u/National_Stretch_812

My wife had a few encounters now and it was a fun but she never felt the urge to meet another time.

Yesterday she met a new guy which was build a lot different than me. Not so much when it comes to his dick but in general a foot larger, muscular and overall a big guy.

Wife told me yesterday evening that it was good but not special compared to her other meet-ups.

Today she told me she wants to meet him again and said she felt extremely vulnerable and feminine sleeping with him which is something she never experienced before.

We started this for her arousal and confidence but I feel a little sick about this but good at the same time knowing she is getting something she seems to like.

They have planned to meet again this evening.

Did anyone here experience a similar situation? What did you do? Really sorting my feelings right now.

Beginning our journey in the lifestyle I (M34) was the one bringing up the idea to open our marriage for her (F32) to play with different partners.
I was having a couple different things in mind back then.. her empowerment, a spicy little secret we share, sexual arousal, getting out of our comfort zone - you name it..

My wife was hesitant in the beginning but at one point posted something on reddit, got a lucky shot with the right one slipping in her dm’s and took it from there. Overall the dynamic since the start was more driven by myself including suggesting play partners from time to time or bringing up the topic.

Still we both enjoy it and our sex-life is a good as never before.

Now I feel we entered a new stage as a couple in the dynamic. After playing with a new partner she stated that she might want to have a little “hotwife-break” for some time. Signalling me that she’s also not into any suggestions from me for a coupoe weeks.

Few days later she picked up conversation and planning a meeting with a new play partner based on her own desire.
Getting that final confirmation that she is enjoying it in a way that she’s on the hunt herself and enjoying experiences with other men makes it feel like we entered a new stage. So happy we started this journey as a couple!

Does anybody else have a similar story or do you have any ideas what could be another stage we as beginners maybe do not think of right now?

Happy also to share experiences via dm.

My wife (32) and I (33) am now in the lifestyle for a little over 6 months and she met for some solo dates.

We enjoy it a lot and it doesn’t only spice up things for her during her solo dates but the sexual tension between us has moved up to another level.

Like probably some other women - my wife is saying that size does not really matter for her.
My dick is not tiny but with a little over 6 inches and not a lot if girth also not on the larger end of the spectrum - still enough to have a lot of fun when we are both together.

Even though she claims size is not of importance for her, she somehow ended up with 3 guys until now which were also noticeably bigger. Especially when it comes to girth.

I do not blame her and think it is great if she enjoys it a lot and it is kind of cute that she tries to act that it is not important for her on her dates.

Now to my question. When she comes home after her dates and I do penetrate her I have the feeling she feels considerably less tight. It is a HUGE turn on for me making it very real that she felt a lot of pleasure just an hour earlier.

A day later I would say everything is back to “normal”.

I wonder if women are really getting a little stretched for some hours after being with a hung guy or if this is only within my imagination cause I have seen pictures and videos of her play partners?
Has anybody noticed anything similar?