r/HotWifeLifestyle

I’m living vicariously through you all, so I’d love to hear all about it !!!! 🥵 💦

Would love to know what you beautiful ladies do for work and what your partners do? I wonder if certain industries have more couples?

I've seen a lot of debate on the internet on how much the man watches porn, the more he creates a fetish to normalize seeing his girl getting shared with other dudes. I wonder, though, how much of that is true.

My wife's new bull is 8.5 inches long and very thick. When he first goes to enter her pussy. She is wet. Him just putting about an inch of cock inside her pussy. It feels like he's against something. He holds his cock there with a little pressure. Then something inside my wife's pussy pops. This allows him to go all the way inside her pussy. My wife does have a very tight pussy. She says when she feels the pop, its painful but goes away. She says as he penatrates her deeper. She feels like its really tight stretching her open. Both of them feel her pussy pop. He says it feels like popping a woman's cherry. She has been with several other men larger in size and never experienced this. Just with this guy. Anyone have any ideas?

I honestly cant believe ive gotten to this point. My wife hasnt fucked anyone else yet and it may take a long time to get there. But last night she gave me permission to send her body pics (no face) to some men who could potentially be a third for our first time.

We still have a long way to go as I mentioned but we've been having sex every night and the focal point of our dirty talk has been about her with other men. Even today she wore some really tight pants to the mall and I joked and asked if shes wearing them to show off to other men and she said yes.

I let her watch porn while I fingered her and made her cum which is new for us. I even let her think about other men while I finger her and she ended up cumming even though she thought she would have a hard time. Theres been so many new experiences for us and we havent even actually talked to a third yet or discussed serious plans to meet one.

Has anyone else felt this before? I feel SO fucking hot for my wife and I feel like im high like the excitement is overwhelming. Its been amazing.

My wife 43 and I 49 had some very hot chats exploring the idea of a third being a guy. Since then she got out of the notion and I got more into it it. I know she would like it, if she had more soft approaches to it over time. She is very hot and gets a lot of male attention and I think she likes the attention, but doesn't overtly flirt back.

Is this dead fantasy or worth bringing it up again, she was once a very sexual promiscuous girl who loved adventure. Is this dead now? Would love some insight on how women would like to be comfortable talking about this.

My wife is 29 and I’m 39 we have been married for 2 years and our sex life is awesome she is very dirty in the bedroom or where ever we decide to do it and a lot of the time In risky places of getting seen , she dresses up and love dirty texting when not with me and insists on large toys she rides it whilst sucking and sucks on it whilst riding. We joke about other men and she laughs and smirks without shutting it out. The closet we got to talking about it was the chair in our room I mentioned it looks like a …. chair she asked what’s that I said it’s where the husband watches his wife enjoy other men she then said oh yeah I know what that is , she didn’t say anything else then I finished by saying or she can sit in the chair and watch me with other women she shrugged it off like it was weird , so I then said but it’s not weird if I’m in the chair and your having fun she cheekily laughed and that’s where it ended.

My Hotwife is out with her girls tonight, short skirt tights and a mesh top that shows off her amazing body. Looking forward to updates as the night goes on.

Gf was very reluctant to do Feeld. After a couple weeks she met up for a drink yesterday with a guy. She ended up sucking his dick in the car. He didn’t come. It was brief. But she’s ready for when he’s back in town and will probably fuck him then. Success.

This happened last night.

Ongoing from out last hotwife adventures, Zoe has been regularly meeting up with her first bull James. It's always a good time and he's a great bull. I love her inner slutty side coming out.

Yesterday, we met James at a hotel as usual. He requested her to wear a teddy style lingerie. She excitedly hopped on Ann Summers and together we picked out a sexy piece called the Confession Lace Crotchless lingerie body. My god did she look good in it. Her little nipples poking through the mesh and her pussy on show because of the crotchless style. She put on a pair of short shorts on top of the lingerie and we walked to the hotel. It was exhilarating that she was practically walking around in nothing but lingerie in public. Of course I had packed a bag of other clothes for her to wear afterwards. When we got to the room and met James, he spun her around and approved of our choice. We quickly got down to business.

We had done this a few times now so James knew exactly how to please her. Going down on her clit, making her hips buck as she came from his tongue. Zoe turned it around. She made us both stand opposite each other as she took both the heads of our cock in her mouth at the same time (well tried to). The way her tongue moved between our cocks was so incredible hot.

Then onto the main course. I stepped back to watch it all as James inserted himself into her. Stroke after stroke, I could see in Zoe's face that she was loving it. I couldn't help myself either, I needed a piece of the action. I walked up to Zoe and she was ready to receive me in her mouth. I traced my hands down her tits to play with her nipples which by now where so hard and pointy, it almost looked like it would pierce through the lingerie.

We each took our turns fucking Zoe and before long, James was ready to cum. As he was fucking her, James asked her a question that had never crossed my mind. He asked if she had experience swallowing. She shyly shook her head. He asked if she wanted to try. She sexily bit her lip and nodded. I could tell at this moment, James came. He was wearing a condom but what happened next surprised me. He took his cock out of her pussy and pulled off the condom. He told her to open her mouth to which she did. She poked out her tongue. He emptied the cum out of the condom into her mouth. Fuuuuck. James closed her mouth and then she swallowed it all. All while maintaining eye contact. This was like my personal porno. I went back to fucking her. She pulled me in for a kiss and I could taste the mixture of her spit, the condom and the lingering taste of James' cum. It was a bit weird but also the knowledge that she had just done something so fucking slutty made me want to explode. I had a thought of maybe I should pull out and cum in her mouth too, but Zoe was feeling far too good. She had her legs wrapped around me and squeezing her pussy tight around my cock. I flooded her pussy.

As usual, this morning we went through all the events that happened. What went well, what turned us on, what we should avoid for next time or what we may want to try for the future. I brought up that I loved how she swallowed. This was not something that we had tried but it was something that I couldn't get out of my mind, much like how last time she got creampied. She went red and got embarrassed and ask if it was ok? Of course it was. It was amazingly hot. "Would you do it again?"

She took a moment before nodding her head saying yes. But next time, not from the condom. She didn't like the taste of the rubber. I already had morning wood but at this point I was wet with pre-cum. I told her, why not try it now? She gave me a blowjob to completion, this time I came straight into her mouth. She sat up, looked at me and then took a big gulp. Holy fuuuuuuuuck yes. Thanks James lol

My wife has this fantasy to take a guys virginity. If you are in your early 20s contact me. She wants to take your virginity.

Hey all!!

Bull here or if that’s what it’s called!! Been curious about the lifestyle for about 3 years I’d say!! While I appreciate the compliments and love from many I find that’s it’s really tough to look for the right Hotwife/couples! See for me, I seek a connection and long term arrangement where we can grow, establish a good and solid friendship outside the relationship! So while I am in the market for a couple I find this to be extremely hard and I’ve had to vet so many! Where our business is for us and only us! I find many hotwives and couples look for a quick hook up or just classic pic collectors!! Curious to see by hotwives who also search the same thing where you guys look, your interactions, your history love to chat and learn more and more!

We are always learning

I posted a couple weeks ago that I had my wife leave the phone on the nightstand while she fucked her date and regretted doing so. Shes out with a new guy right now and I'm listening again. It's very quiet so I assume she's giving him head.

I changed my mind on the regret. Listening is hot as fuck.

My fiancé recently went solo travelling around SE Asia for 2 months while I stayed at home. We are a mid 20s couple and have been together since high school and agreed she could have a hall pass if the opportunity arose since we haven’t had any other sexual partners.

While in one of the groups, she bonded with a number of guys and after a night of partying she hooked up with one of the guys who was staying in a private room.

She explained her situation back home and he agreed to record most of it so I had something to enjoy too as well as for us to look back on. He was a few years older and she’s thoroughly enjoyed her night with him leading to us exploring the lifestyle further since she has come home. It was incredible listening to her side of the story the next day, trying to picture it was amazing.

We now simulate threesomes with toys and look forward to our next adventure together!

For both hotwives and husbands to answer I guess.

Wives: Are you in any way internalizing or thinking about your “number”? If not, have you ever or if so how are you processing it internally?

Husbands: Do you think about the number at all?

I introduced my wife to all of this and before me her number was relatively low as she was mainly in LTRs so in a short period of time we have doubled her number. Recently she has shifted from wanting a relationship esque one guy to wanting to try a little more casual and playing the field. - mainly because the ending of the last one was difficult.

I don’t care about the number but I’m thinking about bringing it up to her and telling her it’s not an issue at all. I’m just wondering if by doing so I am planting a seed that I don’t want to plant. She hasn’t said a word and this could all be in my head so wanted to get the opinions of those here.

Me and my husband trying to find a bull for us, can someone help

Hello first time poster here. My wife and I are actually brand new to all of this. After a long anticipated conversation, I revealed to my wife my hot wife fantasies, and was expecting an immediate negative reaction. She said she never heard of it but would look into it and get back to me about it with her thoughts. Last night she shared she would be wanting to explore some aspects of it.
As a disclosure, we are miles and miles away from many of you in terms of actually being a hot wife couple. But my wife wants to explore the lifestyle a little bit more with me in a very safe and comfortable way. Some stuff we been exploring is having her use realistic dildos while I watch. She wants to start posting pictures on Reddit for other men to comment about her and I can show her off.
Like I said we are no where near having or even wanting her to have physical contact with anyone. I’m not sure if we will ever get there.
Does it make any sense to explore this lifestyle in that softer or lite manner?
Any suggestions for people who did explore it this way?

Im not sure if im looking for advice, or just venting? But im always open to hearing advice

I guess i should start at the beginning. Wife and I are in our early 40s and have been married for almost 25 years.(got married young) both of us had less than a hand full of sexual partners before marriage and none of them being that great.

3 years ago I finally let my wife know about my hotwife kink. Ive had it our entire marriage but never told her. She took it really well, but was very adamant that she had no desire to do it for real... but followed with its not a hard no, just a no for now.

For the last three years I've enjoyed the increase in libido that followed. We went from sex sometimes less than once a month to everyday sometimes more. She started taking better care of her body, gym, diet, hair and nail appointments, and dresses a little more revealing than she used to.

Roleplay has been an up and down, sometimes shes hot sometimes shes cold. And for me its hard to know when to initiate roleplay or let her be in her own head. So I usually wait it out and let her initiate any Roleplay. When she does she enjoys it and usually wants to go for round two sometimes 3. 😁 no complaints from me there.

She has even booked not one, but two lifestyle cruises in the next 18 months. She's made it clear that we are not going to play with others, just enjoying the vibe.

Now for my concerns. Through all of this shes been pretty clear she enjoys doing it "for me." Even though ive seen how she responds to the roleplay. And because shes not willing to acknowledge and own it as her fantasy too, I dont feel like its "our" fantasy.

At what point do a toss in the towel, honestly how do I toss in the towel? ive tried to shut it down and tell her she doesn't have to perform for me. That my hotwife kink is based on her desire. And after a few weeks of me not bringing it up in the bedroom she will bring it up. Im not sure she will ever own it as something she enjoys?

In the early stage of our relationship my wife (almost girlfriend at the time) was getting out of a long term relationship and into a new relationship with me. She knew once she went all-in with me that it was for the lang haul, so in between leaving her ex and starting with me she graduated college and got an AirBnB in Miami with her friends and a couple of other college friends to celebrate.

We are into the hotwife lifestyle now and after 9 years she finally felt comfortable sharing that her intention that weekend in Miami was to enjoy her last chance to be slutty and have a great time before going all-in with me, little did she know she would be a hotwife eventually! In her weekend of celebration she was out on south beach drinking and having a great time, one of her graduating class mates was also on the trip with her and he has wanted to fuck her for a long time!

My wife told me that the morning of their last day in Miami while everyone else was asleep he whispered to her “We should fuck” and my wife instantly said yes to him! She told me they sneaked off into the bathroom, she bent over the vanity and he proceeded to eat her out from the back, licking her pussy and ass getting her really nice and juicy until she was ready to take his cock from behind. He pounded her with the satisfaction of finally being able to fuck her pussy while she enjoyed every inch and every thrust, feeling sexy and slutty at the same time! The story got me so hard I couldn’t stop picturing her in the bathroom getting railed on the same day I drove down to Miami to join them for lunch and bring her back home.

My wife and I are in our early 30s. Been together now for almost 10 years.

Since early on we have dabbled and discussed non monogamy fairly openly. When we first dated she had a FWB that she kept seeing while we dated. She was young and still wanting to explore her options. I am more of a serial monogamist so I really wanted a girlfriend. It was slightly awkward until he moved away and we became fully exclusive.

The whole experience sort of opened the door to talking about other men and her openly admitting she fantasizes about my friends or strangers.

Since then tho nothing has really happened. We got close a couple times especially on vacation and she went on dates with a couple men and kissed and even sent a guy nudes but never went further. We both got busy with work and sort of dropped it for a couple years.

However this year an old coworker of hers resurfaced. He’s someone she used to hangout with and they were flirty. Something probably couldn’t have happened but the work situation made it too messy. He’s also older in his later 40s and single.

He now lives back in his home country of France. He’s started and owns a b&b in the country. It sounds beautiful. He’s shown my wife photos. My wife is also European and usually visits family over the summer so after he found that out he invited her to stay with him for a week.

She asked me to go. I can’t due to a new job. But she said she still wants to go.

We talked more about it and she was a little shy but she finally admitted if it feels right she would like to have sex with him.

This unbelievably hot and it does seem like it could actually happen this time. The time is there. She will be alone with a man she’s attracted to. He’s into her too. There has been sexual tension for years.

However I do read on this sub quite often and this seems like a bit of an orange flag. She will be alone for an extended period of time. She is a romantic and part of our past discussions is for her to have good sex she wants lots of kissing, passion and basically him to be a lover. She told me he has this big stand alone bathtub and she has been imagining them bathing together. That makes my stomach flip a bit but it’s also so exciting for her and I can tell she’s very much into it but doesn’t want to push it too hard for me.

I am leaning towards saying yes go for it. Is there anything I’m missing here. Is this too risky for her first time or should I trust my gut which says trust her and let her have fun. What should I be asking her or preparing for. The basics are covered.