Help With Situation
Hey everyone just wanted to throw my story out there and see what everyone’s thoughts are and any advice for getting though it.
My gf and I have been together for a few years now. Recently we have been going through a rough patch and it made us grow a little distanced. There has not been that spark or intimacy. We got into an argument and we broke up this past weekend. She decided to go out with some friends that night and ended up going back to some guys apartment and sleeping with him. She came clean to me and we talked about it the next morning. I was not angry or upset. On the contrary I was very turned on as I had previously told her about my hotwife fantasy. However, this is not how I would have liked it to happen. She told me that her intentions were never to go home with someone that night but that this guy was very respectful towards her, he was giving her undivided attention and made her feel wanted in a way that she did not feel in this relationship. She said she does not regret the situation and if she could go back she would still do it again. I think this may partially be because I did not explode over this and reassured her that I understand why she did it but also because she enjoyed it and had fun. Despite this, I still feel some sort of anxiety about the situation. A part of me really loves what happened but the other part is almost like in shock and processing the situation.
Has anyone else been through something similar and If so how did it work out for you and your significant other?