u/Conscious-Green-8285

I am seeing a new girlfriend and our relationship is going really well, but I have been keeping my cuckolding kink a secret from her, I'm not ready to tell her yet.

I've also been going to a therapist for a few months now and have built up trust a lot, she has been telling me a lot of useful things and helping me navigate the big steps in the relationship, like the decision to move in together. Having been out of a long term relationship, it's been really helpful to have an objective person I can trust confidentially.

Now that what we had been talking about is mostly resolved, we've moved on to other things in our sessions but I want to bring up the kink to understand it better, and navigate how to bring this up with my new girlfriend to get her perspective on that.

I know that therapists probably do talk about stuff like this a lot, but I've never done it in one of my sessions and it feels a bit odd, because it is something that is normally a taboo subject. I had tried bringing it up with one of my first therapists and i avoided it in other sessions.

To bring it up and steer our sessions toward this, I had thought about something like:

> so, the next thing I want to talk about is a bit hard for me to bring up because it involves things of a sexual, identity, and kink nature. I don't know how to navigate this conversation. It's hard for me to bring this up with you, which mirrors the anxiety I have bringing it up with her?

or

> how should I approach more 'Freudian' topics like sexuality and trying to understand kinks? Is this something you are specialized in or is this something that Id' be better off with a specialist?

Any constructive advice and relevant stories or experience is appreciated, thank you!

See part 2 and part 1 for the journey to this point.

By this point, my wife had a regular bull who she would spend the weekends at his place. She'd lock me up before she left, get filled by him all weekend, and then come up and tease me. She'd still usually let me have sex with her after she got back, albeit after a day or two, but to increase the kink factor i would have to use a condom. So, he was the only one who got her raw, and in preparation for this my wife had gotten an IUD inserted.

I had definitely cum inside my wife before, but most of the time that we were dating we used condoms. She was on the pill, but we wanted to be extra safe so condoms became the norm until we got married. Once we'd married on special occasions I got to have her raw, but as a precaution she always wanted me to pull out and finish into my hand or if I was lucky, cum on her stomach or back.

Once we started cuckolding, she always forced her bulls to wear condoms. The move to the IUD was around the same time we made the move to go looking for an exclusive bull. The idea of someone else cumming inside her really turned us both on but me in particular. She was really surprised and had a hard time understanding that I wanted another man to cum inside of her, when we went to such lengths for safety. But ultimately she decided it turned her on a lot how naughty it was, so we went for it.

So here we were, he was cumming inside of my wife just about every weekend during COVID, and even for up to a week at a time when she was staying at his place during a lockdown. He lived in a nearby city where my wife's family was, so she had a reason to visit and no one ever really second guessed it. She would hang out with her family and friends and tell people she was staying with a certain friend, but actually she was staying with him.

I'd be waiting at home in chastity, cleaning up the house and doing chores, errands, cooking etc. while I knew full well that my wife was probably getting fucked or recovering from fucking him. She had such a primal attraction to him, he was in much better shape then me and she would get naturally so much more wet and aroused by him. She would basically do her best to seduce him and get it as much as she could. She'd do things like walk around his apartment in her panties or even completely naked. While he worked out, she would cook for him and then join him in the shower afterwards to help him relax. Whenever they work up, my wife would basically b-line it for his cock, either getting him hard with her hand or grinding on him, sucking on him, anything to get him ready to fuck her. She was his little sexual and domestic servant - meanwhile, I was hers.

About a year into this arrangement, we decided to step things up to the next level. I moved on from chastity and condoms to being completely PIV denied. If i had sex with her, I had to use a strap-on while I stayed caged, or a sleeve that could fit around the cage if I was lucky. She needed to be serviced in between her bull visits, so sex with my wife for me became more about:

- Fucking her with a strap on

- Her fucking me with a strap on

- Me eating her out, especially after she got home from her visits

- Her teasing me by grabbing my swelling balls

- Her milking my prostate while I stayed caged

- Her unlocking me, and letting me finish or helping me finish

So at this point, our bull basically owned my wife completely. He took regularly. I had never actually met him in person, and my wife decided it was time. I took the trip with her and we all met at a cafe. During this visit, my wife noticeably changed. I could tell her attention wasn't on me, it was on him. She sat closer to him and they were physical with each other. My cage twitched as I saw this obviously electric physical attraction they had. As we were leaving, the three of us stood outside the cafe and I was about to part and walk back to the car with my wife. But she told me there was a change of plans, and they'd be going back to his place, but that I should wait in the car.

So I drove them back to his place and waited in the car. They walked in together, and about 4 hours later the door opened and my wife walked out, with obvious 'sex hair' and a combination of looking giddy and exhausted. She came back to the car and I drove her home, about a 2 hour drive. On the way back we talked about it, and we were both really excited with the situation. It was the sort of kink we both had dreamed of, and we were having so much fun with it. As odd as it might sound, our sex life was the most consistent and fulfilling it had ever been, as all three of us were getting what we wanted and deeply indulging our kinks together.

This is what led us to take the next logical step with me being totally pussy-free. So after 2 years of this routine, we decided to switch things up on one occasion - our bull would visit us, and stay at OUR house for the weekend. He didn't have a car, but as I'd mentioned before was extremely athletic, basically a profession athlete. He actually biked to our house, a more than 6 hour ride compared to the two hour drive. He made the trip in just over 5 hours, which blows my mind to think of still. When he left, he biked right back a few days later. Such was his stamina and fitness, despite being ten years my senior.

The visit itself was something else. He stayed in the master bedroom with her, while I got the guest bedroom directly below it. For the first time, I was the closest I'd ever been to their love making, actually in the same building lol. I could hear them and got to experience it in a way beyond the stories and recordings from my wife and bull. In the morning, I made them breakfast while they fucked. We played some video games together and watched some movies over the course of the weekend, each time my wife would sit with him. It was crazy to see him in this situation, so directly 'taking my place' in the household, and asserting his dominance.

The day he was set to leave, before he left they had sex one more time and then went to take a shower. Before joining him, my wife called me into the bedroom. I could hear the shower running. She spread her legs open and called me to come have a taste. For the first time ever, I was able to taste their lovemaking freshly after it happened. I was in absolute bliss as I licked up their combined juices, before my wife gently pushed me aside, then walked into the bathroom to join him in the shower. Not long after, I heard her moaning some more as I guess his refractory period was short enough to give it to her one more time in the shower lol.

He set off and for the rest off the day my wife teased me by having me walk around the house in just my cage while i cleaned up and then prepared dinner. I was hopefully she'd unlock me that night, and I was right. She unlocked me and undressed herself, but told me no touching. I unlocked and was about to start stroking when she said 'no, i meant no touching at all'. She put a vibrator underneath my balls and got described how much she loved having sex with him, what he did to her, how he fucks her right, how she wants his cum so badly, how mine was trash and belongs in the toilet. I didn't last long until I erupted. I got a little bit on her but most in my hand. She had me clean it up as a punishment, and she told me to choke it down. I never liked eating my own cum, and understood why she didnt' like it. Of course, she swallowed for her bull all the time, but never for me.

Eventually, I was wearing chastity panties and denied orgasms fro longer and longer. All in all, it was almost 5 years that he owned her pussy, and I still think back on that time and revel in the kinkiness of it all. To this day he has cum so much in her that i'll never catch up, it's safe to say he put his mark on that pussy enough to own it for good, at least compared to me. That IUD was definitely put to task, and it must have been really well made because it did its job well, our bull almost perpetually had his sperm in her reproductive system but it never managed to impregnate her. If anyone would have done it, it would be this guy.

My ex-wife and I had a long term relationship with a bull, where he had exclusive rights to her pussy while I was locked in chastity. I never thought I would end up like this, but the kink is so deeply ingrained in me at this point, I've accepted it. Here's how I got here...

It all started with a threesome with another guy, where he got to fuck her but I didn't. Gradually she moved on to other bulls, and one who I would be very submissive with - I'd drop him off at her house, or wait at a hotel bar while they fucked. Initially I would always get to "reclaim her", but with this guy she would get home from fucking him and be too tired and sore to fuck me. He made her cum like I never could and I could tell she really PREFERRED him to me.

Unfortunately this guy was a bit too much of a stud and was sleeping with too many other hotwives. My wife got jealous, and we set out for a bull that she could be 'exclusive' with. In preparation for this, my wife switched from the pill to a copper IUD for a more sure-fire approach to birth control than condoms, which also irritated her and didn't feel as good.

We found a compatible one that clicked right before COVID, and it really worked out because he was in a nearby town about 2 hours away, her hometown. She would visit her family but stay at his place, them none-the-wiser. During their visits I would go crazy, masturbating thinking of what they were getting up to together.

This led to the bull suggesting I get a chastity cage so that I couldn't pleasure myself at all while he was with my wife. He also rarely sent snapchats or updates, but what he did send would drive me crazy. So our ritual became that before she would leave to visit with him, she'd lock me in chastity for the whole weekend, and only unlock me when she got back.

She'd tease me about what they got up to, strip down naked, and show me how well he fucked her, let me lick her clean, and let me visualize what they got up to. Most weekends, he would fuck her at least twice a day, once in the morning and once before bed. His fitness routine involved a lot of early morning training, but he always did his 'warm up' with my wife. Since she was on the IUD, he'd almost exclusively finish inside her and then go start his workout once she was too tired or sore to fuck anymore, and she would go make him breakfast.

They'd hang out, and sometimes fuck in the afternoon, but also would just go about their day together - even presenting her to his friends as his 'long distance girlfriend visiting'. On one occasion, he even took her to a party with his friends and they made out publicly there and were VERY touchy-feely.

Then in the evenings before bed if they still had it in them, they'd usually fuck again before turning the lights out - he was usually a bit tired by this point but my wife would crave it so much and he'd oblige. This isn't to say what happened every time, but it is the general picture of their routine. Needless to say, she was ALWAYS coming back full of his cum, even though I couldn't always taste it because her body would have absorbed it or leaked out on the drive back home.

So she'd be coming back to me, full of her bulls cum, teasing me with all of this. She'd gradually extend how long between getting home and unlocking me, and letting me fuck her again. When she did, man, I would cum SO much after being so backed up and turned on from getting cucked like this. But predictably, i didn't have the best stamina after all of this and she didn't get as much out of it. Her pussy was so sweet when I got it but it became more normal for me to just eat her out while I stayed locked up in my cage.

Eventually she got back from a visit and after unlocking me, she pulled out a condom. I was able to last a LOT longer with it on, so it became the norm that I'd fuck her with a condom. It also became completely normal that I'd cum in the condom, and there was a bit of humiliation in walking to the trash in the bathroom to throw it out, knowing that our bull's cum was inside her while mine was literally going in the garbage lol

The chastity kink and breeding kink now overlapping, I became more fascinated and obsessed with the breeding kink, her pussy being more 'exclusively' his, and would regularly think about his sperm inside her and it would drive me crazy. I actually suggested to my wife that they should just make me pussy free completely, so if she ever got pregnant it would be GUARANTEED to be his. For one of the first times my wife really checked in with me that this was just a kink and I said yeah, I was pretty sure it was, I didn't ACTUALLY want her to get pregnant, but it was thrilling and naughty that if she did, it wouldn't be mine. The IUD would do its job we were sure, and we honestly found it so hot.

So we decided to try it out, he was the only one to cum inside her, fuck her raw, and now be inside her at all. I would fuck her with a strap-on sometimes so we could still be intimate that way, but I'd have my chastity cage on. The feeling of 'uselessness' in my balls became an obsession.

My current relationship is headed this way, looking that I will be in a 'stay at home dad' role while she is working and I'm looking after the kids, keeping the house clean, grocery shopping, etc.

In my previous relationship where my partner cucked me for several years, this naturally became the pattern. When she was off with her bull, I'd take care of the house and pets, clean, etc. When her bull came over, I catered to them and cooked them breakfast and had a naturally 'subservient' role to them.

Discussing where things are headed in terms of domestic split, it seems to make sense for me to go back into this role again. So far, we haven't talked much about cuckolding and she doesn't know how much of a kink it is for me.

Part of me wonders if there is some natural association that women have with men in more domestic roles that might naturally see it as 'emasculating', and thus crave a more traditionally 'masculine' lover to fulfill that role. To be honest, something in my DNA makes this my ideal / fantasized situation as I really enjoyed the previous dynamic sexually.

I'm curious what other cucks and especially hotwives have experienced in this - how did you feel when taking on more of or all of the domestic duties? Does it have any association with the cuckolding kink for you?