u/New-Condition-3047

Little background, I’m 29M, been together for 4 years, and we’ve discussed the idea of hotwifing for about a year but she’s been only interested in flirting with other guys at bars with her friends for fun, only if they are hot; nothing more, and usually not hot haha. Here and there she uses a toy in front of me and I watch or join, but that’s it. She’s innocent like that, and I just love the idea of her being turned on and getting off, and even if other guys finding her really attractive and turned on.

Fast forward a few weeks ago she was with her friends and drunkenly met this older guy (57) at a bar. She texted me “I met a hot man who won’t stop texting me”. I was kinda taken aback like did you finally find someone hot?? Apparently she flirted a little and just talked for an hour or so, and he was respectful and that it, nothing more. She didn’t tell him she wasn’t single.

Fast forward a month later shes been texting him on/off, and it’s been fun as she’s thinking maybe he could be like a sugar daddy thing. But he’s not really giving much, just talking a lot and inviting her places. Turns out last weekend we ran into him, and I pretended I was just a friend and she talked to him for a bit. She was all nervous and embarrassed but was like “oh shit he really was hot and he’s very nice but the texts are boring”. She wanted him to buy her things like a sugar daddy, but he’s not being flirty like that.

Suddenly, he invited her this weekend to go up to his friends party in another city, and she just suddenly said she’s embarrassed because “she’s kinda interested in going”. She’s all nervous, saying “what if he tries to kiss me??? Or im uncomfortable??” But then said there would need to be my rules if course.

Looking for advice. What do I do?? What should I tell her? Part of me is shocked this is unfolding, but another part of me can’t help but kinda wants to see her enjoy herself and possibly REALLY enjoy herself.

Yes you read that correctly, looking for someone who can be a sugar daddy for my girlfriend. She’s very new to this but we’ve talked about interest: someone to be flirty with, spoil her with gifts and allowance, talking/messaging daily pics etc. and we can see where it goes. Online.

She wants to be spoiled by someone, and I love the idea of her having fun with someone else.

I would not be involved really, just the beginning stage to help find someone and flush out the weirdos.

Message with your favorite sex position and interest so I know you’ve read this which I’ve taken the time to write!!

Yes you read that correctly, looking for someone who can be a sugar daddy for my girlfriend. She’s very new to this but we’ve talked about interest: someone to be flirty with, spoil her with gifts and allowance, talking/messaging daily pics etc. and we can see where it goes. Online.

She wants to be spoiled by someone, and I love the idea of her having fun with someone else.

I would not be involved really, just the beginning stage to help find someone and flush out the weirdos.

Message with your favorite sex position and interest so I know you’ve read this which I’ve taken the time to write!!

We’ve been together about 4 years, she’s incredible attractive and has had quite the hotpast; definitely more than she tells me and it drives me wild. Here and there she will go into details, but not always; and when she does, it sometimes wanders off into “I don’t remember!” or a mysterious “you don’t get to know that because you’re enjoying this too much”. Brutal.

So what are some question games, games, or just topics you use to open her up more and really tell me everything??

Like I said she absolutely had a lot of past insanely hot experiences during college and first time she moved out!!