u/No_Upstairs2618

My girlfriend has always liked teasing and flirting and recently told me that she has been fantasising about a guy she used to work with.
When I suggested she message him she was open to it and has been sending him progressively more suggestive texts and selfies.
She has been very open and showed me all the messages and he is very keen to meet her. She is going along with it and suggesting outfits and underwear for when they meet. She now knows how turned on I am by the whole thing and is definitely playing up to it to the stage where last weekend she was out with her friend and she danced with an older guy and kissed him. When she came home a little drunk she admitted she wished things had gone further and even the next morning she was horny about what she had done.
How should we proceed?

My girlfriend has always liked teasing and flirting and recently told me that she has been fantasising about a guy she used to work with.
When I suggested she message him she was open to it and has been sending him progressively more suggestive texts and selfies.
She has been very open and showed me all the messages and he is very keen to meet her. She is going along with it and suggesting outfits and underwear for when they meet. She now knows how turned on I am by the whole thing and is definitely playing up to it to the stage where last weekend she was out with her friend and she danced with an older guy and kissed him. When she came home a little drunk she admitted she wished things had gone further and even the next morning she was horny about what she had done.
How should we proceed?

We’ve been married for a few years now, and we’ve never been happier.

From early in our relationship, we’ve been very open with each other about kinks and fantasies. We’ve talked dirty about everything imaginable.

The one kink we haven’t explored is my hotwife fantasy. I’ve been very open about this fantasy from early on. When we were first dating, before we were exclusive, I would ask you about your past.

As our relationship progressed, we would fantasize about you sleeping with the neighbor, a coworker, my friends.

But through it all, you’ve maintained that you could never actually sleep with anyone else. And even though I desperately wanted you to follow through on all of that dirty talk, I never pressured you.

Now we find ourselves apart for over a week. You’re on a long business trip on the other side of the country. We start our usual fantasy talk, but the distance between us only intensifies my need. You sense your heightened arousal when we text, I’m practically obsessed with what you might be up to and who you might be with. You decide you’re going to tease me a bit, not entirely sure where it will lead.

So that’s the basic premise. We can take this any number of directions, happy to discuss how you’d like it to go.

We’ve been married for a few years now, and we’ve never been happier.

From early in our relationship, we’ve been very open with each other about kinks and fantasies. We’ve talked dirty about everything imaginable.

The one kink we haven’t explored is my hotwife fantasy. I’ve been very open about this fantasy from early on. When we were first dating, before we were exclusive, I would ask you about your past.

As our relationship progressed, we would fantasize about you sleeping with the neighbor, a coworker, my friends.

But through it all, you’ve maintained that you could never actually sleep with anyone else. And even though I desperately wanted you to follow through on all of that dirty talk, I never pressured you.

Now we find ourselves apart for over a week. You’re on a long business trip on the other side of the country. We start our usual fantasy talk, but the distance between us only intensifies my need. You sense your heightened arousal when we text, I’m practically obsessed with what you might be up to and who you might be with. You decide you’re going to tease me a bit, not entirely sure where it will lead.

So that’s the basic premise. We can take this any number of directions, happy to discuss how you’d like it to go.