u/Working_Complaint244

I’d like to do a roleplay where we’re a long married couple a solid, deeply connected pair who know each other inside out. Because of work, we’re currently in a long-distance relationship.

You play my wife. The exchange happens entirely via text message, just like a real couple communicating throughout the day. No need for a complicated plot: we talk about everyday things, check in on how our day is going, tell each other we miss one another, and bring up desires or things we’d like to explore together.

Basically, I want natural conversations. The kind a couple has when texting daily. I want to ask how your day went, tell you that you look stunning, that I miss you and want you, and start turning up the heat for later in the night.

Start by describing your character, and we’ll tweak them so they feel a bit like us reflecting our real personalities.

My Kink : romance, gentle sex, light BDSM, intense sex, sexting, sex toys, and dirty talk.

I’d like to do a roleplay where we’re a long married couple a solid, deeply connected pair who know each other inside out. Because of work, we’re currently in a long-distance relationship.

You play my wife. The exchange happens entirely via text message, just like a real couple communicating throughout the day. No need for a complicated plot: we talk about everyday things, check in on how our day is going, tell each other we miss one another, and bring up desires or things we’d like to explore together.

Basically, I want natural conversations. The kind a couple has when texting daily. I want to ask how your day went, tell you that you look stunning, that I miss you and want you, and start turning up the heat for later in the night.

Start by describing your character, and we’ll tweak them so they feel a bit like us reflecting our real personalities.

My Kink : romance, gentle sex, light BDSM, intense sex, sexting, sex toys, and dirty talk.

I’d like to do a roleplay where we’re a long married couple a solid, deeply connected pair who know each other inside out. Because of work, we’re currently in a long-distance relationship.

You play my wife. The exchange happens entirely via text message, just like a real couple communicating throughout the day. No need for a complicated plot: we talk about everyday things, check in on how our day is going, tell each other we miss one another, and bring up desires or things we’d like to explore together.

Basically, I want natural conversations. The kind a couple has when texting daily. I want to ask how your day went, tell you that you look stunning, that I miss you and want you, and start turning up the heat for later in the night.

Start by describing your character, and we’ll tweak them so they feel a bit like us reflecting our real personalities.

My Kink : romance, gentle sex, light BDSM, intense sex, sexting, sex toys, and dirty talk.

I am 18+ and all participants and characters must be 18+

My ex and I were both huge into role-playing. At some point, we decided to take it to the next level by creating an infidelity scenario… with each other. We had a private app account exclusively dedicated to this game, and whenever we communicated through it, we were fully in character.

I was a married businessman, she was a neglected housewife. We talked to each other like genuine lovers. For example, while I was at work, she’d send notes like: “My husband’s at work, I miss you so much…”(referring to me, in real life).

Then we’d set up meetings at hotels. The rules never changed: she’d wait for me in the room, completely dark, no talking, so it wouldn’t remind us that we were actually a couple. Before meeting up, we’d heat things up through written exchanges, describing everything we wanted to do to each other.

In real life, she’d tell me she was going over at a friend’s place, or some excuse like that. Then we’d make love like strangers, in the dark and in silence. And honestly, under those conditions, we felt like we were committing adultery, like the person in that room was a complete stranger.

We also made sure the sex was completely different from what we did as a couple. Rougher, more degrading. She was genuinely kinky. Sometimes she’d show a picture of lingerie I’d bought her, along with a note saying: “My husband bought me this, but I’m wearing it for you tonight.” And after we’d had sex in real life, she’d reach out to me saying it wasn’t as intense as with me. She was fully committed to the game, and incredibly creative with it.

Once it was over, I’d get dressed silently and head home. She’d come back a bit later, acting like nothing happened, saying she’d been out with friends. We never talked about what happened at the hotel.

After when I was in the living room watching TV, I’d get a note from her: “My husband’s on the couch, I can’t stop thinking about what we did… it was incredible.”

The most intense moment was when we were actually mad at each other. Once, she hadn’t spoken to me for days. Then I get a note: “I got into a fight with my husband, I need comfort. Same hotel tonight, after work?” As usual, she was waiting in the dark. We had sex. Then she came home… and ignored me, the argument continuing as if nothing had happened.

It was thrilling to have this double life… but with the same person.

After we broke up, I tried to initiate this kind of RP with other gf, but either they weren’t into it, or they didn’t commit to the role fully enough. I never found another woman who was as much of a freak as she was. we break up. I couldn’t imagine having a healthy relationship with her. Still, she was one hell of a slut.

Is it really that hard to find a good girl with principles… who also a whore ?

It can be anything. Things around you in your daily life that remind you of this lifestyle. It could be things you keep on you (hotwife tattoos, chastity keys…), symbols at home, or anything else you keep in your everyday life that’s connected to this lifestyle.

What role does your wedding ring play in this lifestyle ? Do you keep it on during dates? What are all the things you’ve done involving your wedding ring?

For those who confessed their cuckolding fantasy, all fear judgment and the reaction before confessing. What signs reassured you and made you think she might be open to it?

A lot of people take the risk of choosing a bull from their close circle, a friend, a colleague, or even a family member. Why did you choose them? What was your relationship like before, and how has it evolved since?

What’s that one thing you never do, even though the vast majority of people in this lifestyle do it? It could be anything, something most members consider totally normal, but you don’t do it and never plan to.

What judgments did you have to deal with ? After a friend, family member, or coworker discovered your lifestyle. And how did you handle those judgments? Did you try to convince them? Did it turn into arguments, or calm discussions? Did you cut them off, or did you manage to change their minds?

For those of you already in the cuckold lifestyle. What are some things your wife has actually done that you would still classify as cheating, even in this lifestyle.

Did your wife ever stop mid-session? Maybe the bull wasn’t good enough, or something else came up. What made her end it right there ?

It can be anything big or small. What are all the things your partner does only with you, but would never do with another man ? We always talk about what women only do with bulls, but what’s reserved just for you?

What boundaries did you set that your partner crossed, forcing you to say “NO” again?

How did you handle it? Did they finally understand it’s not okay to do again ?

It can be absolutely anything. I believe trust is the foundation of this dynamic, but I’m curious about the things your wife did, felt guilty about, and then came to you to confess and apologize for. What happened, and how did you both handle it?

Share your experiences.

I’m not part of this lifestyle, but it fascinates me, and I’m getting more and more interested.

For couples who practice humiliation : I hear you say a lot of degrading things and compare the to the bull. 

But I really want to know : is it still a roleplay, or do you actually mean what you say ?

If it’s not real, how do you manage to make him understand that everything you said was just part of the game ? 

And if it is real, aren’t you afraid that at some point, it might genuinely hurt him maybe even in a way that can’t be undone ?

I’m not part of this lifestyle, but it fascinates me, and I’m getting more and more interested.

For couples who practice cuckold humiliation : I hear you say a lot of degrading things and compare the cuck to the bull. 

But I really want to know : is it still a roleplay, or do you actually mean what you say ?

If it’s not real, how do you manage to make him understand that everything you said was just part of the game ? 

And if it is real, aren’t you afraid that at some point, it might genuinely hurt him maybe even in a way that can’t be undone ?

I’m not part of this lifestyle, but it fascinates me, and I’m getting more and more interested.

For couples who practice cuckold humiliation : I hear you say a lot of degrading things and compare the cuck to the bull.

But I really want to know : is it still a roleplay, or do you actually mean what you say ?

If it’s not real, how do you manage to make him understand that everything you said was just part of the game ?

And if it is real, aren’t you afraid that at some point, it might genuinely hurt him maybe even in a way that can’t be undone ?

I’m not part of this lifestyle, but it fascinates me, and I’m getting more and more interested.

For couples who practice cuckold humiliation : I hear you say a lot of degrading things and compare the cuck to the bull.

But I really want to know : is it still a roleplay, or do you actually mean what you say ?

If it’s not real, how do you manage to make him understand that everything you said was just part of the game ?

And if it is real, aren’t you afraid that at some point, it might genuinely hurt him maybe even in a way that can’t be undone ?

We’ve been married for a very long time. Lately, I noticed you coming home late and spending a lot of time on your phone. I told you that I love you more than anything, and that if you had anything to tell me, you could.

You came to me and confessed, with a lot of regret, that you cheated on me with your ex. You said you’re ready to do anything to make it up to me.

Now, I’m going to ask you for every kind of detail about what you did

•  how many times, 
• where, 
• how,
• whether it was better with him.

 

You’ll have to be honest, even if it hurts me, because you promised to be.

I’m going to be degrading, belittling, and insulting toward you for your betrayal.

You’re going to have to accept my insults and understand how deeply this has hurt me. You need to keep apologizing for what you did.

This is a long-term roleplay, so you’ll need to use your imagination and stay in character at all times.

I am 18+ and all participants and characters must be 18+