulled it out of her mouth, pushed it into her pussy, and put my cock between her lips instead. Seeing her take both at once, looking up at me while she suggestively sucked the black one right in front of my face, is easily the hottest thing we’ve ever done.
Still thinking about how wet she got from the conversation alone… especially knowing how pure and unaware she normally is.
Anyone else’s wife this innocent and still react like this the first time the subject came up for real?
At first I was really ashamed and part of that kinda turns me on. But I’ve noticed how my cock wasn’t making her cum as much since we tried using toys and at first it made me jealous and it turned me on that something bigger made her cum. During a talk we had, she has confessed she has wanted a threesome and I brought up I wanted to be cucked and see her be dominated by a muscular hung black man ever since we were out at the mall and a tall black man whistled at my wife. Long story short, We met someone online shortly and started a group chat with him after talking for a few days. He came over to breed my wife and we immediately got business Seeing her blush and saying she was sorry because he made my cock look tiny side by side. He (consensually) lightly smacked my wife in the face and said “get on your knees bitch”. Hearing her say “yes sir “ without prompt and beginning to suck on him made me diamonds. I came up side by side so she can take turns sucking and she said “I love you but I love sucking him so much more honey.” She sucked him like she has never sucked me, taking 9.7 inches down her throat and as I was watching her slobber all over his cock, he smacked her again and made her look me in the eye and say she was his bitch now. When he came in her mouth he asked how much better it was sucking him than me and she started to cry. She felt terrible because his cum tasted better and it felt like she was drinking out of massive straw. I’m not exaggerating when I say I saw her swallow two times while she had his dick in her mouth due to the amount of cum.after we were all said and done she cuddled up with him afterwards and when he was about to leave he said “ you go cuddle with what’s left of your bitch”. We fell asleep that night and honestly. As weird as it sounds, it made me love her 100x more afterwards. We talked about on our wedding night, having someone breed her before we get too consummate our marriage. I’m a terrible at explaining things so I apologize if it’s not written the best. I just had to get this out there that I loved it and I love my wife more because of it
I have been slowly talking her into exploring this and taking baby steps since the Covid lockdowns and it’s finally happened!
She cucked me 4 times with the same guy by herself and life got rlly stressful with other things so it ended about 8 months ago. I’ve been dying to be cucked again and I want to be in the room with some bicuck activity’s this time. She’s just shy and worried I’ll be upset and get jealous. What do I do?