u/alphastag2000

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We may be an anomaly but just wanted to share how it was still a positive experience but just not for us.

Took years to build up the day..Vetting in itself was just a bit much for me going thru guys so they can have my wife started as fun then started feeling like a chore dealing with different personalities of thirds from the arrogance, fakes to the pic collectors! Once we finally found someone we agreed on everything was cool I just didn't like the need to provide a third with attention, which was just my selfishness.

Once we had the hotel and time set everything went well but during the act I could sense my wife's uncomfortable. Later after we talked learned my lack of enthusiasm of over enjoyment during the session made her feel like she was just having sex and cheating but I just wasn't turned on but I wasn't angry just realizing I liked the idea of how sexual we had become but sharing her seemed like zero pleasure for me..

Although his dick was bigger he lasted a few minutes, wife didn't cum and stated she would've preferred to just have sex with me at a club while ppl watched as we did leading up to explore.

Overall happy we tried but so much work for lackluster moment. Since our sex life is skyrocketed and have turned to pretty adventurous exhitbionist

We may be an anomaly but just wanted to share how it was still a positive experience but just not for us.

Took years to build up the day..Vetting in itself was just a bit much for me going thru guys so they can have my wife started as fun then started feeling like a chore dealing with different personalities of thirds from the arrogance, fakes to the pic collectors! Once we finally found someone we agreed on everything was cool I just didn't like the need to provide a third with attention, which was just my selfishness.

Once we had the hotel and time set everything went well but during the act I could sense my wife's uncomfortable. Later after we talked learned my lack of enthusiasm of over enjoyment during the session made her feel like she was just having sex and cheating but I just wasn't turned on but I wasn't angry just realizing I liked the idea of how sexual we had become but sharing her seemed like zero pleasure for me..

Although his dick was bigger he lasted a few minutes, wife didn't cum and stated she would've preferred to just have sex with me at a club while ppl watched as we did leading up to explore.

Overall happy we tried but so much work for lackluster moment. Since our sex life is skyrocketed and have turned to pretty adventurous exhitbionist