Genuine question.
I’ve been realizing I’m into bi couples — specifically the idea of being with both the woman and the man. I want to fuck the wife and also fuck the husband.
Is this considered weird or uncommon?
Anyone else into this dynamic, or have experience with it?
Looking for honest takes. Thanks.
Husband (M39) and I (F36) have been talking about hotwife fantasies for almost 15yrs and over the last two weeks we've finally acted on it. We want to share our experiences here after reading so many of your stories and we'll be posting over time from both POVs.
I started a Feeld account and quickly had a lot of guys messaging me - exciting, but also overwhelming - but one of them was a better conversationalist than the others. He asked me out quickly and we started chatting and texting constantly for the next couple days. Our date was a mid-week evening in public to get drinks. Husband and I had decided ahead of time that if it went well, there would be kissing but nothing else, and the other guy knew that, too. I was so nervous for the first half hour that I couldn't keep my hands from shaking when I lifted my glass to drink. We talked for 2hrs and things seemed easy between us by the time he walked me to my car.
The date went well, but it was the kissing in the parking lot that sealed the deal for a second date. He was enthusiastic and it was so hot to be making out up against a car like a high schooler, and I came home grinning and excited to tell husband every detail. He was thrilled I had had a good time and we spent 3hrs kissing, talking, and having sex.
Flash forward: the second date was 6 days later. The three of us have had a group chat going to discuss expectations and interests. We planned to meet at a bar, then go to the guy's apartment to hook up. I had decided I didn't want to have sex quite yet, but I didn't want to take anything else off the table. I had a vague idea of what I wanted, but mostly I wanted to see how things felt when we got together. Both my husband and our third were happy with that.
Just before we left the house to go out, husband surprised me with a beautiful silver anklet to commemorate our first foray into hotwifing. It's was SO sexy the way he put it on me and kissed and licked up my leg. It's now one of my favorite pieces of jewelry because it's a sexy reminder of his ownership of me and our trust in each other on this wild ride.
I had just enough whiskey at the bar that my nerves were only quietly humming on our way up the elevator, but I held husband's hand tight. We got to his apartment and each went to the bathroom and made idle chat, then we were quickly making out on the couch and grinding on each other. Husband was on the other side of the couch watching and took a few pics/videos. We moved to the bed after stripping various pieces of clothing and husband continued to watch from a chair in the corner. We stripped almost all the rest and our third gave me an incredible massage and I lost all sense of time. Kissing and grinding resumed until I couldn't wait any longer to feel him in my mouth. Our third asked if I wanted to take my thong off while I was on top of him, but I knew I wouldn't have the self control to follow through on my "no sex yet" policy, so I licked and sucked him instead, and made eyes at my husband multiple times while I played. I like watching guys cum, so I asked our third to stroke himself while I licked him until he came.
Husband and I have an excellent sex life, but that night was the hottest thing we've done in many years.
Third date is set for next Friday and I can't wait.
41M, wife and I are new to this whole thing. This happened the other night, was super super hot to watch and was def a first for us. After a few hours of getting to know this guy at the bar, he finally made his move when I went to go to the bathroom - I came back to the table to them passionately making out. So I told them to stay there and I would go get the car. I could see them still making out from the window so I gave them an extra 5 minutes before pulling up.
Wife said “let’s give him a ride home”. So they hopped in the back and proceeded to make out for the next 15 minutes. I could hear them kissing, and could see her sitting on top of him facing backwards grinding on him. Then a few minutes in I could hear some soft moaning sounds (We have a no play rule for first night vibe check, but she was pretty drunk and into him and I had prepped him earlier that he could get handsy if she allowed). I could see his hands working her undies down and could hear the wet lapping sounds of his fingers making contact. She would brush him away, and then a few minutes later he would work his hands down again - and she relented - and I could see his fingers working her panties back and forth, up and down. Her moaning increasing slightly. At this point in time I heard a loud bang! And I turned forward to see the neighborhood had a construction zone and hit a cone.
Suffice to say I let me imagination do the watching for the rest of the ride - and got us all home safe. They kissed and said good byes, I gamut a handshake, and wife passed out on way home.
Next day I had an early flight out for work and wife was a little hung over so we didn’t reclaim. I’m back today and finally we have a window to do it (less than ideal but Its been 2 days and I’ll starting to spiral if we don’t soon)
And it occurred to me that while we’ve had a few of these experiences with her so far we’ve not gone all the way yet, and I don’t have a reclaim process down.
I would love to hear about others reclaiming process. What do you say and what do you do?
- also learned the hard way to not schedule these the night before I have a plane to catch. And that my wife should not consume more than 4 drinks. And that orange cone comes off easily with magic eraser.
I am not writing this from pure fetish or to dramatize anything. I want to share how something that started as a simple phrase said while turned on gradually became a very strong stimulus for both of us.
My husband has had a physical issue after an operation for some time: retrograde ejaculation. Sometimes he expels very little or nothing. For a while that weighed on him. I always tried to downplay it, but I knew it affected him.
One day, while we were fantasizing about a next encounter, I told him I wanted them to give me cum, a lot of cum. His reaction was immediate and very intense. He got extremely hard and that time he ejaculated more than he had been doing. I realized those words activated him in a particular way. And seeing him so aroused made me more turned on too.
From then on I started noticing how much more it aroused me to ask for it. Watching myself enjoy when they spilled cum on my face, in my mouth or on my breasts, and spreading it, gradually became something that genuinely excited me. Now I ask for it often: I want to be filled with cum, for real, in quantity. Not only because it attracts me, but because I know how much it turns him on as well. That connection makes the desire amplify between the two of us.
It turns me on to think of him cleaning large amounts from my pussy afterward. When we talk to someone about a possible encounter we already ask if he cums a lot, because it has become part of what stimulates us as a couple.
We still have not done a full creampie for different reasons, although there have been external ejaculations. What matters to me is how something that at first was a limitation of his gradually integrated and ended up becoming a shared trigger. Accepting what is there and using it as fuel instead of fighting it changed the way we live these dynamics.
Has any of you experienced a desire of your own that became much more intense once you saw how your partner reacted to it? Does it resonate that something that started as a limitation can end up fueling lust for both of you?
We met this Gentleman for drinks back in December, and just haven't had aligning calendars since (also has very few opportunities on our end). My gorgeous wife also hasn't wanted to play with anyone else, until she's played with this Gentleman - like he became a priority in our hotwife dynamic - so she's very excited.
I like the idea of sitting back and watching, maybe guiding in terms of her likes etc, especially for the first time, to let them explore their own dynamic and see where that falls.
A few days ago, we were watching some porn on our weekly porn night, and my wonderful wife started leaning heavily towards threesome porn and especially a more 'romantic' threesome vid. This is now what she wants for today's experience.
And it's amazing, it's the most excited and least nervous she's been in the lead up to a play date - but it seems that I have now taken on that anxiety. She has said in the past that her fucking someone new and/or me watching makes her feel like she has to 'perform'. From both the 'actor/audience' context and some pretense of a hotwife being overtly sexual and good in bed-type context. That 'performance anxiety' has been one of the bigger barriers for her, and I've constantly downplayed it.
Here's the thing: I know kinda get it. She's got these wonderful ideas about this amazing threesome, and I'm sure it'll be amazing, but now I need to 'perform'. And I get it, I always need to be doing my best to pleasure my gorgeous wife regardless, but now, in my head, I need to perform to what I assume her expectations are of this threesome. She has said the one thing she really wants to experience is my licking her clit while he fucks her. That's a fantasy of mine. Super exciting. Adds to the excitement of it all. I'm concerned that I'll orgasm too quickly.
But in reality, that's not a huge drama. If I orgasm 'too quickly', it gives them a little more one on one type action (not that I need to exclude myself, I've still got tongue and fingers!), and I've got a superquick recovery time - if it's as exciting as I anticipate, I might not even lose my erection. And the second time 'round, I'll last much longer and won't really need to even think about controlling my orgasm.
So, there's not really any significant downside to orgasming early.... but I can't help but feel a 'performance' anxiety, so I now kinda get where she's been coming from with those comments in the past.
And, yes, I will share these feelings with her in the coming hours. Sometimes writing it out here first helps clarify what I'm thinking.
After several years of writing stories, role-playing, dirty talk, and a few failed attempts at finding a third on an app, it finally happened for us.
And honestly, it wasn’t what I expected.
It was kind of a mix of her being with him, me joining for a bit, getting kicked out, and then eventually jumping into his bed after he finished to reclaim her. It was hot as hell, and I’d absolutely do it again.
But the weird thing is how normal it felt.
I had always imagined that when it finally happened I’d get some huge rush, like jumping out of an airplane. Or that I’d be incredibly worked up and then have some massive post-nut clarity afterward and start questioning everything.
But none of that happened.
It was exciting and really sexy, but at the same time it just felt... normal.
I’m kind of surprised by that.
I wonder how much of the expectation of jealousy or some huge emotional reaction comes from being raised around pretty strict monogamous and heteronormative ideas about relationships. We're basically taught that seeing your partner with someone else should feel wrong or incredibly threatening.
But what if it just doesn't?
I don't see a lot of people talk about their first experience being surprisingly ordinary. Usually the stories seem to focus on the crazy emotions, jealousy, compersion, unexpected feelings, etc.
So I'm curious if anyone else had this experience.
Did you have your first hotwife experience and think, "Huh. That was way more normal than I expected"?
Not boring. Definitely not disappointing. Just... surprisingly natural.
Besides the obvious “easy on the eyes” (whatever that means in your case), what are some must-have requirements regarding your thirds?
For us, it’s definitely political alignment - we literally don’t fuck with fascists.
I wanted to ask ladies a question about the orgasm only from penetration. Let's say you never had an orgasm with your husband only from penetration alone. Have you had one with your third?
Does it feel like something new unlocked and you want to experience it more? Or you just couldn't have it, no matter if it's with a third or your hubby?
I'm thinking how this change the perspective in a women about this whole hotwife LS?
I could go into a story how in 11 years I could never make my queen orgasm just from penetration, we use vibrator on her clit. It works, it's better than nothing, but I wonder how it would feel for her if she had her first real orgasm with her third.
For me it seems a beautiful thing to know that she can experience that, but I'm just thinking if that's something that happens.
So a semi celebrity (think socials famous) that is well known to me but not to her reached out to my wife on one of the apps presenting himself as a single person but I dont think he is because he is also using a pseudonym. Now, my wife is SUPER turned on by the somewhat famous aspect...something we have never talked about. The guy isnt really even her type and knowing this is a one off she is wanting to have a ONS which is very unlike her but I get it.
Rub- I'm a bit concerned about the fake name and I'm unsure about the fact that he is actually single.
Also- The dynamic of this situation would be here going solo although my spidey sense has me thinking I would drive to the meet up location and park to be close in case things got weird.
My wife and I are planning our first Mfm. It's something that really turns on and I wanna experience it with her. What are some tips or rules you guys set up for your first time? Curious to hear. We talked about filming and watching for a bit, taking turns, spitroasting etc. We also want to do it unprotected as my wife doesn't like condoms.
I dont mean surprising as in surprisingly good. More like someone (or a couple) you didn't expect to be in the LS or surprised they were open to play
One of the funny times I think of is when we first started the lifestyle. It was the first time she sucked one of my buddies after the casino one night. I was a drunk dare in the backseat. great story but the funny part was early on in the blowjob. Shes already started sucking him and I said a joke to her and she sat up and made a comment back. At that moment we all laughed and his dick twitched a little when he laughed and had some precum. My wife looked down and started laughing and said I guess he is ready to continue. This is also a great mental picture I remember all the time. He was way thicker than me. His cock was half hard by now and kind of leaned over. My wife just grabbed the base and lifted his cock and stuck it in her mouth. I figured she wound wipe of the precum but she didn’t. she just bent back down and stuck him back in her mouth!
So there was a time that I lived with my girlfriend and my friend. And after a while of living together, I slowly started to fantasize and imagine my girlfriend sucking his cock or like me coming back home and seeing them making out.
About two months into us living together, he saw her boob for the first time. So me and my girl were sitting at the couch and she just came out of the shower so she was in her rope and as we sat there on the couch and talked I could see that her boob and nipple was slowly getting revealed as she was moving. A few moments afterwards, I could hear the front door open up meeting my friend would’ve just returned home. As I saw her nipple showing and my friend come closer, I started getting a little turned on by the thought of him seeing her nipple. After that, he actually walked into the living room and we talked a little and I noticed him glancing at her boobs meaning he must’ve seen her nipple. It was turning me on so much, my girl just sitting there on the couch and he’s watching her nipple in front of me.
I couldn’t stop thinking about it.
A couple days later a couple of our friends came over. It was just a normal night with friends. Nothing much happened. But then when we went to sleep, me and my girl were a little drunk. And we started kissing. She then grabbed my dick and started rubbing it slowly.
In my mind, I was thinking about her having sex with someone else. Also, a very important thing for this story. was that one of our friends was talking about how he had a girlfriend who was dating another guy at the same time. And they were all making fun of him more like laughing at him, nothing like a harmful wage just like a playful laugh I like what are you doing type stuff.
We were lying with my girl. She was giving me a job, and I looked at her an asked her “what do you think he likes about it so much, I am actually curious.“ She looked at me and had like a mischievous smile and just said that she doesn’t know, to watch that I replied “I wanna try something, just tell me about you with another guy“. She smiled a little and said “are you sure?” and I was sure.
So she told me a story about how she gave a blow job to a guy before me, and as you was telling me, it was probably most turned on I’ve ever been, I was even shaking lol.
After we finished, I just looked at her and we both just started laughing, as we said “I can see what he likes about it now…”
I was working online at home and i noticed a text pop up on my phone about 6pm, well past the time for my wife to be home from work.
The text said come here and and an address. I thought her car broken down but i jumped up and headed that way.
I got to the address and it was a local hotel chain. She then texted Room 232, key at front desk.
I got the key and started to get excited. She usually invited me to join her in her adventures.
I opened the door and smelled sex right away. A nice suite with a jetted tub. She was naked on the kingsized bed with a satified smile.
I asked "Who was he?" She told me the name of her most often visited, but lately unavailable third. Best known for hyperspermia.
I said " Let me see" she rolled on her back and spread her beautiful legs. There was the proof. A long creamy white trail running down to the mattess.
She said she was a little tender, could i soothe her.
I knew what she wanted but dipped one finger in and withdrew eneough to coat her clit.
I kissed her thighs able to smell their previous excitement. Tenderly licked and asked her to describe the encounter. As i sucked and licked her tender pussy she gave me all the dirty details.
She had enough oral and pulled me on top if her lining me up with her slightly stretched opening. I felt the silky smoothness and heat he left behind. I would like to say i lasted 20 minutes but it was closer to 5. The sensations and her whispering naughty details was more than i could take.
We cuddled afterwords ordered in and soaked in the jetted tub. We slept in each others arms and she asked for morning sex when the alarm sounded. We both had to be somewhere that morning and a busy day for both of us.
This is not me (M35) asking people to join I just have no outlet to share this. If this happens it will be the first time we involve other people (albeit virtually) in our sex life without any alcohol involved (we’ve been on there a few times after a bit of liquid courage).
I’m insanely excited and crossing my fingers this happens. I feel like this would be a major step forward in this journey.
This was like 2 summers ago, and it happened in Bayhead, NJ.. I went with a friend to the beach but he had to leave early because his work called so I said let me chill for a few more hours before I headed home.. there was this good looking couple who was sitting not too far from me, playing paddle ball. She was so into it and was playing well. He was good too, but she was just better.
I went for a quick swim and when I was going back to my spot, I passed by them and I said "great game". He said clearly that she's more skilled than him, and he was just trying to keep up. I then said if any of them got tired, I would love to play.. and he was like: " here you go, she's all yours" I didn't think anything of it but I played with her for a good 30 min until we were both covered in a lot of sweat. When we went back to our spots, the husband was like, " You did much better than I would have done." I complimented her play and said to be continued another time, hopefully.. we were all joking about it, then he asked what happened to my friend and why he ditched me. I explained the situation. And he was like, "Now we feel bad for you and invited me to join them."
So I moved my stuff next to them, and we hung out for a couple of hrs, just talking about everything over a few beers.. it turned out they lived in North Jersey, and they Airbnb'd a place in the area for the week. During the conversations, I could tell that she likes me and she showed it several times but he didn't have any issues with it.. I thought to myself that it was a bit strange but I kept going with the flow.. I thought, "At best, maybe they have an open relationship, but I didn't think more than that."
In any case, as sunset approached, I was dreading going back to the city in traffic as it was Sunday evening on a summer weekend.. he was like you should leave much later because traffic would usually ease up and that they would love to continue hanging in their place.. it was their last night, and we may as well all hang out some more. At that point, aside from some harmless flirting between me and the wife, things seemed platonic, but I loved the idea because they were really cool, and we kinda clicked pretty well.
When we got to their place, things kinda changed quickly.
When she went to shower, I told him that he's lucky that his wife was cool and that she's pretty hot, he was like that he thought she liked me too. I asked how he would feel about that, and he said that he didn't mind at all and her happiness and satisfaction mean everything to him..
I took a shower after she came back and when I came back, they were making out then when they saw me, the husband said that it was his turn to take a shower and to feel home.. I sat next to her and it was full blown flirting at that point then I kissed her once, then another kiss, then full wet passionate kisses for a long time until she she was melting in my arms.. I then removed her robe, and we enjoyed each other tremendously, at first just her and I, then in front of her husband for the remaining of the night. It was an incredible experience. I didn't leave their place until 9 am the following day and with probably 3 hours of sleep.
I'll start off with a little bit of a backstory for anybody who is curious about how we got into this:
My wife was very nervous and shy about being shared for the first time. It was an idea that had turned me on for years, but she always said that she would probably be too awkward and shy to try it, despite being a little curious and slightly turned on by the idea herself. It was about six months ago that she actually started to come around to the idea and seemed to want to discuss it more, and then she told me that I could start looking for someone online if I wanted to, but we would have to get to know him online for at least a few months before meeting in person. I’ll never forget how my heart started racing when she said that.
For a long time, it was one of my biggest fantasies to try sloppy seconds, and I was so excited that I might actually get to try it soon; the thought was overwhelming. My wife admitted that it was kind of a naughty idea that turned her on a little bit. I eventually did find someone online who lived near us, and we got to know him for a while online before we set this up and he came over to our house. Both my wife and I were a mix of nervous and excited the first time she was shared, like the kind of nervousness that feeds the excitement. While he was having sex with my wife, I could see in her face that she was both excited and shy at the same time, and she even blushed a few times; there was something so sexy about that!
My wife is on the pill, so it was perfectly safe for him to unload into her unprotected. I’ll never forget how I had that really intense excited butterflies feeling in my stomach when he started having his orgasm. Just the thought of sinking into a fresh load for the first time was so overwhelming; my mind was racing like it never had before. He got off of her, and I immediately made a beeline for her and kneeled between her thighs. The first thing I noticed was the glob peeking out of her entrance, but there was no leaking. He told me the day before on chat that he saved up for a week for us, so I knew that little glob was just the tip of the iceberg, and the thought of the huge globby mess inside her almost made me pass out with excitement lol. I couldn’t contain myself and pushed into her right after I noticed the glob. Ohhh myyy goooddd!!! Even now I still can’t believe how utterly incredible it felt! It was so ridiculously gooey, and even warmer than usual. And the way I effortlessly sunk in with zero resistance made me gasp out loud. I didn’t expect it to be that gooey and slippery; all it took was one little push and I instantly slid all the way in. It was like being instantly enveloped by warm velvet. It's such a complex sensation because of how soft, gooey, and mushy it feels, but the vagina is still gripping you like it normally would.
I remember my wife also gasping out loud and her voice quivering as she whispered to me, “Oh my god, this is so naughty!” She later told me that she had that really intense butterflies feeling in her abdomen too. Both of us were trembling with excitement at that point. I could tell by the look on her face and her rapid, shallow breaths that her heart was probably pounding as hard as mine was.
I was only able to last about 20 seconds before I lost control. The sensation of being in a fresh load and the butterflies in my abdomen was just too much to handle all at once. I was so excited that I was able to keep going without even stopping though, and lasted about another 3 or 4 minutes before I had a second orgasm. My wife had a big orgasm as I continued the second time; she said she was so ridiculously turned on thinking about how naughty it was that she had two different loads being mixed together inside her. She loved the gooey/silky/velvety sensation too; she said it makes her a lot more sensitive and it’s like the sensations of each thrust are magnified with the gooey texture and additional warmth. I don’t know exactly what she means, but I figure it must be somewhat similar to what I experience and how it increases my sensitivity too.
This is something that we both love now; there’s nothing that can match the intensity and excitement of it, and we don’t know what it is, but something about it just feels so natural too. We both agree on that but can’t explain exactly what it is. Something about it just feels so natural and right, as though people had been enjoying this since the dawn of time, almost like we’ve unlocked some hidden, primitive aspect of our species’ sexuality that we’re rediscovering after being dormant for so long.
Now what we love doing is finding guys who want to try it really badly but have never had the chance. We find it so hot for me to go first so he can go immediately after and finally get to experience it. The idea of someone being as excited as we were that first time trying it really sends us both over the edge It’s such an exciting thing that we want other people to experience it too.
Thinking of going to New York from the UK for travelling next year. What's the (hotwife) lifestyle like there? Is Feeld commonly used? How do you meet like-minded ENM people?
After that, we didn’t talk about it for a while. Until one day…
It was just a normal day where I knew she was going for dinner with her school counselor and her two sons. Now for context, she knew the lady for about five years before, so it wasn’t just like a random meeting. It was more of like getting together after a while. So I didn’t think much of that.
When she got back, she was a little tipsy and pretty horny. Until she dragged me to the bed and sat on me and looked at me with a mischievous grin on her face before she slowly brought her face closer to mine and then she whispered to me do you wanna hear about my dinner.
I was so horny from hearing her say my dick literally twitched and I’m sure she felt it. I just whispered back “yes tell me please“ she told me that her sons were 19 and so much other than she remembered them. And how she was talking to one of them and they were, they were flirting with each other as she pulled him to the side, went to the bathroom of the restaurant and made out with them there.
I didn’t last long, she smiled and told me “you like it that much huh“ I did, but then she came closer to me and whispered to my ear “I’m just yours baby.”
Since then, it started to become just a part of our sex routine, she knew if she talked about somebody else, I would finish fast. More than that, I could see us both being more and more open, like I would buy her new clothes new panties, basically I liked that she was getting attention and the other guys wanted her when she would dress just a little slutty. And she would love it too.
So by then she only had sexy panties and thongs, cute outfits as well. And one day I wanted to post the boundaries a little bit more. So we were laying in bed in our room and I asked her to bring me something to eat. just before I said it I heard that my friend/roommate had walked into the kitchen. When we were in bed, she was wearing a white T-shirt that was very tight and her sexy Victoria’s Secret thongs. So when she got up to go to the kitchen, she started putting on her sweatpants in that moment I stopped her. And I told her “you can stay like this” and I sent a little kiss. She smiled at me and I could see her get filled with excitement. So then she went into the kitchen and I just listened. They just said hi to each, but because she was gone for a few minutes, I knew he definitely had to check her out. I was just imagining how he was looking at her ass getting turned on by her.
When she was coming back to the room, she walked normally, but then, as soon as she got to the door, she quickly tipped out and jumped into the bed, which filled me with curiosity. Like what happened? Did she like it? Is she turned down by it? When she got into bed with me, she told me “oh my God, baby that was so exciting. I saw him checking me out, like when he greeted me and said that his eyes just went straight to my legs and back up. And then when I was in front of the fridge crouched down. I knew that he was right behind me so he saw my my ass.“ As she was telling me that I got so horny and she did as well. And then that moment I told her and ask her actually if I should put like a sexy picture of her as my lock screen and then accidentally show it to him when we go and hang out or something. As soon as I said it, I saw her imagining it. She squeezed her thighs together and was like “mmm baby, yess” she was so horny from it as well.
In that moment, I kind of got scared. Like it was actually possible for something to happen between them. So even though I was extremely horny, I looked at my girl and asked her if she would actually do it. And then she told me that she wouldn’t actually do it. She was like hesitant and really thinking about it but she said that she would never do anything to. I didn’t want that she doesn’t want to have sex with anybody else. And then I had to tease so I said, but hypothetically do you think it would be extremely hot? And she said “yes, hypothetically it would be extremely hot.” we talked about it a little more and we got on the exact same page so from there we could enjoy it freely without worrying about anything.
From that day onward, she started walking around in her thongs on the regular and I would watch him staring at her without me noticing. I don’t know why, but that moment I could feel like the love between me, and my girl was the strongest thing in the world, and that it was so hot that she was like my little slut….
Okay so this happened a couple years ago when my husband and I first started exploring. He'd been encouraging me to be open if the right opportunity came up, but I honestly didn't expect it to happen at a work conference.
I noticed 'the guy' on day one. Confident, easy smile, and this beard that made my mind wander to places it shouldn't during a breakout session. We kept ending up in the same places at the conference. He'd visit our little booth, we'd see eachother at the same side events, same bar, same table at lunch. It felt like a game. He'd catch my eye, I'd look away. Then I'd catch his.
I thought it was so damn hot that my coworkers were right there. People who knew me as the professional, buttoned-up version of myself. And the whole time I was flirting with this stranger, my heart was pounding because anyone could have noticed. That almost-getting-caught feeling made me so wet I could barely focus on anything.
That night at the evening event we finally talked. We grabbed some drinks together and go a little loose. Somehow the conversation turned to relationships and I just... told him about being a hotwife and that my husband and I share.
He was very interested. I was soaked through my underwear.
We slipped away from the event. I kept looking over my shoulder, nervous a coworker would see us leaving together. That nervousness just made me wetter.
We found a bench in a dark area near the venue. Quiet, but not super private. Anyone could have walked by.
We started making out heavy. I reached over and started rubbing him through his pants. He was already hard. I unzipped him right there and wrapped my hand around his cock. Stroked him slow at first, then faster. His breathing got heavier, his hand gripped my thigh, and when he came he let out this low groan that made me throb. I felt him pulse in my hand, cumming all over my fingers.
I went back to my hotel room dripping. Texted my husband every single detail. He loved it.
But I wasn't done. The next morning I woke up thinking about him. Started sending him pics of me. Nude. Teasing. Telling him I wanted more. We made plans to go for a bike ride around the lake that afternoon. It turned into stopping to make out whenever we could, his hands everywhere.
Eventually I just asked him: "Do you want more?"
We ended up back at his room. His mouth on me first. Then mine on him. Then he was on top of me, sliding inside, fucking me slow until I begged him to go harder. When he got close I pulled him out and stroked him until he came all over my stomach.
I texted hubby after. He made me describe everything.
The next day I went back to conference sessions like nothing happened. Sat next to my coworkers. Smiled through presentations. No one had any idea what I'd done the night before.
That was my first real hotwife experience at a work event. It won't be my last.