Cuckolding has been a part of our relationship for a while, but stuff like this, makes it a little bit more public😅 if anyone else has been through this part of the dynamic, please feel free to reach out
My hotwife has been out of action for medical reasons for the past few months and we are looking to do things to keep us in the game. She has always wanted to see me give a proper blowjob to a guy and although I've never considered myself bi, the idea does turn me on - mostly by how much it turns her on. We have everything planned for 12 days time and she is incredibly excited by it, however I'm getting increasingly nervous. Any suggestions for how to avoid cold feet?
Everyone here keeps telling us that hubby should not cum before my bull and I are finished when I have sex with a BWC for the first time next weekend.
We’re not planning to let him cum early, at least not this time. He’ll be caged the whole time. But I’m curious what “post-nut clarity” actually feels like for cucks.
For cucks who have finished early, how did you react once the horniness dropped and play was still happening? Did it change how you felt about what you were watching or what you wanted afterward?
And for hotwives or bulls, how did the cuck react when that happened? Just curious about people’s real experiences.
There’s something uniquely intense about the moment my wife takes a noticeably bigger cock. The stretch, the look on her face, the sounds, it hits differently than anything else in this dynamic.
For those who’ve been there (or live in that fantasy):
What is it about watching that specific physical difference that does it for you? Is it pure visual confirmation of her pleasure, the status shift, the humiliation, the feeling of being replaced in that moment, or something else?
Curious how others experience that particular part of it.
Do you think your wife is hotter and more beautifull than you? Like, has someone tell this to you?
Like me, im a 5'4 chubby guy and wife is a 5'8 Goddess with a nice body and beautifull face
Do you feel that her being out of your league influenced you to get into this lifestyle? Like, she is so hot that you need to share her with others, or you know you cant sexually satisfy her and let a real men takes care of It.
When did you know that you wanted to try this? Was there something that happened, or something you saw that made you interested in trying this? For the cucks was it a specific moment, or incident that made you interested, and if there’s any women in here that were interested in this first, and brought it up to your husband/boyfriend what was it for you? The first time I can ever remember thinking this was hot was when I was 12 years old. There was a skit on The Chapelle show called The Mad Real World and in it a guy gets cucked by his girlfriend and the camera pans over to him jerking off and crying. I didn’t understand why I was turned on by it, but I just remember being captivated by it.
I’m not small (6.5 inches) but man does it turn me on to be told it’s small and that my partner has had bigger. It’s to the point that I’ll sometimes send pics of it soft to get sph cause it gets too big hard. Anyone else have similar experiences?
a sexual position involving the three of you, but with a touch of humiliation for the cuck
For example, I lie on the bed (with a chastity cage on), my wife gets on top of me, and the bull gets on top of her (as if we were about to do a DP). I spread her cheeks while the bull take her asshole. I can suck her breasts and kiss her while she is getting fucked
Did you do something like that with your wife? Being more involved but with a bit of humilliation?
My wife and I (both in our 30s) have been together for nearly a decade now and within the last couple of years, I admitted to her that I want to watch her have sex with other men. She's open to the idea, but one things we've both struggled with is how conflicted I actually feel about it.
One day we'll be having our fun and, I'll bring it up, she'll embrace it and talk dirty, etc. and then after the deed is done and we both have clear heads, we'll continue to talk about it and make a plan to meet someone and then a few days later I'll get cold feet.
We've gone as far as chatting with potential bulls and making a plan to meet them, and then I get nervous and shut the whole thing down. I'm not sure what I'm afraid of. I feel guilty after the fact because I feel like I'm messing with her mind.
I feel like we just need to do it, like it needs to be spontaneous, but I worry that could be more damaging than helpful. Any advice? Have any other cucks experienced this? What did you do?
Ten days from now, I’ll be having sex with my first BWC ever. It’ll also be my first time fucking another man since getting married. We could not have asked for a better bull! He’s had a vasectomy, so he’ll be cumming inside me multiple times throughout the night and can go for multiple rounds.
Naturally, my cuck husband will be cleaning up in between rounds. We’re both excited, but since this will be our very first experience with this part of the cuckolding dynamic, we figured we would ask the community rather than just wing it.
Hubby will be caged throughout, which seems to be common feedback. However, I specifically wanted to ask:
— Any particular strategies that work especially well for a first cleanup?
— Positions that make it easier or more intense the first time?
— Technique nuances. Should he start from the outside and work inward, top to bottom, bottom to top, focus on licking/lapping/slurping/sucking in a certain order, etc.?
— The technique question also extends to cuck orally cleaning up the bull.
Any suggestions you wish someone had given you for the first cleanup, whether you’re a cuck, hotwife, or bull, would be super appreciated!
So me M28 and my gf F25 we always dirty talk while sex
Like we talk anything that makes us horny
So this time I asked her on top of my head “have you ever imagined someone else fucking you?”
she didn’t reply but asked me instead “do you get a kick out of it? Find it hot ? Imagining someone else is fucking me ?”
I had no answer then but the sex got quite intense which confused me
I wanted a women’s perspective, do you people imagine other men except your partner and is it quite common
Has anyone else been made to fuck a dildo at the same rhythm and tempo as your bull is fucking your girlfriend or wife?
Has anyone else cleaned up anal creampies on a frequent basis despite never having accessed your wife’s butthole with anything other than your tongue?
The list goes on. 😅
Tell me I’m not alone…
I don't think people actually understand the sexual difficulties you as couples actually have to go through before considering this. It took us years of arguing, not being able to satisfy each other just feeling off before we started this stag/vixen. I just think wannabes really need to understand the pain along the journey.
My wife has had freedom to meet other guys for a while now. She has had quite a few FWBs over the years and we have never had problems. We have kids and are very stable. Tonight she is going on a date with a guy who says he is XXL.
She didn't pick him for that reason but because she likes the way he looks and he has great body. I believe her, until now she has mostly been with average or slightly above guys. She says she is not into XL as she fear getting hurt by them (happened in the past). She comes easily from average sized dick (mine included haha). What i am wondering is can she still become a size queen if she meets one she likes? Dick size is defo not the most important thing for her - i am sure she would never go for a guy she is not into only because he has an xl.
Do you think she could ever become more into it with the right guy? This aspect does turn me on i admit, but i have accepted it is not an important thing for her so have never pushed it.
Is it possible one guy can change her mind on things, even after years of having a settled opinion about it?
UPDATE. She says she likes him, they kissed. She is going to his place on Friday evening. Tonight they just met for a drink in a cafe
Something happened recently that has me wondering how bulls/alphas know when the husband is a cuck? My wife is a mid 50s redhead who is attractive with a great hourglass body and 32DDDs. She always attracts a lot of attention from men but we recently had an experience which made me wonder if other men can tell if I am a cuck.
I am used to men chatting up my wife and being friendly/flirtatious with her. That has been going on since we first met. Recently we were on holiday at our mountain house. Our friends in the area joined us for the weekend. We went into the local community for a festival that was taking place. After the festival was over we stopped at a local brewery as we all enjoy microbrew. It was pretty quiet and there was a beer named Red head a$$hole. We all had a good laugh about the name. Turns out the brewmaster was at the bar and of course he was a redhead. I desperately needed to use the restroom so I excused myself and was gone a couple minutes since it had been occupied and I had to wait a bit. When I came back my wife was engaged in conversation with the brewmaster and I saw they were quite close. Our friends were waiting at the bar and wanting to order. So I passed by my wife and went over to them. A couple minutes went by and they tasted a couple samplers before deciding what to order. Finally my wife came over to us and she ordered the Red head beer and I did too. We got our drinks and went outside to the patio.
About 5 minutes later the brewmaster came out. He passed by our table and asked my wife how she liked her beer. She replied that she really liked it. He said he was glad to hear that. He then said to her "Well if you like the beer then you should try the real Red headed a$$hole. It's much better" as he winked at her. Our friends looked at us in disbelief at his brazen suggestion. Then he got into his truck and left.
The male half of our friend couple then said "Wow that was pretty forward" he looked at me and continued "one of the by products of having a beautiful wife-I am sure you are used to it." I didn't know what to say so I just sort of laughed it off.
Later I got to thinking-the brewmaster must have sensed something about us/me that gave him the confidence to make such a bold statement in front of me and our friends. What do you think? Is there some sort of cue we give off that lets others know we are cuck/beta?
So let me start off by saying I love my girl and would do anything for her but I have a massive desire to see her fuck other guys especially if they are very big, uncut and bare as I want her creampied. I just can’t get the idea out of my head. We talk about it all the time, she has told me she wishes my cock was bigger and thicker and that I don’t last long and she never cums for me.she tells me about guys from her past and what she did with them, she tells me which guys she would like to fuck such as her boss. I share her pics and videos. She has a hung guy that she sexts and sends pics and videos to (she gets so wet and cums for him unlike me). She gives me verbal humiliation and SPH. I have offered her permission to fuck anyone she wants with me there, without me there, with me there but not in the same room. I said if she did do it and loved it she could have them full time. I have said she could organise guys or I could for her. I got her big toys and even said she can fuck guys behind my back. My dick dribbles over this so much and so often!! She says she’s unsure and needs time to think…what do you think she should do? What do you think I should do? What do you think will happen?
I wonder how it would feel to watch my wife passionately kiss another man/bull. I think the emotions would be flowing but yet I’d be turned on at the same time.
I’m sure this isn't all the time but, it was something noticed this time when I was last present to see her with her regular boyfriend. When he came, he kisses her. But when she cums, she likes me next to her, kissing me as pushes her over the edge.
Just a happy little observation
Let me explain. From what I’ve been reading here, and from the admittedly limited amount I know about the subject, it seems to me that the term cuckold covers a pretty wide range of fantasies and relationship dynamics.
Some couples are looking to bring another man into their relationship on a more or less regular basis, sometimes even to the point where the wife develops an emotional or romantic relationship with him. Others are into being present and watching everything, while some are interested in much stronger humiliation or submission dynamics. And for some people, all of this becomes an important part of their identity as a couple, to the point where they describe it as a lifestyle. All of that is perfectly respectable. We’re adults, and as long as everyone involved is on the same page, people should be free to structure their relationships and sex lives however they want.
But that’s precisely where I struggle to find people I can really relate to. I don’t want to turn this into our lifestyle or change the nature of our relationship. I don’t want our relationship to start revolving around other men either. For me, it would simply be a sexual game that we play occasionally and then leave behind.
In fact, I find it difficult to understand why it necessarily has to be considered a “lifestyle.” I wouldn’t say that using sex toys, wearing certain lingerie, enjoying a bit of exhibitionism, or having any other sexual fantasy automatically turns your relationship into a different way of life. Those things can simply be part of your sexuality without defining it. That’s exactly how I see this. A couple can play tennis together every now and then without tennis becoming the defining feature of their relationship. I see this in much the same way: something we might do because we enjoy it and find it exciting, not something we organize our lives around.
The fantasy I have in mind is actually fairly simple. I haven’t even managed to tell my wife about it directly yet, although we have talked about some related things. She knows, for example, that I enjoy other men noticing her, and I’ve told her that seeing her flirt with other men turns me on. For me, that’s probably the most important part of the whole fantasy: seeing another man desire her and, even more importantly, seeing that she enjoys being desired.
What I imagine is something occasional. Every once in a while, we could take a trip somewhere, step outside our normal routine, and allow ourselves to play with the idea. Maybe she could reactivate Tinder for those few days and flirt with whoever catches her attention. Or we could go to a bar together and she could have the freedom to flirt with a stranger. What excites me most is being around for that part: watching someone become interested in her, seeing him try to win her over, watching how she responds, and seeing her enjoy the attention.
And if at some point she wanted to take things further and leave with that person, I wouldn’t necessarily need to be there. Interestingly enough, the voyeuristic side isn’t essential to me. I don’t need to see everything or somehow be involved. What really attracts me is everything leading up to it: the tension, the flirting, seeing another man become interested in her, and knowing that she has the freedom to decide how far she wants to take it.
Afterwards, the game would be over and we’d go back to our normal life. I wouldn’t be looking for that man to become part of our relationship, for him to become a regular presence, or for us to establish some permanent arrangement. I wouldn’t even want this to happen particularly often. In fact, I think part of the attraction for me is precisely that it would be something exceptional: an experience we could allow ourselves every now and then because we both enjoy it and because it adds something different to our relationship.
That’s why, reading a lot of the posts here, I sometimes feel like I’m looking for something quite different. I see many people interested in making cuckolding an ongoing relationship dynamic, with clearly defined roles and a regular presence of other men, whereas I imagine it as an occasional fantasy within a relationship that, outside of those moments, would remain exactly the same.
So I’m curious whether there are other people here who experience it or imagine it in a similar way: not as an identity or a lifestyle, but simply as a game that a couple can enjoy occasionally and then put away until they both feel like playing again.
Referring to another post here I want to highly recommend all couples to keep him locked the days or more before a planned clean up. We have done both - chastity and without and without is so much harder and risky that he will cum before or during the cleaning. This would make it really hard.