Hot take: porn kind of ruined itself for me.
When I was younger, I watched a lot of it. Over time, I went deeper into different categories, but instead of getting more exciting, it just got… numb. Like scrolling endlessly without really feeling anything.
Meanwhile, a video of my wife and me? Instant reaction. No effort, no “searching,” no boredom.
It makes me wonder if porn is just overstimulation with zero real connection. Like your brain knows it’s fake, or at least not yours, so it stops caring.
Is it just me, or does real intimacy (even on video) completely outperform porn once you’ve experienced both?
Curious if others have noticed the same shift or if I’ve just broken my brain in a different way.
PS: it is not an invitation to share sex tapes.